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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you ladies that aren't skinny feel like you have to make more effort? Make sure your hair/make up is perfect, clothes are really nice, more effort in the bedroom etc? I'm now a 16 and always make sure I'm perfect where as before I had my children and a size 10 I'm sure I never put this much effort in. Interested to see how you other ladies feel xx

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over a year ago

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I know you are looking for answers from bigger ladies... but I am the other way round.

I was a size 26, and hated clothes, so lived in jeans and a shirt (looking quite butch) whereas now, I dress much better and pay more attention to my appearance - but I think that is also to do with improved self esteem too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have noticed bigger Ladies are wearing more sexier clothes and more confident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know you are looking for answers from bigger ladies... but I am the other way round.

See when I was a size 10 I had lovely curves and legs to die for! But I think I thought I looked good whatever so never put much effort in. Well done on your weight loss!!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put the same effort in now thati did when i was a size 8.

Feel far sexier now though tbh

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

I can honestly say that I have never thought of it like that. I would love to be a skinny but that will never happen...I am naturally curvy so now am trying to embrace that and be as natural as possible. As long as I'm clean, shaven and have a smile on my face, I'm happy.....I do make the effort with my nails though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I don't wear make-up, and get naked on meets.

I make sure the guy makes some effort in bed if i have to, but i don't just lie there and take everything he gives me if you know what i mean.

I was the other way round to you, wore make-up and got dressed up before i had kids. Had kids, too many tbh, and my clothes got wrecked with food and other kid crud, no time for make-up and that, always busy. Met a great guy who loved me unconditionally and that gave me confidence, had more kids, never got back into wearing make-up (feel i look stupid if i put any on). Even got pics of me on here without the make-up, it's clear i don't wear any.

Don't even bother shaving my armpits any more, feel so free!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you ladies that aren't skinny feel like you have to make more effort? Make sure your hair/make up is perfect, clothes are really nice, more effort in the bedroom etc? I'm now a 16 and always make sure I'm perfect where as before I had my children and a size 10 I'm sure I never put this much effort in. Interested to see how you other ladies feel xx"
Ive just looked at your profile pictures and I have to say your fucking gorgeous. You can put little or no effort in doing your self up and still look beautiful and sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hardly ever wear make up same as when I was slimmer,clothes haven't really changed only thing different is I tend to wear more sexy undies than yes ago but that's more to do with the fact that I'm single now and late hubby never took.notice if I wore them or not so hardly bothered.

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By *ommy12330Man
over a year ago

Walsall tommy

Well I think all big lady are just as sexy as the lady's with a slim fig

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By *ommy12330Man
over a year ago

Walsall tommy

"Well I think all big lady are just as sexy as the lady's with a slim fig

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I won't go out of the house without my makeup or hair done. It makes me feel more confident. I won't go out with my children looking rough as I hate the thought of people thinking 'look at that skanky single mum'

I am married by the way .Maybe I care too much.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm size 12 and have always been well groomed.....why wouldn't I be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I do what I do for me,not to make myself look more attractive to snare a man. I have pics to show what my body looks like and a no makeup pic I send out. If I feel like dressing up and going to town for a man it's because he's already attracted to me and turns me on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I won't go out of the house without my makeup or hair done. It makes me feel more confident. I won't go out with my children looking rough as I hate the thought of people thinking 'look at that skanky single mum'

I am married by the way .Maybe I care too much. "

Single mums are skanky?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am married by the way .Maybe I care too much. "

I bet you look great without make up on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am married by the way .Maybe I care too much.

Single mums are skanky? "

No not at all! I meant if I go out with no makeup or my hair done I feel like a skank and feel others would think that of me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am married by the way .Maybe I care too much. "
although I don't wear make up or get dolled up . I'm clean tidy and don't look like a skanky single mum.....yes I'm a widow so single

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By *ommy12330Man
over a year ago

Walsall tommy

Some single mums like to be single so how can one call them shanky why you hide behind under profile then

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By *ommy12330Man
over a year ago

Walsall tommy

You look great in your pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think it matters what size you are ,we all have feel good days ,and days where we feel utter crap.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some single mums like to be single so how can one call them shanky why you hide behind under profile then

Hide behind my profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops, yeah skanky single mum who doesn't wear make-up here....

Aw. I think i look ok and like a normal human being, with some alien features coz i am part martian after all.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

No not at all! I meant if I go out with no makeup or my hair done I feel like a skank and feel others would think that of me too. "

I normally wear make up and heels for work, but there is something liberating on the days I'm not working to wear minimal or no make up, and simply tie my hair up in a pony tail. Doesn't make me a skank because I'm still clean, tidy and presentable... and yes, I am a single mum, and if people judge me as a skank for teaching my son that ladies aren't all powder and paint, then let them judge!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

No I don't feel like I have to put more effort in.

The amount of effort I put in doesn't change with my weight.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I didn't say all single mums are skanks! I said if I don't wear makeup etc I feel like a skank! & think others would think that of ME too!!!!!!!

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By *ommy12330Man
over a year ago

Walsall tommy

I did not mean you cc123g I ment miss lovely from Essex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do feel I have to put more effort in. But that's kind of because it's the 'look' I suit.

I'm better, with my figure, in structured clothes like dresses, heels, and that look goes better with makeup, with nice lingerie, with styled hair.

If I was all long toned tanned gazelle like limbs maybe I'd be more about cut off denim shorts and a slick of tinted moisturiser because that would suit me better then.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"I did not mean you cc123g I ment miss lovely from Essex

At the bottom of posts, there is a reply + quote option - use it to help people know who you are talking to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't say all single mums are skanks! I said if I don't wear makeup etc I feel like a skank! & think others would think that of ME too!!!!!!! "

Too late, you have incurred the wrath of the forums.

Tbh the way you worded it was like single mums who don't wear make-up are skanky. I'm not gonna mention it again. Maybe start a new topic coz this one isn't gonna get back on track now?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Nahhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any skank single mums fancy a chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any skank single mums fancy a chat

We're not skanky! I'm going for a shower.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any skank single mums fancy a chat

We're not skanky! I'm going for a shower."

Don't forget to put your make up on after

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By *asonnosaMMan
over a year ago

Grantham

"Any skank single mums fancy a chat

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:-lmao :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before I was 16, now 24(bloody boobs) bottoms 20

Doesn't matter for me..i Always look after myself. Matching clothes,bag-shoes, lingerie, nails-toes, hair.

Did I see a difference? .more attention I had from guys when I was slim.

Doesn't matter confidence or being bubbly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whether I was a size 6 or a size 26 I would still always make the effort. Whether it be for a social, meet, going to visit friends or going into town to do the shopping. I very rarely leave the house without my hair looking nice, dressed nice and aittle touch of makeup. Got this I have been ac used of being high maintenance. I think if I look good I feel good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbf the ladies of fab could wear a burka and not wash for a month and still get a fuck off here. The fuck any hole brigade do have there uses.

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By *asonnosaMMan
over a year ago

Grantham

Ahahahahha dudes got me rolling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some single mums like to be single so how can one call them shanky why you hide behind under profile then

I'm not calling them skanky. I'm hiding because I'm shy

If you want to have a look I can unhide if you want me to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some have met me straight from work so uniform no makeup and hair back.then have met me when half decent . Still same person

. Do like nice undies though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get where you were coming from with your OP. I do feel like when I'm bigger it takes more of an effort to look good...but I think that is more to do with the fact that I don't feel comfortable with myself when I am bigger so overcompensate by taking more care over my appearance. When I'm slimmer I feel more confident and just throwing on a pair of jeans and a vest top can make me feel sexy. The same outfit doesn't have the same effect when I'm bigger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any skank single mums fancy a chat

We're not skanky! I'm going for a shower.

Don't forget to put your make up on after

Not wearing any, bwa ha ha. Didn't even shave anything while in there either. phfffft.

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By *asonnosaMMan
over a year ago

Grantham

Naughty Bitch72 men have to realise there not going to look dolled up when waking in the morning have to have that in mind and guys shouldn't be so superficial. Make up or no make all the same when the lights go down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found it difficult to look good when I was thin. I have wide hips so I looked bottom heavy. After my second child I lost my boobage too which made me look terrible in dresses that were clingy. I was a size 10 with no boobs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Naughty Bitch72 men have to realise there not going to look dolled up when waking in the morning have to have that in mind and guys shouldn't be so superficial. Make up or no make all the same when the lights go down

Make up doesn't last 5 minutes on me when I have sex. It's sweated off and rubbed onto pillows and bum cheeks

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I used to be a size 28-30.. Im now a comfy 18.

I always wear make up and keep my hair nice. I cant afford massively expensive clothing and do shop in the sales a lot. I always buy nice undies and make sure I look nice and respectable for meets.

BUT...although I know I look a lot better I dont feel it at the min. As for in the bedroom, Im not one for getting completely naked. I hate my body so everyone else will too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't say all single mums are skanks! I said if I don't wear makeup etc I feel like a skank! & think others would think that of ME too!!!!!!! "

I understood whst you ment

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By *asonnosaMMan
over a year ago

Grantham

Miss lovely hahahaha havento wrap you up in cling film

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't say all single mums are skanks! I said if I don't wear makeup etc I feel like a skank! & think others would think that of ME too!!!!!!!

I understood whst you ment"

If I saw a dishevelled woman walking along the street with her children I wouldn't assume she was a single mum. Is it an area thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Miss lovely hahahaha havento wrap you up in cling film"

Cling film?? Is that a sexual kink for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how I feel lol. I always wear nice clothes but I do go out with no makeup and hardly any effort to my hair at times. I always make effort if I'm going somewhere nice/important though.

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By *asonnosaMMan
over a year ago

Grantham

No its just people dont want there bed sheets and pillows covered in make up and glitter lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends how I feel lol. I always wear nice clothes but I do go out with no makeup and hardly any effort to my hair at times. I always make effort if I'm going somewhere nice/important though.

Oh, and I'd do the same no matter what size I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No its just people dont want there bed sheets and pillows covered in make up and glitter lol"

Ohhh right lol If I'm going to their place I wear minimal makeup. In a hotel they don't care

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"No its just people dont want there bed sheets and pillows covered in make up and glitter lol"

Out of all the ladies I have played with - I have to say, make up on the sheets has never even been a worry... thats what washing machines are for.

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By *asonnosaMMan
over a year ago

Grantham

Was only joking ladybee

im not mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No matter of size I like to look my best.

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By *asonnosaMMan
over a year ago

Grantham

Theres far worse on a bed sheet them make up but oh well sex is sex what will be will be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No its just people dont want there bed sheets and pillows covered in make up and glitter lol

Out of all the ladies I have played with - I have to say, make up on the sheets has never even been a worry... thats what washing machines are for. "

I hate it when you get to a bedroom to see an immaculate bed and bed linen. Looks lovely but makes me worry we're going to ruin it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No matter of size I like to look my best."

I'm with you on this one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don't get me wrong I'm stood here with my hair shoved up & makeup free but because I'm in the house. But when we need to pop to the shops or whatever makeup & hair will be done! I put the effort when out or on meets to make myself feel better & a little confident! I'm also very young with 2 babies, I don't like the thought of people thinking I'm skanky, on benefits & baby daddy hasn't stuck around.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"No its just people dont want there bed sheets and pillows covered in make up and glitter lol

Out of all the ladies I have played with - I have to say, make up on the sheets has never even been a worry... thats what washing machines are for.

I hate it when you get to a bedroom to see an immaculate bed and bed linen. Looks lovely but makes me worry we're going to ruin it. "

Isn't it funny how different people are... I love crisp, fresh bed linen, knowing its going to get crumpled, rumpled, messed up and sweaty... well if its all done right. My current lover and I often go to nice hotels, and we both love the immaculate linen

- but the same when we meet at home, there is something about messing up a perfect bed with lust and desire.

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By *asonnosaMMan
over a year ago

Grantham

You always look great @ game4it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No its just people dont want there bed sheets and pillows covered in make up and glitter lol

Out of all the ladies I have played with - I have to say, make up on the sheets has never even been a worry... thats what washing machines are for.

I hate it when you get to a bedroom to see an immaculate bed and bed linen. Looks lovely but makes me worry we're going to ruin it. "

Oops my bedroom is always like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No matter of size I like to look my best.

I'm with you on this one

Yes I would agree...but when im slimmer I don't feel it takes quite so much effort to look good.....i think my face is physically more attractive when im slimmer and don't have double chins for example, so tend to wear more make up when I'm bigger in order to feel more attractive...just an example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No its just people dont want there bed sheets and pillows covered in make up and glitter lol

Out of all the ladies I have played with - I have to say, make up on the sheets has never even been a worry... thats what washing machines are for.

I hate it when you get to a bedroom to see an immaculate bed and bed linen. Looks lovely but makes me worry we're going to ruin it.

- but the same when we meet at home, there is something about messing up a perfect bed with lust and desire."

I love it,I just hate the thought of ruining it. That doesn't last long once we get going though

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I think I put in the same amount of effort now as I did when I was bigger. I'm still big but now I have more confidence and feel better about myself. That's the difference for me, really.

That and the sexy undies

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By *asonnosaMMan
over a year ago

Grantham

69 replys ahhhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't get me wrong I'm stood here with my hair shoved up & makeup free but because I'm in the house. But when we need to pop to the shops or whatever makeup & hair will be done! I put the effort when out or on meets to make myself feel better & a little confident! I'm also very young with 2 babies, I don't like the thought of people thinking I'm skanky, on benefits & baby daddy hasn't stuck around. "

Look just coz you aren't confident doesn't mean you have to slag other people off to make yourself feel better, ok?

Take a look at what you really are, change what you feel needs to be changed, and be happy with yourself.

You aren't here to please others or care about their opinion and neither is anyone else, you're here to live your life and enjoy that. So enjoy it. You don't have to try and make others feel like crap just because you feel like crap about yourself. Realise that you can be the best person you can be without treating others like they have something wrong with them.

And that is true confidence.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Look just coz you aren't confident doesn't mean you have to slag other people off to make yourself feel better, ok?

Take a look at what you really are, change what you feel needs to be changed, and be happy with yourself.

And that is true confidence.

Ok so I'm not slagging others off am I?! I'm just saying what I (Yes ME) think others may think of ME. Not you or anyone else!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look just coz you aren't confident doesn't mean you have to slag other people off to make yourself feel better, ok?

Take a look at what you really are, change what you feel needs to be changed, and be happy with yourself.

And that is true confidence.

Ok so I'm not slagging others off am I?! I'm just saying what I (Yes ME) think others may think of ME. Not you or anyone else!!!!!! "

I don't argue, i rationalise and debate.

If you can make "skanky, on benefits & baby daddy hasn't stuck around." look like something not offensive then feel free to do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look just coz you aren't confident doesn't mean you have to slag other people off to make yourself feel better, ok?

Take a look at what you really are, change what you feel needs to be changed, and be happy with yourself.

And that is true confidence.

Wow hang on I don't think she is slagging anyone off

What she is saying is she don't want people thinking she is "a skanky mum"

Not once did she slag anyone one in my eyes

I see nothing wrong with this lady making an effort when she goes out. She does it like I do to make hersf feel and look nice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Look just coz you aren't confident doesn't mean you have to slag other people off to make yourself feel better, ok?

Take a look at what you really are, change what you feel needs to be changed, and be happy with yourself.

And that is true confidence.

Ok so I'm not slagging others off am I?! I'm just saying what I (Yes ME) think others may think of ME. Not you or anyone else!!!!!!

I don't argue, i rationalise and debate.

If you can make "skanky, on benefits & baby daddy hasn't stuck around." look like something not offensive then feel free to do so."

I said that's what I think others would think of me if I look rough. I'm not sure how else I can get it through to you

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By *oliath AwaitsMan
over a year ago

Gateshead

Look just coz you aren't confident doesn't mean you have to slag other people off to make yourself feel better, ok?

Take a look at what you really are, change what you feel needs to be changed, and be happy with yourself.

And that is true confidence.

I think you have a valid point there its pretty tragic when someone has to try and pull others down to feel better about themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you can make "skanky, on benefits & baby daddy hasn't stuck around." look like something not offensive then feel free to do so.

I said that's what I think others would think of me if I look rough. I'm not sure how else I can get it through to you

Why bring it up? Why say that other people think skanky mums are those on benefits and single and the dad has fucked off? Isn't even relevant to the topic, not relevant to you being obese, and not relevant to others not wearing make-up or anything.

Some people are just snidey in how they slag other people off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look just coz you aren't confident doesn't mean you have to slag other people off to make yourself feel better, ok?

Take a look at what you really are, change what you feel needs to be changed, and be happy with yourself.

And that is true confidence.

Wow hang on I don't think she is slagging anyone off

What she is saying is she don't want people thinking she is "a skanky mum"

Not once did she slag anyone one in my eyes

I see nothing wrong with this lady making an effort when she goes out. She does it like I do to make hersf feel and look nice. "

I agree, where's all this coming from?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you can make "skanky, on benefits & baby daddy hasn't stuck around." look like something not offensive then feel free to do so.

I said that's what I think others would think of me if I look rough. I'm not sure how else I can get it through to you

Some people are just snidey in how they slag other people off.

Isn't that what other people think? That's what a lot of people think. I can see what she was getting at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you can make "skanky, on benefits & baby daddy hasn't stuck around." look like something not offensive then feel free to do so.

I said that's what I think others would think of me if I look rough. I'm not sure how else I can get it through to you

Some people are just snidey in how they slag other people off.

Isn't that what other people think? That's what a lot of people think. I can see what she was getting at. "

I don't think that, no, and i explained why.

So, again no, i don't get what she means at all. Don't even see why it was brought up in so much detail either except for to say what she said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See when I think of a bigger lady I immediately think: curvaceous, sexy,lively, full-of-life, happy, humble, loyal, faithful

When I think of the common "barbie doll," I think of: beach bum, tan in a can, snobby, self-centred, breast implants, and best of all: FAKE!

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over a year ago

Has it not occurred to you that she may live in an area where some people may think this of others. They do where I live. I took the comment with a pinch of salt and didn't take offence to it and neither did most people on this tread. It was probably a figure of speech. Things have been taken out of context I think. Now just let it be and carry on with what this thread was about which was do larger ladies make more effort than slimmer ladies in looking good. Thanku and play nicely

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over a year ago

"See when I think of a bigger lady I immediately think: curvaceous, sexy,lively, full-of-life, happy, humble, loyal, faithful

When I think of the common "barbie doll," I think of: beach bum, tan in a can, snobby, self-centred, breast implants, and best of all: FAKE! "

I'm a larger lady and I have tan in a can

And yes I am snobby and ouike the finer things in life

But I am loyal, faithful and all of the above but so are slimmer ladies

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over a year ago

"See when I think of a bigger lady I immediately think: curvaceous, sexy,lively, full-of-life, happy, humble, loyal, faithful

When I think of the common "barbie doll," I think of: beach bum, tan in a can, snobby, self-centred, breast implants, and best of all: FAKE! "

How come you're lumping peoples personalities into one category based on looks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I'm just a narrow minded idiot / normal bloke who should of just said bigger ladies are more sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I'm just a narrow minded idiot / normal bloke who should of just said bigger ladies are more sexy "

ok...thanks for answering.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I was a size 26 and used to wear whatever er fitted. I'm now a size 16 (little way to go) but I'm just beginning to know what kind of things suit me. I don't wear make up or heels day to day just tinted moisturiser but that's more because of my age.

I wear some make up on a night out or a meet but not to much cause I feel like a clown.

90% of the time I wear dresses, there getting shorter the more weight I lose

but I never have my boobs on show.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I dont understand how being a single parent makes you skanky?

Ive been a single parent for 18 years. I dont have the best of everything but i certainly do not class myself as 'Skanky'

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over a year ago

"I was a size 26 and used to wear whatever er fitted. I'm now a size 16 (little way to go) but I'm just beginning to know what kind of things suit me. I don't wear make up or heels day to day just tinted moisturiser but that's more because of my age.

I wear some make up on a night out or a meet but not to much cause I feel like a clown.

90% of the time I wear dresses, there getting shorter the more weight I lose

but I never have my boobs on show.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"See when I think of a bigger lady I immediately think: curvaceous, sexy,lively, full-of-life, happy, humble, loyal, faithful

When I think of the common "barbie doll," I think of: beach bum, tan in a can, snobby, self-centred, breast implants, and best of all: FAKE! "

Oh dear oh dear oh dear.

Trying to win favour with one type of person by insulting others is sooooo last year.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Because I'm just a narrow minded idiot / normal bloke who should of just said bigger ladies are more sexy "

Yep that's so much better

Sexiness depends on size lol

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By *asonnosaMMan
over a year ago

Grantham

People will always be sexy in somebody's eyes just not most people because they can be shallow or jealous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't feel id treat myself any different if I was smaller than I do at the size I am!

I have days where I feel pretty, where I'll make an effort and take time over my hair and make up, pamper myself a little and wear something I think looks good on me

However in equal measure, I have the days with the hoody and trackies, my hair scraped up and not a stitch of make up and feel just as comfortable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love ladies of a larger size and fuller figure love BBW nights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have insomnia so theybusually look shattered not me ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make up doesn't last 5 minutes on me when I have sex. It's sweated off and rubbed onto pillows and bum cheeks

Me to especially when i get heated up

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Nope. I am who I am and if they don't like it that's fine. Of I feel like putting some slap on and shaving my legs o will but if not then tough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put a lot of effort in but not because of my size. Im big and sexy with or without my makeup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive gain 2 stone since quitting smoking 5 months ago and ive finally had enough of feeling fat so for the past month I being working out.

Im still not back to what i was and ive actually put more weight on but im getting slimmer and fitter as well.

Im also not coughing up a lung like I was to start with so that pretty great.

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By *asonnosaMMan
over a year ago

Grantham

You look amazing

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"See when I think of a bigger lady I immediately think: curvaceous, sexy,lively, full-of-life, happy, humble, loyal, faithful

When I think of the common "barbie doll," I think of: beach bum, tan in a can, snobby, self-centred, breast implants, and best of all: FAKE! "

wow, I must be a figment of my own imagination then, as I fit neither of these categories... guess I'd better leave fab then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen plenty of women who have "made an effort" look like mutton dressed as lamb,prostitutes,skanks,tramps,clowns...have I missed anyone out? I've also seen women of the larger variety out and about with no make up and they look fine. I rock the no make up,messy hair look. I feel sexy when I do make an effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my normal life, I rarely wear make up and are happiest in casual clothes. If going to a club or a meet ill try to look presentable still fairly casual, with minimal make up. Its just me-I am not one to spend hours putting make up etc on. What i can guarantee is great conversation and hopefully some good fun

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Well! That's put paid to any idea I had that a sisterhood existed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey you put one foot slightly wrong and get descended on. For what it's worth OP I knew what you meant with the skanky reference.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I sometimes make an effort. I sometimes don't bother. Most people I've met have at some point seen me dolled up as well as with glasses on, no makeup and in leggings and Doc Martens. The only difference now I'm a bit smaller is that I have loads more choice what to wear.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've always been slim (though I do watch what I eat) And I never go out without my face on, I don't think it matters what size you are, I know I am vain, but I like to make the effort every day, but that is just me and will always be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is heaven to me , I love curvy sexy ladies and there is so many on this thread.

Some very nice profiles and pics guys xx

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