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"What about ID?" Bloody hell, its a bit of NSA sex, not an application for the secret service. Do you ID everyone you chat to in the pub to prove they are who they say? You sound a little paranoid OP, are you concerned about something? | |||
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"What about ID?" Are you serious? Even some of my friends donlt know my surname! | |||
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"Americans and some parts of Europe carry ID and show it when meeting people. " I've travelled fairly extensively and never been asked to show ID on a casual meet with someone. A letter is only as good as the day it was printed - and as I've said, doesn't take into account exposure times. You could have a "clean and clear" letter printed and have met someone with AIDS 2 days before and becoming infected... and it doesn't show. As has been said, they only truly safe sex is abstinence, and I'm not quite ready for that, so I will manage the risks in my way. | |||
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"What about ID? Are you serious? Even some of my friends donlt know my surname!" Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha | |||
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"Date stamps on your bits when u visit the GUM clinic? Like a sex mot " | |||
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"Do people not carry Identification around and a letter to show that you are STD free? I think people should take a more professional approach when meeting someone for the first time because you could be meeting any one. What do you think? Remember Comdoms can come off. " This ain't the porn industry its only a swinging site lol, we demand this of other porn industry people but would get a kick up the bum if we asked people on here. The UK swinging scene may not be as up to date as on sexual health checks as the rest of the sex industry but just as much fun, what is the norm to us with certs and ID ain't the norm in this area. | |||
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"Americans and some parts of Europe carry ID and show it when meeting people. " Are you sure about that? | |||
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"Americans and some parts of Europe carry ID and show it when meeting people. Are you sure about that? " We (me and Kim) have played in Europe/States and have never been asked for photo ID, for shoots yes for swinging no. Swinging is quite a personal thing so having to produce ID to every partner wouldn't work...getting ID for shoots is like pulling teeth sod getting them for swinging too lol. | |||
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"Americans and some parts of Europe carry ID and show it when meeting people. Are you sure about that? We (me and Kim) have played in Europe/States and have never been asked for photo ID, for shoots yes for swinging no. Swinging is quite a personal thing so having to produce ID to every partner wouldn't work...getting ID for shoots is like pulling teeth sod getting them for swinging too lol." More and more clubs in London require a scanned ID for admission (that;s normal clubs as well as kink) and I feel that is a massive invasion of privacy but I suspect that is common in America and not just a London phenomena. But in the same way as ID for porn is totaly different, so is showing ID to get in a venue. I'm also failing to see what benefit there is to the other person n seeing someones ID? | |||
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"Americans and some parts of Europe carry ID and show it when meeting people. Are you sure about that? We (me and Kim) have played in Europe/States and have never been asked for photo ID, for shoots yes for swinging no. Swinging is quite a personal thing so having to produce ID to every partner wouldn't work...getting ID for shoots is like pulling teeth sod getting them for swinging too lol. More and more clubs in London require a scanned ID for admission (that;s normal clubs as well as kink) and I feel that is a massive invasion of privacy but I suspect that is common in America and not just a London phenomena. But in the same way as ID for porn is totaly different, so is showing ID to get in a venue. I'm also failing to see what benefit there is to the other person n seeing someones ID?" A friend of ours has spent time in America and apparently to get into the clubs, I think it's in California you need ID and a recent screening Within a couple of weeks and a certificate to prove | |||
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"Americans and some parts of Europe carry ID and show it when meeting people. " If thats how you want to proceed then do so . Everyone must take their own precautions and shouldn't be vilified for it. Is it Greece where you need proof thst you are clear of STIs to work in catering? | |||
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"What about ID?" Could give challenge21/25 a whole new meaning . . | |||
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"Americans and some parts of Europe carry ID and show it when meeting people. Are you sure about that? We (me and Kim) have played in Europe/States and have never been asked for photo ID, for shoots yes for swinging no. Swinging is quite a personal thing so having to produce ID to every partner wouldn't work...getting ID for shoots is like pulling teeth sod getting them for swinging too lol. More and more clubs in London require a scanned ID for admission (that;s normal clubs as well as kink) and I feel that is a massive invasion of privacy but I suspect that is common in America and not just a London phenomena. But in the same way as ID for porn is totaly different, so is showing ID to get in a venue. I'm also failing to see what benefit there is to the other person n seeing someones ID? A friend of ours has spent time in America and apparently to get into the clubs, I think it's in California you need ID and a recent screening Within a couple of weeks and a certificate to prove " We were in New York with swinging friends for 2 weeks last year & we didn't need ID for meets just for entry as per normal in well organised clubs but there was nothing asked about recent screening, clubs like Fun4Two in Holland require photo ID when we go but don't need screening proof. We always take our 28 day certs with us as habit but have never been asked to supply them for swinging. | |||
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"How would you know who you are having sex with? " And is it not possible to catch a STD from date of your letter to date of your meet. I don't get letters I get texts, to my understanding letters got stopped many many months ago | |||
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"Americans and some parts of Europe carry ID and show it when meeting people. " We aren't in America, and I wouldn't show my ID to anyone on this site, my name and address and DoB is my personal business not yours. OP for all I know you could be into identify fraud, if I showed my ID, next thing I know big bills on my door steps from credit cards I've never had, see where I'm going with this | |||
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"true women should carry femdoms also " Oh god! That means I'm not a true woman As I said before, you play how you want and allow me the same courtesy. | |||
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"true women should carry femdoms also Oh god! That means I'm not a true woman As I said before, you play how you want and allow me the same courtesy." | |||
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"What about ID? Are you serious? Even some of my friends donlt know my surname!" You mean it isn't "Wheels"...??? Bloody fraud! | |||
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"true women should carry femdoms also " Then I doubt you'll find many 'true' women on here. | |||
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"true women should carry femdoms also Then I doubt you'll find many 'true' women on here." Would a cock last longer if a woman had one tho? As most deflates when putting one on lol. | |||
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"Would a cock last longer if a woman had one tho? As most deflates when putting one on lol." You have a point shag. I normally carry my own but for example I've met a few women that like novelty condoms which I don't buy myself. If they don't fit well they can be a bastard to get on and I have to squeeze the fuck out of my dick to get it on in which time my cocks gone down. I can get it back up again but it just delays the moment especially when you've just more or less ripped each others clothes off. | |||
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"A letter is no guarantee... testing time scales and exposure times need to be taken into account. I would not trust a stranger with a random letter... I'd far rather take the precautions I think are acceptable, and weigh up the risks that way." | |||
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"Americans and some parts of Europe carry ID and show it when meeting people. Are you sure about that? " I lived in North America for three years, and ID is not exchanged as part of dating | |||
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"Better still, let's all just stop having sex. That's the the only true safe sex. Protect yourself, that's all you can do." well said!! | |||
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"Would a cock last longer if a woman had one tho? As most deflates when putting one on lol. You have a point shag. I normally carry my own but for example I've met a few women that like novelty condoms which I don't buy myself. If they don't fit well they can be a bastard to get on and I have to squeeze the fuck out of my dick to get it on in which time my cocks gone down. I can get it back up again but it just delays the moment especially when you've just more or less ripped each others clothes off. " lol yes as we don't wanna have any delays when shagging her. | |||
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