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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My Daughter is going with my ex for holidays, short break.

I looking forward for next weekend. Totally freedom, I'm feeling like a dog without the lead. Getting excited. In my mind..I Have lots of plans and sex Maybe

but.. I wonder Its normal... Normal being happy because child going for holidays without me..

I love my child but it's normal?

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By *asonnosaMMan
over a year ago

Grantham

Yes it is if you wanted time to yourself and do want you wanted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes it is if you wanted time to yourself and do want you wanted"

Thanks for that.

Today I ve been told I'm strange..From one Polish mum..

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Of course it is. There are no real breaks from being a parent and I relish the nights when Nanny can have our Little One and we get a couple of hours just to be ourselves again. Doesn't mean we don't love them or accept that having kids is a full-time commitment, it's just nice being able to relax, let your hair down and be you for a while.

Saying that, if you're anything like me, that'll all go out the window as soon as your're away from her and you'll be pining for her return.

- Amy. x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Its nice to get rid of them for a short while, but I ended up missing my daughter if she was away too long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't feel guilty about enjoying some me time, kids have you peeing out straight 24/7 recharge your batteries have some naughty fun and relax

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Slightly different to you, but I don't have any kids because I never wanted them, a lot of women find this strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kids are hard work, savour the time they're away on holiday haha.

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By *asonnosaMMan
over a year ago

Grantham

That polish women is clearly bonkers what parent doesn't deserve time to themselves its very rare so should be able to relax and not worry about nothing

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By *uicylucy76Woman
over a year ago

thornton cleveleys

I haven't had one single night out in over 3 years since having my youngest! I get exited when she goes to nursery for 3 hours in the morning 3 days a week!

Hell yes get exited!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Omg so I'm normal then?

My culture is very similar to Polish, when woman have a child..Then in first is a mum..Later wife/partner and she is on the end.

But it wasn't nice for me when I heard opinion I'm strange because my daughter is going abroad and I can't wait for free time.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"My Daughter is going with my ex for holidays, short break.

I looking forward for next weekend. Totally freedom, I'm feeling like a dog without the lead. Getting excited. In my mind..I Have lots of plans and sex Maybe

but.. I wonder Its normal... Normal being happy because child going for holidays without me..

I love my child but it's normal? "

Yes its absolutely normal. Our two have left home and people think I'm odd because I don't and never have suffered from empty nest syndrome. We enjoy the freedom it gives us, doesn't mean we love our children any less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My Daughter is going with my ex for holidays, short break.

I looking forward for next weekend. Totally freedom, I'm feeling like a dog without the lead. Getting excited. In my mind..I Have lots of plans and sex Maybe

but.. I wonder Its normal... Normal being happy because child going for holidays without me..

I love my child but it's normal?

Yes its absolutely normal. Our two have left home and people think I'm odd because I don't and never have suffered from empty nest syndrome. We enjoy the freedom it gives us, doesn't mean we love our children any less "

Still got one at home - love them to bits, but counting down the days.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"My Daughter is going with my ex for holidays, short break.

I looking forward for next weekend. Totally freedom, I'm feeling like a dog without the lead. Getting excited. In my mind..I Have lots of plans and sex Maybe

but.. I wonder Its normal... Normal being happy because child going for holidays without me..

I love my child but it's normal?

Yes its absolutely normal. Our two have left home and people think I'm odd because I don't and never have suffered from empty nest syndrome. We enjoy the freedom it gives us, doesn't mean we love our children any less

Still got one at home - love them to bits, but counting down the days. "

The way we look at it is that our children aren't meant to be with us for life, they need to live their own lives and we celebrate that rather than regretting it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slightly different to you, but I don't have any kids because I never wanted them, a lot of women find this strange "

I'm the same. I like giving them back

Her

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Slightly different to you, but I don't have any kids because I never wanted them, a lot of women find this strange

I'm the same. I like giving them back

Her"

Thank god! I thought it was just me!

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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago

Clacton-On-Sea, Essex


"My Daughter is going with my ex for holidays, short break.

I looking forward for next weekend. Totally freedom, I'm feeling like a dog without the lead. Getting excited. In my mind..I Have lots of plans and sex Maybe

but.. I wonder Its normal... Normal being happy because child going for holidays without me..

I love my child but it's normal? "

My oldest boy (3) went to Greece for 2 weeks with my mum and sister last year - like sure I was majorly worried about him but our whole family went and he had an amazing time! 9 adults and 8 kids and they all stayed in the same hotel together so it was really good for them!! He absolutely loved it and didn't miss me at all lol

I was nervous of course but it was also nice to have that time at home with our newborn!

As for both? Both our boys sleep out at mother-in-laws Friday-Sunday due to our work schedules and it's such a nice break even if we're busy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My Daughter is going with my ex for holidays, short break.

I looking forward for next weekend. Totally freedom, I'm feeling like a dog without the lead. Getting excited. In my mind..I Have lots of plans and sex Maybe

but.. I wonder Its normal... Normal being happy because child going for holidays without me..

I love my child but it's normal? "

Of course it's ok... Ive done the whole adopted/own child thing and you need to be able to have some you time..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy the break, I'm getting a wkend in June when my boys go with ex in laws. Kids dad doesn't have them for court reasons so any break I get I'm thankful for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you're normal... I love when my kids go to their dad for the weekend. Used to be my naughty me time now it's just me time full stop.

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

Single working mum of three and already upset that my eighteen year old and seventeen year old will both be leaving home by December. My youngest of thirteen is going to her dad in America for the month of August. Feeling really weird having time to myself, even with work. Have not spent a night without at least one of them in the house since the oldest was born and would not have it any other way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as someone who doesnt live with their kids id swap every second of free time i have for meets to spend the time with them.

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