FabSwingers.com forum: why 80% of guys hide on their profile that sleep with TV/TS?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I get about 50-60 messages everyday and most guys on their profile don't say they are looking for transgender people?

i understand people don't want their face public because of social stigma fancying transgender people(although it's a little better in 2015 ,90% of men that fancy trans will never come out)

You could put your face pics private,like i do and still list the truth in what you like.

Why lying on a sex site?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

That's a lot of messages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes hide my profile and I hide my veris too.

Never fucked/visited/met a TS/TV/MALE.

So that post is a bit of an assumption imo.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

sometimes i ask guys why they hide their sexual tastes

one guy surprised me from his answer but i wasn't shocked,on his profile was saying ''if you are a TV?TS don't contact me'' than he contacted me cos he wanted to meet for sex and i asked him why he would even write this statement on his profile ,his answer was that he uses that as a decoy ha ha ha

mind blown

other guys i asked,they hide it because other women don't like men that sleep with TV/TS ,but if it was me,i would want to sleep with open minded women and there are lots of open minded women out there,i would go for these women,they sound much more fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I sometimes hide my profile and I hide my veris too.

Never fucked/visited/met a TS/TV/MALE.

So that post is a bit of an assumption imo.

i hide my verifications,i also hide my profile sometimes but when my profile is public i list everything that i like and i don't like.why is it an assumption?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

To make an assumption that it is 80%, then you must have contacted every guy on the site right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some care too much what others think

I stopped giving a fuck about 2 years ago...makes life a lot more pleasant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I sometimes hide my profile and I hide my veris too.

Never fucked/visited/met a TS/TV/MALE.

So that post is a bit of an assumption imo.

i hide my verifications,i also hide my profile sometimes but when my profile is public i list everything that i like and i don't like.why is it an assumption?"

If you really don't think you're making any assumptions re - read your post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if they don't want to be seen in public with you need to be educated about trannies etc

They just aren't worth the bother

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By *leasureMaxDanMan
over a year ago

World Wide Web

"Some care too much what others think

I stopped giving a fuck about 2 years ago...makes life a lot more pleasant

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *hitedukeMan
over a year ago

derby

"Some care too much what others think

I stopped giving a fuck about 2 years ago...makes life a lot more pleasant

Spot on there !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if they hide their veri's it will still say verified by man, woman, tv, by cam or meet.

Think it's sneaky when they hide things.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I sometimes hide my profile and I hide my veris too.

Never fucked/visited/met a TS/TV/MALE.

So that post is a bit of an assumption imo.

i hide my verifications,i also hide my profile sometimes but when my profile is public i list everything that i like and i don't like.why is it an assumption?

If you really don't think you're making any assumptions re - read your post. "

i meant to write the guys that write to me,i should have explained myself better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some care too much what others think

I stopped giving a fuck about 2 years ago...makes life a lot more pleasant

Spot on there !!!"

FOLLOW ME BELIEVERS OF NO FUCKS GIVEN

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Some care too much what others think

I stopped giving a fuck about 2 years ago...makes life a lot more pleasant

Spot on there !!!

FOLLOW ME BELIEVERS OF NO FUCKS GIVEN

"Here is the field in which I grow the fucks I give - see how barren it is!"

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

I proud to meet ts people and have in the past.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Some care too much what others think

I stopped giving a fuck about 2 years ago...makes life a lot more pleasant

Spot on there !!!

FOLLOW ME BELIEVERS OF NO

FUCKS GIVEN

"Here is the field in which I grow the

fucks I give - see how barren it is!"

Ooh! Was that a David Cameron quote?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this is only a theory, forgive me if it's way off but:

I think some straight guys do find TV/ts a bit of a turn on in private but will never actually meet them due to what ever associated stigma they may perceive to be attached with meeting a TV/ts.

That said I think a large proportion of these 'straight' guys start messaging TV/ts when they are horny but don't actually follow through with a meet.

As for people that meet TV/ts all the time but hide it, I don't understand that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some care too much what others think

I stopped giving a fuck about 2 years ago...makes life a lot more pleasant

Spot on there !!!

FOLLOW ME BELIEVERS OF NO FUCKS GIVEN

"Here is the field in which I grow the fucks I give - see how barren it is!"

Memes aren't the same when typed out

oh how I love a good meme

I would live in the Facebook comments section if I could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suspect you figures are a bit high op, I have found people on this site very open about their requirements and suspect most would have no reservations about making their desire for gay, TV or transgender people public. My veris are private to me, I'll share them if someone I want to meet asks, otherwise they're no one else's business. I have no desire to have sex with anyone but women.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Some care too much what others think

I stopped giving a fuck about 2 years ago...makes life a lot more pleasant

Spot on there !!!

FOLLOW ME BELIEVERS OF NO FUCKS GIVEN

"Here is the field in which I grow the fucks I give - see how barren it is!"

Memes aren't the same when typed out

oh how I love a good meme

I would live in the Facebook comments section if I could

You saw it too then?

*disclaimer*

I don't do facebook. I saw it on Foxs' account screen - honest!!

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"Some care too much what others think

I stopped giving a fuck about 2 years ago...makes life a lot more pleasant

Spot on there !!!

FOLLOW ME BELIEVERS OF NO FUCKS GIVEN

I like your attitude almost as much as I like your body.

There is still far too much judging of others by some. Funny thing is, in other areas some of those people being judgmental are really nice. Strange world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here is the field in which I grow the fucks I give - see how barren it is!"

Obi massive fail.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Suspect you figures are a bit high op, I have found people on this site very open about their requirements and suspect most would have no reservations about making their desire for gay, TV or transgender people public. My veris are private to me, I'll share them if someone I want to meet asks, otherwise they're no one else's business. I have no desire to have sex with anyone but women. "

i meant to say 80% of guys that write to me.I find guys to be open in what they like when they inbox me,not for what i am reading on their profiles.You cannot compare men that sleep with men,gay men don't fancy trans women(i wish,cos some are soooo cute lol) men looking for men,it's different most gay men are open now although bisexual men and men and in particular straight men that are attracted to trans women or tvs there's still a strong social stigma and some people are obviously not aware of it.That's cool hun,we believe you that you sleep anything other that women.

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

Iknow guys hide it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any genuine Man in a Frock that meets in profusion guys from this website will readily say that the bulk of the Trannyshaggers that seek out we Men in Frocks are middle aged married guys.

Some of us meet lots of them and respect and understand their need for discretion, wether it be not having any public photos or hiding their bisexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has their reasons........I have none......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think putting straight to get past peoples preferences shows a willingness to deceive that's just best avoided,

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Have to join the don't care crew sos, live the taboo lifestyle accept the fallout.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

60 every day? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It annoys me how they don't want to admit it either. If a man wants to have fun with another man or a TV/TS it wouldn't bother me! And that's coming from a woman who doesn't get off on the thought of two men together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get about 50-60 messages everyday and most guys on their profile don't say they are looking for transgender people?

i understand people don't want their face public because of social stigma fancying transgender people(although it's a little better in 2015 ,90% of men that fancy trans will never come out)

You could put your face pics private,like i do and still list the truth in what you like.

Why lying on a sex site?"

Proud to be one of the 20% I guess lol.

It doesn't bother me people are people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off topic but I have an interesting point for you op when you capitalise large portions of text people actually tend to read let so it than if it was not capitalised due to it taking longer for their brain to read capitalised words.

So you're kinda doing yourself a disservice by having huge blocks of capitol letters

This is also why signs on the motorway aren't in caps lock with the short period of time to read them it was found people where incapable of doing it reliably with anything other than lower case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less of* not let os

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There isn't large blocks of text, its all lower case

Apart from TV\TS but your supposed to capitalize that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He was talking about the OP's profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people are afraid to be judged, there are alot of simple minded people out there !! I refuse to be labelled so will fuck who im attracted to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He was talking about the OP's profile."

Oh right, hadn't looked at that, thought I was missing something, didn't make sense

Agree though i tend not to pay attention to blocks of caps,

All good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you feel something's not right it's not .As our gut feelings here 9/10 is saying something not right ..why a need to hide. There's no need here as everyone's different they are doing that so it will not put others off if not into it here . Why loads don't say if bi .. I know a man who meets TV he say if look like and dress as a woman there's no need as not really bi ..... Lol what a fool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

deary me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean gee wiz,jeepers

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm long since past worrying about what people have on their profile, unless it is offensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm long since past worrying about what people have on their profile, unless it is offensive.

yeap,,totally agree

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Because they don't sleep with them. They are awake all the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fucking frightening what transgender men and women go through, did you know that the suicide rate of teenage transgender people is at 40% so let's think and have a bit of sensitivity shall we

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By *atietvsheffTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield

The vast majority of the daily emails and winks I get every day, which can be 30-40, are from "straight" men, virtually every profile with nothing on it about looking for TV's or having veris from tv's, the story is pretty much the same, wives have stopped wearing sexy underwear, won't wear stockings,don't wear stilletoes, won't swallow and won't do anal,

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

"It's fucking frightening what transgender men and women go through, did you know that the suicide rate of teenage transgender people is at 40% so let's think and have a bit of sensitivity shall we"

Yep tis bad and if your poor omg welcome to hell

But if people chose not to admit seeing Trans then that is there choice, i respect that.

After all is it not just looking to fit in at any price getting bed notches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some care too much what others think

I stopped giving a fuck about 2 years ago...makes life a lot more pleasant

I try not to give a fuck about things fab-related but 95% of the time it doesnt work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get about 50-60 messages everyday and most guys on their profile don't say they are looking for transgender people?

i understand people don't want their face public because of social stigma fancying transgender people(although it's a little better in 2015 ,90% of men that fancy trans will never come out)

You could put your face pics private,like i do and still list the truth in what you like.

Why lying on a sex site?"

Get used to it! This site (and other sites) is full of guys who claim to be straight yet they will message you wanting to meet... Guys who change they're sexuality to suit who they want to meet at the time. And guys who will meet you and have no intention of verifying you after. If you suck someones cock the least they can do is verify you imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's the thing and maybe someone can answer this one .

We happily meet convincing TVs etc....

Sabrina plays fully and I will soft play , receive oral but not give , kissing etc is good too .

You see the thing is this , if I am fully aware of the male genitalia I am put off from playing . Not seeing it I am happy . I won't give or take anal either . So am I bi ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get about 50-60 messages everyday and most guys on their profile don't say they are looking for transgender people?

i understand people don't want their face public because of social stigma fancying transgender people(although it's a little better in 2015 ,90% of men that fancy trans will never come out)

You could put your face pics private,like i do and still list the truth in what you like.

Why lying on a sex site?

What if they didn't enjoy the meet though would you want a negative veri?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Is it 80%? How did you arrive at this figure?

I had heard it was 79.5%.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if they didn't enjoy the meet though would you want a negative veri? "

For what reason would they have not enjoyed it..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if they didn't enjoy the meet though would you want a negative veri?

For what reason would they have not enjoyed it..?"

Lots of reasons, maybe you stunk, or used too much teeth, they didn't like your personality or you got shit face d*unk etc.

There's lots of reasons people might not like a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get about 50-60 messages everyday and most guys on their profile don't say they are looking for transgender people?

i understand people don't want their face public because of social stigma fancying transgender people(although it's a little better in 2015 ,90% of men that fancy trans will never come out)

You could put your face pics private,like i do and still list the truth in what you like.

Why lying on a sex site?"

95% of my messages and looked at me are "straight" males.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get about 50-60 messages everyday and most guys on their profile don't say they are looking for transgender people?

i understand people don't want their face public because of social stigma fancying transgender people(although it's a little better in 2015 ,90% of men that fancy trans will never come out)

You could put your face pics private,like i do and still list the truth in what you like.

Why lying on a sex site?"

Does it bother you ?

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By *inkyKellyCDTV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry

Yeah - a big reason I avoid "straight" guys looking for their first time, or if they hide their Tgirl interest - a big red flag for 'timewaster' as they're the ones most likely to be having second thoughts about what they're getting into.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"I'm long since past worrying about what people have on their profile, unless it is offensive.

100% agree.

Just develop your own selection criteria for meets and social friends. Being held to ransom by social mores and influences, concerning oneself with why some people are perhaps less self-aware than one is etc, is just over-using your brain.

If you're here to find partners, focus on that and just let others deal with their own stuff, in their own ways/time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We ought to be gratefull that there are guys out there that have a penchant for a Man in a Frock, lets face it we are a minority group, the final frontier......

Some Men in Frocks have their swollen heads stuck up their virgin arseyholes and treat what few guys that like us like utter shite,

Go look at some of those Vain Virgin Tranny Queens Profiles, the length of a book, with long tedious lists of does and donts,designed to discourage the guys and cause them to fail at the first hurdle of attempting any kind of meet with the Fantasy tranny queens.

The guys get a hard time from the Cyber Men in frocks brigade as most only want the guys praise and Fabs on their pics, nothing else..

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