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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it that sometimes, the desire for other colours to ourselves feels so strong? Is it the way they look, do they play into ideals and fantasies we might have, is it natures way of keeping the genes well spread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that sometimes, the desire for other colours to ourselves feels so strong? Is it the way they look, do they play into ideals and fantasies we might have, is it natures way of keeping the genes well spread?"

Cultural conditioning.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why is it that sometimes, the desire for other colours to ourselves feels so strong? Is it the way they look, do they play into ideals and fantasies we might have, is it natures way of keeping the genes well spread?

Cultural conditioning."

I don't need others to tell me what I like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you not making the mistake of equating ethnicity with colour?

I'm brownish which i am sure 99% of the rest of the human race also are ( not counting fake tanners who've turned orange).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I don't need others to tell me what I like."

I'd like to think that too, but the reality is that it's simply not the case.

For example, if nature intended us to sleep around with people of different ethnicity (and skin colour), why has this only recently become acceptable within mainstream society? Is everyone from the past thousand years wrong? Are we now understanding what nature truly wanted?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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I don't need others to tell me what I like.

I'd like to think that too, but the reality is that it's simply not the case.

For example, if nature intended us to sleep around with people of different ethnicity (and skin colour), why has this only recently become acceptable within mainstream society?

Is everyone from the past thousand years wrong? Are we now understanding what nature truly wanted?"

Thousands of years ago people of different colours lived so far apart that if you came across someone a different colour to you you'd probably be either fascinated, scared or contemptuous toward them, but a proper chance to interact and you'd likely find that you weren't so different.

I think the exact opposite of what you say is true - some of us are simply programmed to want to mix and breed with other races, it's the negative aspects of society and culture that tells us we shouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I don't need others to tell me what I like.

I'd like to think that too, but the reality is that it's simply not the case.

For example, if nature intended us to sleep around with people of different ethnicity (and skin colour), why has this only recently become acceptable within mainstream society? Is everyone from the past thousand years wrong? Are we now understanding what nature truly wanted?"

Really?

If nature didn't intend us "mixing" with other species we'd have been designed a little like Diesel pumps at forecourts, it simple wouldn't fit the petrol pipe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I don't need others to tell me what I like.

I'd like to think that too, but the reality is that it's simply not the case.

For example, if nature intended us to sleep around with people of different ethnicity (and skin colour), why has this only recently become acceptable within mainstream society? Is everyone from the past thousand years wrong? Are we now understanding what nature truly wanted?

Really?

If nature didn't intend us "mixing" with other species we'd have been designed a little like Diesel pumps at forecourts, it simple wouldn't fit the petrol pipe. "

Or vice versa. I forget which.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't feel attracted to someone because of his ethnicity. Am I an anomaly?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"

I don't need others to tell me what I like.

I'd like to think that too, but the reality is that it's simply not the case.

For example, if nature intended us to sleep around with people of different ethnicity (and skin colour), why has this only recently become acceptable within mainstream society?

Is everyone from the past thousand years wrong? Are we now understanding what nature truly wanted?

Thousands of years ago people of different colours lived so far apart that if you came across someone a different colour to you you'd probably be either fascinated, scared or contemptuous toward them, but a proper chance to interact and you'd likely find that you weren't so different.

I think the exact opposite of what you say is true - some of us are simply programmed to want to mix and breed with other races, it's the negative aspects of society and culture that tells us we shouldn't."

Programmed?

There are those specifically attracted to other ethnicities.

There are those not attracted at all to other ethnicities.

Others will treat people as individuals regardless of ethnicities.

Others will just fuck anyone they can.

I don't think the evolution of mankind involved any neurological, psychological or physiological programming relating to wanting to bonk someone of another ethnicity.

It's simply personal taste.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thai woman are beautiful!!!!! Just thought I'd throw that in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Thousands of years ago people of different colours lived so far apart that if you came across someone a different colour to you you'd probably be either fascinated, scared or contemptuous toward them, but a proper chance to interact and you'd likely find that you weren't so different.

"

I'm not talking about thousands of years ago, I'm talking about quite recent history.

For example the slave trade in the US, or the Nazi's in Europe. I don't think that either of those groups were 'fascinated' with each other, nor did they find that they weren't so different.


"I think the exact opposite of what you say is true - some of us are simply programmed to want to mix and breed with other races, it's the negative aspects of society and culture that tells us we shouldn't."

So why then has racism and segregation been such a powerful force? Is it just that those of you who want to 'breed' with other races (that's actually a pretty disgusting term when discussing those who have been oppressed and pretty much treated as animals historically) have not interfered politically?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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If nature didn't intend us "mixing" with other species we'd have been designed a little like Diesel pumps at forecourts, it simple wouldn't fit the petrol pipe.

Or vice versa. I forget which.

"

Erm, people aren't a different 'species' from you if they simply have a different skin colour or ethnic background.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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I don't think the evolution of mankind involved any neurological, psychological or physiological programming relating to wanting to bonk someone of another ethnicity.

It's simply personal taste.

A"

Personal taste - defined by neurological, psychological or physiological programming.

Cheers.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"

Thousands of years ago people of different colours lived so far apart that if you came across someone a different colour to you you'd probably be either fascinated, scared or contemptuous toward them, but a proper chance to interact and you'd likely find that you weren't so different.

I'm not talking about thousands of years ago, I'm talking about quite recent history.

For example the slave trade in the US, or the Nazi's in Europe. I don't think that either of those groups were 'fascinated' with each other, nor did they find that they weren't so different.

I think the exact opposite of what you say is true - some of us are simply programmed to want to mix and breed with other races, it's the negative aspects of society and culture that tells us we shouldn't.

So why then has racism and segregation been such a powerful force? Is it just that those of you who want to 'breed' with other races (that's actually a pretty disgusting term when discussing those who have been oppressed and pretty much treated as animals historically) have not interfered politically?

"

Our genes are programmed to find the mate that is genetically as different from us as possible...

This ensures better, fitter, stronger, more resistant to disease children.

Women actually have a highly developed sense of smell & can "smell" the difference in genes. But the modern world masks this.

But....

Our brains have been programmed to find the mate that is as genetically similar to ourselves as possible.

This guarantees that the tribe will be better, faster, stronger and more cohesive. Creating a society.

In recent times there is somewhat of a fetish, plus the explosion of American "black culture" has made certain ideas cool and engrained them in popular culture...

And people just want to be associated with it.

Other wise some are just capricious, one week this, another that.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"

I don't think the evolution of mankind involved any neurological, psychological or physiological programming relating to wanting to bonk someone of another ethnicity.

It's simply personal taste.

A

Personal taste - defined by neurological, psychological or physiological programming.

Cheers."

My tastes change regularly.

Are you suggesting I get reprogrammed on a regular basis?

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If nature didn't intend us "mixing" with other species we'd have been designed a little like Diesel pumps at forecourts, it simple wouldn't fit the petrol pipe.

Or vice versa. I forget which.

Erm, people aren't a different 'species' from you if they simply have a different skin colour or ethnic background."

I know that. You miss the point entirely. Oh hello Cilla.

Your own comment "what nature truly wanted" has allowed millions of "species" to breed and mix and evolve.

Little in nature's design has stopped mankind from doing exactly that.

It is only more recent social norms that have done that. If your only guide to what such social norms are acceptable is *nature* then it'll get messy, again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

In recent times there is somewhat of a fetish, plus the explosion of American "black culture" has made certain ideas cool and engrained them in popular culture...

And people just want to be associated with it.

Other wise some are just capricious, one week this, another that. "

Do you believe that this is a natural genetic thing, or more about commercialism and people being told what's cool?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I don't think the evolution of mankind involved any neurological, psychological or physiological programming relating to wanting to bonk someone of another ethnicity.

It's simply personal taste.

A

Personal taste - defined by neurological, psychological or physiological programming.

Cheers."

You give me too much credit. Mine's a pint, cheers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I don't think the evolution of mankind involved any neurological, psychological or physiological programming relating to wanting to bonk someone of another ethnicity.

It's simply personal taste.

A

Personal taste - defined by neurological, psychological or physiological programming.

Cheers.

You give me too much credit. Mine's a pint, cheers. "

Your desire for one is most likely based upon social implications towards the relaxing social nature of a pint, coupled with possible previous pleasurable memories associated with beer (such as friends and family gatherings) and personal chemical enjoyment of the sensations caused through the imbibing of alcohol.

Cheers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I happen to find black/mixed race attractive at the moment. When I was younger it was guys with long hair and tattoos. It has nothing to do with programming or culture it's simply my tastes and what I desire have changed.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I'd fuck Rihanna.

I'd also fuck Willabooby.

And Eva Mendes.

And Fan Bingbing.

And Yana Gupta.

No pattern to ethnicity there and there are times when ethnicity is irrelevant to attraction. It just happens. Just as I'm equally unattracted to people regardless of ethnicity.

Nothing to do with any kind of programming. Just personal taste - with changes and evolves over time with no pattern, rhyme or reason.

A

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"

In recent times there is somewhat of a fetish, plus the explosion of American "black culture" has made certain ideas cool and engrained them in popular culture...

And people just want to be associated with it.

Other wise some are just capricious, one week this, another that.

Do you believe that this is a natural genetic thing, or more about commercialism and people being told what's cool?"

Yep.... That last part is totally commercial!

But people are more free now to make choices based on whatever they like...

But I think what's "cool" is a part of it...

Also... And I'm taking America as my Petri dish... The rise in white women/black men dating, has coincided with a similar rise in East Asian women/white men.

Theres probably a whole mix of genetics, body types, success, intelligence and a whole voodoo of other reasons why...

But this has to have something to do with what people find "cool"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

In recent times there is somewhat of a fetish, plus the explosion of American "black culture" has made certain ideas cool and engrained them in popular culture...

And people just want to be associated with it.

Other wise some are just capricious, one week this, another that.

Do you believe that this is a natural genetic thing, or more about commercialism and people being told what's cool?

Yep.... That last part is totally commercial!

But people are more free now to make choices based on whatever they like...

But I think what's "cool" is a part of it...

Also... And I'm taking America as my Petri dish... The rise in white women/black men dating, has coincided with a similar rise in East Asian women/white men.

Theres probably a whole mix of genetics, body types, success, intelligence and a whole voodoo of other reasons why...

But this has to have something to do with what people find "cool" "

But as a species that has a predisposition to live in groups, and indeed this has been an essential part of our survival over the years, it makes sense that 'cool' - which I'd define as, doing what others believe to be contemporarily acceptable and positive - would be a defining factor in what we believe to be attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't feel attracted to someone because of his ethnicity. Am I an anomaly? "

I'm an anomaly too. There could be a lot of us out there

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"

In recent times there is somewhat of a fetish, plus the explosion of American "black culture" has made certain ideas cool and engrained them in popular culture...

And people just want to be associated with it.

Other wise some are just capricious, one week this, another that.

Do you believe that this is a natural genetic thing, or more about commercialism and people being told what's cool?

Yep.... That last part is totally commercial!

But people are more free now to make choices based on whatever they like...

But I think what's "cool" is a part of it...

Also... And I'm taking America as my Petri dish... The rise in white women/black men dating, has coincided with a similar rise in East Asian women/white men.

Theres probably a whole mix of genetics, body types, success, intelligence and a whole voodoo of other reasons why...

But this has to have something to do with what people find "cool"

But as a species that has a predisposition to live in groups, and indeed this has been an essential part of our survival over the years, it makes sense that 'cool' - which I'd define as, doing what others believe to be contemporarily acceptable and positive - would be a defining factor in what we believe to be attractive."

Possibly, "cool" now may be the equivalent of trying to marry "up" in days gone by.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I don't feel attracted to someone because of his ethnicity. Am I an anomaly?

I'm an anomaly too. There could be a lot of us out there "

Isn't that an oxymoron?

A

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"I don't feel attracted to someone because of his ethnicity. Am I an anomaly?

I'm an anomaly too. There could be a lot of us out there "

Neither do I, but I know that there are forces far greater than myself, that govern the way we live and our choices...

Something related to this is scarcity...

Take a look at famous people or those the world finds interesting...

No matter their ethnicity, they will usually be different.

And a large part of the population wants their genes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never had sex with anybody of my nationality

I just don't find medateranian men attractive despite being so myself

Is that strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say someone's ethnicity really makes that much difference to me, if they're gorgeous, they're gorgeous,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only like white men but that has more to do where a I grow up and I've never felt full part of my community. My why of thinking is not very conducive to many others of my ethnicity.

Also past experience with men of my race has really put me off to the point I wouldn't even consider them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I only like white men but that has more to do where a I grow up and I've never felt full part of my community. My why of thinking is not very conducive to many others of my ethnicity.

Also past experience with men of my race has really put me off to the point I wouldn't even consider them. "

How come you write so differently in the forum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't feel attracted to someone because of his ethnicity. Am I an anomaly?

I'm an anomaly too. There could be a lot of us out there

Neither do I, but I know that there are forces far greater than myself, that govern the way we live and our choices...

Something related to this is scarcity...

Take a look at famous people or those the world finds interesting...

No matter their ethnicity, they will usually be different.

And a large part of the population wants their genes."

I have diverse tastes in most parts of my life. I don't have favourite anything's that I can think of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only like white men but that has more to do where a I grow up and I've never felt full part of my community. My why of thinking is not very conducive to many others of my ethnicity.

Also past experience with men of my race has really put me off to the point I wouldn't even consider them.

How come you write so differently in the forum?"

What does that mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is a smile universal across cultures?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is a smile universal across cultures?"

Well, we're all human beings, innit. Common generic ancestry. Some things are to do with being homo sapiens, rather than a cultural thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is a smile universal across cultures?

Well, we're all human beings, innit. Common generic ancestry. Some things are to do with being homo sapiens, rather than a cultural thing. "

*genetic

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI


"

Thousands of years ago people of different colours lived so far apart that if you came across someone a different colour to you you'd probably be either fascinated, scared or contemptuous toward them, but a proper chance to interact and you'd likely find that you weren't so different.

"

Did you not study the ancient world at school?

People of Africa, Southern Europe, Iberia, Persia, Middle East, Eastern Europe have been in contact, trading together, at war against and alongside each other, for thousands of years.

This, along with the slave trade, in the ancient world meant you saw people of every size, shape, colour and sexual orientation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't feel attracted to someone because of his ethnicity. Am I an anomaly? "

No. There are at least two of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't feel attracted to someone because of his ethnicity. Am I an anomaly?

No. There are at least two of us "

Three! I don't care what ethnicity someone is. If I find them attractive inside and out, and the feeling is mutual, they're having it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Thousands of years ago people of different colours lived so far apart that if you came across someone a different colour to you you'd probably be either fascinated, scared or contemptuous toward them, but a proper chance to interact and you'd likely find that you weren't so different.

Did you not study the ancient world at school?

People of Africa, Southern Europe, Iberia, Persia, Middle East, Eastern Europe have been in contact, trading together, at war against and alongside each other, for thousands of years.

This, along with the slave trade, in the ancient world meant you saw people of every size, shape, colour and sexual orientation. "

Aw don't tell everyone that any slave trade started in the ancient world and not several centuries later.

It's a bit like saying there is no santa.

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI


"

Thousands of years ago people of different colours lived so far apart that if you came across someone a different colour to you you'd probably be either fascinated, scared or contemptuous toward them, but a proper chance to interact and you'd likely find that you weren't so different.

Did you not study the ancient world at school?

People of Africa, Southern Europe, Iberia, Persia, Middle East, Eastern Europe have been in contact, trading together, at war against and alongside each other, for thousands of years.

This, along with the slave trade, in the ancient world meant you saw people of every size, shape, colour and sexual orientation.

Aw don't tell everyone that any slave trade started in the ancient world and not several centuries later.

It's a bit like saying there is no santa. "

Who thinks slavery started in 750AD?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not mainly down to genetics. We're actually gonna go for the ones most like us when choosing a mate, genetically, because we feel a link to them. If you wanna add genetics to the mix then the bonds formed here are to do with survival of your own genes and enabling them to carry on, and the closest genes to yours. This is also why people tend to choose partners who look similar to themselves. Although, when it comes to those very different to yourself it is the anti-bodies that are important. The mixture of defences against illnesses and disease is what makes a stronger child and it is thought that kissing helps us sniff out someone with different anti-bodies to us and be more attracted to them.

Now we don't tend to fuck to make children any more (thanks contraception and liberal attitudes to sex). We can have sex and there won't be any other reason than pleasure. I'm sure porn and other conditioning does make some people more sexy than others. Being more sexually available can make someone more appealing, maybe being seen as not sexual can add to that fantasy of wanting to fuck them to prove you're the one to turn them into a sex goddess. Fantasy plays a big part in some peoples sex lives and who they want to fuc, reality for others maybe, but yeah some social factors will be a part of that too.

Uniqueness is another aspect that can make people more attractive too. Being unique can make someone appealing for the novelty factor. We're also wired to want new experiences.

Of course everyone has individual lives and experiences and this will affect how they feel about who they want sex with too. Might not even be a reason at all, and many theories contradict each other, although one or a mixture of these theories will apply to different people, or none at all. And we're able to reason certain things in our head and change opinions at any time, this will also affect you and why you change over the years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think what Sexybitch meant to say is- of the people who find different ethnicities specifically attractive, Why is it that sometimes, the desire for other colours to ourselves feels so strong?

Maybe...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is a smile universal across cultures?

Well, we're all human beings, innit. Common generic ancestry. Some things are to do with being homo sapiens, rather than a cultural thing. "

like fucking

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester


"

Thousands of years ago people of different colours lived so far apart that if you came across someone a different colour to you you'd probably be either fascinated, scared or contemptuous toward them, but a proper chance to interact and you'd likely find that you weren't so different."

Only a week ago I was in Wootton Bassett, the locals were scared, sceptical and wanted to call the police. However, when I asked for the Daily Mail the shop owner realised I wasn't so different after all. -Mr.

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By *tep121Man
over a year ago

manchester

Goes down to social integration.. my ex is Asian. I fell for her because she was lovely lass. Not because of the skin colour.

However since being with her, there's still a lot of racial discrimination. Maybe not so much now between people, but organisations..

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By *ove121LustCouple
over a year ago

LaLa Land


"

Thousands of years ago people of different colours lived so far apart that if you came across someone a different colour to you you'd probably be either fascinated, scared or contemptuous toward them, but a proper chance to interact and you'd likely find that you weren't so different.

Only a week ago I was in Wootton Bassett, the locals were scared, sceptical and wanted to call the police. However, when I asked for the Daily Mail the shop owner realised I wasn't so different after all. -Mr."

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"It's not mainly down to genetics. We're actually gonna go for the ones most like us when choosing a mate, genetically, because we feel a link to them. If you wanna add genetics to the mix then the bonds formed here are to do with survival of your own genes and enabling them to carry on, and the closest genes to yours. This is also why people tend to choose partners who look similar to themselves. Although, when it comes to those very different to yourself it is the anti-bodies that are important. The mixture of defences against illnesses and disease is what makes a stronger child and it is thought that kissing helps us sniff out someone with different anti-bodies to us and be more attracted to them.

Now we don't tend to fuck to make children any more (thanks contraception and liberal attitudes to sex). We can have sex and there won't be any other reason than pleasure. I'm sure porn and other conditioning does make some people more sexy than others. Being more sexually available can make someone more appealing, maybe being seen as not sexual can add to that fantasy of wanting to fuck them to prove you're the one to turn them into a sex goddess. Fantasy plays a big part in some peoples sex lives and who they want to fuc, reality for others maybe, but yeah some social factors will be a part of that too.

Uniqueness is another aspect that can make people more attractive too. Being unique can make someone appealing for the novelty factor. We're also wired to want new experiences.

Of course everyone has individual lives and experiences and this will affect how they feel about who they want sex with too. Might not even be a reason at all, and many theories contradict each other, although one or a mixture of these theories will apply to different people, or none at all. And we're able to reason certain things in our head and change opinions at any time, this will also affect you and why you change over the years."

So that's why I can't get a meet

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"It's not mainly down to genetics. We're actually gonna go for the ones most like us when choosing a mate, genetically, because we feel a link to them. If you wanna add genetics to the mix then the bonds formed here are to do with survival of your own genes and enabling them to carry on, and the closest genes to yours. "

Actually genetics is a big part of it... The more diverse your gene pool, the stronger the individuals (genetically, not physically).

If you were totally uninfluenced (spelling??) by society, you would want to mate with genetic material that is far different from you....

But... Influenced by society, you will try to keep as close to home as possible, to build the society.

It's totally a body vs mind thing, I follow my body and find I'm naturally attracted to exotics, but then again maybe it's just scarcity....

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

I remember once being in Hong Kong airport and I could hear barely audible gasps and clip, clop, clip, clop as this stunning South American woman strutted down the walk way...

The Chinese literally stood, started and drooled over this woman, who was the exact opposite of everything their society tells them to like...

She had thighs, ass, breasts, dark skin, was very sharply and exuded sex appeal, in that way people who spend most of their weekend half-naked in a bikini do!

Reasons....??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are there so many BNP members on this site???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very true


"

I don't need others to tell me what I like.

I'd like to think that too, but the reality is that it's simply not the case.

For example, if nature intended us to sleep around with people of different ethnicity (and skin colour), why has this only recently become acceptable within mainstream society?

Is everyone from the past thousand years wrong? Are we now understanding what nature truly wanted?

Thousands of years ago people of different colours lived so far apart that if you came across someone a different colour to you you'd probably be either fascinated, scared or contemptuous toward them, but a proper chance to interact and you'd likely find that you weren't so different.

I think the exact opposite of what you say is true - some of us are simply programmed to want to mix and breed with other races, it's the negative aspects of society and culture that tells us we shouldn't."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the topic thread to be on colour it clearly shows that there are still problems... Skin colour is obvious and apparent as well as ethnicity, but the truth is there are so many variables... Everyone should have a choice or preference to what they like or feel comfortable with, choosing one over the other does not mean that one is better than the other either.... Its all down to the individual, there are some stunning, beautiful personalities and characters in all races... I just leave it at that

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"Why are there so many BNP members on this site???"

Ok... Wait what??!!

Not my experiance!

I would say in general "swingers" (sorry hate that label) are generally an exceptionally accepting and tolerant segment of society.

Maybe sex is the best diplomacy?

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"For the topic thread to be on colour it clearly shows that there are still problems... Skin colour is obvious and apparent as well as ethnicity, but the truth is there are so many variables... Everyone should have a choice or preference to what they like or feel comfortable with, choosing one over the other does not mean that one is better than the other either.... Its all down to the individual, there are some stunning, beautiful personalities and characters in all races... I just leave it at that"

I concur, but it's one of the better aspects of European society....

We can talk about this openly.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I wonder if dulux do a colour chart for ethnicities/tans/covered in coal dust/works in a flour factory so that people can tick them off as they go? The first to fill in their colour book gets a cuddly meerkat, colour of meerkat yet to be determined.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I remember once being in Hong Kong airport and I could hear barely audible gasps and clip, clop, clip, clop as this stunning South American woman strutted down the walk way...

The Chinese literally stood, started and drooled over this woman, who was the exact opposite of everything their society tells them to like...

She had thighs, ass, breasts, dark skin, was very sharply and exuded sex appeal, in that way people who spend most of their weekend half-naked in a bikini do!

Reasons....??"

South Americans have some of the most beautiful women in the world. Their guys also have some of the biggest penises in the world. They also have some of the most beautiful transsexuals in the world.

I think South Americans are a bit greedy frankly

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