FabSwingers.com forum: thoughts on plus size ladies

By *ubblyeve OP Woman
over a year ago

thurles

so im just wondering what are your thoughts on plus size ladies. i myself am one i was at recent meet and greet and got a good response i couldnt believe it. i have always been very concoius about my body am i just being paronoide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't let the size of a person, male or female define our thoughts of them.

Physical attributes are only one facet of a person and we prefer to take the whole package into consideration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some like them.. some don't... Some are indifferent

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Having been a BBW (size 26) and having lost it - I do find people treat me very differently.

I was not happy being that size, hence making changes.

I found some men treated me as a novelty as a bigger lady - and had the moped comments too, about being fun to ride til your mates find out. But had the other end of the scale and one fella who adored it and didn't think I was big enough.

Now I am treated much better, and seen as an equal.

But that may well just be my experience, and also the fact that as I lost weight, I have gained a bit more confidence, and am less likely to put up with shit from anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just shows how shallow some men are beauty lies within be proud of yourself whatever size you are

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By *ubblyeve OP Woman
over a year ago

thurles

wow lady bee well done s the secret. is that you in the pic if so omg fair play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are nice, some are not. Like any body shape really.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Hmm let me think long and hard about it..

actually its not something one would think long and hard about, 'they' are people and like 'other types' of people some will be nice some not so, some will attract to some and others to others etc etc..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More to enjoy

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

For me it is the person inside that counts, no good be I g the most stunning person in the room if you have no personality.

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By *earboynottinghamMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

They can be delicious or hideous just like any other type of person.

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always wanted to meet plus size women

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"wow lady bee well done s the secret. is that you in the pic if so omg fair play."

Yes, thats me in the picture. Really no magic formula... drink more water, eat more clean food (if you can't pronounce the chemicals on the label, think about whether you want to eat it) and exercise more.

I lost 18 stone over 5 years. Simple small steps. Eat smaller portions, do more exercise, drink more water. I also use body brushing in the shower to help with skin tone (although I am genetically lucky too - my dad is mid 60s and fairly un-wrinkled) and moisturise lots. Find an exercise you adore... I've just recently passed as a gym instructor and am training to be a bodybalance teacher too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just shows how shallow some men are beauty lies within be proud of yourself whatever size you are "

I'm shallow on here.

Some large women are more attractive than others, to me.

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI

"wow lady bee well done s the secret. is that you in the pic if so omg fair play.

Congrats LabyBee, that's dedication. Good luck with the new career too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just shows how shallow some men are beauty lies within be proud of yourself whatever size you are "

I don't think its shallow to fancy one physical type more than another, in fact I think it's human nature.

To think one physical type is inherently better than another isn't right, but it's not wrong to have particular personal tastes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus size ladies are very hot, more to play with!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are nice, some are not. Like any body shape really."

This basically - sexiness comes in a wide range of shapes and sizes, and is not defined by any one particular set of measurements.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

I'm sure all us bigger ladies will get over it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The female form is gorgeous no matter what size, in my opionion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

Damn. My size 6 ass will just have to miss out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a good idea for website, I think lots of guys would like such a site??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"wow lady bee well done s the secret. is that you in the pic if so omg fair play.

You look fantastic

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

I'm sure all us bigger ladies will get over it

I'm devastated.. I might eat some cake to cheer myself up

Anyway, not sure where you're looking as I see women of all shapes on sizes on fab..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

Must be terrible for a fine figure of a man like you to be surrounded by so many fatties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

Must be terrible for a fine figure of a man like you to be surrounded by so many fatties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

I'm sure all us bigger ladies will get over it

I'm devastated.. I might eat some cake to cheer myself up

Anyway, not sure where you're looking as I see women of all shapes on sizes on fab.. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a fatty I have meets and they come back for more and more oh and more so some like big women

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

It's not for everyone, but I'm never short of offers

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

Everyone has their taste, but that could have been said more tastefully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

Damn. My size 6 ass will just have to miss out..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

Everyone has their taste, but that could have been said more tastefully. "

I agree, liking slim women is fine but the unnecessary dig at the end was just.....well.....unnecessary and the fact he apologised for it before hand just shows he knows this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that many women and men of different sizes are conscious about their bodies yet a lot of people love their body... So take it as a lesson, be confident!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very true... at the end of the day you have to love yourself its the most important lesson to acceptance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

Everyone has their taste, but that could have been said more tastefully.

I agree, liking slim women is fine but the unnecessary dig at the end was just.....well.....unnecessary and the fact he apologised for it before hand just shows he knows this "

The thing is, I don't actually see how it is bbw central. There are many slim women on this site too lol, there are a range of beautiful women of all different shapes and sizes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like any body shape, certain people can carry it better than others. You may get 2 size 20 woman, one could look sexy as hell, the other not so.

I do like curves and fuller boobs so I'm biased

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

personality and fun matters more to me than body size ive met bbw and slim body types and enjoyed there company. Every body type is sexy to me and women shouldnt feel forced to conform to one body type. Unless you need to lose weight for health ressons you should be happy how you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been amazed how many guys, young or old, who adore my big bum, but they adore my cheeky personality more. It is what is inside a person that counts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

Everyone has their taste, but that could have been said more tastefully.

I agree, liking slim women is fine but the unnecessary dig at the end was just.....well.....unnecessary and the fact he apologised for it before hand just shows he knows this

The thing is, I don't actually see how it is bbw central. There are many slim women on this site too lol, there are a range of beautiful women of all different shapes and sizes

I think it's fairly reflective of the general population. So there probably are more overweight women than size 8s, but you're right that there's a range!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

I'm glad I'm not a size 8 then

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

"I have been amazed how many guys, young or old, who adore my big bum, but they adore my cheeky personality more. It is what is inside a person that counts.

Exactly the person inside counts more to me. I like big bums too but hate my own lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

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As usual, if someone mentions slim on a BBW thread people take it personally and lash out. I am not slim by any means but I don't take offence at someone saying there are a lot of larger women on the site, as there is.

Everyone is entitled to their opinion without being abused for it....whether you like that opinion or not so please don't do it when getting your point across.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like the term "plus-size". It's a misleading term that has been used too much on women who have a healthy size.

That being said, I prefer ladies with extra padding. More cushion for the pushin', as my ex used to say.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I like my ladies curvy with boobs about the same size as mine (C cup), Mr prefers slimmer ladies with smaller boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like the term "plus-size". It's a misleading term that has been used too much on women who have a healthy size.

That being said, I prefer ladies with extra padding. More cushion for the pushin', as my ex used to say.

built for comfort !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like the term "plus-size". It's a misleading term that has been used too much on women who have a healthy size.

That being said, I prefer ladies with extra padding. More cushion for the pushin', as my ex used to say.

Healthy size...according to who?....the NHS or people generally...overweight people are seen as the norm now...

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By *eddy004Man
over a year ago

Toy Town

I say "they are beautiful" they look great in front of a lens too. They are appealing on the eye but so are the skinny minnies if that's what you like. A lady with shape and curves is a healthier looking lady to me Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think about them all of the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"wow lady bee well done s the secret. is that you in the pic if so omg fair play.

well done x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sexiest people on Fab don't seem to be a particular size or shape, but who know how to use what they've got.

And that goes for male and female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care how big a woman is, as long as she has that twinkle in her eye. A twinkle from a jewelled butt plug in the other is a hidden treasure too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What the fuck is this?

A BBW thread that's been on for 2 hours abs only has 54 replies...

Where are the trolls? ...ffs.

I'm totally bumping this to the top Gah!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What the fuck is this?

A BBW thread that's been on for 2 hours abs only has 54 replies...

Where are the trolls? ...ffs.

I'm totally bumping this to the top Gah!"

There's been a few removed for having a go at the poor sod who said he liked size 8s

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By *layfull pairingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

All positive thoughts.... Unless one fell out of a tree and landed on you... That wouldnt be so good i suppose....but apart from that....all positive

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By *ubblyeve OP Woman
over a year ago

thurles

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"All positive thoughts.... Unless one fell out of a tree and landed on you... That wouldnt be so good i suppose....but apart from that....all positive

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By *ubblyeve OP Woman
over a year ago

thurles

well said

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By *ubblyeve OP Woman
over a year ago

thurles

hi guys wow i cant believe the response i have got thanks so much for all the replys positive most of them to anyone that posted a negitive comment thats ok too i wont judge as i believe everyone has a certain taste in people. however i think its only fair to treat all people, fat skinny white coloured lgbt with the same respect as you would like to be treated. yes sometimes we say things that may come out wrong but that is why the preview button is there. so all in all i feel great now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the individual is happy at whatever size they are, good on them.

Being a lazy fucker i love doggy with big women. Slap their arse and ride the ripples out.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

"hi guys wow i cant believe the response i have got thanks so much for all the replys positive most of them to anyone that posted a negitive comment thats ok too i wont judge as i believe everyone has a certain taste in people. however i think its only fair to treat all people, fat skinny white coloured lgbt with the same respect as you would like to be treated. yes sometimes we say things that may come out wrong but that is why the preview button is there. so all in all i feel great now

Here here!! Same here thanks for posing the question i bet you look great as well bubbly x

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By *emini1637Woman
over a year ago

Warwickshire

I've been a bigger girl since my teenage years and throughout my school life I was teased and tormented about my size and weight which has spread through my adult years! Since joining this site I have had my eyes opened to the amount of men that do like larger ladies and I was shocked! The guys on here are slowly building my self esteem and I'm becoming less self conscious with every meet I have

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

I do sympathise myself i was 20st when i was a teen and was bullied for it too , not good. After a bad stomach upset i lost most of it and not put it back on since, my bums still a bit chubby but others accept me for who i am. I am much more aelf confident than i was back then.

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

I'm glad I'm not a size 8 then

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

Why would anyone be hurt by you preferring a size 8 woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

Why would anyone be hurt by you preferring a size 8 woman? "

You'd think, but a lot of people seemed pretty pissed off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

Must be terrible for a fine figure of a man like you to be surrounded by so many fatties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are people. Everyone is different and are attracted to different things. It would be a pretty boring world if we were all "average"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like all women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People are people. Everyone is different and are attracted to different things. It would be a pretty boring world if we were all "average""
I just hope all the men here with big beer tummies are loved as much as the BBW. s should be the same for over weight men ..here feel the love .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

I doubt many women are hurt by your comment BUT I think that comments like that won't endear you to any women....slim or otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average is healthier though...the human body was not designed to be overweight nor underweight...both come with health problems...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

Why would anyone be hurt by you preferring a size 8 woman? "

I wasn't hurt by what he said, I just think he was wrong as there are all types of women on here!

Some comments against his post were definitely uncalled for (admin deleted now), as its just his opinion, not an attack against anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

Why would anyone be hurt by you preferring a size 8 woman?

I wasn't hurt by what he said, I just think he was wrong as there are all types of women on here!

Some comments against his post were definitely uncalled for (admin deleted now), as its just his opinion, not an attack against anyone"
Everyone's different here I am a 12/ 14 still feel big even if I was a size 8 I bet I would .. It's up to him ..what he likes. What gets my goat on this site lovely men saying how lovely bigger woman are but if they are over weight most here not into them as say two fat don't go together now that's a cop out in my eyes ... I think it should be same here for both sexes but it's not here.. Men are not look at in the same way .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

Why would anyone be hurt by you preferring a size 8 woman?

I wasn't hurt by what he said, I just think he was wrong as there are all types of women on here!

Some comments against his post were definitely uncalled for (admin deleted now), as its just his opinion, not an attack against anyone Everyone's different here I am a 12/ 14 still feel big even if I was a size 8 I bet I would .. It's up to him ..what he likes. What gets my goat on this site lovely men saying how lovely bigger woman are but if they are over weight most here not into them as say two fat don't go together now that's a cop out in my eyes ... I think it should be same here for both sexes but it's not here.. Men are not look at in the same way ."

But you can't dictate who people are attracted to-some people are into big guys too, some aren't.

I think there more emphasis on the whole BBW thing because women are judged on their looks more than men are.

There are websites devoted to all types of girls-there aren't many for any type of men, not just big guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

Why would anyone be hurt by you preferring a size 8 woman?

I wasn't hurt by what he said, I just think he was wrong as there are all types of women on here!

But you can't dictate who people are attracted to-some people are into big guys too, some aren't.

I think there more emphasis on the whole BBW thing because women are judged on their looks more than men are.

There are websites devoted to all types of girls-there aren't many for any type of men, not just big guys. "
They should have BBM tag maybe . It's just most here feel like out casts not loved like the BBw yes we are all different with different likes but they should be made to feel welcome here too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone should feel welcome-it's the people who don't accept that who are the problem, not the people who are big or small or anything else!

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

The eyes and personality for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They can be delicious or hideous just like any other type of person. "

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

I love size 12-14 women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

Why would anyone be hurt by you preferring a size 8 woman?

You'd think, but a lot of people seemed pretty pissed off

Because he likes slim women? What happened to everyone has preferences? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah i'll pass you're okay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so im just wondering what are your thoughts on plus size ladies. i myself am one i was at recent meet and greet and got a good response i couldnt believe it. i have always been very concoius about my body am i just being paronoide."
well let's hope plus size men have the same luck as you here .. Over my time here seen some men made to feel bad because of size and that's not cocks size. I hope they get same respect as you woman and people can see past size as a lot do with woman so why not them I find ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

Why would anyone be hurt by you preferring a size 8 woman?

You'd think, but a lot of people seemed pretty pissed off

Because he likes slim women? What happened to everyone has preferences? Lol "

I don't think it applies if you like thin women (

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

Why would anyone be hurt by you preferring a size 8 woman?

You'd think, but a lot of people seemed pretty pissed off

Because he likes slim women? What happened to everyone has preferences? Lol "

I'm all for personal preference, it's the manner in which those preferences are put across which can piss people off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

Why would anyone be hurt by you preferring a size 8 woman?

You'd think, but a lot of people seemed pretty pissed off

Because he likes slim women? What happened to everyone has preferences? Lol

I'm all for personal preference, it's the manner in which those preferences are put across which can piss people off"

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Not all the time it doesn't, the mere mention of the word "slim" on a BBW thread normally brings lots of defensive comments as if someone is attacking people personally....when they are not.

The comment about size 8 didn't attack anyone either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few people found his comment rude. People are allowed to express opinions. Either way.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

No one said you can't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is going to have a preference, some prefer blondes, some like alternative chicks with tattoos fan piercings, I like a little chunk in my hunk and a sucker for a soft full manly beard.

I personally don't feel comfortable or able to fully relax with a man whose athletic and ripped (to me, I don't see how a man so dedicated to his body can see beauty in someone who so obviously isn't) and tend not to pursue those people.

That said, I'm happy, my weight and my look and my reasons behind my size are mine and mine alone. As long I'm comfortable in my own skin then that's all that matters to me!

I was always told the sexiest thing a woman can wear is confidence!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all different, as in size, shape, colour, intellect...we all have a preference for a shape or size or intellect, is nothing wrong with that. I'm an ample woman, I don't have a problem with myself but I must admit I would prefer some of my body parts more aesthetic.(Like most of us would, regardless of what size we are). I haven't had bad experiences on this site because of my size. I made it clear on my profile who I am and when I joined I was amazed of how many men are turned on by my curves ( some in the right places, some not in the right places).

I might be a BBW but that doesn't mean that I struggle to breath or I'm lazy....I'm a very active person who feels sexy and incredible or not,I've met very fit men on this site and I discovered that I have more sex drive and stamina than most of them. Yes, I'm a size 18 but I am sexy and I can ride a cock all night...so ladies that's where you should be concerned...not about your size but your physical endurance. If you don't have issues with that, you are healthy...

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By *andlebarMan
over a year ago

South Northumberland

I find big girls a huge turn on.. while i still like thinner gurls anyone over about an 18/20 dress size is very sexy in my eyes. Most of the girls ive been with are about a 22 and bigger

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the larger woman. Some are self conscious and dont set there photos to private. Ive spoke to a few who have said no thanks to guys and they then get abused for being larger. Why bother messaging in the first place? Those ar**h**es then make it harder for the genuine people who are actually attracted to them.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"I prefer the larger woman. Some are self conscious and dont set there photos to private. Ive spoke to a few who have said no thanks to guys and they then get abused for being larger. Why bother messaging in the first place? Those ar**h**es then make it harder for the genuine people who are actually attracted to them.

That happens to women regardless of size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That happens to women regardless of size"

True

I used to be a fat cunt when I said no, then I lost 7 stone so now I'm a ugly cunt, moral of the story is if you say no your a cunt.....

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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago

London

Come this way, more body to explore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you want an unbiased opinion dont ask that question on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That happens to women regardless of size

True

I used to be a fat cunt when I said no, then I lost 7 stone so now I'm a ugly cunt, moral of the story is if you say no your a cunt.....

But if you say yes, then they love your cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That happens to women regardless of size"

I suppose. Personally i wouldnt abuse anyone. If they took the time to say no id atleast thank them for actually replying as alot dont bother.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

My thoughts are, some I find attractive and some I don't. Some I find nice and some I don't. Same could be say for most body types.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

Why would anyone be hurt by you preferring a size 8 woman?

I wasn't hurt by what he said, I just think he was wrong as there are all types of women on here!

Is it bollox a cop out. Been there, done it and miserably failed on a few occasions. My huge arse and gigantic gut just bounce off each other, preventing a cock from entering doggy style. 2 gigantic guts stop missionary style. I can't go on top due to spinal issues.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

Size doesn't matter on Fabs. The only thing that matters is how you feel about yourself. I think that's the only way you can truly enjoy Fabs: when you're comfortable in your own skin. It's sad that some don't.

Comments like the one earlier don't help and is a bit rich considering who said it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 'plus size' not particularly happy about it but working on it. I don't like chubby chasers,I want someone to want to meet me cuz we get on not for my fat

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By *asonnosaMMan
over a year ago

Grantham

I find bigger ladys extremely attractive but its about the personality tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexiest on fabs x

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

Why would anyone be hurt by you preferring a size 8 woman?

You'd think, but a lot of people seemed pretty pissed off

Because he likes slim women? What happened to everyone has preferences? Lol

I'm all for personal preference, it's the manner in which those preferences are put across which can piss people off"

I think it was more that fab should be called bbw central that pissed people off. If he had just stated his preference to size 8 no one would have bothered. Just no need for the final sentence.

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over a year ago

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

Why would anyone be hurt by you preferring a size 8 woman?

I wasn't hurt by what he said, I just think he was wrong as there are all types of women on here!

That's fine but if you'd reject a man for that reason you will have to be cool with a man rejecting you for the same reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

Why would anyone be hurt by you preferring a size 8 woman?

You'd think, but a lot of people seemed pretty pissed off

Because he likes slim women? What happened to everyone has preferences? Lol

I'm all for personal preference, it's the manner in which those preferences are put across which can piss people off

I think it was more that fab should be called bbw central that pissed people off. If he had just stated his preference to size 8 no one would have bothered. Just no need for the final sentence. "

I still don't really get why that pissed people off though. He thinks there are more BBW than anything else, I'm inclined to agree there are more BBW than size 8, but I think there's a range of body sizes reflective of the popularion and disagree the site should be renamed. (He definitely missed a trick not suggesting fatswingers though, I might set that one up myself

)

I'm not one to defend fat bashing - but that wasn't it.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

I've got no time for people who think plus size ladies can't be sexy either in body or mind

Just because you might not fancy them doesn't mean plenty of others don't

I'm a good example

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coloured? Lol

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

Coloured? Lol "

Yes ..it was a non offensive word that was in common use for years ...some people ...who the PC police haven't got round to yet still use it apparently !

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By *asonnosaMMan
over a year ago

Grantham

Well its because you are beautiful Coloured? Lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

Why would anyone be hurt by you preferring a size 8 woman?

You'd think, but a lot of people seemed pretty pissed off

Because he likes slim women? What happened to everyone has preferences? Lol

I'm all for personal preference, it's the manner in which those preferences are put across which can piss people off

I think it was more that fab should be called bbw central that pissed people off. If he had just stated his preference to size 8 no one would have bothered. Just no need for the final sentence. "

Exactly. Some people have no class. As proved time after time on here.

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By *weetebonypussyWoman
over a year ago

manchester

Coloured? Lol "

It Was a non offensive word Years ago But times Have changed And most people find It offensive. So My advice would be To use correct terms black,mixed race,Asian etc

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By *weetebonypussyWoman
over a year ago

manchester

But My question Is What size Is BBw? I would class myself As curvy But Maybe I'm BBw Idk

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By *asonnosaMMan
over a year ago

Grantham

"But My question Is What size Is BBw? I would class myself As curvy But Maybe I'm BBw your under the class called delicious Idk

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By *weetebonypussyWoman
over a year ago

manchester

"But My question Is What size Is BBw? I would class myself As curvy But Maybe I'm BBw your under the class called delicious Idk

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By *asonnosaMMan
over a year ago

Grantham

Awww

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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago

London

"I'm 'plus size' not particularly happy about it but working on it. I don't like chubby chasers,I want someone to want to meet me cuz we get on not for my fat

Some of us cant win.

Society pushes us to think that slim is beautiful, when majority of woman aren't slim.

Then you have men who adores a woman for what she is non slim, and that same woman calls out chubby chasers

Lol....

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over a year ago

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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago

Clacton-On-Sea, Essex

I hate all those awful fatties how disgusting of them to eat so much cake!

"Just 1 more French fancy if you please..." Haha

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By *asonnosaMMan
over a year ago

Grantham

Hahahaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

Why would anyone be hurt by you preferring a size 8 woman?

You'd think, but a lot of people seemed pretty pissed off

Because he likes slim women? What happened to everyone has preferences? Lol

I'm all for personal preference, it's the manner in which those preferences are put across which can piss people off

I think it was more that fab should be called bbw central that pissed people off. If he had just stated his preference to size 8 no one would have bothered. Just no need for the final sentence.

Exactly. Some people have no class. As proved time after time on here.

You are so right, no class whatsoever some people. Tut tut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

Why would anyone be hurt by you preferring a size 8 woman?

You'd think, but a lot of people seemed pretty pissed off

Because he likes slim women? What happened to everyone has preferences? Lol

I'm all for personal preference, it's the manner in which those preferences are put across which can piss people off

I think it was more that fab should be called bbw central that pissed people off. If he had just stated his preference to size 8 no one would have bothered. Just no need for the final sentence.

Exactly. Some people have no class. As proved time after time on here.

You are so right, no class whatsoever some people. Tut tut.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"But My question Is What size Is BBw? I would class myself As curvy But Maybe I'm BBw Idk

I used to describe myself as large, and got told off by a few guys for it, lol. So now I've gone with ample. I have wobbly bits where there shouldn't be so I'm definitely not curvy.

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By *urvybrunette91Woman
over a year ago

tidworth

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

I'm sure all us bigger ladies will get over it

I won't... I'm heartbroken.

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

"But My question Is What size Is BBw? I would class myself As curvy But Maybe I'm BBw Idk

I used to describe myself as large, and got told off by a few guys for it, lol. So now I've gone with ample. I have wobbly bits where there shouldn't be so I'm definitely not curvy. "

Everyone sees big as different

I would say I was big built, I know I'm not a siz 20+ but I also think I'm bigger than curvy

I have a nasty belly, I've had three sections and because of this my stomach muscles are fooked, I have a saggy over hang that's more or a roll than a curve so I put ample, I call it the deflated balloon look

To me curvy is slim with shape not rolls

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"But My question Is What size Is BBw? I would class myself As curvy But Maybe I'm BBw Idk

I used to describe myself as large, and got told off by a few guys for it, lol. So now I've gone with ample. I have wobbly bits where there shouldn't be so I'm definitely not curvy.

Everyone sees big as different

I would say I was big built, I know I'm not a siz 20+ but I also think I'm bigger than curvy

I have a nasty belly, I've had three sections and because of this my stomach muscles are fooked, I have a saggy over hand that's more or a roll than a curve so I put ample

To me curvy is slim with shape not rolls "

I'd agree with this - ask 10 people to define what the body sizes on here mean, and you will get 10 different answers... I went for average (I'm a size 10 usually) as I'm not slim or athletic (I don't have a 6 pack) and I got told off for using curvy!

Mind you, go into 10 different shops and buy 10 different dresses in the same size, and there are vast differences there too, so who is to blame us all for being confused...

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Everyone sees big as different

I would say I was big built, I know I'm not a siz 20+ but I also think I'm bigger than curvy

To me curvy is slim with shape not rolls "

I agree, I'm a size 18 with a saggy spare tyre. Definitely not curvy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But My question Is What size Is BBw? I would class myself As curvy But Maybe I'm BBw Idk

I used to describe myself as large, and got told off by a few guys for it, lol. So now I've gone with ample. I have wobbly bits where there shouldn't be so I'm definitely not curvy.

Everyone sees big as different

I would say I was big built, I know I'm not a siz 20+ but I also think I'm bigger than curvy

I have a nasty belly, I've had three sections and because of this my stomach muscles are fooked, I have a saggy over hand that's more or a roll than a curve so I put ample

To me curvy is slim with shape not rolls

Mind you, go into 10 different shops and buy 10 different dresses in the same size, and there are vast differences there too, so who is to blame us all for being confused...

That's because curvy on here means fat

May as well be honest

So when a lady describes herself as curvy who is curvy people tell her she's not because when they look at her pics they expect to see a fat woman

I think that makes sence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can relate to all this, I was a size 18-20 now an 8-10!

Wish I could go up a size or 2 but I can't! Love being both sizes - it's the person inside that counts

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"But My question Is What size Is BBw? I would class myself As curvy But Maybe I'm BBw Idk

I used to describe myself as large, and got told off by a few guys for it, lol. So now I've gone with ample. I have wobbly bits where there shouldn't be so I'm definitely not curvy.

Everyone sees big as different

I would say I was big built, I know I'm not a siz 20+ but I also think I'm bigger than curvy

I have a nasty belly, I've had three sections and because of this my stomach muscles are fooked, I have a saggy over hand that's more or a roll than a curve so I put ample

To me curvy is slim with shape not rolls

Mind you, go into 10 different shops and buy 10 different dresses in the same size, and there are vast differences there too, so who is to blame us all for being confused...

That's because curvy on here means fat

May as well be honest

So when a lady describes herself as curvy who is curvy people tell her she's not because when they look at her pics they expect to see a fat woman

I think that makes sence

Yeah, I'd figured that one out, but glad its not just me that sees it that way

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By *weetebonypussyWoman
over a year ago

manchester

So basically I'm fat

I think I'll stick to being delicious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of it has to do with inner confidence and learning to love yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But My question Is What size Is BBw? I would class myself As curvy But Maybe I'm BBw Idk

I used to describe myself as large, and got told off by a few guys for it, lol. So now I've gone with ample. I have wobbly bits where there shouldn't be so I'm definitely not curvy.

Everyone sees big as different

I would say I was big built, I know I'm not a siz 20+ but I also think I'm bigger than curvy

I have a nasty belly, I've had three sections and because of this my stomach muscles are fooked, I have a saggy over hand that's more or a roll than a curve so I put ample

To me curvy is slim with shape not rolls

Mind you, go into 10 different shops and buy 10 different dresses in the same size, and there are vast differences there too, so who is to blame us all for being confused...

That's because curvy on here means fat

May as well be honest

So when a lady describes herself as curvy who is curvy people tell her she's not because when they look at her pics they expect to see a fat woman

I think that makes sence

Yeah, I'd figured that one out, but glad its not just me that sees it that way

I had curvy but changed it to large because my waist is currently bigger than it should be. I get at least an email a day telling me I've chosen the wrong category, but given I'm 5'10, a size 18, obese with big feet, large felt appropriate. When the spare tyre situation improves I might be curvy again.

It's so subjective anyway, and I'm pretty sure people just go off the photos in any case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate all those awful fatties how disgusting of them to eat so much cake!

"Just 1 more French fancy if you please..." Haha"

just had to put my pjs on as undoing my jeans after dinner was still not enough .. haha

got some left overs if anyone wants some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's so subjective anyway, and I'm pretty sure people just go off the photos in any case."

I know I've gone off using your photos

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well I won't be changing my profile to curvy anytime soon.

I'm a 16 and think I'm pleasantly plump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy and happy. Although have been called fat on here, usually after I have declined someone's kind offer

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By *akemetobedeyesWoman
over a year ago

Knaresborough

Confidence is sexy regardless of size x much more important

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over a year ago

"But My question Is What size Is BBw? I would class myself As curvy But Maybe I'm BBw Idk

I used to describe myself as large, and got told off by a few guys for it, lol. So now I've gone with ample. I have wobbly bits where there shouldn't be so I'm definitely not curvy.

Everyone sees big as different

I would say I was big built, I know I'm not a siz 20+ but I also think I'm bigger than curvy

I have a nasty belly, I've had three sections and because of this my stomach muscles are fooked, I have a saggy over hand that's more or a roll than a curve so I put ample

To me curvy is slim with shape not rolls

Mind you, go into 10 different shops and buy 10 different dresses in the same size, and there are vast differences there too, so who is to blame us all for being confused...

That's because curvy on here means fat

May as well be honest

So when a lady describes herself as curvy who is curvy people tell her she's not because when they look at her pics they expect to see a fat woman

I think that makes sence

Yeah, I'd figured that one out, but glad its not just me that sees it that way

It's so subjective anyway, and I'm pretty sure people just go off the photos in any case."

Sometimes tho it's hard to get a true idea from the photos displayed if they are of close up body parts, from the past, blurred etc etc....

That's one of the reasons I meet socially first, you are what you are in reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Curvy and happy. Although have been called fat on here, usually after I have declined someone's kind offer

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over a year ago

"It's so subjective anyway, and I'm pretty sure people just go off the photos in any case.

I know I've gone off using your photos

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over a year ago

"But My question Is What size Is BBw? I would class myself As curvy But Maybe I'm BBw Idk

I used to describe myself as large, and got told off by a few guys for it, lol. So now I've gone with ample. I have wobbly bits where there shouldn't be so I'm definitely not curvy.

Everyone sees big as different

I would say I was big built, I know I'm not a siz 20+ but I also think I'm bigger than curvy

I have a nasty belly, I've had three sections and because of this my stomach muscles are fooked, I have a saggy over hand that's more or a roll than a curve so I put ample

To me curvy is slim with shape not rolls

Mind you, go into 10 different shops and buy 10 different dresses in the same size, and there are vast differences there too, so who is to blame us all for being confused...

That's because curvy on here means fat

May as well be honest

So when a lady describes herself as curvy who is curvy people tell her she's not because when they look at her pics they expect to see a fat woman

I think that makes sence

Yeah, I'd figured that one out, but glad its not just me that sees it that way

It's so subjective anyway, and I'm pretty sure people just go off the photos in any case.

Sometimes tho it's hard to get a true idea from the photos displayed if they are of close up body parts, from the past, blurred etc etc....

That's one of the reasons I meet socially first, you are what you are in reality.

Well yes, me too, but no one has run away screaming yet, they know exactly what to expect....because of my pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Curvy and happy. Although have been called fat on here, usually after I have declined someone's kind offer

We all get that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But My question Is What size Is BBw? I would class myself As curvy But Maybe I'm BBw Idk

I used to describe myself as large, and got told off by a few guys for it, lol. So now I've gone with ample. I have wobbly bits where there shouldn't be so I'm definitely not curvy.

Everyone sees big as different

I would say I was big built, I know I'm not a siz 20+ but I also think I'm bigger than curvy

I have a nasty belly, I've had three sections and because of this my stomach muscles are fooked, I have a saggy over hand that's more or a roll than a curve so I put ample

To me curvy is slim with shape not rolls

Mind you, go into 10 different shops and buy 10 different dresses in the same size, and there are vast differences there too, so who is to blame us all for being confused...

That's because curvy on here means fat

May as well be honest

So when a lady describes herself as curvy who is curvy people tell her she's not because when they look at her pics they expect to see a fat woman

I think that makes sence

Yeah, I'd figured that one out, but glad its not just me that sees it that way

It's so subjective anyway, and I'm pretty sure people just go off the photos in any case.

Sometimes tho it's hard to get a true idea from the photos displayed if they are of close up body parts, from the past, blurred etc etc....

That's one of the reasons I meet socially first, you are what you are in reality.

Well yes, me too, but no one has run away screaming yet, they know exactly what to expect....because of my pictures

I'm sure they haven't, there's more to a person than their shape after all!!

As you mentioned above tho you're emailed daily with people telling you you've picked the wrong size with 'large' which I assume comes from after they've looked at your photos.

Photos are indeed a much better gauge than words on a profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Curvy and happy. Although have been called fat on here, usually after I have declined someone's kind offer

We all get that "

I think size 8 women get that haha!

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I've given up worrying about what I am. At my fattest I didn't consider myself a BBW since I am shortish so not big vertically and beauty is a judgement I don't think I should make for myself describing myself to strangers. Ample seems a polite way of describing rotund (or at least it was in the novels I read growing up) and I do go in and out so didn't think that fitted my shape either. So I put curvy. I'm the same shape I was 3 dress sizes ago, just in a smaller ratio. And anyone can just look at my photos and make their own mind up until there's a PPW category (podgy pretty - I would be happy with that as a description).

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By *ubblyeve OP Woman
over a year ago

thurles

never ment to offend if I did so sorry my son actually told me today that saying coloured is wrong if it is what is correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been called fat so many times it's hilarious I used to be huge a size 28 and dropped 8 stone and still going but no matter what size you are everyone should be treated equally as nice

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over a year ago

How would a "would you shag a fat guy" thread go

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"never ment to offend if I did so sorry my son actually told me today that saying coloured is wrong if it is what is correct "

My black friends, acquaintances and colleagues call themselves black, some of them use the term coloured to refer to mixed race people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would a "would you shag a fat guy" thread go "

You can't shag a fat guy. Can't get into his cock for massive belly.

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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago

Clacton-On-Sea, Essex

"How would a "would you shag a fat guy" thread go "

Where count me in

As long as it's not a bald fat guy I'd give it a go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person some women just look abnormal being large the same as some women look abnormal being small. There's no right or wrong it's all down to personal preference and happiness of the parties involved (if you have to hide someone from your mates then you clearly give 1 fuck to many!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would a "would you shag a fat guy" thread go

Where count me in

As long as it's not a bald fat guy I'd give it a go

Thats hubby out then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" (He definitely missed a trick not suggesting fatswingers though, I might set that one up myself

) "

You're 13 years late.

Someone registered that domain (.com) in 2002.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People are people. Everyone is different and are attracted to different things. It would be a pretty boring world if we were all "average" I just hope all the men here with big beer tummies are loved as much as the BBW. s should be the same for over weight men ..here feel the love .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would a "would you shag a fat guy" thread go

You can't shag a fat guy. Can't get into his cock for massive belly. "
yes it would go something like that I am sure and I find it sad as this site should be for everyone.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"How would a "would you shag a fat guy" thread go

You can't shag a fat guy. Can't get into his cock for massive belly. yes it would go something like that I am sure and I find it sad as this site should be for everyone."

same as every thread about body size though, it will appeal to some and not to others. The site is for everyone, just doesn't guarantee instant attraction or meets.

I'm not everyone's cup of tea, and I don't blame the site for it. Nor do I expect everyone to fancy me, or me to fancy everyone else, but I do believe there is someone for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"wow lady bee well done s the secret. is that you in the pic if so omg fair play.

So inspiring xxx I can usually shift the first stone but then lose my mojo. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand all this 'people tell me I've selected the wrong category so I changed it' business. I describe myself how I believe I am, and it's not up to anyone else to demand I change to their perception of me and I certainly tell anyone who messaged me exactly what they can do with their demand.

Curvy is a shape and not a size. I am bigger in the chest and hip areas than my waist. If a stranger doesn't agree then good for them. However it makes no difference to me what they think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are nice, some are not. Like any body shape really."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't eat a whole one, but id have a damn good try

(her)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a big lass I quite enjoy the company of a big guy and I've never had a problem getting jiggy !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They get a big plus from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not my thing, not really into having to lift a massive fat flap out of the way to give oral....

Do like a big bum though but not a fat bum one that's meat and muscle not just lard.

One thing I find funny is "curvy" though, all humans are curvy have you ever seen an angular human?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Not my thing, not really into having to lift a massive fat flap out of the way to give oral....

Do like a big bum though but not a fat bum one that's meat and muscle not just lard.

One thing I find funny is "curvy" though, all humans are curvy have you ever seen an angular human?"

Yes, Jeremy Vine.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"My personal preference is for size eight women,sorry if that's hurts,but I think they should rename fab to bbw Central .

Damn. My size 6 ass will just have to miss out..."

bum pads?

on the other hand, maybe give him a miss; it'll be tough but you'll get over him, eventually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally i adore ladies with a fuller figure as there is nothing more sensual that snuggling into an ample bosom in my view

i always tend to be attracted to curvy kittens as skinny mini's like me are like cuddling a bag of bones n when with a lady i want delicious curves to explore as i casserole my lady over a constant heat of passion n desire knowing i am with what deem a real woman

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