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If Your Woman Refused To Suck Cock?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Need an honest opinion guys.

What would your response be if your partner/wife/girlfriend suddenly stated that she no longer wanted to suck cock again - ever.

Siren and I were having this discussion (No, she hasn't said she won't do it again, it just came up in convo), and she asked me what I would say/feel if she ever said that to me.

I told her that it would cause a fundamental shift in our sexual relationship and I wouldn't be very happy about it. (My actual words were, "a woman who won't suck cock is about as useful as an umbrella in a hurricane!")

So guys, in all honesty, what would your reaction be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Serious answer?

I would want to find out what the shift is all about - perhaps there is a good reason why somebody suddenly changes their sexual behaviour.

I would seek to resolve it...

If all failed - I guess it would depend on the overall relationship and its quality that would determine my next course of action.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Let's say she said that she's never really enjoyed it but did it to please her man.

(Please don't read anything into this as it isn't about me and Siren, it's just for discussion)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's say she said that she's never really enjoyed it but did it to please her man.

(Please don't read anything into this as it isn't about me and Siren, it's just for discussion)"

Interesting this one - it is about being honest in a relationship, which applies to all areas including sexuality. I guess there are some things people do to please without actually enjoying it themselves.

I would want to know what shift the relationship has gone through that promoted this change in ability/ readiness to compromise? Often it is about hidden anger and resentment which comes out in this way, i.e. that one partner suddenly no longer "enjoys" certain aspects of the (sexual) relationship?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok honest opinion,it would be like losing a arm,i know im biased but Lou can suck a beach ball through a hosepipe but if she said she wouldnt anymore it wouldnt change the fact i love her,i suppose i would have to join yoga classes and see if i could do it myself lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In an ideal world I love big breasted slender women who are totally sexually open minded... And have been lucky over the years. Then I married a woman totally flat chested with a backside which kept the tide out and an encyclopedic knowledge of what she would not do sexually.

If you love someone it all comes down to priorities. IMHO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nige would have a fit! lol. But seriously i can't see me wanting to stop as we both like it.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

His first answer was " there is no chance of you ever wanting to stop sucking "

The next answer was " I would pack your binbags"

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Rob says he would find some other sucker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In an ideal world I love big breasted slender women who are totally sexually open minded... And have been lucky over the years. Then I married a woman totally flat chested with a backside which kept the tide out and an encyclopedic knowledge of what she would not do sexually.

If you love someone it all comes down to priorities. IMHO"

That tickled me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I didn't suck cock, how would I get new shoes, diamonds and tiaras???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuinly would not bother me, not a huge fan of recieving.

If I was stopped from giving I would walk !

Completly honest answer.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

turn Gay...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the many reasons why I left my ex-hubby is that he does not like HJs and BJs!

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

If my misses stopped BJing first thing I would do is check her pulse

Seriously, I would need to know why but there is only one answer I wouldn't want to hear and that's 'I've never liked doing it' that answer would rock our relationship to the very core as it would open a can of worms in respect of everything else we do.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

It wasn't a sudden shift, it was always that way.

And it wasn't a showstopper, although I did miss it.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Need an honest opinion guys.

What would your response be if your partner/wife/girlfriend suddenly stated that she no longer wanted to suck cock again - ever.

Siren and I were having this discussion (No, she hasn't said she won't do it again, it just came up in convo), and she asked me what I would say/feel if she ever said that to me.

I told her that it would cause a fundamental shift in our sexual relationship and I wouldn't be very happy about it. (My actual words were, "a woman who won't suck cock is about as useful as an umbrella in a hurricane!")

So guys, in all honesty, what would your reaction be?"

What do you mean started to - she's never.... I accept that it's not for everyone - even though it is damned nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had this with my ex he was shocking everytime i had to give him a bj and he was happy for me to spend all night down there getting damm lock jaw , yet i could count on one hand the amount of times he perforned oral on me , his reaoning was he didnt like doing it so after 8 years together i gave up doing it we lasted all of 6 months lol he made me feel like i was sex mad for so much as asking him to give me oral oh well his loss xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i had this with my ex he was shocking everytime i had to give him a bj and he was happy for me to spend all night down there getting damm lock jaw , yet i could count on one hand the amount of times he perforned oral on me , his reaoning was he didnt like doing it so after 8 years together i gave up doing it we lasted all of 6 months lol he made me feel like i was sex mad for so much as asking him to give me oral oh well his loss xx"

It's interesting that you raise the subject of him not giving you oral but expecting it from you.

I'll admit that I don't give siren as much oral as she would like and that stems back from a long time past girlfriend who wasn't as ..ahem... clean as she should be and one bad experience can affect how you _iew a certain thing from that point on. I go to great lengths to ensure that I am clean down below and I need to know that she is the same before venturing down there because one whiff of anything unpleasant and I'll be resurfacing faster than a submarine with a rocket up it's arse. Happily, Siren has a pussy that simply doesn't have any unpleasant odours (it's quite sweet actually) and she's quite fastidious about genital hygiene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally it wouldnt bother me that much anyway its not a major part of sex anyway

I love ta give oral but aint really that bothered if i dont receive it xx

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Go back to doing it myself

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

My first wife sucked before we married, but when we married stopped doing it almost immediately for that exact reason, she hated the feel of it in her mouth!

She however just loved oral being done to her and couldn't equate the fact that I was willing to do it to her, but she wouldn't do it to me, as a problem in our sex lives!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you love the person you are married to which hopefully you do lol ... it should not matter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In an ideal world I love big breasted slender women who are totally sexually open minded... And have been lucky over the years. Then I married a woman totally flat chested with a backside which kept the tide out and an encyclopedic knowledge of what she would not do sexually.

If you love someone it all comes down to priorities. IMHO

Thought I was the only one to notice that.

That tickled me! "

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By *ertnbeckyCouple
over a year ago

oldham


"Personally it wouldnt bother me that much anyway its not a major part of sex anyway

I love ta give oral but aint really that bothered if i dont receive it xx "
becky says when is she moving in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont think it would bother me to much as i have to be in the mood to have it sucked i prefer her to kiss me if that stopped it would cause problems but thats just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i had this with my ex he was shocking everytime i had to give him a bj and he was happy for me to spend all night down there getting damm lock jaw , yet i could count on one hand the amount of times he perforned oral on me , his reaoning was he didnt like doing it so after 8 years together i gave up doing it we lasted all of 6 months lol he made me feel like i was sex mad for so much as asking him to give me oral oh well his loss xx

It's interesting that you raise the subject of him not giving you oral but expecting it from you.

I'll admit that I don't give siren as much oral as she would like and that stems back from a long time past girlfriend who wasn't as ..ahem... clean as she should be and one bad experience can affect how you _iew a certain thing from that point on. I go to great lengths to ensure that I am clean down below and I need to know that she is the same before venturing down there because one whiff of anything unpleasant and I'll be resurfacing faster than a submarine with a rocket up it's arse. Happily, Siren has a pussy that simply doesn't have any unpleasant odours (it's quite sweet actually) and she's quite fastidious about genital hygiene "

well i can assure it was never an issue with that , i have spoken to a couple of his exes and he was the same with them he just didnt want to i understand re the hygiene side of things , but just think as it wasnt only me it was him being selfish whilst i enjoy givng blow jobs i didnt see why i should do it all night long for him

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford


"Personally it wouldnt bother me that much anyway its not a major part of sex anyway

I love ta give oral but aint really that bothered if i dont receive it xx "

You like to give... I'll remember that Saturday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If my woman refused to suck my cock i would just put some whipped cream on my cock and get the bitch to suck it then she a lover on cream lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldnt bother me one bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Serious answer?

I would want to find out what the shift is all about - perhaps there is a good reason why somebody suddenly changes their sexual behaviour.

I would seek to resolve it...

If all failed - I guess it would depend on the overall relationship and its quality that would determine my next course of action."

agree completely, there would surely be a problem behind this. I love licking and sucking cock, however I do like it to finish inside me and could not do it for extended periods, that I would not enjoy.

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