FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Does anyone remember when this site actually was 'fab'???

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If it isn't pushy single blokes who can't take NO for answer, it's 'pussy power' cpls who insist on facial pics even though their profile doesn't have any either but don't turn up anyway that seem to be dragging this site down!!!...The chatroom cam's are poor, the local updates are few and far between and conversations between like minded adults are regularly interrupted by the 'no sex pls we're swingers' brigade. Was it always this bad???

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Oi!! How dare you!! You single fella. !!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah the weekly "look see I'm not a like all those other pushy single blokes" thread.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the site has been taken over by escorts and prozzies and advertisers who want your details....

in extreme circumstances i can imagine this site is a goldmine for hackers and blackmailers!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I just answered on the other thread

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know, a single man with an opinion!!! I do think some other guys let the side down a bit as it is a regular gripe on here but we ain't all the same...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Well after nearly 10 years I'm still loving it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

If it pissed me off that much I'd leave

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I know, a single man with an opinion!!! I do think some other guys let the side down a bit as it is a regular gripe on here but we ain't all the same..."

Single women and couples can behave just as badly as single guys.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Brilliant...if that's the only bit u can see then ur part of the problem!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site's what you make of it.

For us it's perfectly fine. We interact with nice folk through the forums, avoid the cock fests that are the chat rooms. It's easy to filter out the bullshitters and time wasters so we've never suffered those. If it's getting you down that much, click the UNLOS buttons.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Tbh surely the bad guys make it easier for the good ones to stand out

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"If it pissed me off that much I'd leave "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Brilliant...if that's the only bit u can see then ur part of the problem!"

If you quote who you are replying to then your answers will make more sense..,

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's not about being 'the misunderstood single guy' or wanting to leave...it's about trying to make it better!!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just answered on the other thread "

Ah glad about this, I thought I'd lost the plot, for a wee while.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a load of utter rubbish!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

The sites always been fine for me.

If it wasn't Id leave, it's meant to be fun not a chore or stress inducing.

That's my answer from the other thread you posted as it was closed.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Power to the pussies"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not about being 'the misunderstood single guy' or wanting to leave...it's about trying to make it better!!!"

By whining?

If you want to make it better then do something constructive what your basically doing here is saying

"whaaaa you're all boring and im not getting my voyeuristic rocks off any more be more interesting for me!" .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just answered on the other thread "

Too long to check, probably not worth the effort to check

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"It's not about being 'the misunderstood single guy' or wanting to leave...it's about trying to make it better!!!"

All I read was a whinge,there were no suggestions about making the site better

What would make it better for you?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Don't discuss the OP profile please

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I just answered on the other thread

Too long to check, probably not worth the effort to check "

It's ok I reposted it on here as the other one was closed

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"The site's what you make of it.

For us it's perfectly fine. We interact with nice folk through the forums, avoid the cock fests that are the chat rooms. It's easy to filter out the bullshitters and time wasters so we've never suffered those. If it's getting you down that much, click the UNLOS buttons."

What is that - UNLOS

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"The site's what you make of it.

For us it's perfectly fine. We interact with nice folk through the forums, avoid the cock fests that are the chat rooms. It's easy to filter out the bullshitters and time wasters so we've never suffered those. If it's getting you down that much, click the UNLOS buttons.

What is that - UNLOS"

User no longer on site

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know, a single man with an opinion!!! I do think some other guys let the side down a bit as it is a regular gripe on here but we ain't all the same...

Single women and couples can behave just as badly as single guys."

Worse in some instances!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it's OK. I do hope the site owners ignore griping like this. We've had some really successful meets over the years. It's much better than other monthly subscription sites that we've tried. It is possible to find what you are looking for now and again. There are some absolute gems in here, you just gotta keep looking.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The site's what you make of it.

For us it's perfectly fine. We interact with nice folk through the forums, avoid the cock fests that are the chat rooms. It's easy to filter out the bullshitters and time wasters so we've never suffered those. If it's getting you down that much, click the UNLOS buttons.

What is that - UNLOS"

Delete profile

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 05/05/15 09:37:26]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

This site is fab ,

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im trying to make it better for myself, not the sites fault, some men here are idiots.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"[Removed by poster at 05/05/15 09:37:26]"

Thought you were going to say somebody else tried to find those coordinates.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"Im trying to make it better for myself, not the sites fault, some men here are idiots. "

And a lot of women are idiots.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's pretty fab to be honest. It's a strange place sometimes, but maintain your integrity and carry on regardless. Don't worry about what others are doing or not doing.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's not about being 'the misunderstood single guy' or wanting to leave...it's about trying to make it better!!!"

In your opinion what could be done to improve things?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im trying to make it better for myself, not the sites fault, some men here are idiots. "

i think the single women are worse! A sight for sore eyes

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not about being 'the misunderstood single guy' or wanting to leave...it's about trying to make it better!!!

By whining?

If you want to make it better then do something constructive what your basically doing here is saying

"whaaaa you're all boring and im not getting my voyeuristic rocks off any more be more interesting for me!" .

"

Funny to see when hypocrites take the moral high ground...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it was better three years ago but I don't know how much of that is due to us being new to it all then or whether it's made up of different people now. Probably a bit of both.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know, a single man with an opinion!!! I do think some other guys let the side down a bit as it is a regular gripe on here but we ain't all the same..."

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I tried a few other sites but i have and i am having lots of fun on here...

thank you fab swingers.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like the site, but all the guy has done is give an opinion, albeit a bit whiny, but it's still a valid opinion and all everybody has done is slate him, in a weird way he's had his concerns proved right by the abuse.

We couldn't use the forums for ages because of a fab fuck up and as fun as they can be at times we try to stay away because it seems some horrible people do nothing but troll the forums looking for someone to take the piss out of! Some people need to get a life, because you're a forum regular it doesn't make you some sort of fab deity!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would make the site better for you OP? If you have some sensible suggestions admin might take them on board

Oh and I can remember, it was 40seconds ago before I started reading this thread.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not about being 'the misunderstood single guy' or wanting to leave...it's about trying to make it better!!!

By whining?

If you want to make it better then do something constructive what your basically doing here is saying

"whaaaa you're all boring and im not getting my voyeuristic rocks off any more be more interesting for me!" .

Funny to see when hypocrites take the moral high ground..."

Where's my hypocrisy?

I'd also argue where's the morality in this discussion to claim high ground.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're doing a lot of moaning OP but so far no suggestions from you about how YOU would improve things

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found since I've softened my profile text I'm getting more fancy a fuk messages n a few even worse ones too

I just ignore n block

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people need to get a life, because you're a forum regular it doesn't make you some sort of fab deity!"

Speak for yourselves

(No autographs, please)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Works for us.. You only get out what you put in...

Regardless of your gender.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like the site, but all the guy has done is give an opinion, albeit a bit whiny, but it's still a valid opinion and all everybody has done is slate him, in a weird way he's had his concerns proved right by the abuse.

We couldn't use the forums for ages because of a fab fuck up and as fun as they can be at times we try to stay away because it seems some horrible people do nothing but troll the forums looking for someone to take the piss out of! Some people need to get a life, because you're a forum regular it doesn't make you some sort of fab deity!"

Don't burst their bubble

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Some people need to get a life, because you're a forum regular it doesn't make you some sort of fab deity!

Speak for yourselves

(No autographs, please)"

Oh! I was just going to send you mine

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Works for us.. You only get out what you put in...

Regardless of your gender."

Some don't get to put it in. Think that's the problem.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people need to get a life, because you're a forum regular it doesn't make you some sort of fab deity!

Speak for yourselves

(No autographs, please)"

We'll make ya famous

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's not about being 'the misunderstood single guy' or wanting to leave...it's about trying to make it better!!!

By whining?

If you want to make it better then do something constructive what your basically doing here is saying

"whaaaa you're all boring and im not getting my voyeuristic rocks off any more be more interesting for me!" .

Funny to see when hypocrites take the moral high ground..."

What moral high ground?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *itSamCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

There are problems with many sites and good things with many sites. Why not hunk of ideas and put it to suggestions. Why would a single guy also know so much about guys that do not take no for an answer. Do you have that many requests from guys? Just curious.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Works for us.. You only get out what you put in...

Regardless of your gender.

Some don't get to put it in. Think that's the problem."

Nooooooooooooo you've got to put in before you get.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like fab. x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like the site, but all the guy has done is give an opinion, albeit a bit whiny, but it's still a valid opinion and all everybody has done is slate him, in a weird way he's had his concerns proved right by the abuse.

We couldn't use the forums for ages because of a fab fuck up and as fun as they can be at times we try to stay away because it seems some horrible people do nothing but troll the forums looking for someone to take the piss out of! Some people need to get a life, because you're a forum regular it doesn't make you some sort of fab deity!"

Well said

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"If it pissed me off that much I'd leave "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I asked a question and I've had no answer...I've just had to defend myself. With a few exceptions I think most of you have managed to prove my point...thank u.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are problems with many sites and good things with many sites. Why not hunk of ideas and put it to suggestions. Why would a single guy also know so much about guys that do not take no for an answer. Do you have that many requests from guys? Just curious."

Yes, I often get guys contact me but it's mostly comments from other users about let-downs, fakes, time wasters etc.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I asked a question and I've had no answer...I've just had to defend myself. With a few exceptions I think most of you have managed to prove my point...thank u."

A few people asked what would your suggestions be to improve thing?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well..the problem is obvious to me.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I asked a question and I've had no answer...I've just had to defend myself. With a few exceptions I think most of you have managed to prove my point...thank u."

We've proved your point that single guys are pushy, couples ask for face pics, the cams are boring and there's no local updates near where you live?

Impressive.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I asked a question and I've had no answer...I've just had to defend myself. With a few exceptions I think most of you have managed to prove my point...thank u."

True but here's the thing .

Less than 1% of fab use the forums .

We have had 128 meets off fab in 5 months and not one of them has ever been on the forum .

This speaks volumes and is probably why we often feel out of place on the forums ourselves

Keep your chin up , be proactive and don't pay too much heed to negativity .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I asked a question and I've had no answer...I've just had to defend myself. With a few exceptions I think most of you have managed to prove my point...thank u."

To answer your question "was it always this bad?"

I don't think it's bad now so no it's not.

I had my first account 4 years ago and anything I've wanted has always been available.

If you are only looking to do one specific thing (watching people have sex) you're pricing yourself out of 80% or more of the market.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it isn't pushy single blokes who can't take NO for answer, it's 'pussy power' cpls who insist on facial pics even though their profile doesn't have any either but don't turn up anyway that seem to be dragging this site down!!!...The chatroom cam's are poor, the local updates are few and far between and conversations between like minded adults are regularly interrupted by the 'no sex pls we're swingers' brigade. Was it always this bad??? "

The power is only in the pussy if you give it to them. Get a grip of yourself and think "cock power"!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I asked a question and I've had no answer...I've just had to defend myself. With a few exceptions I think most of you have managed to prove my point...thank u.

True but here's the thing .

Less than 1% of fab use the forums .

We have had 128 meets off fab in 5 months and not one of them has ever been on the forum .

This speaks volumes and is probably why we often feel out of place on the forums ourselves

Keep your chin up , be proactive and don't pay too much heed to negativity .

"

That right there is the problem. There's nobody to meet because you've taken them

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Fab...

That is all

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I asked a question and I've had no answer...I've just had to defend myself. With a few exceptions I think most of you have managed to prove my point...thank u.

True but here's the thing .

Less than 1% of fab use the forums .

We have had 128 meets off fab in 5 months and not one of them has ever been on the forum .

This speaks volumes and is probably why we often feel out of place on the forums ourselves

Keep your chin up , be proactive and don't pay too much heed to negativity .

That right there is the problem. There's nobody to meet because you've taken them "

Sorry about that

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is what it is.....accept it and do your best.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Just to clarify a bit more.....the man is not asking for help with meets or his profile so please don't discuss it.

He is posting a rant that is all

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I asked a question and I've had no answer...I've just had to defend myself. With a few exceptions I think most of you have managed to prove my point...thank u.

A few people asked what would your suggestions be to improve thing?"

You say you're trying to improve the site; what would improve it for you?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't have any answers (I was the one initially asking the question). Maybe I am on the wrong site...but I'm clearly not alone.

My preferences are based on previous real life experiences, that's all.

However, this site feels like an advertisement for clubs most of the time.

I'm not ranting and I'm not asking for help.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I asked a question and I've had no answer...I've just had to defend myself. With a few exceptions I think most of you have managed to prove my point...thank u."

its so easy to play "victim".... just as it is easy to blame everything going on around you.... everybody's elses fault but mine! oh woe is me! they ruin it for everyone else....

sorry...... thats rubbish!!!!

the "single guys ruining it for everyone else" line is the biggest kop out on the site!!!! I don't determine how you get on on the site.... and I hope to dear lord you don't affect mine, because the way you are coming across isn't exactly "happy clappy cheery" right now....

you can stand out.... if you want to

you can avoid anyone who you think is an arse.... if you want to

the site as it stands offers you chances and avenues to network and meet.... if you want to

the onus is on you!!!!

take advantage of all of them, some of them, or none of them..... thats on you!!!!

easy to blame the site... but i am not hearing you say or suggest anything constructive....

blame the site, blame other single guys, blame power couple.......

maybe its time you took some of the blame, ask yourself what can i do to improve my chances....

if the answer is nothing... if its causing you this much angst... leave... simple as....

but i believe every has the capacity to improve their chance.... but that is on you!!!!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know, a single man with an opinion!!! I do think some other guys let the side down a bit as it is a regular gripe on here but we ain't all the same...

Single women and couples can behave just as badly as single guys."

agreed single women can be a right handful at times!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I don't have any answers (I was the one initially asking the question).

.

."

Ok...my answer is no the site hasn't changed for us, we are still getting out of it what we want

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When men out number woman and couples they can be very picky and if the numbers here was same would be a very different story I am sure .. Still people would be picky just make it a level playing field for everyone ... If your pissed off maybe hide profile have a rest come back and see if that helps after some time away .. X

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have any answers (I was the one initially asking the question).

.

.

Ok...my answer is no the site hasn't changed for us, we are still getting out of it what we want "

A never ending supply of used boxers and silhouette tears?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I like it here

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I don't have any answers (I was the one initially asking the question).

.

.

Ok...my answer is no the site hasn't changed for us, we are still getting out of it what we want

A never ending supply of used boxers and silhouette tears?"

I know it is 10 o'clock but I am only on my second cup of tea so brain not in gear yet so have no clue what you mean

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have any answers (I was the one initially asking the question).

.

.

Ok...my answer is no the site hasn't changed for us, we are still getting out of it what we want

A never ending supply of used boxers and silhouette tears?

I know it is 10 o'clock but I am only on my second cup of tea so brain not in gear yet so have no clue what you mean "

I knew it was too early for something so abstract.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I don't have any answers (I was the one initially asking the question).

.

.

Ok...my answer is no the site hasn't changed for us, we are still getting out of it what we want

A never ending supply of used boxers and silhouette tears?

I know it is 10 o'clock but I am only on my second cup of tea so brain not in gear yet so have no clue what you mean

I knew it was too early for something so abstract.

"

Sorry, you must be too clever for me....if you explain I will ask Mr ruggers what you mean as he is cleverer

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI

Do you expect things to stay the same and never change?

Looking for casual/supplementary fun has evolved from personal ads in magazines, to internet chat rooms and forums, to profile sites like Fab and now new technology apps are changing it again.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston


"I like it here "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a woman I'm not targeted by women trying to make money or advertisers trying to get me to go to their websites to make money from me. If I had that constantly it would annoy me,I would probably leave if it got so bad. I do get a few men just wanting a quick fix but I don't entertain them. I'm still finding men who I'm attracted to as much as I did 3 years ago.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have any answers (I was the one initially asking the question).

.

.

Ok...my answer is no the site hasn't changed for us, we are still getting out of it what we want

A never ending supply of used boxers and silhouette tears?

I know it is 10 o'clock but I am only on my second cup of tea so brain not in gear yet so have no clue what you mean

I knew it was too early for something so abstract.

Sorry, you must be too clever for me....if you explain I will ask Mr ruggers what you mean as he is cleverer "

Was just joking that if you wanted the tears/whining of the black silhouette profiles complaint about no meets you'd never be disappointed.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been on FAB almost 10years, get a bit pissed of at times with time wasters. But the good times out way the bad times. You only get out of "life" what you put into it. But agree its not just single guys that mess people about, a good few couples also.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't like it why stay? I like it. Nothing has changed in the last few years. No better no worse. All good.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never been advertised to, messed about or had any reason to feel annoyed about the site. Anything that hasn't worked out has generally bwen of my own doing not anyone else's. There have been the odd funny messages over the years but nothing that would cause me to question how good this site is.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I asked a question and I've had no answer...I've just had to defend myself. With a few exceptions I think most of you have managed to prove my point...thank u."

What point has been proven?

Due to the massive volume of folk on here, this site is a true reflection of life in that there is every type of person on here (good and bad) and to think it's going to be a big love in where everyone is happy and smily just isn't true.

If you look at the forum archives, go right back to the start and you'll see the same type of threads then as now 'I've been let down', 'why am I not getting meets', 'single guys are shit' etc, so I would guess in that respect no, things haven't changed at all, they've just gotten 'louder' with the advent of more and more people joining.

Someone else further up said it best, you can stand out...if you want to, you can avoid the idiots...if you want to etc and that's the best way to look at Fab.

Everyone uses it in their own way (which is probably part of the problem to be fair). Personally, we use it fairly sparingly in terms of meets and we have filters set so we don't hear from anyone we're not interested in and we've had a ball over the last two years without coming across any major bampots.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

It gets better as you mature OP.

You start to see things differently and realise that your success is in your own hands and you stop blaming things others are doing.

A lot of guys join with high expectations and are disappointed when they don't come to fruition, the answer is to not expect reward but to appreciate it when it happens.

Publicly throwing your toys out of the pram isn't the best idea, it will get you attention, however it won't be the type you seek.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"

Was just joking that if you wanted the tears/whining of the black silhouette profiles complaint about no meets you'd never be disappointed. "

Ah sorry, when I read it back again it isn't so unclear as I thought it was....sorry for spoiling your little joke

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"I think it's pretty fab to be honest. It's a strange place sometimes, but maintain your integrity and carry on regardless. Don't worry about what others are doing or not doing. "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't discuss the OP profile please "
...are you guys mods?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Don't discuss the OP profile please ...are you guys mods?"

Yes

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't discuss the OP profile please ...are you guys mods?

Yes "

Yeah watch it she's hard you know. x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I don't have any answers (I was the one initially asking the question). Maybe I am on the wrong site...but I'm clearly not alone.

My preferences are based on previous real life experiences, that's all.

However, this site feels like an advertisement for clubs most of the time.

I'm not ranting and I'm not asking for help."

its easy to blame.... not so easy to be constructive..... so in effect you are blaming for the sake of blaming.... single guys, power couples ect ect

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"I don't have any answers (I was the one initially asking the question). Maybe I am on the wrong site...but I'm clearly not alone.

My preferences are based on previous real life experiences, that's all.

However, this site feels like an advertisement for clubs most of the time.

I'm not ranting and I'm not asking for help.

its easy to blame.... not so easy to be constructive..... so in effect you are blaming for the sake of blaming.... single guys, power couples ect ect

"

I blame 'The Pussy Posse' where are they nowadays?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oe bloggs69Man
over a year ago

fife

Just another site with nice people n not so nice people,nutters,wannabes,fakes,dreamers..oh and the cliquey clubs but hey bash on as there's loads o sites nowadays

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it pissed me off that much I'd leave "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"If it isn't pushy single blokes who can't take NO for answer, it's 'pussy power' cpls who insist on facial pics even though their profile doesn't have any either but don't turn up anyway that seem to be dragging this site down!!!...The chatroom cam's are poor, the local updates are few and far between and conversations between like minded adults are regularly interrupted by the 'no sex pls we're swingers' brigade. Was it always this bad??? "

No ones begging you to be here - you know where the door is

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish there was a separate forum for all the whiney/whingey/ranting threads, all the crap in one easy to ignore section

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 05/05/15 17:04:06]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I have been on fab since day dot and still think its great.....have you thought that maybe...just maybe your the problem either with your expectations or how you use the site ..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well after nearly 10 years I'm still loving it "

Fabs only been running 7 or 8 year.

Only 89.7% sure though

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has someone locked the door OP? Can ye no get oot?....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think fabs what you make it!there's lots of nice ppl on here,

in the real world we don't get along with everyone! why should fab be different?

I think to many ppl join and expect a meet! it don't work like that sadly! as in real life you have to have a spark! then work on it from there

posting a cock pic and sending a poor oneliner won't cut it on here!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

In my opinion it isn't any better or worse (for us) in the last 4 years or so we've been here.

We find our enjoyment of the site depends on our mood/attitude.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Well after nearly 10 years I'm still loving it

Fabs only been running 7 or 8 year.

Only 89.7% sure though "

Think it was August 06 so it's nearly 9 years..... It's my age I get forgetful

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its allright and I only use the forums. I gave up the meeting bit yearssssssssssss ago lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top