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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been told several times that I am a caring and a very polite person.

Do women like men like me or prefer them a bit rough. If so what can I do to change myself.

Please no silly answers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer kind and polite.

The world is full of idiots, it's nice to find someone genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been told several times that I am a caring and a very polite person.

Do women like men like me or prefer them a bit rough. If so what can I do to change myself.

Please no silly answers.

"

Sam you musnt change yourself just to suit other people.Not all women like 'cavemen'.I personally value good manners above everything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely prefer caring.... Nice to know there are some nice guys on here ... Far too many lie !!! They pretend to be caring but really aren't ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been told several times that I am a caring and a very polite person.

Do women like men like me or prefer them a bit rough. If so what can I do to change myself.

Please no silly answers.

Sam you musnt change yourself just to suit other people.Not all women like 'cavemen'.I personally value good manners above everything else."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goodness me. Stay just as you are. But don't be so sweet that people walk over you of course.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I think you can be kind and polite and still very sexy and attentive. I like polite and kind xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I have been told several times that I am a caring and a very polite person.

Do women like men like me or prefer them a bit rough. If so what can I do to change myself.

Please no silly answers.

"

Women aren't some group of clones who all like the same kind of men. The thing most human beings of any gender can immediately recognise is somebody who isn't being themselves.

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

stay as you are not many caring polite gents these days perfer manners too

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

Caring is good...don't change !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be true to yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have been told several times that I am a caring and a very polite person.

Do women like men like me or prefer them a bit rough. If so what can I do to change myself.

Please no silly answers.

Sam you musnt change yourself just to suit other people.Not all women like 'cavemen'.I personally value good manners above everything else."

It's not only women even my boss is on my case to change. He thinks I can do a lot more if I change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay true to yourself.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"I think you can be kind and polite and still very sexy and attentive. I like polite and kind xx"

You can always do role play with someone you trust and play the 'alter ego'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been told several times that I am a caring and a very polite person.

Do women like men like me or prefer them a bit rough. If so what can I do to change myself.

Please no silly answers.

Sam you musnt change yourself just to suit other people.Not all women like 'cavemen'.I personally value good manners above everything else.

It's not only women even my boss is on my case to change. He thinks I can do a lot more if I change. "

What behaviour is your boss suggesting you change?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I have been told several times that I am a caring and a very polite person.

Do women like men like me or prefer them a bit rough. If so what can I do to change myself.

Please no silly answers.

Sam you musnt change yourself just to suit other people.Not all women like 'cavemen'.I personally value good manners above everything else.

It's not only women even my boss is on my case to change. He thinks I can do a lot more if I change. "

In what way does he want you to change?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have been told several times that I am a caring and a very polite person.

Do women like men like me or prefer them a bit rough. If so what can I do to change myself.

Please no silly answers.

Sam you musnt change yourself just to suit other people.Not all women like 'cavemen'.I personally value good manners above everything else.

It's not only women even my boss is on my case to change. He thinks I can do a lot more if I change.

What behaviour is your boss suggesting you change?"

Tell them once. Then 2nd time and then HR.

I can get them to do the same thing as a good guy. I think

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I have been told several times that I am a caring and a very polite person.

Do women like men like me or prefer them a bit rough. If so what can I do to change myself.

Please no silly answers.

"

I couldn't give a sensible answer so perhaps won't comment.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I have been told several times that I am a caring and a very polite person.

Do women like men like me or prefer them a bit rough. If so what can I do to change myself.

Please no silly answers.

Sam you musnt change yourself just to suit other people.Not all women like 'cavemen'.I personally value good manners above everything else.

It's not only women even my boss is on my case to change. He thinks I can do a lot more if I change.

What behaviour is your boss suggesting you change?

Tell them once. Then 2nd time and then HR.

I can get them to do the same thing as a good guy. I think "

So he isn't suggesting you change your personality but the way you approach managing staff which isn't the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself.

But don't be a mug either.

I mean. ..don't listen to me I'm a twat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been told several times that I am a caring and a very polite person.

Do women like men like me or prefer them a bit rough. If so what can I do to change myself.

Please no silly answers.

Sam you musnt change yourself just to suit other people.Not all women like 'cavemen'.I personally value good manners above everything else.

It's not only women even my boss is on my case to change. He thinks I can do a lot more if I change.

What behaviour is your boss suggesting you change?

Tell them once. Then 2nd time and then HR.

I can get them to do the same thing as a good guy. I think "

Indeed - there are many styles of leadership. Dealing with conflict or resistance does require assertiveness at times though - you don't have to change being a good guy but the more flexible you can be in how you behave, the more effective you will be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourself. People are attracted to those who are genuine. If you are genuinely a nice guy then that is what is attractive about you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Be yourself. People are attracted to those who are genuine. If you are genuinely a nice guy then that is what is attractive about you. "

Thanks mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be yourself. People are attracted to those who are genuine. If you are genuinely a nice guy then that is what is attractive about you. "

this Sx

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By *a petite madameWoman
over a year ago

London / Essex

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Being a nice, genuine guy is the best approach. Look at me, I'm sti single while all my friends are settled down & happily married.....no wait. That's not proving the point!

The point is, be true to yourself, be you, because only you know what you're comfortable with. Other people can suggest things to help you get on in life, but ultimately it's up to you to do what you like with that information.

If you can be a kind, nice & polite person but bolster it with strength of character & conviction you're onto a winner.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Polite and respectful only, compared to the opposite. It makes sense that you'd be caring, rather than following habits, if you treat others this way.

Gender doesn't have a lack of respect in males, unless they choose this.

Sexually you can be tender, rough, uninhibited etc, and feel free to expand your boundaries and repertoire. You will be a man.

Everything to be full of self regard and esteem, if you treat others very well, and not dependent upon whether they can do something for you or not. Someone with maturity and confidence is very attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Goodness me. Stay just as you are. But don't be so sweet that people walk over you of course. "

Absolutely this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Goodness me. Stay just as you are. But don't be so sweet that people walk over you of course.

Absolutely this."

Great advice, be too nice and some people take advantage .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always said women need a 'dick' in their lives and they are not happy if they don't have one... U always need someone to tell u how it is and where to go but I prefer to keep that amongst my friends and out my bed...

So caring and polite is good. Don't change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be too nice, but don't be a cunt.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Just be yourself.

But don't be a mug either.

I mean. ..don't listen to me I'm a twat. "

But quite a nice twat

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By *aunchy21Couple
over a year ago

dub

Don't change Hun !!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

OP Just be yourself, there will be plenty of people who like you for simply being you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer genuine, honest men. Ones that tell you how its going to be from the off and stick to it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer genuine, honest men. Ones that tell you how its going to be from the off and stick to it. "

Thanks

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