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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

am I doing anything wrong? Is my profile giving off some bad impression? I message different women on here daily still no replies Ever never met anyone off here seems a waste of time to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor profile, poor pictures, expectations way over what they should be.

This isn't a place where you sign up and find yourself knee deep in pussy within minutes.

Take a reality check and look at your approach

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Many site users are old enough to be your parents which makes some uncomfortable.

And cock pics are not always appreciated, definitely not if there are no other pics like body and bum pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You only been here 2 weeks. I was here moths last time. It's a buyer market for men as there are loads on here.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Poor profile, poor pictures, expectations way over what they should be.

This isn't a place where you sign up and find yourself knee deep in pussy within minutes.

Take a reality check and look at your approach"

This you've been here 2 weeks for gods sake !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Poor profile, poor pictures, expectations way over what they should be.

This isn't a place where you sign up and find yourself knee deep in pussy within minutes.

Take a reality check and look at your approach

This you've been here 2 weeks for gods sake !"

These posts are funny how about being patient? Been on here for a while with no meet yet n I'm not kicking up a stink about it

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By *ntimatediscretionMan
over a year ago

eaglescliffe

I genuinely doubt I have a big cock and love to fuck and love oral is going to stimulate much of a response, however there are couples who do like very young guys so who knows.....I may be wrong.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll fuck ya

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

Are you wanting to try swinging , or are you thinking this site is just for an easy shag ?

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a cock as a profile pick is probably a turn off for them? Sure everyone knows what one looks like

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been here for ages just made new account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"am I doing anything wrong? Is my profile giving off some bad impression? I message different women on here daily still no replies Ever never met anyone off here seems a waste of time to me "

If you are on here every day, you may have stumbled upon the occasional post requesting profile advice. Follow the advice given as, at the moment, your profile is poor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your one of many 1000s on here in the same boat. Expect nowt then you can't be dissapointed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I'm not just here for an easy shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those pictures are terrible get some decent ones.

Look at the top fabbed mens pics for some ideas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I'm not just here for an easy shag "

You'll do well to take heed of the advice then to begin with.

Patience is the key to success here young grasshopper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 weeks is nothing, most men can wait yearsssssssssssss, basically women can get cock and fuck any day they want and don't need to put in any effort in cos the hugeeeeeeeeeeee male ratio lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I'm not just here for an easy shag "

So your here for a difficult shag?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Been here for ages just made new account. "

well if you have been here for a while... then to be honest your profile shows little or no effort...

i'm not going to tell you what you should change, thats up to you...(call it basic common sense)

sit down... pen... pad.... and think about what you are trying to get across... because it isn't screaming "patience" at the moment....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, being gentle here as my coffee brews, go and have a think about the ladies you like, think a out how you want to portray yourself to them, have a look at the verifications of some nice ladies and at the profiles of those blokes.

Then, go away and recreate your profile with all of that taken into consideration.

Being straight with you, your body is just normal: you aren't "hung", so don't describe yourself as such (and even if you were, it suggests that is all you have to offer). You aren't athletic, but not overweight, so dress your body up with a bit of style of humour.

Look at other profiles and take some photo inspiration.

Finally, be prepared to chat. Join in with discussions and just relax.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez. I said I'd fuck ya n I get bloody ignored. No wonder you're not getting meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for the advice, thank you everyone much appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd stop reading at the name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try not to blame the reality of the site and this scene for not matching your expectations. I don't mean that as a criticism, just want to point out that your frustration is not the sites fault. Ask yourself honestly what you expect and whether that's reasonable.

Reconsider how you 'market' yourself with your choice of pictures and profile text. I won't tell you what to change because your approach should reflect you and not me.

I genuinely hope you find what you're looking for. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"am I doing anything wrong? Is my profile giving off some bad impression? I message different women on here daily still no replies Ever never met anyone off here seems a waste of time to me "

Right you say in your profile you've got a pic dick and a nice body.

So why have you taken the pic of your cock when it's half hard in the dark in basically as poor a way as you can.

Then your body pic slouched and hunched in front of a mirror looking very limp.

Expand on your profile what your specifically after and what you have to offer what you want to try what's your taste etc.

And don't be too worried about not trying to make yourself sound everything to everyone as then you just sound generic and dull.

One thing to remember with this place is people are after fantasy and excitement not dull reality.

they're here for the kind of sex they have in their minds when thier playing with themselves not a crappy fumble after a night out.

so appeal to that, say what your fantasies are yes you may limit the number of people who your compatible with but your much more likely to find the person who excites you and who you excites and so you are more likely to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Actually I sent you a private message check your inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jeez. I said I'd fuck ya n I get bloody ignored. No wonder you're not getting meets"

You've pulled ^_^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"am I doing anything wrong? Is my profile giving off some bad impression? I message different women on here daily still no replies Ever never met anyone off here seems a waste of time to me

Right you say in your profile you've got a pic dick and a nice body.

So why have you taken the pic of your cock when it's half hard in the dark in basically as poor a way as you can.

Then your body pic slouched and hunched in front of a mirror looking very limp.

Expand on your profile what your specifically after and what you have to offer what you want to try what's your taste etc.

And don't be too worried about not trying to make yourself sound everything to everyone as then you just sound generic and dull.

One thing to remember with this place is people are after fantasy and excitement not dull reality.

they're here for the kind of sex they have in their minds when thier playing with themselves not a crappy fumble after a night out.

so appeal to that, say what your fantasies are yes you may limit the number of people who your compatible with but your much more likely to find the person who excites you and who you excites and so you are more likely to meet.

"

To advance on this: happy posts in the forums make you seem happy. Whinging posts (not saying this is a whinge) make you seem like a whinge.

We are here for fun. So we want to meet people who are fun.

Be a happy, friendly, smiling, positive person and you'll be someone that people want to talk to... And just take it from there.

Be a whinge (as some fellas are in the forums) and you haven't got a hope.

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By *uniperjuiceMan
over a year ago

East Midlands


"... It's a buyer market for men as there are loads on here."

What are the ratios?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... It's a buyer market for men as there are loads on here.

What are the ratios?

"
About 100 men to 1 woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes your age may go against you. Not saying no one would meet someone your age but it would defo put me off. Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jeez. I said I'd fuck ya n I get bloody ignored. No wonder you're not getting meets"

Now there's a offer op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those pictures are terrible get some decent ones.

Look at the top fabbed mens pics for some ideas"

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff


"am I doing anything wrong? Is my profile giving off some bad impression? I message different women on here daily still no replies Ever never met anyone off here seems a waste of time to me "

Lol..it probably will be a waste of time..I was chatting to a single girl from Fab at a party and she showed me her inbox.over a thousand messages in one week alone.you are definitely swimming against the tide but not to worry though as there are plenty of good single guy profiles on here for the ladies,and couples to pick and choose as they see fit.these are profiles where the guy has made an effort with good pics,and good text.just because you have a dick,have joined fab,and messaged some women doesn't mean you're entitled to any action for your dingaling.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Poor profile, poor pictures, expectations way over what they should be.

This isn't a place where you sign up and find yourself knee deep in pussy within minutes.

Take a reality check and look at your approach"

I don't know what you're talking about. I'm knee deep in clunge here. I can't move for them!

Seriously though OP, I'd just recommend you chill out a little more. Stop putting so much pressure on getting a meet. Get on the forums. It's a good way to get noticed. Get chatting casually to a few women first and see what happens. Socialise a little. Let women see what you're like as a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Poor profile, poor pictures, expectations way over what they should be.

This isn't a place where you sign up and find yourself knee deep in pussy within minutes.

Take a reality check and look at your approach

I don't know what you're talking about. I'm knee deep in clunge here. I can't move for them!

Seriously though OP, I'd just recommend you chill out a little more. Stop putting so much pressure on getting a meet. Get on the forums. It's a good way to get noticed. Get chatting casually to a few women first and see what happens. Socialise a little. Let women see what you're like as a person."

We just like that arse of yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing screaming out at me on your profile is the bit about being inexperienced and looking for someone to show you the ropes.

Try doing a forum search on this and see what others have been told about this approach.

People are here for fun and enjoyment - not to teach others. Why would, or should someone choose you over someone who knows what they're doing.

Not trying to be harsh here but the numbers are against you. There are around 100 single guys for every 1 woman on this site, so the ladies really are spoilt for choice.

Try to play to your strengths not your weaknesses. Be honest. Don't claim to be something you're not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact you're as good as pleading in the forums doesn't do you any good,chill out and if it happens it happens if it doesn't have a wank!

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

2 weeks.

'nuff said!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"am I doing anything wrong? Is my profile giving off some bad impression? I message different women on here daily still no replies Ever never met anyone off here seems a waste of time to me "

Wrong?

Possibly.

A self confessed lack of experience, a claim to have been here for ages on a two week old profile of an 18 year old (so if your birthdays tomorrow a max of 364 days) and a username that falls foul of the trades descriptions act - hung you certainly don't seem.

Add an apparent level of expectancy and claims that its a waste of time......

No. Nothing wrong at all.

A

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By *uniperjuiceMan
over a year ago

East Midlands


"... It's a buyer market for men as there are loads on here.

What are the ratios?

About 100 men to 1 woman "

seriously? There must be a lot of frustrated guys here then. I wonder if that affects the "tone" of these forums sometimes?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"My pics aren't the best but why be picky you can still see who I am and how big my tool is."

Do you think your "tool" is what women here are primarily interested in? Or is it all you think you have to offer?

Suggesting we shouldn't be picky because we can see a poor photo of your cock won't do you any favours.

Why be picky? Because I can be. Because when I'm meeting, (which I'm not at the moment), I can't meet everyone who asks, so I have to be.

Who wants to meet someone who isn't picky and would meet anyone at all?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"... It's a buyer market for men as there are loads on here.

What are the ratios?

About 100 men to 1 woman

seriously? There must be a lot of frustrated guys here then. I wonder if that affects the "tone" of these forums sometimes?"

No, not seriously. Shag often quotes that statistic but it's not true.

The ratio from area to area varies, as one would expect. A not very scientific study in the forum a while ago suggested active men to active women (i.e. have been on the site in the last couple of weeks and with at least one verification, not including photo verification), to be between around 7-15 to 1.

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