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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you prefer?

Guys would you rather receive a BJ or go down on a lady.

Ladies would you rather have a guy go down on you or give a BJ?

For me I'd prefer to go down on a lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not both at the same time . More fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you prefer?

Guys would you rather receive a BJ or go down on a lady.

Ladies would you rather have a guy go down on you or give a BJ?

For me I'd prefer to go down on a lady "

likewise - there's nothing like been extended the privilege to have access to a ladies most intimate area and I love to spend time down there savouring the feel, taste and texture

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't like receiving oral sex so it's giving to a man every time for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why choose?

In reality, I get so involved in what I'm doing I forget about taking turns, so for me it seems I prefer giving than receiving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not both at the same time . More fun"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are all these questions Black and White ?

oops, I shouldn't use those terms

it should be shades of grey

Doh ! Straying into the wrong territory again

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

Do women believe a guy when he says he prefers to give? Or do u suspect u will get a quick lick then now its your turn?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do women believe a guy when he says he prefers to give? Or do u suspect u will get a quick lick then now its your turn?"

I suspect their past experiences will determine this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do women believe a guy when he says he prefers to give? Or do u suspect u will get a quick lick then now its your turn?

I suspect their past experiences will determine this. "

What would the ladies who have met you expect?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

69 preferable. ..but I'd rather give

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to lie back and receive its nice to know a lady isn't rushing on your cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"69 preferable. ..but I'd rather give "

Same as me hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do women believe a guy when he says he prefers to give? Or do u suspect u will get a quick lick then now its your turn?

I suspect their past experiences will determine this. "

I've had quite a few men profess to love giving then forget to do it. It doesn't bother me if I don't receive but I'd rather not have the bullshit to try to get a fuck. I let them know beforehand that I don't mind if they don't like doing it. What does get me is when men say they want to keep it for special women but can't wait to stick their cock in your mouth. Some are honest and say they don't want the risk of catching something orally,so I decline giving as they can catch something that way too. I prefer to give.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a bit of both giving turns me on as well as receiving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do women believe a guy when he says he prefers to give? Or do u suspect u will get a quick lick then now its your turn?"

Often said to interest you. There are exceptions. My new found local fab friend cant get enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer that we both spend as much time as each other pleasuring each others bits

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Well every guy loves receiving a blowjob, but for me you can't beat going down on a woman. So much to explore and great fun too mmmm

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Do women believe a guy when he says he prefers to give? Or do u suspect u will get a quick lick then now its your turn?"

Depends on the man. We have met some men who genuinely want to ensure that I get as much pleasure as they do in a way that i want rather a way that they think I should. This comes across in their whole demeanour and the joyful way they go about it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy never to get head again an all my days.....does very little for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giving and receiving love them both, But its a bigger turn on knowing its turning her on doing either of them

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By *iss InnocenceWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

Giving BJ's all the way

Turn me on sucking a guy cock

Especially hearing him moan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Giving and receiving love them both, But its a bigger turn on knowing its turning her on doing either of them"

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By *each_PittWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I don't like receiving oral sex so it's giving to a man every time for me. "

Same for me. Never been able to say I've actually enjoyed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not both at the same time . More fun"

Oh yes!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't like receiving oral sex so it's giving to a man every time for me.

Same for me. Never been able to say I've actually enjoyed it."

There are more of us than you realise. My heart sinks when a guy bangs on about oral, it can mean that they have no other foreplay to offer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do women believe a guy when he says he prefers to give? Or do u suspect u will get a quick lick then now its your turn?"

Sometimes....i am not that naive as to believe everything a guy tells me!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I enjoy both, ideally, a long session of alternating between one and the other... Although it has to be said, I do enjoy receiving more than giving.

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

i enjoy both

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By *igDD95Man
over a year ago

Watford

gotta go with both on this one, although if i had to chose one i'd be a giver, because a bj doesnt do me much after a horrible one a while back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

69 then once she has cum over your face lick her ass

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

Absolutely love both and would never consider a repeat meet with anyone who wasn't into taking time over oral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go down on lady...love it

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"69 then once she has cum over your face lick her ass "

this please

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I prefer a bit of both giving turns me on as well as receiving"
I like taking turns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer a bit of both giving turns me on as well as receivingI like taking turns "
do you?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I love going down on a guy, feeling it getting bigger in my mouth, feeling the guy tense up and then start shooting. It's totally spiffing.

With ladies, I prefer to finger them, rather than go down. It really wrecks my make up and one must maintain standards

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I'm going to be greedy and say... Get that tongue a licking!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for your contribution to the thread...it backs up the outcome of a conversation that was had on Friday with some friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely love going down on a woman...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do women believe a guy when he says he prefers to give? Or do u suspect u will get a quick lick then now its your turn?

I suspect their past experiences will determine this.

I've had quite a few men profess to love giving then forget to do it. It doesn't bother me if I don't receive but I'd rather not have the bullshit to try to get a fuck. I let them know beforehand that I don't mind if they don't like doing it. What does get me is when men say they want to keep it for special women but can't wait to stick their cock in your mouth. Some are honest and say they don't want the risk of catching something orally,so I decline giving as they can catch something that way too. I prefer to give. "

More guys I have met have not given oral than those who have, if they want to be selfish lovers that's fine but I do not re meet such guys and if they ask why I don't want to meet them again I'm honest

Every guy loves giving oral till you meet them then you find very few do

Like the lady above I hate bull shitters, but then I suppose they have to say what they think you want to hear to increase their chances of a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not both at the same time . More fun"

Don't mind both, 69 is always a good choice lol

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By *r jblMan
over a year ago

from parts unknown

You can't beat both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do women believe a guy when he says he prefers to give? Or do u suspect u will get a quick lick then now its your turn?

I suspect their past experiences will determine this.

I've had quite a few men profess to love giving then forget to do it. It doesn't bother me if I don't receive but I'd rather not have the bullshit to try to get a fuck. I let them know beforehand that I don't mind if they don't like doing it. What does get me is when men say they want to keep it for special women but can't wait to stick their cock in your mouth. Some are honest and say they don't want the risk of catching something orally,so I decline giving as they can catch something that way too. I prefer to give.

More guys I have met have not given oral than those who have, if they want to be selfish lovers that's fine but I do not re meet such guys and if they ask why I don't want to meet them again I'm honest

Every guy loves giving oral till you meet them then you find very few do

Like the lady above I hate bull shitters, but then I suppose they have to say what they think you want to hear to increase their chances of a shag "

Luckily for me,my verifications attest to my love of it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather give every time but it's always great to get a BJ after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say that if i was told I only had one choice that Id say Give a BJ.... however Mr has the most divine oral talents and I had a delightfully long and lavish session of oral given on Friday and it was heaven..

but on the whole I would rather give... with the occasional exception

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I don't like receiving oral sex so it's giving to a man every time for me.

Same for me. Never been able to say I've actually enjoyed it.

There are more of us than you realise. My heart sinks when a guy bangs on about oral, it can mean that they have no other foreplay to offer."

Know exactly what you mean , I don't care much for bj but according to the forum it seems to be the main desire some women want is to suck cock , turns me right off xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love receiving oral sex so long as it's done well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love receiving oral sex so long as it's done well "

That goes the same for guys too-a lot of girls think they can suck cock,quite a lot can't...

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Give a BJ ..but I am only partial to one. (not just anyone)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love to lie back and receive its nice to know a lady isn't rushing on your cock "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like receiving oral sex so it's giving to a man every time for me.

Same for me. Never been able to say I've actually enjoyed it.

There are more of us than you realise. My heart sinks when a guy bangs on about oral, it can mean that they have no other foreplay to offer."

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By *lyingscotsman696Man
over a year ago

Renfrewshire

I must be the odd one out. It has to be giving for me. receiving does not do a lot for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giving for me. Don't get me wrong receiving is pretty good however I love the control of giving. The reactions. The ability to make knees buckle. To take to the edge and stop. It's a huge turn on.

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By *o_added_sugarWoman
over a year ago

A club not so many miles away

I'm a giver but It's like anything, we love to receive if the other person can do it right. Just like kissing. Love to kiss but if the individual I'm with cannot kiss, I'd prefer to decline then to be turned off. I personally don't like to be bit or nibbled down there, if I have a biter, I do not enjoy it. Some women love it but your mouth ain't going anywhere near me if you're gonna bite it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love receiving oral sex so long as it's done well

That goes the same for guys too-a lot of girls think they can suck cock,quite a lot can't... "

That's the down side of swinging

You can't get expect people on here to know how you like things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Giving for me. Don't get me wrong receiving is pretty good however I love the control of giving. The reactions. The ability to make knees buckle. To take to the edge and stop. It's a huge turn on. "

Tease...

I agree with the taking to the edge and stopping bit.That control over her pleasure is a huge turn on for me,knowing that the next lick,nibble etc can send her over the edge...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love receiving oral sex so long as it's done well

That goes the same for guys too-a lot of girls think they can suck cock,quite a lot can't...

That's the down side of swinging

You can't get expect people on here to know how you like things "

Totally agree,but i'm sure you've met people both through swinging and privately,that say they are good at certain things,but really aren't?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer giving although I'm not ungrateful when receiving...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love receiving oral sex so long as it's done well

That goes the same for guys too-a lot of girls think they can suck cock,quite a lot can't...

That's the down side of swinging

You can't get expect people on here to know how you like things

Totally agree,but i'm sure you've met people both through swinging and privately,that say they are good at certain things,but really aren't?!"

Well I confess now I'm shit as blow job so now anyone I meet won't be disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not both at the same time . More fun"

?? ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"69 then once she has cum over your face lick her ass

this please "

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not both at the same time . More fun

?? ?? "

That's supposed to be thumbs up and me licking my lips. Damn windows phone and emoticons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm the only person who don't like a 69

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love receiving oral sex so long as it's done well

That goes the same for guys too-a lot of girls think they can suck cock,quite a lot can't...

That's the down side of swinging

You can't get expect people on here to know how you like things

Totally agree,but i'm sure you've met people both through swinging and privately,that say they are good at certain things,but really aren't?!

Well I confess now I'm shit as blow job so now anyone I meet won't be disappointed

"

Maybe you could be taught... We can't be good at everything...

Looks like you're good with your feet tho...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am abit lazy, prefer to get a bj lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love receiving oral sex so long as it's done well

That goes the same for guys too-a lot of girls think they can suck cock,quite a lot can't...

That's the down side of swinging

You can't get expect people on here to know how you like things

Totally agree,but i'm sure you've met people both through swinging and privately,that say they are good at certain things,but really aren't?!

Well I confess now I'm shit as blow job so now anyone I meet won't be disappointed

Maybe you could be taught... We can't be good at everything...

Looks like you're good with your feet tho... "

Good idea

I'll bring a guy you can show me how its done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love receiving oral sex so long as it's done well

That goes the same for guys too-a lot of girls think they can suck cock,quite a lot can't...

That's the down side of swinging

You can't get expect people on here to know how you like things

Totally agree,but i'm sure you've met people both through swinging and privately,that say they are good at certain things,but really aren't?!

Well I confess now I'm shit as blow job so now anyone I meet won't be disappointed

Maybe you could be taught... We can't be good at everything...

Looks like you're good with your feet tho...

Good idea

I'll bring a guy you can show me how its done "

I'd need to feel the sensations for myself to know if you were doing it right...

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Oral - Prefer to give than to get (women only)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"69 then once she has cum over your face lick her ass

this please "

What time shall i be there

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By *ony HardcockMan
over a year ago

Shepperton

Love giving and listening to her moan, it turns me on more.

Also like receiving when she is on her knees looking up at me mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a lover of giving oral to a women for long periods of time I love it even if I don't get any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer a bit of both giving turns me on as well as receiving"

This giving, is a massive turn on for me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd prefer a 69 and get best of both worlds

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"I'd prefer a 69 and get best of both worlds "

I cant concentrate on either that way..

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"I'd prefer a 69 and get best of both worlds

I cant concentrate on either that way.. "

Same here...I don't mind 69ing for a while but for me to really get into giving a BJ, I have to be in control, and I'm seldom in control when I've got a tongue in my pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd prefer a 69 and get best of both worlds

I cant concentrate on either that way..

Same here...I don't mind 69ing for a while but for me to really get into giving a BJ, I have to be in control, and I'm seldom in control when I've got a tongue in my pussy "

I won't go down while you're driving then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely enjoy both.....love a bit of face sitting and face fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Giving for me. Don't get me wrong receiving is pretty good however I love the control of giving. The reactions. The ability to make knees buckle. To take to the edge and stop. It's a huge turn on. "

this for me too! it makes me so wet when i can see a guys really enjoying it! plus while they recover you have plenty time to lay back an enjoy your turn

same as what others said about 69 too ... too hard to concentrate and fully enjoy either

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Being bisexual, either giving a BJ or going down on a female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving to a women and takers x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I prefer a bit of both giving turns me on as well as receivingI like taking turns do you? "
I love when you find that little area that makes her shake and squeal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer a bit of both giving turns me on as well as receivingI like taking turns do you? I love when you find that little area that makes her shake and squeal "
I'm sure she loves it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love both

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By *otebonydeluxeWoman
over a year ago

earls barton

69 both enjoying at same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

69 all the way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a 69 too,but prefer a woman sat on my face.If she gushes in your face,that's amazingly horny...

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"I'd prefer a 69 and get best of both worlds

I cant concentrate on either that way..

Same here...I don't mind 69ing for a while but for me to really get into giving a BJ, I have to be in control, and I'm seldom in control when I've got a tongue in my pussy "

Ohh Caz that is some serious burn goodness me. Plain yogurt soaked onto a t shirt will be cooling . I bet that is sore cant pm .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not both at the same time . More fun"

69 always a good time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love a 69 too,but prefer a woman sat on my face.If she gushes in your face,that's amazingly horny... "

Preach brother, amen

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