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Pre social meet chatting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I often find that after I've talked to a guy for a bit and we have arranged a social the content of messages gets way more sexual.

Do most people like that?

Sometimes I do and sometimes, for some reason, it really put me off. Maybe I feel its too much at that moment. Also for me attractions doesn't start till I meet someone face to face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very often happens and yes can put me off sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can hear bubbles popping!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make it easier. I've a mucky mouth from day 1

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If they start getting mucky, there won't be a meet. Its like they assume I am a 'done deal' once I've agreed to the meet, but they couldn't be further from the truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they start getting mucky, there won't be a meet. Its like they assume I am a 'done deal' once I've agreed to the meet, but they couldn't be further from the truth. "

This.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I've learned to not get too smutty with someone before I've met them,incase the attraction isn't there between us when we do actually meet.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I've learned to not get too smutty with someone before I've met them,incase the attraction isn't there between us when we do actually meet."

Yeah, that's always a bit embarrassing

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I've learned to not get too smutty with someone before I've met them,incase the attraction isn't there between us when we do actually meet.

Yeah, that's always a bit embarrassing "

Oh yes! We live and learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Major major turn off for me. Just because I've had a social doesn't mean I will necessary play. Also just because I've played in the past doesn't mean I will automatically play the next time I see you. To be honest the ' I want to do x, y and z to you' is just talk in my eyes. Total Bullshit and is treated as such.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont really chat smut.

It's all pretty normal convo with me.

I normally don't even chat it until right before we meet where I'll ask whats their turn ons and turns offs are. ..etc. .etc. ..

Sex talk doesn't really do it for me.

I can do it if they want me to. But i cringe as I'm typing it because I know I'm totally making up a whole heap of bullshit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've learned to not get too smutty with someone before I've met them,incase the attraction isn't there between us when we do actually meet."

I don't chat for too long, I prefer a social pretty quick. Flirty stuff is good. Anything too filthy is a turn off and it's likely I would cancel the social.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

I rarely arrange a social

I prefer spontaneous meets

But

I absolutely detest loath and hate full on smutty sexual messages at any time

So I usually delete them

Unless they're off friends when it's acceptable

Why do I hate them?

Because I save it for the bedroom or meet wherever it is

I'm almost 51 not 15

I don't need them telling me in graphic sexual detail what's occurring

I bloody well know already lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've learned to not get too smutty with someone before I've met them,incase the attraction isn't there between us when we do actually meet.

I don't chat for too long, I prefer a social pretty quick. Flirty stuff is good. Anything too filthy is a turn off and it's likely I would cancel the social. "

This is good advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try and stick with the same tone that the Woman I'm chatting goes with, If she brings up sexual content I go with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try and stick with the same tone that the Woman I'm chatting goes with, If she brings up sexual content I go with it"

Exactly this.

Same goes with couples.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Happened with us one time and we soon put a stop to that, we quickly learnt that a FAB phone was necessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally gauge the level of sexual content, from the responses of the lady.

I can be smutty but also clean - every lady is unique

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Actually I don't even want to chat at all between arranging a meet and the meet. Unless it has to be cancelled, I prefer no contact at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually I don't even want to chat at all between arranging a meet and the meet. Unless it has to be cancelled, I prefer no contact at all."

Ok so by that logic, how do you establish you are actually going to get on?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is football talk ok?

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Major major turn off for me. Just because I've had a social doesn't mean I will necessary play. Also just because I've played in the past doesn't mean I will automatically play the next time I see you. To be honest the ' I want to do x, y and z to you' is just talk in my eyes. Total Bullshit and is treated as such."

Totally agree with this.

I always feel like I've kicked a puppy when I have to "easy tiger" a guy when he starts this after arranging a meet. But it has to be done.

If he carries on I end up just backing off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is football talk ok?"

Best talk you can have!! But only if it is about Norwich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is football talk ok?"

Yup

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Actually I don't even want to chat at all between arranging a meet and the meet. Unless it has to be cancelled, I prefer no contact at all."

I couldn't do that, firstly because I'm a chatty person but because I want to know I'll get on with them and not be wasting my time going to a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chat utter crap most of the time, sexy, dirty talk... I've not got a clue, anyone starts with it... And you wouldn't see me for dust, but then it doesn't really do it for me..

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