FabSwingers.com forum: regular sti checks

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Please could someone explain if you practice safe sex.why have regular checks? Bit of a blonde moment for me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Let me put it this way..

Does wearing a crash helmet guarantee you won't hurt yourself if you have an accident?

Does wearing a seatbelt mean you wont crash your car?

Does wearing steel toecap boots mean you can't damage other parts of your foot if you drop something on them?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I like to be safe than sorry

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Please could someone explain if you practice safe sex.why have regular checks? Bit of a blonde moment for me.."

Do you believe that condoms are 100% effective?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ffs, and people say bareback players are a risk then you get a "safe" swinger asking this. Ignorance is bliss!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fairness, OP asked if you practice safe sex why get tested? Well the only true 'safe sex' is abstinence, so is there a need to get tested?

Now, if you practice 'safer sex', like many do on here.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ffs, and people say bareback players are a risk then you get a "safe" swinger asking this. Ignorance is bliss!!!"

I often make this point on the bareback threads....

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Please could someone explain if you practice safe sex.why have regular checks? Bit of a blonde moment for me.."

It is not just you many here do not understand the risks.

There is no such thing as safe sex only safer sex.

Condoms give little protection against genital ulcer diseases and HPV infections as these are transmitted mainly through "skin-to-skin" contact from sores/ulcers or infected skin that looks normal.

Condoms give some protection against STIs such as genital herpes, syphilis, and chancroid but only when the infected area or site of potential exposure is protected

Condoms give best protection for discharge diseases (HIV, gonorrhea, chlamydia, and trichomonias) mainly transmitted by genital secretions, such as semen or vaginal fluids.

The use of oil based lubricants reduces the effectiveness of condoms as it makes them liable to tear in use.

It should also be noted that the use of N-9 spermicides can cause vaginal and rectal irritation which could increase the risk of getting HIV/AIDS from an infected partner.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In fairness, OP asked if you practice safe sex why get tested? Well the only true 'safe sex' is abstinence, so is there a need to get tested?

Now, if you practice 'safer sex', like many do on here....."
thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Let me put it this way..

Does wearing a crash helmet guarantee you won't hurt yourself if you have an accident?

Does wearing a seatbelt mean you wont crash your car?

Does wearing steel toecap boots mean you can't damage other parts of your foot if you drop something on them? "
point taken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a routine I have got into since being active on the scene, I go every 3 months just for my own reasons, all my daughters know what I do and they are happy for me to continue provided that I remain safe. I get check every 3 months and if offered accept the advice and condoms. TO DATE I have remained clear of any infection / diesease and hope to remain this way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"its a routine I have got into since being active on the scene, I go every 3 months just for my own reasons, all my daughters know what I do and they are happy for me to continue provided that I remain safe. I get check every 3 months and if offered accept the advice and condoms. TO DATE I have remained clear of any infection / diesease and hope to remain this way."
thank you..x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for your replys.some polite.some not so polite.and now have a clearer reason why..yes you can't be too careful.i had women's problems in Feb last year.i was all clear then but was in a relationship.will not harm me to go again now..Thank you.ss

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like to be safe than sorry"
yes I agree.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ffs, and people say bareback players are a risk then you get a "safe" swinger asking this. Ignorance is bliss!!!"
well I sopose you have to be extra careful being married!!

Not judging just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please could someone explain if you practice safe sex.why have regular checks? Bit of a blonde moment for me..

It is not just you many here do not understand the risks.

There is no such thing as safe sex only safer sex.

Condoms give little protection against genital ulcer diseases and HPV infections as these are transmitted mainly through "skin-to-skin" contact from sores/ulcers or infected skin that looks normal.

Condoms give some protection against STIs such as genital herpes, syphilis, and chancroid but only when the infected area or site of potential exposure is protected

Condoms give best protection for discharge diseases (HIV, gonorrhea, chlamydia, and trichomonias) mainly transmitted by genital secretions, such as semen or vaginal fluids.

The use of oil based lubricants reduces the effectiveness of condoms as it makes them liable to tear in use.

It should also be noted that the use of N-9 spermicides can cause vaginal and rectal irritation which could increase the risk of getting HIV/AIDS from an infected partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ffs, and people say bareback players are a risk then you get a "safe" swinger asking this. Ignorance is bliss!!!well I sopose you have to be extra careful being married!!

Not judging just saying."

What do you mean by this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ffs, and people say bareback players are a risk then you get a "safe" swinger asking this. Ignorance is bliss!!!well I sopose you have to be extra careful being married!!

Not judging just saying."

Id rather fuck a regular barebacker that gets checked plenty rather than someone who thinks they are safe as they use condoms.

And with reference to your not judging, judge all you want, Yes im married, I have a profile with my husband and we play together, he has his own profile to play solo as do I.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ffs, and people say bareback players are a risk then you get a "safe" swinger asking this. Ignorance is bliss!!!well I sopose you have to be extra careful being married!!

Not judging just saying.

Id rather fuck a regular barebacker that gets checked plenty rather than someone who thinks they are safe as they use condoms.

And with reference to your not judging, judge all you want, Yes im married, I have a profile with my husband and we play together, he has his own profile to play solo as do I."

Don't explain yourself, you don't need to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a check every time I buy a Subaru. Can't be too careful

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Apart from all the above reasons, you get free condoms and lube.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a check every time I buy a Subaru. Can't be too careful"

That's the only sti you tend to find people telling others they have

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Please could someone explain if you practice safe sex.why have regular checks? Bit of a blonde moment for me..

It is not just you many here do not understand the risks.

There is no such thing as safe sex only safer sex.

Condoms give little protection against genital ulcer diseases and HPV infections as these are transmitted mainly through "skin-to-skin" contact from sores/ulcers or infected skin that looks normal.

Condoms give some protection against STIs such as genital herpes, syphilis, and chancroid but only when the infected area or site of potential exposure is protected

Condoms give best protection for discharge diseases (HIV, gonorrhea, chlamydia, and trichomonias) mainly transmitted by genital secretions, such as semen or vaginal fluids.

The use of oil based lubricants reduces the effectiveness of condoms as it makes them liable to tear in use.

It should also be noted that the use of N-9 spermicides can cause vaginal and rectal irritation which could increase the risk of getting HIV/AIDS from an infected partner.

It's the condoms called Extra Safe and similar that have Nonynoxyl 9 on! They're the ones which trigger eczema internally in me and make me bleed!

Btw a bit less of the grief for the OP people, she asked to be educated and that's happened. Surely better to feel ok to ask what may seem a silly question, especially on such an important issue, than to not ask out of fear of a backlash.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Please could someone explain if you practice safe sex.why have regular checks? Bit of a blonde moment for me..

It is not just you many here do not understand the risks.

There is no such thing as safe sex only safer sex.

Condoms give little protection against genital ulcer diseases and HPV infections as these are transmitted mainly through "skin-to-skin" contact from sores/ulcers or infected skin that looks normal.

Condoms give some protection against STIs such as genital herpes, syphilis, and chancroid but only when the infected area or site of potential exposure is protected

Condoms give best protection for discharge diseases (HIV, gonorrhea, chlamydia, and trichomonias) mainly transmitted by genital secretions, such as semen or vaginal fluids.

The use of oil based lubricants reduces the effectiveness of condoms as it makes them liable to tear in use.

It should also be noted that the use of N-9 spermicides can cause vaginal and rectal irritation which could increase the risk of getting HIV/AIDS from an infected partner.

It's the condoms called Extra Safe and similar that have Nonynoxyl 9 on! They're the ones which trigger eczema internally in me and make me bleed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a check every time I buy a Subaru. Can't be too careful

That's the only sti you tend to find people telling others they have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get checked every three months but still only let men fuck me if they are covered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please could someone explain if you practice safe sex.why have regular checks? Bit of a blonde moment for me..

It is not just you many here do not understand the risks.

There is no such thing as safe sex only safer sex.

Condoms give little protection against genital ulcer diseases and HPV infections as these are transmitted mainly through "skin-to-skin" contact from sores/ulcers or infected skin that looks normal.

Condoms give some protection against STIs such as genital herpes, syphilis, and chancroid but only when the infected area or site of potential exposure is protected

Condoms give best protection for discharge diseases (HIV, gonorrhea, chlamydia, and trichomonias) mainly transmitted by genital secretions, such as semen or vaginal fluids.

The use of oil based lubricants reduces the effectiveness of condoms as it makes them liable to tear in use.

It should also be noted that the use of N-9 spermicides can cause vaginal and rectal irritation which could increase the risk of getting HIV/AIDS from an infected partner.

One of the best explanations I've read!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"Please could someone explain if you practice safe sex.why have regular checks? Bit of a blonde moment for me.."

I dont get them done as regularly as I used to, as I am only meeting a regular buddy atm. But when I am meeting multiple people there are more safety concerns that bother me. Chlamydia & gonorrhoea can be harboured in the throat, so I used to get swabbed / bloods every 1/4 or as a minimum every 6 months.

Blow jobs are blow jobs and condoms aren't used with them - for my peace of mind it's only practical when a quick test and a course of treatment can sort out any infection to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I get regular checks too. For my own peace of mind if nothing else.

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