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By *awtymarky OP   Man
over a year ago

chester

Well just a general feeling about the wink system. Do any of you use them, like them, loath them, want them removed.

My feelings are from a single man it's a way for a heads up who might fancy you plus very harmless.

What your thoughts x x

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By *onConformistLikeUMan
over a year ago

Chorley

I've never had a good one, I've never had any good come of sending one.

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By *igerandKittenCouple
over a year ago

London

Yeah it's a good way to have interests. A lot of winks get ignored because people don't read out profile. But we have had a few winks that have led to more.

Overall we like them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like winks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually ignore them unless they are from friends

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By *uietlyBohemianCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Winks are OK for us couple-to-couple, if we both decide to wink then one (or both) of us will go to a message too.

Nice and simple system. We like winks, it means somebody in the other couple *probably* read our profile.

When we had the profile open to single men though, the winks basically just got ignored, they were too many and mostly from people who hadn't read the profile so it was worthless even looking back at them. (Sorry single guys!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind them.

But people who wink have probably winked a 100 others too so I don't pay that much attention.

Unless it's someone I know. Or familiar with.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I never even look at mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good wink

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

For couples they are ok, but we very rarely look at ones off guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never look at them, or friend requests

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

I like the wink system, like sending them and receiving them, and what started off as some flirty winking has lead to some good meets on here.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

I like them, if we get a wink from another couple, 9 times out of 10 we will have a look at their profile and pictures. If we like them we'll either message them or wink them back

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

I have them just never looked at them, id rather someone just messaged instead and see how it goes from there

so dont see the point in winks being used and I never have winked at anyone

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By *layer oneMan
over a year ago

mirfield

I use them all the time

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I for one don't send them, but then again I don't send preemptive messages. I don't mind receiving them but have only responded to a few, nothing more than a few messages exchanged afterwards due to distance.

Sure it gives me a confidence boost to receive them, but would much sooner have a message, even if it's "Fancy a fuck"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are better than a nod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a wink! Send me more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like them i see them as a icebreaker, if i recieve one and i like the sender i wink back and most of the time we start chatting shortly afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We quite like winks from people that match what we are looking for as explained in our profile.

If they don't match we will just delete the wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah wink me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met and become friends with guys from a wink. I like them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm a wanker!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best meet I've had on hear started with a wink. So, much as they don't always register, I have a fondness for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never look at them, or friend requests "

I don't either. I just clear them every now and then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never even look at mine"

Me neither.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 27/04/15 19:08:06]"
winker!

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I like them ,prefer a wink to a one liner .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like them and we send them to show interest and to give the third party the option to look at us and ignore if theyre not interested or they can wink back and we will send a way.. Its a great way of showing mutual interest I believe x

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By *awtymarky OP   Man
over a year ago

chester

There is definitely a divide amongst everyone on them. It's just a tool to show interest in the person / persons.

What other method do you think would be a better alternative to a wink?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never look at them, or friend requests "

that was a waste of two thumb clicks then

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

No

I just do a mass delete I'm afraid

I would rather receive a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are OK.

I find that they can be a useful tool for expressing an interest in someone, especially if you might be a little nervous about sending a message straight off.

I sometimes use them and I always look at the profile of anyone who might send me one. If they interest me, I might either wink or message back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy a wink.

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By *ot monkey71Couple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

We don't really use winks much as they tend to be ingnored. I feel they are just a way of expressing an interest, much like a wink face to face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they work better for single men receiving than giving, i take them as a hello and an invitation to start a conversation, however i think women and couples must get so many they are just annoying and soo prefer a well written message to stand out.

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By *callycatMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

I always look at who has sent them. Often led to exchange of messages and quite a few meets...What's not to like?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We don't use them and very rarely check them. Only bulk deleted those that we had yesterday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me just go and bulk delete all of my winks.

Oh, wait, I don't have any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never look at them, or friend requests

that was a waste of two thumb clicks then "

A message is better... And then telling me that you have sent one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bloody love them! I send them as I don't normally get a reply if I message ha! So if I wink and they wink back! Which does not happen much! I'll message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We usually ignore them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never look at them, or friend requests

that was a waste of two thumb clicks then

A message is better... And then telling me that you have sent one "

chuckle.

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By *octor DeleriumMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough


"Well just a general feeling about the wink system. Do any of you use them, like them, loath them, want them removed.

My feelings are from a single man it's a way for a heads up who might fancy you plus very harmless.

What your thoughts x x

"

It's easy to send a wink; sh*t, I could do 40 in a minute.

It takes much more to grab my attention; a carefully constructed message is always going to get a reply.

A wink is unlikely to achieve anything, other than deletion.

Dr Nasty

Post Script: Apologies to anyone that has received a wink from me when I have been typing on my iPad.

But you already know that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like Winks.. think he is a funny chap

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