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By *he_original_polo OP   Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

…or your partner perhaps?

On most (if not all) swinging sites it is generally accepted that forum/chatroom flirty banter is just a load of light-hearted bollox not to be taken seriously. But, every once in a while someone does take it as the quintessential sign of hope…. and privately asks “So how about meeting sometime?”

This afternoon I was asked for advice how to turn down a guy on a much flirtier forum who has taken every bit of banter bollox as a clear come-on. The funny thing was, the person asking “what shall I tell him” also said “I wish I was part of a couple, I could just blame the other half”

So…. couples….. do you blame the other half and say things like “I would like that BUT my other half will have to approve and he/she is really fussy/busy/under the weather at the moment.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

i always blame my other half.to be honest,its usually her fault.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Well as its just the fem half that posts on here I can only blame myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant see the point in blaming somebody else, and banter and flirting is part of the swing site - you cannot expect to have a shower and not get wet, so to speak. We are both individual people and as such will naturally vary in what we say and post and do. I would find it awful to be "controlled" by someone and likewise, I would not like to influence my partner's behaviour.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


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But, every once in a while someone does take it as the quintessential sign of hope…. and privately asks “So how about meeting sometime?”

This afternoon I was asked for advice how to turn down a guy on a much flirtier forum who has taken every bit of banter bollox as a clear come-on.

"

Is that a "no"?

ps can you tell me where this ultra-flirty forum is?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"

But, every once in a while someone does take it as the quintessential sign of hope…. and privately asks “So how about meeting sometime?”

This afternoon I was asked for advice how to turn down a guy on a much flirtier forum who has taken every bit of banter bollox as a clear come-on.

"

Is that a "no"?

ps can you tell me where this ultra-flirty forum is?

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By *he_original_polo OP   Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


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ps can you tell me where this ultra-flirty forum is? "

I could but I'd have to kill you........ slowly.

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