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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A post in another thread gave me pause to think a few days ago and I've been struggling to find the "right" answer.

Hoping fellow Fabbers could share their thoughts.

Here's a scenario, searching through the members or perusing the forums and you see a profiled that interests you.

You visit and read the profile, but realise that you're not what they are looking for or they are not quite what you're looking for.

So, sensibly you don't get in touch, but you do like some of their photos.

Is it considered acceptable to Fab the photos, even though there isn't a "connection?"

Or is it a bit "stalky?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fine to fab

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Cause its acceptable. I've had my photos tabbed by men and women and just see it as appreciating my photos.

I don't think anymore about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fab photo is just that, it's not really a statement of intent. I think it's quite acceptable to fab a photo if it's a well taken artistic or sexy pic, whoever owns it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny I was talking about this only a little while ago ....I think its nice to fab I'm always flattered when my pics are fabbed....by men,women or couples xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've fabbed loads of pics. I don't then think I need to meet that person!!

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

I fab pictures I like. I am not looking for women or couples but if there is a picture that I think is good I fab it. It is nothing more than a fab not an invitation that I want to get in their pants.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

If people didn't want their pictures fabbed then they'd turn the settings off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If people didn't want their pictures fabbed then they'd turn the settings off "

Good point.

Of all the possible outcomes to the question I'd though of, that was the one that passed me by.

Facepalm.

I'm off to press a few buttons.

Thanks for sharing, much appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's perfectly acceptable to Fab.

I'm straight but there's lots of ladies photos I find very sexy so I Fab them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In a similar vein, what about hotlisting and not saying hello?

I have a couple of members in my hotlist that aren't looking to meet anyone at the moment, hotlisting gives me an opportunity to see if their situation has changed.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I agree ,fabbing them is fine .

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"In a similar vein, what about hotlisting and not saying hello?

I have a couple of members in my hotlist that aren't looking to meet anyone at the moment, hotlisting gives me an opportunity to see if their situation has changed. "

They don't know they're on your hotlist so it doesn't matter if you say hello or not,or perve them on a daily basis for the next 10 years

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They don't know they're on your hotlist so it doesn't matter if you say hello or not,or perve them on a daily basis for the next 10 years "

So you didn't know I'd been perving you every day?

Thank God that's a secret then....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

perv in peace!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"They don't know they're on your hotlist so it doesn't matter if you say hello or not,or perve them on a daily basis for the next 10 years

So you didn't know I'd been perving you every day?

Thank God that's a secret then...."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whistles innocently.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a similar vein, what about hotlisting and not saying hello?

I have a couple of members in my hotlist that aren't looking to meet anyone at the moment, hotlisting gives me an opportunity to see if their situation has changed.

They don't know they're on your hotlist so it doesn't matter if you say hello or not,or perve them on a daily basis for the next 10 years "

They will know if they have platinum membership.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Remind me please, how much does that cost?

I don't have a lot of cash at the moment, I'm still saving for new shoes.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If fabbing photos has more meaning that just liking a photo then I'm in trouble.

I fab photos often. Rarely I'd be what they are looking for and what we would like. I just appreciate the picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If fabbing photos has more meaning that just liking a photo then I'm in trouble.

I fab photos often. Rarely I'd be what they are looking for and what we would like. I just appreciate the picture "

Ditto, if I see a pic I like, I fab, regardless of who the owner may be... No ulterior motives.... well most of the time anyway

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