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"Was there ever a sequel 'Why Women love Bastards'? " I've no idea, but I think there's something in that. We often go for the guy who's termed as the bad boy ! I confess I have in the past! | |||
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"I find neediness difficult to deal with. " Did you help write the book as that's a quote in there ! | |||
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" It defines a bitch as nice, she's sweet as a peach. She smiles and is feminine. She just doesn't make decisions based on the fear of losing a man. She never allows someone to be her priority whilst she's just an option. " that is the defintion of 'bitch'..? wow..im definitely clueless.. | |||
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"I'm confused, why do these things make us Bitches? - Amy. x" Agreed...if that's what makes a bitch I'll happily be one but I'm not convinced... | |||
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"Last I checked, it was called not being a doormat..." Agreed, but some people do end up being one. Even of they weren't always one. Dynamics in a relationship often change over time. | |||
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"I'm confused, why do these things make us Bitches? - Amy. x" They don't. Strong minded doesn't make a woman a bitch, just strong minded. I would more equate the 'bitch' definition as equal to how the term 'bastard' equates to men - someone who treats the opposite sex as subordinate, who is self centred, dismissive and unfaithful. | |||
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"Last I checked, it was called not being a doormat... Agreed, but some people do end up being one. Even of they weren't always one. Dynamics in a relationship often change over time. " and a bad man can make a nice girl become a bad bitch! | |||
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"I've been clearing out some books and came across a long forgotten book - Why men love bitches! It defines a bitch as nice, she's sweet as a peach. She smiles and is feminine. She just doesn't make decisions based on the fear of losing a man. She never allows someone to be her priority whilst she's just an option. My first serious bf told me it was my aloofness that first attracted him to me and that I didn't wait on his phone calls. So can some women be too nice and you prefer a bitch? " I don't think that someone is a bitch just because they put themselves first in life. | |||
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"I'm confused, why do these things make us Bitches? - Amy. x They don't. Strong minded doesn't make a woman a bitch, just strong minded. I would more equate the 'bitch' definition as equal to how the term 'bastard' equates to men - someone who treats the opposite sex as subordinate, who is self centred, dismissive and unfaithful." | |||
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" I like strong, independent women, who know what they want/like, are happy to speak their mind freely and are prepared to stand up for themselves. " This exactly. ^^ | |||
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" I like strong, independent women, who know what they want/like, are happy to speak their mind freely and are prepared to stand up for themselves. This exactly. ^^ " I didn't know there was another option? | |||
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" I like strong, independent women, who know what they want/like, are happy to speak their mind freely and are prepared to stand up for themselves. This exactly. ^^ " But that isn't being a bitch necessarily... | |||
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" I like strong, independent women, who know what they want/like, are happy to speak their mind freely and are prepared to stand up for themselves. This exactly. ^^ But that isn't being a bitch necessarily..." (That was my point) | |||
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" I like strong, independent women, who know what they want/like, are happy to speak their mind freely and are prepared to stand up for themselves. This exactly. ^^ But that isn't being a bitch necessarily... (That was my point)" Yes...sorry only just realised when I read back | |||
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" I like strong, independent women, who know what they want/like, are happy to speak their mind freely and are prepared to stand up for themselves. This exactly. ^^ I didn't know there was another option? " I haven't got a clue what you mean?... I'm referring to what I like. | |||
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"Bitch - a malicious spiteful or coarse woman" Or a femAle dog | |||
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"Doesn't sound like a bitch to me. More like a woman who is happily independent and knows her own mind. A bitch in my mind is something very different." I agree, I love a confident, self assertive woman who knows what she wants. That is not my definition of a bitch. | |||
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"The full title of the book is Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl. If being self-assured is being a bitch and that makes you a dreamgirl I wonder what is the question we are trying to answer? " The book is now in the charity shop ! I went through a phase of reading a few books of a similar vein. Then decided I'm just me -whatever that is. | |||
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"All of these are positive traits imo, whereas a bitch is more negative: mean, selfish, demeaning, two-faced etc. Mr ddc" | |||
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" I like strong, independent women, who know what they want/like, are happy to speak their mind freely and are prepared to stand up for themselves. This exactly. ^^ I didn't know there was another option? I haven't got a clue what you mean?... I'm referring to what I like." Sorry GT, wasn't referring to your choice. I'm as you describe thought it's never been a choice - just natural. | |||
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"I've been clearing out some books and came across a long forgotten book - Why men love bitches! It defines a bitch as nice, she's sweet as a peach. She smiles and is feminine. She just doesn't make decisions based on the fear of losing a man. She never allows someone to be her priority whilst she's just an option. My first serious bf told me it was my aloofness that first attracted him to me and that I didn't wait on his phone calls. So can some women be too nice and you prefer a bitch? " I too have this book! It taught me a few things. Although I like to think I am who I am from life experiences and myself wanting to be the person I am today. | |||
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"I've been clearing out some books and came across a long forgotten book - Why men love bitches! It defines a bitch as nice, she's sweet as a peach. She smiles and is feminine. She just doesn't make decisions based on the fear of losing a man. She never allows someone to be her priority whilst she's just an option. My first serious bf told me it was my aloofness that first attracted him to me and that I didn't wait on his phone calls. So can some women be too nice and you prefer a bitch? I too have this book! It taught me a few things. Although I like to think I am who I am from life experiences and myself wanting to be the person I am today." and very nice you turned out too | |||
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