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All i want to do is Pleasure

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

is it wrong that i enjoy giving pleasure alot more then receiving it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not! I'm with you 100%, my pleasure comes from unselfishly focussing on and indulging a lady and ensuring the pleasure is all hers!

Win / win!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You two want to move to Glasgow??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol yes anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am the same my pleasure comes from giving pleasure otherwise what's the point.

I dont understand men that use prostitutes thats something I could never do its just for your own sexual gratification and money a real turn off for me

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By *onConformistLikeUMan
over a year ago

Chorley


"I am the same my pleasure comes from giving pleasure otherwise what's the point.

I dont understand men that use prostitutes thats something I could never do its just for your own sexual gratification and money a real turn off for me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving pleasure its a massive turn on for me seeing a man getting turned on by something I'm doing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im not alone then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo not alone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My greatest pleasure is giving pleasure....it's the best way to make sexual encounters fun and memorable for all involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The things men say to get fucked !!!

Oh and im in touch with my feminine side too ....lets go and pick some soft furnishings while im at it .

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI


"The things men say to get fucked !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is it wrong that i enjoy giving pleasure alot more then receiving it?"

I often wonder what the thinking is behind posts like this. If you're trying to tell people that you're a considerate and generous sex partner then why not just SAY it instead of pretending you think it's 'wrong' somehow and expecting people to fawn over you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is it wrong that i enjoy giving pleasure alot more then receiving it?

I often wonder what the thinking is behind posts like this. If you're trying to tell people that you're a considerate and generous sex partner then why not just SAY it instead of pretending you think it's 'wrong' somehow and expecting people to fawn over you?"

Hear hear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im not alone then?"

Not in the slightest. I'm definitely a "pleaser" if that's the right word for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is it wrong that i enjoy giving pleasure alot more then receiving it?

I often wonder what the thinking is behind posts like this. If you're trying to tell people that you're a considerate and generous sex partner then why not just SAY it instead of pretending you think it's 'wrong' somehow and expecting people to fawn over you?"

Plenty of people on here guilty of that on a daily basis.

How about, for example, he sees hundreds of comments a day reinforcing the stereotypes that "men fuck women" "men love blowjobs". And he has found that he prefers giving oral than receiving and finds it strange that he doesn't fit into that stereotype?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"is it wrong that i enjoy giving pleasure alot more then receiving it?"

No it isn't wrong. You receive pleasure from giving its no worse or better than receiving pleasure from getting a blow job.....it's your thing.

Carry on enjoying it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is it wrong that i enjoy giving pleasure alot more then receiving it?

I often wonder what the thinking is behind posts like this. If you're trying to tell people that you're a considerate and generous sex partner then why not just SAY it instead of pretending you think it's 'wrong' somehow and expecting people to fawn over you?"

The transparency is strong in this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is it wrong that i enjoy giving pleasure alot more then receiving it?

I often wonder what the thinking is behind posts like this. If you're trying to tell people that you're a considerate and generous sex partner then why not just SAY it instead of pretending you think it's 'wrong' somehow and expecting people to fawn over you?

The transparency is strong in this thread. "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

The transparency is strong in this thread. "

Hehe..yeah, it was a bit naff "oh agony agony..if only I didn't like giving pleasure so much, then maybe all the girls would just leave me alone!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often thought of meeting someone who said that and saw if it was true if they really didnt want their cock sucked or sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often thought of meeting someone who said that and saw if it was true if they really didnt want their cock sucked or sex "

oh..um..yeah, ask I want to do is give pleasure.. yep. . 100% !

..how's that jaqs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often thought of meeting someone who said that and saw if it was true if they really didnt want their cock sucked or sex

oh..um..yeah, ask I want to do is give pleasure.. yep. . 100% !

..how's that jaqs? "

Ok so u would kiss me pleasure me and then after i have cum a few times u would get up get dressed and go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often thought of meeting someone who said that and saw if it was true if they really didnt want their cock sucked or sex

oh..um..yeah, ask I want to do is give pleasure.. yep. . 100% !

..how's that jaqs?

Ok so u would kiss me pleasure me and then after i have cum a few times u would get up get dressed and go?"

I've done that. Seriously. Pre agreed and it worked for us both!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Ok so u would kiss me pleasure me and then after i have cum a few times u would get up get dressed and go?"

I can't lie!! nope.. I'd be kinda hoping you'd climb on top too.. lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's amazing how many men love giving pleasure until you meet them then it's all blow jobs and shags

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Ok so u would kiss me pleasure me and then after i have cum a few times u would get up get dressed and go?

I can't lie!! nope.. I'd be kinda hoping you'd climb on top too.. lol x"

so no then you cant do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's amazing how many men love giving pleasure until you meet them then it's all blow jobs and shags "

my kinda thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's amazing how many men love giving pleasure until you meet them then it's all blow jobs and shags

my kinda thought"

Sometimes my thought too!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's amazing how many men love giving pleasure until you meet them then it's all blow jobs and shags

my kinda thought

Sometimes my thought too!!!! "

well seems us ladies have it sussed @_

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's amazing how many men love giving pleasure until you meet them then it's all blow jobs and shags

my kinda thought

Sometimes my thought too!!!!

well seems us ladies have it sussed @_ "

Some woman are just as bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's amazing how many men love giving pleasure until you meet them then it's all blow jobs and shags

my kinda thought

Sometimes my thought too!!!!

well seems us ladies have it sussed @_

Some woman are just as bad "

Don't meet women so can't comment on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's amazing how many men love giving pleasure until you meet them then it's all blow jobs and shags

my kinda thought

Sometimes my thought too!!!!

well seems us ladies have it sussed @_

Some woman are just as bad "

ifi meet someone social its a good start that means i like them and if its mutual i will follow it through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why did i think of adult nappies?? oh yeah "follow through!"

Not so long ago a man asked if any ladies would be intetested in just recieving oral the response was a big yes, as long as thats all it was oral and go! No different if a woman just wants to give oral. Yes i have done oral only with women and refused to fuck em after it can be a power trip for a guy too

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By *ort_AdmiralMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Lets face it, an enthusiastic and happy partner you have totally pleasured is a fantastic feeling, even if you've done very little. There surely can't be a bigger turn off that being with someone who isn't getting pleasure. I mean--what's the point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I can't lie!! nope.. I'd be kinda hoping you'd climb on top too.. lol x

so no then you cant do it

"

Hehe..harsh..but fair.. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I can't lie!! nope.. I'd be kinda hoping you'd climb on top too.. lol x

so no then you cant do it

Hehe..harsh..but fair.. x"

u know me _

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lets face it, an enthusiastic and happy partner you have totally pleasured is a fantastic feeling, even if you've done very little. There surely can't be a bigger turn off that being with someone who isn't getting pleasure. I mean--what's the point?"

no i agree i prefer meets without that as i love sex and penetration more than oral at times

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By *ort_AdmiralMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"i prefer meets without that as i love sex and penetration more than oral at times "

Give you something to look forward to the next time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just like to jump on and get it over and done with as quick as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i prefer meets without that as i love sex and penetration more than oral at times

Give you something to look forward to the next time!"

Not for me no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish that I could find somebody who liked to give me pleasure...

The pleasure that I want is to have my bathroom scrubbed, and then the oven cleaned - and then my car washed - and the roof fixing - oh, and the garden wall at the back rebuilt...

Why does nobody ever offer to do it? All I get on are people wanting to give me sex...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish that I could find somebody who liked to give me pleasure...

The pleasure that I want is to have my bathroom scrubbed, and then the oven cleaned - and then my car washed - and the roof fixing - oh, and the garden wall at the back rebuilt...

Why does nobody ever offer to do it? All I get on are people wanting to give me sex...

"

I think you're looking for Fabhandyman.com?

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines


"I wish that I could find somebody who liked to give me pleasure...

The pleasure that I want is to have my bathroom scrubbed, and then the oven cleaned - and then my car washed - and the roof fixing - oh, and the garden wall at the back rebuilt...

Why does nobody ever offer to do it? All I get on are people wanting to give me sex...

"

You're from Caernarfon - If people think you live in the castle then that garden wall repair sounds a bit daunting

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By *hooWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I wish that I could find somebody who liked to give me pleasure...

The pleasure that I want is to have my bathroom scrubbed, and then the oven cleaned - and then my car washed - and the roof fixing - oh, and the garden wall at the back rebuilt...

Why does nobody ever offer to do it? All I get on are people wanting to give me sex...

"

And then get down on his knees once he has done all of the above and show his gratitude for being allowed to to do all of the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually find that a guy who says it's all about the woman's pleasure a turn off if I'm honest, for me it's mutual

It puts far too much pressure on me to 'perform' and 'orgasm spectacularly' when they are fumbling about down there and lets face it lots of guys think they are amazing and they are not

It's also a turn off if I've got to give them instructions tbh

For me I like a man who is confident and is happy to take from me and push me, make me beg and dish out a little correction

Saying that there has to be a connection and some decent conversation to get to that point

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By *ort_AdmiralMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"It puts far too much pressure on me to 'perform' and 'orgasm spectacularly' when they are fumbling about down there and lets face it lots of guys think they are amazing and they are not

It's also a turn off if I've got to give them instructions tbh

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Are you assuming that giving pleasure is a submissive activity that requires direction? That would never work for me - not a sub bone in my body. Pleasuring is all about putting experience into practice, spotting what works and taking full advantage of it.

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