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By *ary bailey OP   Couple
over a year ago

basildon

A neighbours has set up an account to spy on a swingers couple. Should more be done to verify accounts. ??? I think after altercations and neight our and police involvement. Maybe more should be done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is not illegal. What involvement could the police have?

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI

I think people should move, few things more toxic and detrimental to quality of life than neighbours at war!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

What could they do? Add a question to the set up page asking if they are only setting up a profile to spy on people?! HOw does this couple know that their neighbours have done this?

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

New age neighbourhood watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how do they know there swingers?

why was would they want to spy on the ppl next door? to what end?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A neighbours has set up an account to spy on a swingers couple. Should more be done to verify accounts. ??? I think after altercations and neight our and police involvement. Maybe more should be done. "

Are you the couple being spied in or are you 'asking for a friend?'

Block and move on.

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

Put loads of sarky comments about them on your timeline

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Quis custodiet ipsos custodiets?

Forgive my spelling but hey, who cares? Erm.. Have you ever had neighbours who carried themselves and spoke to others as if they were better than you, esp morally and financially?

These are facts of life and cross-fence feuds will not disappear as long as left handed people live with us right handed fuckers. This saga has neither head nor tail.

LEAVE IT.

Oh, please lower the noise levels coz I am only next door.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

How does anyone - you or the swingers in question - know that this 'account' has been set up?

Did they tell you? If so - block them.

Did they put face pics up that you recognise? If so - block them.

Did you recognise the pampas grass pots outside their front door in a photo? If so - block them.

Is the opening line in their profile text "we set this up to spy on Jim and Deirdre at 22 Noseycunts Lane" (other names and addresses are available). If so - block them.

Or - you could out them to the rest of the neighbours as being on a swingers website - as they are!

But then you'd have to explain how you knew that.

Feck!!!

This plot's thicker than your average episode of Hollyoaks!

A

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"I think people should move, few things more toxic and detrimental to quality of life than neighbours at war! "

I agree. I value having good neighbours highly.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"I think people should move, few things more toxic and detrimental to quality of life than neighbours at war!

I agree. I value having good neighbours highly. "

As someone who's had to move twice because of noisy neighbours, I agree. No one should have to move from a home they love because of selfish, inconsiderate arseholes, but sometimes you're left with no option if you want peace of mind

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By *illy_gossyMan
over a year ago

Gosforth Newcastle

Note to self: If there's pampas grass pots at the door, do a runner.......

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"Note to self: If there's pampas grass pots at the door, do a runner......."

Hmmmm, my last meet did one. I wonder why?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I wouldn't get involved in other people's dramas

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By *ary bailey OP   Couple
over a year ago

basildon

profile unknown it's deliberately fake. I really do feel more should be done. I had teenagers that, know we are swingers . But it's not been an issue. A little worrying. That they have become members. Last night I was accused off being a sec offender. WTf. These people are cyber stalking. As well as recording Dailey activities. Just wondered if there was any ideas how fab could make things safer for people. Maybe a one off refundable payment via a card payment. I'd be quite happy to pay £100 refundable in 3 months or something.

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By *angzMan
over a year ago

Manchester, London & sometimes Newcastle

What if the neighbours are interested in becoming swingers too?

If it would be too big a deal then ppl should be more discrete and not tell anyone they're swingers?

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"How does anyone - you or the swingers in question - know that this 'account' has been set up?

Did they tell you? If so - block them.

Did they put face pics up that you recognise? If so - block them.

Did you recognise the pampas grass pots outside their front door in a photo? If so - block them.

Is the opening line in their profile text "we set this up to spy on Jim and Deirdre at 22 Noseycunts Lane" (other names and addresses are available). If so - block them.

Or - you could out them to the rest of the neighbours as being on a swingers website - as they are!

But then you'd have to explain how you knew that.

Feck!!!

This plot's thicker than your average episode of Hollyoaks!

A"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how do they know there swingers?

why was would they want to spy on the ppl next door? to what end?

"

And why would they tell the OP they had done this not very good spys if they are advertising it to people

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

Sod them.....

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"how do they know there swingers?

why was would they want to spy on the ppl next door? to what end?

And why would they tell the OP they had done this not very good spys if they are advertising it to people "

It's a double bluff!

Probably another Sydney Uni experiment.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quis custodiet ipsos custodiets?

Forgive my spelling but hey, who cares? Erm.. Have you ever had neighbours who carried themselves and spoke to others as if they were better than you, esp morally and financially?

These are facts of life and cross-fence feuds will not disappear as long as left handed people live with us right handed fuckers. This saga has neither head nor tail.

LEAVE IT.

Oh, please lower the noise levels coz I am only next door. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how do they know there swingers?

why was would they want to spy on the ppl next door? to what end?

And why would they tell the OP they had done this not very good spys if they are advertising it to people "

I wonder if they wear trilby's and fake nose/ glasses/ tache.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"profile unknown it's deliberately fake. I really do feel more should be done. I had teenagers that, know we are swingers . But it's not been an issue. A little worrying. That they have become members. Last night I was accused off being a sec offender. WTf. These people are cyber stalking. As well as recording Dailey activities. Just wondered if there was any ideas how fab could make things safer for people. Maybe a one off refundable payment via a card payment. I'd be quite happy to pay £100 refundable in 3 months or something. "

what else can fab do to make things safer for its members..? it they start fucking about asking people for a £100 refundable deposit and stuff..then most of the members will leave overnight.if you don't want your neighbours to see who you are then don't put any face pics on your profile.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I wouldn't get involved in other people's dramas"

Nor I: have enough drama of my own.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"profile unknown it's deliberately fake. I really do feel more should be done. I had teenagers that, know we are swingers . But it's not been an issue. A little worrying. That they have become members. Last night I was accused off being a sec offender. WTf. These people are cyber stalking. As well as recording Dailey activities. Just wondered if there was any ideas how fab could make things safer for people. Maybe a one off refundable payment via a card payment. I'd be quite happy to pay £100 refundable in 3 months or something. "

That's ridiculous and would Jill the site. I'm 100% genuine but i ain't parting with anything like that value just to be on here regardless of the fact it's refundable!

Fab site owners are not your parents. If you have issues with other people sort it yourself you are a grown person. If they are brwaking the law in what they are doing go to the police. Unfortunately joining here and noting your activities are not illegal, annoying yes, childish perhapsbut there is nothing to stop them being on here.

Why do you think they want to be spying on you? What vested interest do they have in this information? Call theor bluff and say you know they know and you aren't bothered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why you should be able to block everyone within 3-5 miles of you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why you should be able to block everyone within 3-5 miles of you!"

Assuming people put their real postcode... I don't.....

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By *ary bailey OP   Couple
over a year ago

basildon

They told us after filming people that they had screen shots from fab swingers. After they shoved camera phones in friends faces. Police don't seem interested. Despite them making false claims. Witch where proven to be force via mobile phone footage. naighnours been on one for years. police mediation has failed because naighbours will not take part. No one else In street has a problem.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Have they auditioned for depressing enders?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

are they your neighbours and spying on you, or someone else's.

if someone else's, why get involved.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Fuck 'em. If their lives are that sad that they have nothing better to do, then let them get on with it.

You are consenting adults meeting other consenting adults for recreational sex. You'really not doing anything illegal.

And if they insist on showing all and sundry what you get up to, it may help out the people who clearly aren't worth your time, as those who matter will know what you're like and tell them to mind their own frickin' business.

If people start harassing you for it, then you can get the Police involved.

MAY be worth sending messages to your friends to explain what's going on if you're worried they may take it the wrong way or if you're scared of what they may think of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely if you block this account that has been set up to spy they can no longer spy on you?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It feels like there is more to this story.

My young neighbours have been annoying in timing their home improvements with my hangovers. Should I report them - they started at 8am at the weekend?

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Surely if you block this account that has been set up to spy they can no longer spy on you? "

Or set your filters to no newbies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remove public pcs.

Block new profiles.

End of problem.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"It feels like there is more to this story.

My young neighbours have been annoying in timing their home improvements with my hangovers. Should I report them - they started at 8am at the weekend?

"

No. Stop drinking at times inconvenient to their D.I.Y.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"It feels like there is more to this story.

My young neighbours have been annoying in timing their home improvements with my hangovers. Should I report them - they started at 8am at the weekend?

No. Stop drinking at times inconvenient to their D.I.Y."

Sorry. It was my birthday so the good news is that I won't be inconveniencing their D.I.Y. for another year.

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