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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone ever see their ex out in public with some schmuck and think, oh wow you've downgraded! This happened to me last night.

The only shitty thing is that I still have feelings for her and it took me ages to get over as well after we broke up. Truth is, to this day I would never turn a blind eye to her or deny her help if she ever needed it. Am I a mug? Probably....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

If insults heal wounds you are cured.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

My ex's current bit is a pretty girl from near Prague. I feel sorry for her as she will be the 4th one in 12 months that he will mess around and treat like dirt. Unless he's changed. Which I doubt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i see my exs i think wtf was i drinking then!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change your social locations and destinations.

There is a strong possibility that whatever differences exist between you and this new guy are exactly what she wants (or needs)

As for you, as hard as it seems now, you'll need to move on. That means severing more (emotional) ties wth her. Whether it's 're-training your brain' or whatever, you'll need to find a way to let go, and essentially tell yourself that she won't (for now) be coming to you for help.

Of course, we're all different so what I've just said may not be best for you

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

No, because I'm not that much of a Bitch or that far up my own arse to think I'm better than anyone else.

You may not think much of them physically but they could be much more handsome/prettier/sexier than you in your EX's eyes, and have a fantastic personality.

I've always felt that comment just sounds extremely bitter whenever I've heard it.

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

Nope. I don't think my ex will get another gf any time soon anyway.. He never leaves the house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When i see my exs i think wtf was i drinking then!! "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You cant go back its never the same, move on better things are around the corner.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I don't think I'd recognise an ex if they rocked up and bit me on the arse it's been so long

If it makes you feel better to think she's downgraded then I feel sad for you as that bitterness will eat you up

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

move on taken me year get over mine time is healer look at him now think good ridden you get their as dont feel anything for him takes time you will do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With one exception when I see my ex's or hear from them my only thought is that i am glad they are happy and enjoying life. And glad that they still care enough about me to have the same emotions towards me. And the one exception, there is nothing worse than indifference towards her. Life is to short to begrudge people I once loved future happiness

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Change your social locations and destinations.

There is a strong possibility that whatever differences exist between you and this new guy are exactly what she wants (or needs)

As for you, as hard as it seems now, you'll need to move on. That means severing more (emotional) ties wth her. Whether it's 're-training your brain' or whatever, you'll need to find a way to let go, and essentially tell yourself that she won't (for now) be coming to you for help.

Of course, we're all different so what I've just said may not be best for you "

Dude I haven't seen her in 2 years! And we broke up 3 years ago lol. I'm fully unattached don't get me wrong, I'm not still pining to get her back or anything.

But you know how there's one person that you always think could be the one? That's how I've always felt about her.

My point is that after all the bitterness and hate I felt towards her post-break up, I would still pretty much do anything for her. Like she'll always have a special place in my heart I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see my ex and his gf now and then when he picks our grandchildren up or drops the car off. She's ok and they seem to be getting on well. She isn't someone I would have been friends with but she's not too terrible.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I'm friends with my ex and would do anything for him and vice versa, I think that is the best way to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No even though he's my ex I wish him no bad feelings or malice we fell out of love.

Doesn't mean he can't find happiness without me far from it

I wish him all the success in the world

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think I'd recognise an ex if they rocked up and bit me on the arse it's been so long

If it makes you feel better to think she's downgraded then I feel sad for you as that bitterness will eat you up"

It's the little victories that keep me going lol

She could have been out with Tom Hardy it wouldn't have bothered me. I wish her all the best and hope she gets treated right that's all!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

My ex husbands second wife became good friends, even stayed friends after they split up.

She's part of my sons life so why wouldn't I get on with her?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No even though he's my ex I wish him no bad feelings or malice we fell out of love.

Doesn't mean he can't find happiness without me far from it

I wish him all the success in the world "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm friends with my ex and would do anything for him and vice versa, I think that is the best way to be "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never looked at my ex's woman and thought he has down graded

What I do wonder is seeing as he wouldn't have sex with me and left me for being to fat and his new women is about a size 24 I can't help but wonder what the hell all that was about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When i see my exs i think wtf was i drinking then!!

This "
nice bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never looked at my ex's woman and thought he has down graded

What I do wonder is seeing as he wouldn't have sex with me and left me for being to fat and his new women is about a size 24 I can't help but wonder what the hell all that was about "
to make you feel less of yourself? He was weak but wanted you to become weak. I think your fckn great lass x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still see my ex from ttime to time n still give him the occasional blow job

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My ex husbands second wife became good friends, even stayed friends after they split up.

She's part of my sons life so why wouldn't I get on with her?

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"my ex husband's second wife".... Sounds like a riddle! How many times has this boy been married I'm intrigued now (sorry to change the subject slightly lol)

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By *er himWoman
over a year ago

Essex

And what does he give you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And what does he give you "

The excitement that im doing something nawty that I no even after all this time he still can't refuse.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I don't give a second thought to any of my ex's. I'm still friends with one and I simply don't fancy him anymore as the attraction has gone.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

The only exs I want to kick in the bollocks are the two that used me as a punch bag...

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By *onConformistLikeUMan
over a year ago

Chorley

I'm not likely to see my ex around town but from what I've seen on social media I think I had a lucky escape.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And what does he give you

The excitement that im doing something nawty that I no even after all this time he still can't refuse."

Love this!! 3

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Nope. I don't think my ex will get another gf any time soon anyway.. He never leaves the house "

Matt Malone from Game On

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