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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

does anything good come out of these crap one word messages?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's lazy, doesn't have to be an essay, but it's better to send something that can be replied to properly

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Hi

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's lazy, doesn't have to be an essay, but it's better to send something that can be replied to properly "

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message:- hi

Reply :- bye

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Message:- hi

Reply :- bye

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's lazy, doesn't have to be an essay, but it's better to send something that can be replied to properly "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Message:- hi

Reply :- bye

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Message:- hi

Reply :- bye

"

i use the delete button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi is a bit annoying but not everyone is an articulate soul and also they may be just testing as they may think they are out of your league.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Completely depends who has sent it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sad thing is that those who send the 'hi' messages think that's all it takes. Is laughing at clueless people cruel??

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

they drive me insane... hi or hows you .or even got a just an x last week..i dont like to be rude but now i just bin them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just delete them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if the profile is alluring. It's one step beyond a wink and if you bother to reply it's the corresponding reply that would be the clincher. Try sending a hi message to 100 people and see what happens

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I reply out of politeness, but they never get very far

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi is a bit annoying but not everyone is an articulate soul and also they may be just testing as they may think they are out of your league."

no but they could send a better message than "hi"

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Hello,

One is inquiring if it is possible to insert my engorged penis into your sorghastrom endometrium?

Kindest Regards.

-------------------------------

Translated....

Hi,

Fancy a fuck

Ta

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does anything good come out of these crap one word messages?

"

Hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol!

I'm bored as fuck I'm going to test it and report back.

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By *eddy004Man
over a year ago

Toy Town

Tried a longer more in-depth message and still deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello,

One is inquiring if it is possible to insert my engorged penis into your sorghastrom endometrium?

Kindest Regards.

-------------------------------

Translated....

Hi,

Fancy a fuck

Ta

"

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol!

I'm bored as fuck I'm going to test it and report back.

"

Lol

ok done. Waiting. ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything that gets a reply is a successful message.

Even if the reply is piss off!

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West


"does anything good come out of these crap one word messages?

"

Not with us.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Completely depends who has sent it"

This!

Can anyone honestly say that if they received a message from their ideal couple/single that ticked every box and was as perfect a match as possible, that simply said "Hi" - that you'd ignore/delete it?

Honestly?

A

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Hi

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Message:- hi

Reply :- bye

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes"

The longest journeys start with the first step.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Completely depends who has sent it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol!

I'm bored as fuck I'm going to test it and report back.

Lol

ok done. Waiting. ..."

Ok she opened it and read it but she didn't delete it, she also hasn't replied as of yet.

Will past back at some point with a conclusive result.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Completely depends who has sent it

This!

Can anyone honestly say that if they received a message from their ideal couple/single that ticked every box and was as perfect a match as possible, that simply said "Hi" - that you'd ignore/delete it?

Honestly?

A"

I suspect a lot of people would cease to complain about the content of the messages, if they did not receive any

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By *ort_AdmiralMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Really? I mean this place is a meat market the moment a new woman joins, so unless she is so shallow that's its 100% down to pics I assume most of those that swamp her in the first half hour will be hi messages that get quickly deleted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lol!

I'm bored as fuck I'm going to test it and report back.

"

do it

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford


"Completely depends who has sent it

This!

Can anyone honestly say that if they received a message from their ideal couple/single that ticked every box and was as perfect a match as possible, that simply said "Hi" - that you'd ignore/delete it?

Honestly?

A"

yes a few times .tho i might fab their pics in the hope they reply with a proper message

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By *onConformistLikeUMan
over a year ago

Chorley

Hi!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Completely depends who has sent it

This!

Can anyone honestly say that if they received a message from their ideal couple/single that ticked every box and was as perfect a match as possible, that simply said "Hi" - that you'd ignore/delete it?

Honestly?

A

I suspect a lot of people would cease to complain about the content of the messages, if they did not receive any "

My messages i get i have the highest regard to people who send them, they took the time to send one and not read my profile so yes actally i would prefer a no message in the case like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to give people a chance one word dont define someone ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It completely works if they have a profile and pics that I like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously hot stuff like me gets hundreds of messages every day from an army of lovelies, fighting for my attention. Some of the best conversations I've had have began with "hi" or a wink. It just depends on who sent it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After sending 100s of messages to see them deleted without reply i only send winks now even hi is too much effort! I think a lot of women on here think they are actually better than they really are! But lots of guys will jump through your hoops say everything you want to hear and take the piss behind your backs ffs! Its not facebook and a lot of times its like being fckn inter_iewed! Long lists of requirements hoops to jump through and for what? A shit bj some people really need to get the fck over themselves a well crafted letter means fck all if theyre not what your looking for so what's wrong with Hi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After sending 100s of messages to see them deleted without reply i only send winks now even hi is too much effort! I think a lot of women on here think they are actually better than they really are! But lots of guys will jump through your hoops say everything you want to hear and take the piss behind your backs ffs! Its not facebook and a lot of times its like being fckn inter_iewed! Long lists of requirements hoops to jump through and for what? A shit bj some people really need to get the fck over themselves a well crafted letter means fck all if theyre not what your looking for so what's wrong with Hi? "

Good rant! I agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"After sending 100s of messages to see them deleted without reply i only send winks now even hi is too much effort! I think a lot of women on here think they are actually better than they really are! But lots of guys will jump through your hoops say everything you want to hear and take the piss behind your backs ffs! Its not facebook and a lot of times its like being fckn inter_iewed! Long lists of requirements hoops to jump through and for what? A shit bj some people really need to get the fck over themselves a well crafted letter means fck all if theyre not what your looking for so what's wrong with Hi?

Good rant! I agree "

thats why meeting at clubs work no inter_iews no messages its hello fancy a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After sending 100s of messages to see them deleted without reply i only send winks now even hi is too much effort! I think a lot of women on here think they are actually better than they really are! But lots of guys will jump through your hoops say everything you want to hear and take the piss behind your backs ffs! Its not facebook and a lot of times its like being fckn inter_iewed! Long lists of requirements hoops to jump through and for what? A shit bj some people really need to get the fck over themselves a well crafted letter means fck all if theyre not what your looking for so what's wrong with Hi?

Good rant! I agree "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always reply but just with a "hi" and see what ensues. Usually its followed by "how are you" to which I reply "fine thanks, you?" which gets a "good thanks" or similar and that's the end of the conversation until of course they send another "hi" message a few days/weeks later and the process starts all over again!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always reply but just with a "hi" and see what ensues. Usually its followed by "how are you" to which I reply "fine thanks, you?" which gets a "good thanks" or similar and that's the end of the conversation until of course they send another "hi" message a few days/weeks later and the process starts all over again!! "
diffucult to construct anymore than hi to a hidden profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if their profile piques interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always reply but just with a "hi" and see what ensues. Usually its followed by "how are you" to which I reply "fine thanks, you?" which gets a "good thanks" or similar and that's the end of the conversation until of course they send another "hi" message a few days/weeks later and the process starts all over again!! diffucult to construct anymore than hi to a hidden profile! "

I don't want any messages or meets at present, that's why its hidden!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Hi! made me think of this and the numerous other messages people send ..

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Zk5XC8tu64

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always reply but just with a "hi" and see what ensues. Usually its followed by "how are you" to which I reply "fine thanks, you?" which gets a "good thanks" or similar and that's the end of the conversation until of course they send another "hi" message a few days/weeks later and the process starts all over again!! "

I find that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we tend to ignore but sometimes simply say hi back just for the hell of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always reply but just with a "hi" and see what ensues. Usually its followed by "how are you" to which I reply "fine thanks, you?" which gets a "good thanks" or similar and that's the end of the conversation until of course they send another "hi" message a few days/weeks later and the process starts all over again!!

I find that too"

I always wonder why they just can't put "hi how are you, what are you up to?" in just one message, its slightly less tedious then (but not much less!!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always reply but just with a "hi" and see what ensues. Usually its followed by "how are you" to which I reply "fine thanks, you?" which gets a "good thanks" or similar and that's the end of the conversation until of course they send another "hi" message a few days/weeks later and the process starts all over again!!

I find that too

I always wonder why they just can't put "hi how are you, what are you up to?" in just one message, its slightly less tedious then (but not much less!!)"

I think some people think that a "hi" message is like open your legs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol!

I'm bored as fuck I'm going to test it and report back.

Lol

ok done. Waiting. ...

Ok she opened it and read it but she didn't delete it, she also hasn't replied as of yet.

Will past back at some point with a conclusive result. "

Ok update.

I messaged somebody who I would normally "go for" and she has now responded and just said the same thing back to me (over 2 hours later).

I take that with a pinch of salt though because I could totally do this next 5 times and every single one could get deleted.

It just so happens this got a response.

But it's funny because I've sent out well thought out messages in the past and they've been ignored or deleted straight away.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I once got a hi message.

I replied, 'Hi'

They replied, 'Hi'

I replied, 'Hi again'

They blocked me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once got a hi message.

I replied, 'Hi'

They replied, 'Hi'

I replied, 'Hi again'

They blocked me "

I've had that too. Made me snigger like a mad thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

They replied, 'Hi'

"

Basically this is what I got.

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

never had a 'hi' message.... offers ? ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have now taken to just writing my messages on bits of paper and throwing them into the wind. I'm pretty sure I have the same chance of a reply as on here

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I once got a hi message.

I replied, 'Hi'

They replied, 'Hi'

I replied, 'Hi again'

They blocked me

I've had that too. Made me snigger like a mad thing. "

I miss being able to look at your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once got a hi message.

I replied, 'Hi'

They replied, 'Hi'

I replied, 'Hi again'

They blocked me

I've had that too. Made me snigger like a mad thing.

I miss being able to look at your profile "

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

Why bother with a one word 'hi' .. you might as well wink!

... unless you're attaching some pic I guess

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Sometimes I reply with 'yes if alcohol counts', usually ends the convo.

Him.

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By *ch WellMan
over a year ago

Scotland


"I think it's lazy, doesn't have to be an essay, but it's better to send something that can be replied to properly "

Women often complain about the amount of mail they can't get through but ever considered how demoralising it can be for men with the amount of mail they compile and send only for it often to be deleted without even being read?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"Hi is a bit annoying but not everyone is an articulate soul and also they may be just testing as they may think they are out of your league.

no but they could send a better message than "hi""

Sometimes even if they have sent hi,the message is longer than profile so delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's lazy, doesn't have to be an essay, but it's better to send something that can be replied to properly

Women often complain about the amount of mail they can't get through but ever considered how demoralising it can be for men with the amount of mail they compile and send only for it often to be deleted without even being read?"

I have often thought about that, but then I smile to myself and thank god I'm female

If you're going to blame anything, blame the way we're wired. Human nature, simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most guys have exhausted every chat up line going its hard work trying to think of new and interesting first messages, think you women should try it sometime otherwise zip it !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most guys have exhausted every chat up line going its hard work trying to think of new and interesting first messages, think you women should try it sometime otherwise zip it !"

I don't use chat up lines.

I read a profile look at the photos and send a message to match that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And she send lovely messages too xx

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham

Depends on how hot the sender is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does anything good come out of these crap one word messages?

"

Straight to the delete button for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most guys have exhausted every chat up line going its hard work trying to think of new and interesting first messages, think you women should try it sometime otherwise zip it !"

Fair point.

I do send messages, lots of women don't bother/ are scared of rejection... Probably why they are so huffy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi. Nice day today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi. Nice day today "

If we had a quid for every one of those we've received, well we'd have enough for the next few club party nights...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The sad thing is that those who send the 'hi' messages think that's all it takes. Is laughing at clueless people cruel?? "

Hey stop laughing at the mentally challenged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most guys have exhausted every chat up line going its hard work trying to think of new and interesting first messages, think you women should try it sometime otherwise zip it !

Fair point.

I do send messages, lots of women don't bother/ are scared of rejection... Probably why they are soy huffy."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The sad thing is that those who send the 'hi' messages think that's all it takes. Is laughing at clueless people cruel??

Hey stop laughing at the mentally challenged "

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

People that just send hi are clearly deluded timewasters who shouldn't be here, the cool kids send "hey"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People that just send hi are clearly deluded timewasters who shouldn't be here, the cool kids send "hey" "

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi de Hi

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

Had a few

Usually from straight males

Usually ends up with me being asked if I have more pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi. Nice day today

If we had a quid for every one of those we've received, well we'd have enough for the next few club party nights..."
lol yes and for some refreshments as well like Fanta and haribos

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"After sending 100s of messages to see them deleted without reply i only send winks now even hi is too much effort! I think a lot of women on here think they are actually better than they really are! But lots of guys will jump through your hoops say everything you want to hear and take the piss behind your backs ffs! Its not facebook and a lot of times its like being fckn inter_iewed! Long lists of requirements hoops to jump through and for what? A shit bj some people really need to get the fck over themselves a well crafted letter means fck all if theyre not what your looking for so what's wrong with Hi? "

Then what happens when the reply is "hi"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how hot the person saying hi is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it when a "hi" is accompanied with an attached pic of a cock. Oh look I say, a talking cock!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yo."

Mum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yo.

Mum"

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