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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Need some advice,we have both been talking to a nice single bloke on here.We thought it would be easier to chat by a kik so we all swapped names etc.However he seems to over enthusiastic towards my gf,totally ignores me and txt her at silly times etc saying hes horny and calling her babe,darling etc.Shes most uncomfy with it,should we tell him to back off a bit?.Or block him,but dont want to hurt his feelings but he comes across he just wants wank fodder and nothing else.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Is it not obvious? Block!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definite block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block mate get it all the time. Some think she'll be their gf pmsl.

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta be cruel to be kind with some folk!

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Yup get rid without doubt.

It's not like there isn't plenty to pick from on here....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block him. Neither of you are happy with his behaviour so why worry about hurting his feelings?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

do you really need to ask... if uncomfortable because an invisible person is doing things you don't like...

end it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with all of the above.

Don't worry about his feelings, block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretend to be your the wife on kik and see how far he will go! Then burst his buble block and block instanly the next prick to be so disrepectful!

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

If you're not comfortable, then end it. We're here to have fun and it's important to be comfortable with those we have fun with.

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By *he Hobbit And MeCouple
over a year ago

southampton

In an instant BLOCK it`s for both of you but he is only interested in your gf..

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Set up a meet, but only you be there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps he'll pop along to this thread and share his side of the story?

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

By the way, you might want to put a few more pics of you, you and here together. Subliminal reminder that you're a couple. It might help ease the attention off her a bit. Just a suggestion. Good luck.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"Perhaps he'll pop along to this thread and share his side of the story?"

To be fair. But the OP is clearly not happy so it's not going to make much difference.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps he'll pop along to this thread and share his side of the story?"
hope he does,nothing to hide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps he'll pop along to this thread and share his side of the story?hope he does,nothing to hide."
and a few nice places to hide things if you did!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're not comfortable, then end it. We're here to have fun and it's important to be comfortable with those we have fun with. "

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not fun anymore - block

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Need some advice,we have both been talking to a nice single bloke on here.We thought it would be easier to chat by a kik so we all swapped names etc.However he seems to over enthusiastic towards my gf,totally ignores me and txt her at silly times etc saying hes horny and calling her babe,darling etc.Shes most uncomfy with it,should we tell him to back off a bit?.Or block him,but dont want to hurt his feelings but he comes across he just wants wank fodder and nothing else."

Unacceptable behaviour. I'm surprised you have to ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the sake of the almighty biscuit eater, do you really need to ask?

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Just by reading the title of the thread, the answer seems obvious..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well what did you expect?

You think he got in touch because he wanted to become friends with you and discuss football, David Cameron, Dow Jones?

No, unless you are both bi, he got in touch because he's hoping he'll get to fuck your gf.

What he is doing now is the equivalent to foreplay, setting the scene and getting into the mood with keen anticipation.

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate


"Well what did you expect?

You think he got in touch because he wanted to become friends with you and discuss football, David Cameron, Dow Jones?

No, unless you are both bi, he got in touch because he's hoping he'll get to fuck your gf.

What he is doing now is the equivalent to foreplay, setting the scene and getting into the mood with keen anticipation."

Yeah that's an interesting and relevant perspective!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignoring the fact she has a partner ( you) block.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you two are being really selfish thinking only about yourselves and totally ignoring this poor guys needs. To be honest, he's probably a better match for your partner.

Only joking!

He's a nut nut. BLOCK without hesitation!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well an update, just been informed off my gf,hes asked her to meet him behind my back which didnt go down to well.Took the advice and blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's the thing.

Everybody says "BLOCK HIM!"

Well see...here's how I see it...

The absolute weirdest most creepiest fuckers on the internet are normally obsessed with tits, sandwiches, cats, and bacon.

If he ever makes a picture of a chick with big tits serving a bacon sandwich to a cat and sends you THAT picture then yes I'd absolutely block the fucker.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Don't forget you can set up a group for any future kik convos for 3 people then there's no behind anyone's back.

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

you get that all the time or they ask when chatting is it Mr or Mrs say Mr 9 out of 10 stop chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you get that all the time or they ask when chatting is it Mr or Mrs say Mr 9 out of 10 stop chatting "

hmmmmm.

That still won't stop the nut job fucking assholes.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Take off and nuke the entire site from orbit. It's the only way to be sure.

A

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