FabSwingers.com forum: am i a slag?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Joined fab for the obvious...i love sex and do it safely so why are people calling me on here for my veris??? Arent we all here for nsa fun im confused and hurt that men can fuck loads and get a pat on the back yet its seen different when ur a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Joined fab for the obvious...i love sex and do it safely so why are people calling me on here for my veris??? Arent we all here for nsa fun im confused and hurt that men can fuck loads and get a pat on the back yet its seen different when ur a woman "

Just ignore them jealous peeps who ain't getting none them selves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put it down to jealousy, keep doing what you enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sour grapes that's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hide em? Block em? Have fun and dnt let em pull you down x

have a great wknd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. They are calling you because they aren't getting what we all came here for xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you happy?

Are you living your life how you want to live it?

Don't worry or care about what others say.

If they send you abusive messages report and block, they'll bother you no more.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Are you happy?

Are you living your life how you want to live it?

Don't worry or care about what others say.

If they send you abusive messages report and block, they'll bother you no more."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a correlation between being called a slag and people you've rejected ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all slags...ask the general public who don't swing.....and they may have a valid point.....who cares!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Just enjoy yourself we are all here for the same thing and as long as you're feeling happy and hurting nobody it doesn't matter what anybody else thinks about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bitches! enjoy what your doing and fuck them

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does it matter what anybody else thinks, your life, your choice, some people just aren't happy unless trying too make others feel bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bitches! enjoy what your doing and fuck them

Her"

I was gonna say that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have the same issue as you , but it's just jealousy as others have said .

Do as we have and just show a few veri's and dint show the summary .

We have put our summary in for a bit now and will take it off again later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As all the above said. I get it all the time. Given up even pointing out a lot of my veri's are from organised socials.

Just delete and block unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd call you sexually liberated.........n as for myself,I'm just a big slag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just use it as another filter. Block them. Move on. Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I could get to Darlington lol.

Your a hot woman who enjoys sex, take no notice babe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd call you sexually liberated.........n as for myself,I'm just a big slag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you do here is your business and yours alone. Fuck them and their narrow minded opinions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bitches! enjoy what your doing and fuck them

Her

I was gonna say that

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ner ner na ner ner

Her

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 24/04/15 13:01:34]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rise above it.Haters will always hate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its like everyone says, either cos theyve been rejected or there not getting any themselves and not all my veris are people ive slept with...they can call me wat they want i aint gonna stop fucking i enjoy it too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What on earth. I am shaking head in disbelief that anyone on here could be so horrid and call a sexy lady on here a slag. It's not a term of endearment in any shape or form. We sometime laugh at the term slut as we know thats what we can be a bit "slutty" but a slag is nasty, viscious term that is very degrading and offensive and should not be used at all. Yuck. Take a deep breath, smile and hit the block button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A slag? No

Sexy? Very. Xx

Don't forget who you came on here for. You!

If you're making others jealous then you are obviously making a good impact. But. To be on the safe side, you should probably move to Weybridge.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Joined fab for the obvious...i love sex and do it safely so why are people calling me on here for my veris??? Aren't we all here for nsa fun im confused and hurt that men can fuck loads and get a pat on the back yet its seen different when ur a woman "

why would you be surprised that some people think that...... it goes back years and years,

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By *asyplease00Man
over a year ago

darlington

I met up with astrid plenty ov times now she's not what she is getting called at all she's just a hungry girl that's all lol x

see you soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just enjoy yourself. And the block button can be very relaxing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bloke shags loads of women he is a stud.

lady sleeps with lots of men she is a slag or slut.

Not bloody right. if sex was wrong why is it so much fun.

Ignore the twits, carry on doing what you are doing as you are enjoying yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get called slag

Mainly by Tina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said ignore the low lifes who have nothing better to do, they are obviously jealous and not getting at there self. Carry on having fun like the rest of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slag? What are these people, 14? Just ignore the insults - the men doing the insulting are just pissed because they aren't getting laid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married and 14 meets in 5 weeks..i hope hubby knows

...but no not a slag

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

Just ignore them jealous peeps who ain't getting none them selves."

This

Those who cannot get as much or choose not to because they're scared to do as we do and judge us are less than a fart in the breeze

Ignore them and enjoy your life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not much nsa going on in london tho lol but yes just ignore them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ignore them jealous peeps who ain't getting none them selves.

This

Those who cannot get as much or choose not to because they're scared to do as we do and judge us are less than a fart in the breeze

Ignore them and enjoy your life

Have to agree with what others say. You joined for a reason and you are getting what you want!

Personally I am attracted to a woman who knows what she wants and goes and gets it. Good for you!

Block and ignore.

Then enjoy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's just an outdated idea and shouldn't concern you. You go girl and keep having fun safely as the more partners you have the greater the risk of exposure to human papillomavirus and many other things. Play safe.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"We are all slags...ask the general public who don't swing.....and they may have a valid point.....who cares!

Speak for yourself.

Nobody who calls me a slag or considers me a slag has a valid point.

Not that the opinions of idiots matter; they're just wrong.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

Ah there is a saying for this...

I tell it to myself everytime I hear something negative and it actually makes me like negative comments.

"Everyone wants to shoot the fastest gun"

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

sadly double standards are often applied one here as well as in "the outside world" but often its down to jealousy best to just ignore rude comments and the people that make them xx

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Ah there is a saying for this...

I tell it to myself everytime I hear something negative and it actually makes me like negative comments.

"Everyone wants to shoot the fastest gun""

Really? I find it very frustrating when they shoot too quickly.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

"Ah there is a saying for this...

I tell it to myself everytime I hear something negative and it actually makes me like negative comments.

"Everyone wants to shoot the fastest gun"

Really? I find it very frustrating when they shoot too quickly.

You don't have to unload the chamber in one go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slag? What are these people, 14? Just ignore the insults - the men doing the insulting are just pissed because they aren't getting laid."

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Slag? What are these people, 14? Just ignore the insults - the men doing the insulting are just pissed because they aren't getting laid.

I find quite often it's other women who can be the worst offenders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slag? What are these people, 14? Just ignore the insults - the men doing the insulting are just pissed because they aren't getting laid.

I find quite often it's other women who can be the worst offenders.

Same goes for them too then!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Slag? What are these people, 14? Just ignore the insults - the men doing the insulting are just pissed because they aren't getting laid.

I find quite often it's other women who can be the worst offenders.

Same goes for them too then!"

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

"Slag? What are these people, 14? Just ignore the insults - the men doing the insulting are just pissed because they aren't getting laid.

I find quite often it's other women who can be the worst offenders.

Same goes for them too then!

Jealousy that's what it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't have to answer to any one of feel like you have to justify yourself.

We are adults and we live our lives how we wish if no one is getting hurt then f em. We are all here for different reasons so if your preference doesn't fit in with someone else then can always choose to move along.

Fair play to you and happy swinging x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your a s**g with 7 veris then what does that make me???? Oh yeah, that's right.....happy!!!!

There's no hope and chances are im never ever going get through those pearly gates is there???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't help but think of the old Gavin and Stacy scene in the chippy - "Shut it you slaaaaag"...

Pfft OP - carry on doing your thing the way you want to do it. Don't give the slags the time of day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe if we were 14 and childish we would all call you (and us other women here) a slag. As we are meant to be mature we should realise that we are all adults here enjoying ourselves. There is no need for name calling especially among people who do the same thing. Some people, sadly, didn't go through the maturing process properly or are just jealous

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By *oliath AwaitsMan
over a year ago

Gateshead

Why do you take notice of people you don't know calling you things? There is a block button for people like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore

I prefer to say I'm a slut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are a slag, I must be super Whore, enjoy the ride my dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why can't women be sexually liberated? Men have stud and gigolo stereotypes, what is the female equivalent that doesn't sound degrading?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Why do you take notice of people you don't know calling you things? There is a block button for people like that. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with doing what you enjoy doing,nothing to do with others.

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

First & foremost I would not call you a slag. You look good & what you do is your business. Fair play to you. Clearly you're having a ball, many would be jealous.

However, I'm just guessing that maybe some of the people doing the name calling are looking at the fact you're married & there's no indication that the husband knows about it? Maybe he does, I don't know.

I am in no way justifying any kind of abusive speech or attitudes. But I would hazard to say that a married guy on here on his own gets a fair bit of abuse from all corners. It's uncalled for, but married people on their own will always get abuse from some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is a slag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why can't women be sexually liberated? Men have stud and gigolo stereotypes, what is the female equivalent that doesn't sound degrading?"

Maneater? Or heartbreaker? Or femme fatale I'd say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will never understand how someone else's sex life is so fascinating too someone else that they feel the need too even comment on it let alone try too make someone else feel bad about it, who, when, how many people someone sleeps with is their business, if someone wants too judge, let them, and invest your time in people who don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

our veris read well - you carry on as long as youre having fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a slag?"

A woman that has sexual intercourse with a man that is not her lawfully wedded husband....

With the lights on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a slag?

A woman that has sexual intercourse with a man that is not her lawfully wedded husband....

With the lights on.

on or two of on that list then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why be hurt? They don't know you so why care what they think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im guessing "calling you" means slagging you off? I've never heard that expression before!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im guessing "calling you" means slagging you off? I've never heard that expression before!"
it's a northen thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget about the haters hun,and enjoy yourself...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are here for you. Do what makes you happy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

jealousy,because your getting what they would like to have with you ,and there not,alright for guys to bang away and called a stud,for a women,well,all sorts of names come about,so,ignore,block,but just enjoy what you want to do.....

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By *urvybrunette91Woman
over a year ago

tidworth

I don't think you're a slag... But I do wonder what the response would be to a man posting this thread, when the profile states 'married' ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think you're a slag... But I do wonder what the response would be to a man posting this thread, when the profile states 'married' ...

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I've had no negative messages from random folk regarding my fairly large veri list and seldom get abusive replies to refusals, but I wouldn't give a flying fuck if I did. Report if abusive, otherwise block and ignore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its prob cos of the whole married thing and apparently fucking around behind your husbands back cos youre 'bored'...

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By *amparaWoman
over a year ago

biggleswade

look it's better to laugh with the sinners than cry with the fricking miserable saints and me well i'm a very good sinner hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think you're a slag... But I do wonder what the response would be to a man posting this thread, when the profile states 'married' ...

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yes be very different if it was a man.

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By *rs TootyWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Probably because they are jealous that they haven't or won't get to meet you.

Their opinion, ultimately doesn't matter angel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore them they clearly aren't serious swingers ... Maybe they should join a site like casual fuck or something Jesus ... Some people on here are desperate too get their leg over .. Clearly that's how they must see it ... No creativity not one iota ... Move along lovely and embrace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think what matters the most, OP, is why let the opinions of someone you don't know, never met or are ever likely to meet, give you pause for more than a split microseconds consideration?

What matters most is how you feel about what you do and that you are a peace with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You haven't even got that many ?

What do people think you're here for ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who says your a slag ? The ones who you have said no to is it ? Well forget the ones that speak down to you. As they are the ones who are so wrong and need to take a look at themselves. You just carry on doing what you want and enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You haven't even got that many ?

What do people think you're here for ? "

I came here for the cake.

Sadly all I've got so far is a sore bottom and a funny taste in my mouth....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You haven't even got that many ?

What do people think you're here for ?

I came here for the cake.

Sadly all I've got so far is a sore bottom and a funny taste in my mouth...."

I'd check the ingredients if I were you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You haven't even got that many ?

What do people think you're here for ?

I came here for the cake.

Sadly all I've got so far is a sore bottom and a funny taste in my mouth....

I'd check the ingredients if I were you. "

Last time I take up the offer of the soggy biscuit....

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By *arkinberksMan
over a year ago

Ascot

The reaction you got is very similar to the one that men playing away get on here. There is a section of the community who believe that swinging is an activity which can only be exercised by couples. Single people don't swing, they have casual sex. Qed any single woman on here must be a sl*g, more so if she has declared she is playing away. Single men are chancers, but if they are also married and playing without their partner's knowledge they are social pariahs of the worst kind. Thankfully not everyone on here follows that doctrine.

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Slag is just a pejorative word for A non-monogamous woman.

The reason that society _iews non-monogamy to be worse for women is simply because it is easier. Men see having multiple sexual partners as an achievement, most women tend not to see it the same way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're all slags

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're all slags

embrace it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why can't women be sexually liberated? Men have stud and gigolo stereotypes, what is the female equivalent that doesn't sound degrading?

Maneater? Or heartbreaker? Or femme fatale I'd say "

Yep. All the above. On fetlife swingers go under the heading 'polyamourous' which basically means 'flexable with love'.

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By *ir and SirslagCouple
over a year ago

York and Durham

"I'd call you sexually liberated.........n as for myself,I'm just a big slag

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im a big slag too and proud to be one....haters gonna hate while we loving all the lovers...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've only got 11 verifications so how does that make you a slag? Just ignore them. Keep having fun.

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