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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Adopt the beautiful child or the ugly one with the personality.?

Go Fabbers. x

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By *uicylucy76Woman
over a year ago

thornton cleveleys

All children are beautiful

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All children are beautiful "

Tell that to Jamie bulgers mother. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can build a decent personality, so the beautiful one.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Surely when you adopt a child that is best suited is chosen for you.

If I was in a situation where adoption was the only way I could have a child I wouldn't even think about looks.

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By *uicylucy76Woman
over a year ago

thornton cleveleys


"All children are beautiful

Tell that to Jamie bulgers mother. x"

If that's the case the maybe you are looking at ugliness that cannot be seen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would not make a jot of difference as we are all individuals kids are great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All children are beautiful

Tell that to Jamie bulgers mother. x"

not sure that is appropriate here -

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Neither I'm too old to take a child on beautiful or ugly and give them the life they need.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands


"All children are beautiful

Tell that to Jamie bulgers mother. x

not sure that is appropriate here - "

Why not?

Do the forums prefer to airbrush history?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All children are beautiful

Tell that to Jamie bulgers mother. x

If that's the case the maybe you are looking at ugliness that cannot be seen."

Or maybe the 10 year olds that stand on the corner of any town's street swearing and causing upset and nuisance to the residents.

I'm really done with your PC claptrap every child is beautiful BS. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All children are beautiful

Tell that to Jamie bulgers mother. x

not sure that is appropriate here -

Why not?

Do the forums prefer to airbrush history? "

not at all - but the question was about adopting children

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

WTF

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands


"All children are beautiful

Tell that to Jamie bulgers mother. x

not sure that is appropriate here -

Why not?

Do the forums prefer to airbrush history?

not at all - but the question was about adopting children "

And the point was not inappropriate

Some people don't find any children beautiful

I've had 3

Beauty isn't of any consequence to me

But I don't see that it wasn't appropriate

Moira Hindley and Fred West found lots of other people's children beautiful

That's a fact

However much people dislike it it's a fact

And yes it's a forum on adoption but also esthetics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My parents adopted me. Im neither beautiful and not always a nice person either. They loved me for me, with my stroppy teenage years and the usual stuff that goes with growing up. I had a good childhood and everything I asked for. If it wasnt for them, Id have been in a childrens home in Jersey, until 16, then out to fend for myself.

I always said if I could never have children myself, like my mum, then id adopt and accept any child I was lucky enough to be considered fit to adopt. I will apologise for my comments but its one of the things I will always feel strongly about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd adopt the one that you seem to naturally bond with.

With having a natural kid you have to put up with what you get.

When adopted at least the kid knows they were picked.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"My parents adopted me. Im neither beautiful and not always a nice person either. They loved me for me, with my stroppy teenage years and the usual stuff that goes with growing up. I had a good childhood and everything I asked for. If it wasnt for them, Id have been in a childrens home in Jersey, until 16, then out to fend for myself.

I always said if I could never have children myself, like my mum, then id adopt and accept any child I was lucky enough to be considered fit to adopt. I will apologise for my comments but its one of the things I will always feel strongly about. "

I can't see anything here to apologise for

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By *xxCJxxxCouple
over a year ago

Selby


"My parents adopted me. Im neither beautiful and not always a nice person either. They loved me for me, with my stroppy teenage years and the usual stuff that goes with growing up. I had a good childhood and everything I asked for. If it wasnt for them, Id have been in a childrens home in Jersey, until 16, then out to fend for myself.

I always said if I could never have children myself, like my mum, then id adopt and accept any child I was lucky enough to be considered fit to adopt. I will apologise for my comments but its one of the things I will always feel strongly about. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is an ugly thread.

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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

All children are beautiful.

Was Hitler a beautiful baby?

Stalin?

Pol Pot?

Imagine being able to travel back in time to April 21st, 1889, Braunau am Inn, Austria and you know what the little mite is going to become and all those who will die at his hands. What would you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All children are beautiful.

Was Hitler a beautiful baby?

Stalin?

Pol Pot?

Imagine being able to travel back in time to April 21st, 1889, Braunau am Inn, Austria and you know what the little mite is going to become and all those who will die at his hands. What would you do?"

I'm sure that was a plot in a film or series.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands


"This is an ugly thread."

Why

Life isn't always beautiful surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd adopt the one that you seem to naturally bond with.

With having a natural kid you have to put up with what you get.

When adopted at least the kid knows they were picked."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None, already have three kids that's enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd adopt the one that you seem to naturally bond with.

With having a natural kid you have to put up with what you get.

When adopted at least the kid knows they were picked."

Put up with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My parents adopted me. Im neither beautiful and not always a nice person either. They loved me for me, with my stroppy teenage years and the usual stuff that goes with growing up. I had a good childhood and everything I asked for. If it wasnt for them, Id have been in a childrens home in Jersey, until 16, then out to fend for myself.

I always said if I could never have children myself, like my mum, then id adopt and accept any child I was lucky enough to be considered fit to adopt. I will apologise for my comments but its one of the things I will always feel strongly about.

I can't see anything here to apologise for "

Thank you.

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By *uicylucy76Woman
over a year ago

thornton cleveleys


"All children are beautiful

Tell that to Jamie bulgers mother. x

If that's the case the maybe you are looking at ugliness that cannot be seen.

Or maybe the 10 year olds that stand on the corner of any town's street swearing and causing upset and nuisance to the residents.

I'm really done with your PC claptrap every child is beautiful BS. xx"

Was merely my opinion.. I thought that's what you were asking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd adopt the one that you seem to naturally bond with.

With having a natural kid you have to put up with what you get.

When adopted at least the kid knows they were picked.

Put up with? "

Lol I'm not the only person that noticed that then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All children are beautiful

Tell that to Jamie bulgers mother. x

If that's the case the maybe you are looking at ugliness that cannot be seen.

Or maybe the 10 year olds that stand on the corner of any town's street swearing and causing upset and nuisance to the residents.

I'm really done with your PC claptrap every child is beautiful BS. xx

Was merely my opinion.. I thought that's what you were asking."

And that's fine I don't have any beef with you personally I was just pointing out that this is not Disneyland we live in. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All children are beautiful

Tell that to Jamie bulgers mother. x

If that's the case the maybe you are looking at ugliness that cannot be seen.

Or maybe the 10 year olds that stand on the corner of any town's street swearing and causing upset and nuisance to the residents.

I'm really done with your PC claptrap every child is beautiful BS. xx"

That's incredibly rude. She didn't say anything to deserve that response.

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By *uicylucy76Woman
over a year ago

thornton cleveleys


"My parents adopted me. Im neither beautiful and not always a nice person either. They loved me for me, with my stroppy teenage years and the usual stuff that goes with growing up. I had a good childhood and everything I asked for. If it wasnt for them, Id have been in a childrens home in Jersey, until 16, then out to fend for myself.

I always said if I could never have children myself, like my mum, then id adopt and accept any child I was lucky enough to be considered fit to adopt. I will apologise for my comments but its one of the things I will always feel strongly about. "

I think that's brilliantly put.. I can't see your face but you sure seem beautiful on the inside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd adopt the one that you seem to naturally bond with.

With having a natural kid you have to put up with what you get.

When adopted at least the kid knows they were picked.

Put up with?

Lol I'm not the only person that noticed that then. "

Plus you don't pick the child you adopt, its not like getting a house off the council, you don't get three refusals

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By *uicylucy76Woman
over a year ago

thornton cleveleys


"All children are beautiful

Tell that to Jamie bulgers mother. x

If that's the case the maybe you are looking at ugliness that cannot be seen.

Or maybe the 10 year olds that stand on the corner of any town's street swearing and causing upset and nuisance to the residents.

I'm really done with your PC claptrap every child is beautiful BS. xx

Was merely my opinion.. I thought that's what you were asking.

And that's fine I don't have any beef with you personally I was just pointing out that this is not Disneyland we live in. x"

No of course not, but you are also talking about children.. The biggest miracles on our planet in my opinion. Children are children..

People that are referring to all those bad people.. Surely they aren't talking about their looks? They are talking about their personalities? But anyway everyone has an opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What sort of a bullshit question is this? ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What sort of a bullshit question is this? .... "

That did cross my mind on first reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My parents adopted me. Im neither beautiful and not always a nice person either. They loved me for me, with my stroppy teenage years and the usual stuff that goes with growing up. I had a good childhood and everything I asked for. If it wasnt for them, Id have been in a childrens home in Jersey, until 16, then out to fend for myself.

I always said if I could never have children myself, like my mum, then id adopt and accept any child I was lucky enough to be considered fit to adopt. I will apologise for my comments but its one of the things I will always feel strongly about.

I think that's brilliantly put.. I can't see your face but you sure seem beautiful on the inside. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd adopt the one that you seem to naturally bond with.

With having a natural kid you have to put up with what you get.

When adopted at least the kid knows they were picked.

Put up with?

Lol I'm not the only person that noticed that then.

Plus you don't pick the child you adopt, its not like getting a house off the council, you don't get three refusals "

My mum said there was a lot of red tape, (back in the 60's) a shame there isnt a lot more now. Some adopted kids now, get treated very badly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All children are beautiful

Tell that to Jamie bulgers mother. x

not sure that is appropriate here - "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None I really don't like kids

Can't bear the thought of having kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ugly thread on kids, what next

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ugly children.. Really?!!

Ugly thread...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An ugly thread on kids, what next

Her"

Ha snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty us only skin deep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ugly children.. Really?!!

Ugly thread... "

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"All children are beautiful

Tell that to Jamie bulgers mother. x"

Seriously?

You really think that's appropriate. Grow up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sterilisation was just meant for some people

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By *ugar1andspice2Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

Why are we talking about kids on a swinging site seems a little wrong to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok going against the Grain here, I would go for the Child with Personality because at the end of the day when going for adoption you have to make a choice, Yes all Children are wonderful in their own way but you can only choose one.

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd adopt the one that you seem to naturally bond with.

With having a natural kid you have to put up with what you get.

When adopted at least the kid knows they were picked.

Put up with? "

I dunno how my mum put up with me.

Thank god for hormones affecting parents brains lol

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI

I don't believe in ugly people, just varying degrees of attractiveness.

But my view on the OPs question is that kids change so much as they grow that I don't think the beautiful/ugly binary makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't believe in ugly people, just varying degrees of attractiveness.

But my view on the OPs question is that kids change so much as they grow that I don't think the beautiful/ugly binary makes sense. "

So how would you choose then

Gimp

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI


"I don't believe in ugly people, just varying degrees of attractiveness.

But my view on the OPs question is that kids change so much as they grow that I don't think the beautiful/ugly binary makes sense.

So how would you choose then

Gimp"

I'd let Brad & Angelina choose for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the thread that's ugly....simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All children are beautiful

Tell that to Jamie bulgers mother. x

If that's the case the maybe you are looking at ugliness that cannot be seen.

Or maybe the 10 year olds that stand on the corner of any town's street swearing and causing upset and nuisance to the residents.

I'm really done with your PC claptrap every child is beautiful BS. xx"

Maybe if those said kids were told they were beautiful instead of ugly from the start they might have had a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All children are beautiful.

Was Hitler a beautiful baby?

Stalin?

Pol Pot?

Imagine being able to travel back in time to April 21st, 1889, Braunau am Inn, Austria and you know what the little mite is going to become and all those who will die at his hands. What would you do?"

Nothing because at that point he was innocent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Adopt the beautiful child or the ugly one with the personality.?

Go Fabbers. x

"

I'd adopt the one that chose me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Adopt the beautiful child or the ugly one with the personality.?

Go Fabbers. x

I'd adopt the one that chose me."

Yes thats like my cat did when I went to the rescue center did with me.

I'm pleased she was pretty or ID have o say no thanks and leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None,Dont like/want kids lol Can I get a cat instead

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By *icked weaselCouple
over a year ago

Near Edinburgh..

we always prefer to Buy the runt of a litter.. dogs lol .. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My parents were lucky they got beauty brains and personality when they adopted me just a shame that I never learnt about modesty

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