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By *ertnbecky OP   Couple
over a year ago

oldham

iv,e just posted on another thread about it being harder to to find other couples to play with. would it bother you that i have one leg?people we,ve played with on multiple occasions seemm to avoid us but i,m still the same fun loving guy that i was before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"iv,e just posted on another thread about it being harder to to find other couples to play with. would it bother you that i have one leg?people we,ve played with on multiple occasions seemm to avoid us but i,m still the same fun loving guy that i was before"

Would not bother us one bit - honest answer - it s YOU and your personality that counts for us. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope me neither xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as its healed up it wouldn't bother me with a woman and I find the rest of her attractive.

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By *ertnbecky OP   Couple
over a year ago

oldham

thanks for the replies

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Me neither, hope you find some fun

x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ok, im going to be honest here. No it wouldnt bother me but i would like to see a picture before hand so i am prepared and dont feel like my eyes are wondering or im staring.

I have a friend who is a double amputee, he had burgers disease, hes not a swinger but he sure gets his fair share of women, he has a very extrovert personality and honestly although he has artificial legs you forget about it.

Good luckxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've met 3 couples since we've been swinging, where the lady partner has had a degree of disability, and to be honest, I don't think I want to go there again.

It might sound selfish, and if it does I apologise, but I found that my enjoyment was diluted, by the "don't do that, it hurts", or "I can't do that because..."

I want to enjoy my sexy fun times with my lady partners, but the very thought that I'm hurting them, or I might be hurting them is not a nice feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've met 3 couples since we've been swinging, where the lady partner has had a degree of disability, and to be honest, I don't think I want to go there again.

It might sound selfish, and if it does I apologise, but I found that my enjoyment was diluted, by the "don't do that, it hurts", or "I can't do that because..."

I want to enjoy my sexy fun times with my lady partners, but the very thought that I'm hurting them, or I might be hurting them is not a nice feeling. "

Nice to see a bit of honesty. I would go along 100% with what you have said. If your worried about hurting someone then it takes the edge off any fun.0

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By *ertnbecky OP   Couple
over a year ago

oldham

the only thing i,ve found is i,m limited in positions for penetration but makes it interesting thinking up new ones that i can do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the only thing i,ve found is i,m limited in positions for penetration but makes it interesting thinking up new ones that i can do "

Its good you can see the positive side. Does it give you pain while you play or are you ok that way?

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By *ertnbecky OP   Couple
over a year ago

oldham

no pain some kinky buggers like to rub it for luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no pain some kinky buggers like to rub it for luck "

Well i wouldn't think you will have a problem playing. Look as it as something that makes you special and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"iv,e just posted on another thread about it being harder to to find other couples to play with. would it bother you that i have one leg?people we,ve played with on multiple occasions seemm to avoid us but i,m still the same fun loving guy that i was before"

wouldnt bother us either, yes there has to be an attraction but personality is just as important.If you hit it off and gel with the other ppl great.

dont let it bother you, the ppl that it does bother arent worth worring/bothering about.

plenty more like minded ppl out there and thats how we/i look at it from my earlier thread on timewasters.

enjoy yourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a pic of me in my wheelchair as my profile pic for a while, just changed it, but thinking of changing it back. I dont want anyone surprised and driving off like happened to me once. He was hugely apologetic and we have met since (I wanted him to see I was "normal"), but rejection because of a disability is hard to take. I'd rather that guys that are bothered by it just move on to the next profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really do wish you much success in your search for sexy fun Bert.

One barrier to sex with the disabled, which I have read in various agony columns in the papers, and one that I'm sure you are aware of is the visual effect of actually seeing the disability. Most people have to have visual stimulation to get themselves in the mood.

The advice I have seen offered is to have your fun in various stages of dress. What the eye don't see, wont concern it.

Some people wont be concerned about your disability, in fact there are some that seek it. Don't know if there are any on here though, or how easy they will be to find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'd met and played with you before it wouldn't make a blind bit of difference to me. A playmate of mine was involved in a serious accident and ended up with a Hickman line fitted. We just had to adapt our play.

Would I meet you or him now? Probably not.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

Hi _ertnbecky

Your profile could do with updating as it states: “update we are back in spain from 23 march 2009 “

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats funny! I have just opened a new thread on the same topic i am an amp and find it hard to get any lovers because of it!

neil

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By *ertnbecky OP   Couple
over a year ago

oldham


"Hi _ertnbecky

Your profile could do with updating as it states: “update we are back in spain from 23 march 2009 “ "
oh dear forgot about that on the case asap

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"Me neither, hope you find some fun

x"

well you appear to only have one leg too!!!

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