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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

to abandon your "usual" stance and wishlist to meet somebody who is not within your criteria?

Looks? A particulary witty profile text?

A friend's recommendation? An outstanding verification?

All of the above or none of said?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me, looks are not important in casual sex, just have an accommodating pussey

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

instinct..

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Doesn't bother me, looks are not important in casual sex, just have an accommodating pussey "

SO what would make you go the extra mile to meet somebody?

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"instinct.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a usual stance. I go with what my instincts tell me. I've met very varied men but on the whole ive been pleasantly surprised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One pint too many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what i like and what I'm looking for. Nothing will change that. ...although many think they can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazing norks.

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By *my-blackTV/TS
over a year ago

Poole

An interesting message other than the usual "u wanna meet now?"

a message that indicates the person writing it has engaged more than the single brain cell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rohypnol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't bother me, looks are not important in casual sex, just have an accommodating pussey

SO what would make you go the extra mile to meet somebody? "
Yes it would be, if she was a mature woman or granny type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's too easy to make a wrong judgement can't beat a meeting in person then take it from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know what i like and what I'm looking for. Nothing will change that. ...although many think they can "

Well the first half of it

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Someone who can engage me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've turned people down off profile and messages.

Then meet at socials or other places and changed my mind about them.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Someone who can engage me "
Does it for me every time... if somebody catches my attention through a good initial message.

It also helps when they can spell "fcuk"...;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone with a sparkle in the eye and charisma.

To many lost souls on here with nothing to bring to the table.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"to abandon your "usual" stance and wishlist to meet somebody who is not within your criteria?

Looks? A particulary witty profile text?

A friend's recommendation? An outstanding verification?

All of the above or none of said?

Taking to someone who

Doesn't go to clubs and

Meeting him fri.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Money"
You want to pay them?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If they don't meet my criteria their blocked from messaging me, so I don't get messages from those that don't meet my usual criteria

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"If they don't meet my criteria their blocked from messaging me, so I don't get messages from those that don't meet my usual criteria

"

Fair point. I only have a handful of people blocked so I guess it is different.

I am just curious about this because most of us have a rough idea as to what we are looking for, well, I have anyway.

I was wondering what would make people change their mind ... deviating from what they would normally do.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"If they don't meet my criteria their blocked from messaging me, so I don't get messages from those that don't meet my usual criteria

Fair point. I only have a handful of people blocked so I guess it is different.

I am just curious about this because most of us have a rough idea as to what we are looking for, well, I have anyway.

I was wondering what would make people change their mind ... deviating from what they would normally do."
when I say blocked I mean filtered out, so for example I wouldn't meet anyone over 50 as they can't message me in the first place

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"If they don't meet my criteria their blocked from messaging me, so I don't get messages from those that don't meet my usual criteria

Fair point. I only have a handful of people blocked so I guess it is different.

I am just curious about this because most of us have a rough idea as to what we are looking for, well, I have anyway.

I was wondering what would make people change their mind ... deviating from what they would normally do. when I say blocked I mean filtered out, so for example I wouldn't meet anyone over 50 as they can't message me in the first place

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to go purely on looks. It was a bad mistake. After a d*unken night out, I ended up in bed with a female friend. I'd always adored her but didn't really fancy her. But as the drink flowed our conversation got filthier. We had an amazing night as we were both absolute filth bags. After that it occurred to me that I'd been getting it wrong by going for looks above of personality and sexual compatability. Since that night, I never looked back and have never been happier. I still appreciate a beautiful looking woman but it's no longer enough to draw me in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a type really, just have to find someone attractive looking and take it from there, but a high level of kinkiness can make someone more attractive to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they don't meet my criteria their blocked from messaging me, so I don't get messages from those that don't meet my usual criteria

Fair point. I only have a handful of people blocked so I guess it is different.

I am just curious about this because most of us have a rough idea as to what we are looking for, well, I have anyway.

I was wondering what would make people change their mind ... deviating from what they would normally do."
availability?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone with a bit of patience and who can make me laugh helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

£4.35 and some Maoam sweeties.

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By *rp861Man
over a year ago

Devizes


"Someone with a bit of patience and who can make me laugh helps "

Im local and ive got all year baby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Circumstances can change things - heat of the moment, being relaxed, having a good rapport etc.

It's why we don't bother looking too hard online, you can't get a feel for those things from a profile. Much easier at a club.

Besides that, red wine makes us a whole lot less fussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't bother me, looks are not important in casual sex, just have an accommodating pussey "

Just out of interest would you be envious or would it turn you on if a woman had a 6 pack to rival yours

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