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By *nny OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

From Mumsnet.

"We're due to go to Spain in June with another family to a shared villa with a pool. Both families have 2 daughters, roughly aged 12 and 14. The other day my friend mentioned that she and her husband like to sunbathe and swim naked when on holiday. I'm sure my horrified face gave away my reaction to that comment! AIBU to ask that they wear swimsuits around the pool area?"

Well, ARE they being unreasonable? Does this sound like a prelude to an invite to swing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha being naked doesn't have to mean sex.

YABU.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being unreasonable at all. It's bloody rude of the other family to think it's ok to be naked in front of the young girls.

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By *ythenshawefredMan
over a year ago

stockport

If it's all grown ups then fine but kids under 16 no no no no no !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tits out is fine

But not for the men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What the hell's a bloke doing on mumsnet!!??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes the kids are still minors and should be respected as so.

What you Adults get up to in private is your business but this is a case of not in front of the children.

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By *ythenshawefredMan
over a year ago

stockport

Actually in all fairness topless might be a harder point to debate but below the waist defo covered

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"From Mumsnet.

"We're due to go to Spain in June with another family to a shared villa with a pool. Both families have 2 daughters, roughly aged 12 and 14. The other day my friend mentioned that she and her husband like to sunbathe and swim naked when on holiday. I'm sure my horrified face gave away my reaction to that comment! AIBU to ask that they wear swimsuits around the pool area?"

Well, ARE they being unreasonable? Does this sound like a prelude to an invite to swing?"

Big difference between naturism and swinging....so unless they were swingers then I would guess no prelude to a swing invite. On the naturist side of things this should have been discussed before booking the holiday as it's not for everyone. If some of the people are uncomfortable with naturism then both families should cover up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not being unreasonable at all. It's bloody rude of the other family to think it's ok to be naked in front of the young girls. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly shouldn't be too difficult to get the subject around to swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From Mumsnet.

"We're due to go to Spain in June with another family to a shared villa with a pool. Both families have 2 daughters, roughly aged 12 and 14. The other day my friend mentioned that she and her husband like to sunbathe and swim naked when on holiday. I'm sure my horrified face gave away my reaction to that comment! AIBU to ask that they wear swimsuits around the pool area?"

Well, ARE they being unreasonable? Does this sound like a prelude to an invite to swing?"

Why on earth would it be an invite to swing?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I don't understand the link between swinging and nude sunbathing

I don't think it's unreasonable to ask them to keep covered up as a matter of courtesy

They should have explained they like to be naked in the sun before the holiday was booked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From Mumsnet.

"We're due to go to Spain in June with another family to a shared villa with a pool. Both families have 2 daughters, roughly aged 12 and 14. The other day my friend mentioned that she and her husband like to sunbathe and swim naked when on holiday. I'm sure my horrified face gave away my reaction to that comment! AIBU to ask that they wear swimsuits around the pool area?"

Well, ARE they being unreasonable? Does this sound like a prelude to an invite to swing?"

June?

Summer hols don't start til near end of July here!

Lucky beggars!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half term first week of June

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's all grown ups then fine but kids under 16 no no no no no !!!!"

Does it harm people under 16?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"If it's all grown ups then fine but kids under 16 no no no no no !!!!"

There are some grown ups I'd rather not see naked

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

No it isnt unreasonable.. I would sunbathe and swim naked and no I dont see it as an invitation to swing.. naturism and swinging are not combined in my eyes anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's all grown ups then fine but kids under 16 no no no no no !!!!

Does it harm people under 16?"

Not harm no.

But in my instance I know my daughter would be very uncomfortable if people were to get naked in an invioronent such as this. I would be a bit annoyed that the subject was brought up after the holiday was booked and I would certainly ask them to be respectful of our wish for them to cover up in front of my daughter.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Nude sunbathing and naturism are not automatic invites to sex.

Honestly, I'd be fine sunbathing naked around my own kids but would question anyone else doing so, and wouldn't expect it to automatically be accepted for me to do it around other people's children, as they don't know my intentions and could be trying to bring up their kids with different virtues and a different attitude

attitude.

It's just one of those things, I guess. - You never know if other people simply want to get an all-over tan/feel comfortable in their own skin or whether they're actually doing it for sexual kicks.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Has mumsnet gone into meltdown over this like it did over the cock washing cup saga

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Nothing to do with swinging, but if being naked is an important part of their holiday, then then should have discussed it before booking the holiday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a website called mumsnet?!

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"There's a website called mumsnet?!"

Yeah, it's just like Fab, I heard they are thinking of renaming it Fab MILFS

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

You do realise you can be naked around children and young people and not be a paedophile?

FFS it's like the witch trials all over again.

Communication is the solution and acting like an adult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You do realise you can be naked around children and young people and not be a paedophile?

FFS it's like the witch trials all over again.

Communication is the solution and acting like an adult. "

Of course you can but in circumstances where's its been discussed and everyone is comfortable beforehand.

Do you have teenage children?

Mine would be mortified to see their parents friends swimming naked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonderful! Now we have contentious threads from other forums to! It's a one stop shop for the opinionated and argumentative!

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"You do realise you can be naked around children and young people and not be a paedophile?

FFS it's like the witch trials all over again.

Communication is the solution and acting like an adult.

Of course you can but in circumstances where's its been discussed and everyone is comfortable beforehand.

Do you have teenage children?

Mine would be mortified to see their parents friends swimming naked!"

Which is where communication comes into play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You do realise you can be naked around children and young people and not be a paedophile?

FFS it's like the witch trials all over again.

Communication is the solution and acting like an adult.

Of course you can but in circumstances where's its been discussed and everyone is comfortable beforehand.

Do you have teenage children?

Mine would be mortified to see their parents friends swimming naked!

Which is where communication comes into play."

Yes and if they wanted to swim naked we wouldn't be holidaying with them....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Wonderful! Now we have contentious threads from other forums to! It's a one stop shop for the opinionated and argumentative!"

I'll bring in a couple from My Fitness Pal. They make us look friendly. (And yes, they have a 'would you xxxx the above poster" thread )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a website called mumsnet?!"

Netmums is better though.

Been on both, only stayed on one.

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