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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

multiple matches I am talking about and how easily does one find them. We have been to parties and both found it easy to identify people to play with - but how easy is it to find a couple-couple match?

How do people spot them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends how easy you are really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was me thinking you was talking about M&M's well they are usually on the middle shelf

No idea, its all about chatting and getting to know people, takes time as we all know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it is difficult! dont think there is an easy answer to this one

we had a dinner / sex party not long ago and although not everyone knew each other we did introduce them by email etc and made sure they all talked before they arrived

plus it was a 'dress to party' theme so the party and food was downstairs and you all only went upstairs to play - it worked out fine

exhausting but fine those things take a lot of planning though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its a lot easier to spot them at parties than it is "working blind" online.

This is our preferred method of meeting these days. You can waste so much time ping ponging emails

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"depends how easy you are really."

We are quite easy to get on with and not traumatisingly ugly - yet finding a couple where there is a really good four way match seems to be harder in reality than on paper or site. Not saying it is im possible but they are easier to spot at parties, I would think?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think its a lot easier to spot them at parties than it is "working blind" online.

This is our preferred method of meeting these days. You can waste so much time ping ponging emails "

Just saw your comment - and yes, exactly - at parties you can meet and perhaps if you dont get chance on that night decide to play another time. Seems easier that way.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"depends how easy you are really.

We are quite easy to get on with and not traumatisingly ugly - yet finding a couple where there is a really good four way match seems to be harder in reality than on paper or site. Not saying it is im possible but they are easier to spot at parties, I would think?"

have to agree with this, but if you all get on it usually ends up in a good friendship as well.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"depends how easy you are really.

We are quite easy to get on with and not traumatisingly ugly - yet finding a couple where there is a really good four way match seems to be harder in reality than on paper or site. Not saying it is im possible but they are easier to spot at parties, I would think?

have to agree with this, but if you all get on it usually ends up in a good friendship as well."

Oh I have got good friends

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"depends how easy you are really.

We are quite easy to get on with and not traumatisingly ugly - yet finding a couple where there is a really good four way match seems to be harder in reality than on paper or site. Not saying it is im possible but they are easier to spot at parties, I would think?

have to agree with this, but if you all get on it usually ends up in a good friendship as well.

Oh I have got good friends "

and you haven't evn met us yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"depends how easy you are really.

We are quite easy to get on with and not traumatisingly ugly - yet finding a couple where there is a really good four way match seems to be harder in reality than on paper or site. Not saying it is im possible but they are easier to spot at parties, I would think?"

I guess they would be really, because there is something in us? ...... "birds of a feather" n all that. Sometimes someone can look attractive in a photo but in the flesh their demeanour is not pleasing and othertimes they could be much better in the flesh as confidence and humour shine out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"depends how easy you are really.

We are quite easy to get on with and not traumatisingly ugly - yet finding a couple where there is a really good four way match seems to be harder in reality than on paper or site. Not saying it is im possible but they are easier to spot at parties, I would think?

have to agree with this, but if you all get on it usually ends up in a good friendship as well."

Absolutely, we found a few great people on this site.. and swinging is now just part of the overall good friendship .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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I guess they would be really, because there is something in us? ...... "birds of a feather" n all that. Sometimes someone can look attractive in a photo but in the flesh their demeanour is not pleasing and othertimes they could be much better in the flesh as confidence and humour shine out. "

Could not agree with you more - hence we do not go by pictures/ looks alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just male to female attraction either is it?

If I don't get on with the other guy, for example, there is no way he is going to play with my wife, regardless of whether she's happy to play with.

The same will apply to Kate with the other lady too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not just male to female attraction either is it?

If I don't get on with the other guy, for example, there is no way he is going to play with my wife, regardless of whether she's happy to play with.

The same will apply to Kate with the other lady too "

that's fair enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not just male to female attraction either is it?

If I don't get on with the other guy, for example, there is no way he is going to play with my wife, regardless of whether she's happy to play with.

The same will apply to Kate with the other lady too "
Agree with this also, if Steve does not like the guy or I dont like the lady, we would not play - no need to give reasons to each other either - a simple "no" from either of us means no.

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By *ertnbeckyCouple
over a year ago

oldham

its a lot harder since i,ve had my leg off its like i,ve got two heads to some people even people we,ve played with on multiple occasions seem to be steering clear its a bit wierd to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"its a lot harder since i,ve had my leg off its like i,ve got two heads to some people even people we,ve played with on multiple occasions seem to be steering clear its a bit wierd to be honest."

Only just saw this post - you seem honest and open and sexy and fun... those are the qualities that count for us. Other people have different priorities and that is ok too... some dont like overweight/ underweight/ tall/ short ... horses for courses or whatever the saying says...

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"It's not just male to female attraction either is it?

If I don't get on with the other guy, for example, there is no way he is going to play with my wife, regardless of whether she's happy to play with.

The same will apply to Kate with the other lady too Agree with this also, if Steve does not like the guy or I dont like the lady, we would not play - no need to give reasons to each other either - a simple "no" from either of us means no."

can add us to this scenario too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not just male to female attraction either is it?

If I don't get on with the other guy, for example, there is no way he is going to play with my wife, regardless of whether she's happy to play with.

The same will apply to Kate with the other lady too Agree with this also, if Steve does not like the guy or I dont like the lady, we would not play - no need to give reasons to each other either - a simple "no" from either of us means no.

can add us to this scenario too "

Love adding you

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