FabSwingers.com forum: Do you enjoy being on here?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Or do you simply use the site out of habit/familiarity?

Personally, I've pretty much ceased seeing this place as somewhere I can find women I want to meet and swing with for fun, and pretty much just use the forum when I want to chat about something or pass the time.

Anyone else feel the same way?

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

I found you can make life long friends some with benefits some with out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the forums but I also love it because I've met some fucking sexy men on here & I hope to many more xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go through phases with it...I'm currently in a can't be arsed phase so have just been lurking round the forums, more out of habit than anything whilst watching TV. I'm sure it'll come back around to actively looking for fun again soon enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only really chat to one of my friends on here. I do have something else in mind for here, but if it doesnt happen, it doesnt, and I may well leave. Im not meeting, which is my choice but the site for me seemed to have changed before I made that decision not to meet others. Quiet and not much happening

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I tend not to do things that don't help me to meet my objectives. Fab does, including use of the forums. I can see that things would be different for single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope! I fucking hate it!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

OP, you post something similar every couple of months but you are still here.

Is it habit or addiction that keeps you here?

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I love it but then I am relatively new and so have not yet experienced any down sides (as yet).

I love meeting people, making new friends and the sex is good too.

I am a social butterfly lol.

How long does this feeling last for?

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"OP, you post something similar every couple of months but you are still here.

Is it habit or addiction that keeps you here?

It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recently I've been loitering in the forums quite a lot. I find them amusing. Lots of random nonsense. It's just a giggle. But I'm still meeting and browsing. It's just I've taken my foot off the accelerator a bit. Although I seem to be more active as a result. Who knew?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I didn't enjoy it I wouldn't be here. I'm here to meet guys. I love meeting the guys I meet. I wouldn't stay here for any other reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or do you simply use the site out of habit/familiarity?

Anyone else feel the same way?"

Far from it .

We meet very regularly , and rarely the same people more than once .

We won't just shag anyone either , a quantity of quality we like to put it

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Well of course I enjoy being on here, no fecker makes me log on. Admittedly I use the site differently to how I did 9 years ago, i.e. I no longer send preemptive messages, and tend to trundle round the forums posting inane drivel. There doesn't seem to be much call for 53 yr old bisexual smokers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people enjoy self harming.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"OP, you post something similar every couple of months but you are still here.

Is it habit or addiction that keeps you here?

It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts"

We're all seeking and getting attention (good or bad) with posts.

My question is really about stating that the site doesn't provide what one seeks, remaining to experience more of the same and then stating it again. Habit or addiction?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site works well for me. I've met lots of great people (play and non play) and they're people I wouldn't have met otherwise. Forums are funny as and even the more contentious posts are good to read.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP, you post something similar every couple of months but you are still here.

Is it habit or addiction that keeps you here?"

Yes probably.

"It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts"

That are popular with everyone - also note the fact that I vary them often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This site works well for me. I've met lots of great people (play and non play) and they're people I wouldn't have met otherwise. Forums are funny as and even the more contentious posts are good to read."

Although fun, the contentious ones run the risk of Ban Club

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

We love it, we get to meet fun sexy couples from here which suits our style of play. We like to look around (quite fussy) chat to people, then social, then play, so using a site like Fab works much better for us, than a club environment where you only have the choice of the people who are there on that particular night etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts

That are popular with everyone - also note the fact that I vary them often."

I would argue that they are popular with those seeking approval/adoration/etc.....not everyone......

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I find it comforting to reassure myself that there are other dirty buggers out there like me.. and we can have a laugh and maybe even meet once in a while too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts

That are popular with everyone - also note the fact that I vary them often.

I would argue that they are popular with those seeking approval/adoration/etc.....not everyone......"

Including the 'criticise' one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, you post something similar every couple of months but you are still here.

Is it habit or addiction that keeps you here?

It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts"

I think nasty comments like these are you wanting attention.

I love "person above" posts and with the amount of people posting on them so do many others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do have some laughs on here i must admit but i've given up making any effort to find someone to treat to a night of steamy passionate sex and I'm usually just laughing at my own jokes really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts

That are popular with everyone - also note the fact that I vary them often.

I would argue that they are popular with those seeking approval/adoration/etc.....not everyone......

Including the 'criticise' one?"

Yes....including that one.....no one ever says anything honest unless they have no desire to get into the poster above's pants.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I love it. Had a break from it for personal reasons for a year and within a day of being back on it many of the guys I used to talk to were there asking how I was. Chatting to some new faces on here too.

Met a new friend since I've been back on which could turn out to be really good fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP, you post something similar every couple of months but you are still here.

Is it habit or addiction that keeps you here?

It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts

I think nasty comments like these are you wanting attention.

I love "person above" posts and with the amount of people posting on them so do many others."

I've said before, person above posts are like the forum equivalent of crisps and chocolate.

...except for kiss/fuck/pass threads, those are just pretty crap now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts

That are popular with everyone - also note the fact that I vary them often.

I would argue that they are popular with those seeking approval/adoration/etc.....not everyone......

Including the 'criticise' one?

Yes....including that one.....no one ever says anything honest unless they have no desire to get into the poster above's pants."

Oh heaven forbid such things go on on a swinging site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it.met some lovely people. Made some good friends.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Well of course I enjoy being on here, no fecker makes me log on. Admittedly I use the site differently to how I did 9 years ago, i.e. I no longer send preemptive messages, and tend to trundle round the forums posting inane drivel. There doesn't seem to be much call for 53 yr old bisexual smokers

Hey, my twin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts

That are popular with everyone - also note the fact that I vary them often.

I would argue that they are popular with those seeking approval/adoration/etc.....not everyone......

Including the 'criticise' one?

Yes....including that one.....no one ever says anything honest unless they have no desire to get into the poster above's pants.

Oh heaven forbid such things go on on a swinging site?"

I was just stating that they weren't popular with everyone as not everyone wants to have sex with everyone on the forum....you seem to have enjoyed taking my point and working it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it feels like something to look at occasionally whilst taking a shit. Like Facebook

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"OP, you post something similar every couple of months but you are still here.

Is it habit or addiction that keeps you here?

It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts

I think nasty comments like these are you wanting attention.

I love "person above" posts and with the amount of people posting on them so do many others."

That's because there are many of you that seek validation through those kind of threads.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts

That are popular with everyone - also note the fact that I vary them often.

I would argue that they are popular with those seeking approval/adoration/etc.....not everyone......

Including the 'criticise' one?

Yes....including that one.....no one ever says anything honest unless they have no desire to get into the poster above's pants."

Oh I'd say there are a few regulars who are honest regardless of whether the poster they are responding to is on their F.I.L.T.H* list.

*Forumite I'd Love To Have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The One Above" threads are fair enough and everyone on here can post in precisely what the fuck they want to post in.

BUT...I don't post in them and never have done, I see those threads as:

"Can someone please convince me that I'm still at least half fuckable".

Not my bag at all. You just know BEFORE you even open those threads exactly who's going to be in them.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Nah hate it, it's like an allergic addiction!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just use fab cos of habit now and see whats going on in the forums and post and reply there and yes to pass the time as well and to use the chat room too. I have given up on meets and searching for what I am looing for here as fate I believe plais a huge part to in finding the match lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP, you post something similar every couple of months but you are still here.

Is it habit or addiction that keeps you here?

It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts

I think nasty comments like these are you wanting attention.

I love "person above" posts and with the amount of people posting on them so do many others.

That's because there are many of you that seek validation through those kind of threads."

Or simply to get ourselves out there and get a better knowledge of who might fancy us, it's certainly easier than fumbling in the dark looking for clues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer Fab to Facebook because I enjoy showing my arse off in public

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"OP, you post something similar every couple of months but you are still here.

Is it habit or addiction that keeps you here?

It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts

I think nasty comments like these are you wanting attention.

I love "person above" posts and with the amount of people posting on them so do many others.

That's because there are many of you that seek validation through those kind of threads.

Or simply to get ourselves out there and get a better knowledge of who might fancy us, it's certainly easier than fumbling in the dark looking for clues."

Doesn't seem to be working for you though, does it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer Fab to Facebook because I enjoy showing my arse off in public

Us ladies enjoy perving that arse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we only do what we like so yes we enjoy it here - if we didnt enjoy it would be like making yourself eat a food you detest - you just wouldnt do it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP, you post something similar every couple of months but you are still here.

Is it habit or addiction that keeps you here?

It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts

I think nasty comments like these are you wanting attention.

I love "person above" posts and with the amount of people posting on them so do many others.

That's because there are many of you that seek validation through those kind of threads.

Or simply to get ourselves out there and get a better knowledge of who might fancy us, it's certainly easier than fumbling in the dark looking for clues.

Doesn't seem to be working for you though, does it?"

Pretty much, hence the thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, you post something similar every couple of months but you are still here.

Is it habit or addiction that keeps you here?

It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts

I think nasty comments like these are you wanting attention.

I love "person above" posts and with the amount of people posting on them so do many others.

That's because there are many of you that seek validation through those kind of threads.

Or simply to get ourselves out there and get a better knowledge of who might fancy us, it's certainly easier than fumbling in the dark looking for clues."

But do you genuinely think that repetitive postings of the "say something about the person above, so I'll get at least one person tell me that I'm nice" or "I'm not really here for sex, but look at my cock pictures" threads are the best way to achieve that?

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"OP, you post something similar every couple of months but you are still here.

Is it habit or addiction that keeps you here?

It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts

I think nasty comments like these are you wanting attention.

I love "person above" posts and with the amount of people posting on them so do many others.

That's because there are many of you that seek validation through those kind of threads.

Or simply to get ourselves out there and get a better knowledge of who might fancy us, it's certainly easier than fumbling in the dark looking for clues.

Doesn't seem to be working for you though, does it?

Pretty much, hence the thread."

I can only surmise you enjoy repetitive and futile tasks then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, you post something similar every couple of months but you are still here.

Is it habit or addiction that keeps you here?

It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts

I think nasty comments like these are you wanting attention.

I love "person above" posts and with the amount of people posting on them so do many others.

That's because there are many of you that seek validation through those kind of threads.

Or simply to get ourselves out there and get a better knowledge of who might fancy us, it's certainly easier than fumbling in the dark looking for clues.

Looking at this purely from a self-marketing perspective, if it's working, Great!

If not, and from the comments it doesn't look like it, why not stop trying so hard and just be you?

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I'm only here because I have no one else to talk to.

And commence sympathy

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

A bit of both for me...I'm in a bit of a can't be arsed phase at the minute (and I've got a new non Fab FB who's occupying my time and mind quite a lot at the moment), but I've also got a meet tonight with someone I've been chatting to for a while so I'm still meeting...the fora have always been one of the best things about Fab for me and I've made some awesome friends (and lumbered myself with the Wyrd One

), but I'm currently not posting anywhere near as much as I have in the past, so it is kinda habit to just nip on and see what's happening

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I love being on here

we use it to meet new people, keep in touch with people we have already met and also to play around, chat and get flirty on the forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP, you post something similar every couple of months but you are still here.

Is it habit or addiction that keeps you here?

It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts

I think nasty comments like these are you wanting attention.

I love "person above" posts and with the amount of people posting on them so do many others.

That's because there are many of you that seek validation through those kind of threads.

Or simply to get ourselves out there and get a better knowledge of who might fancy us, it's certainly easier than fumbling in the dark looking for clues.

Clearly you misunderstand where I'm coming from. I'm not so needy as to be happy with some kind of reassurance from ANYONE as to my level of attractiveness, my more obvious efforts to market myself are done so in the intention of hopefully finding someone I'd like to meet, and realistically can do so.

As for the 'be myself', you may also notice, if you read some of the more unusual threads I start, that I do that constantly, though with mixed degrees of success, certainly less so than my more direct 'person above' threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is the measure of the success of a thread just the number of posts? I could start a thread right now on something like "bareback: the root of all evil" or "should we rename this place fabcheaters?" and it would get to 175 because someone (probably me) would get in an argument and run with it.

If you post a thread and a few people reply with good points worth thinking about, I'd call that more successful than 175 posts of "pass" "kiss" "lovely pics"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is the measure of the success of a thread just the number of posts?...If you post a thread and a few people reply with good points worth thinking about, I'd call that more successful than 175 posts of "pass" "kiss" "lovely pics" "

I suggested nothing of 'more posts = better thread', rather I don't like it when I'm enjoying a particular discussion as I find it entertaining and interesting, then it suddenly dries up as few people have anything to add to it.

"it would get to 175 because someone (probably me) would get in an argument and run with it."

You're not the only one. This is why I generally don't engage people in silly arguments on here, especially those who specifically seek me out in order to start one - no matter how well I argue, how much I understand the subject matter and how carefully I word my inputs, they will NEVER acknowledge that they've been outwitted by a stranger online, such is the nature of the internet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good and bad moments, I'd leave if I hated it.

Online friends who I've been speaking to for years. Each to their own it suits me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good and bad moments, I'd leave if I hated it.

Online friends who I've been speaking to for years. Each to their own it suits me."

I like your tiger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of your threads sometimes seem quite self-reflective though, so it may be that people don't feel they do have anything to add to it. And it's the nature of forums really, there's an element of luck involved in the right people reading at the right time to see a post to get an interesting discussion going.

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Well i like being here , the forums are fun ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it's fun, I enjoy the banter, it's a break from the norm, there are some interesting and gawd damn sexy people here - what's not to like!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good and bad moments, I'd leave if I hated it.

Online friends who I've been speaking to for years. Each to their own it suits me.

I like your tiger

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A lot of your threads sometimes seem quite self-reflective though, so it may be that people don't feel they do have anything to add to it."

Well yes they are, I think I'm at that stage of my life where I realise that I'm getting older and naturally feel rather reflective about it. I doubt I'm the only one who's ever felt this way though, so self interested though many of my threads are in that respect, it's not as though it's a niche thing that few could add something constructive toward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who honestly gives a flying fuck if a thread gets to 175 or not.

I started one yesterday that would have done it. And i rarely ever start threads.

It got to like 20 odd within minutes before it got shut.

Zero fucks given if it got to 175 or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm only here because I have no one else to talk to.

And commence sympathy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No-one has to read a thread or post on it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No-one has to read a thread or post on it!"

You really could do with sharing that pearl of wisdom around, it seems that too many people don't actually realise that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No-one has to read a thread or post on it!"

I do!

If it's a thread about flashing some flesh, I'm always In there with my pale Northern skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although fun, the contentious ones run the risk of Ban Club

I've never had a ban. Does that mean I'm very very good?

Contentious posts are like a car crash - you just got to look even if you don't want to! Pinch of salt and all that. This isn't really serious, is it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No-one has to read a thread or post on it!

I do!

If it's a thread about flashing some flesh, I'm always In there with my pale Northern skin

I know, you dirty sod!!

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Habit, I think. And trolling...

Haven't actively looked to meet anyone off Fab for over 2 years now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No-one has to read a thread or post on it!

I do!

If it's a thread about flashing some flesh, I'm always In there with my pale Northern skin

I know, you dirty sod!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fun until you get burned

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I have phases where this site works and provides everything I'm looking for, fun laughs and frolics, and phases where it doesn't provide what im looking for, during those phases I use my energies elsewhere.

At the moment I'm less enthusiastic about here moving towards using my energy elsewhere.... Chances are I'll be back though.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"I love the forums but I also love it because I've met some fucking sexy men on here & I hope to many more xx"

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'm more dating mode than fabbing mode at the moment so leaning towards trying dating again after a break from that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here for the forums and the friends I have made

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I no longer enjoy it here. It doesnt hold the same buzz anymore . Perhaps i have just got old and past it . I make it difficult for myself by mot meeting .

Silly me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the whole I enjoy the forums.

I don't find them quite as intimidating as I used to.

I try my very best to offer a reasoned _iew if a thread is a bit argumentative and try my hardest not to get ranty or rude. I'll also admit to failing miserably and not being ranty or angry sometimes. Apologies to all concerned.

From a personal experience the forums have opened up conversation with people I'd probably not have connected with by searching.

All in all I like them, although I tend to stay in the lounge now, it's where the fun seems to be and a lot less chance of seeing anything that makes me ranty man.

I hope my threads amuse others.

SW3. Some will, some won't, so what......

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I no longer enjoy it here. It doesnt hold the same buzz anymore . Perhaps i have just got old and past it . I make it difficult for myself by mot meeting .

Silly me

Aww I still loves ya

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never come on here looking, I find if you have expectations that's when you get disappointed, I just come on to chat, if I do get talking to anyone and a meet is arranged that's a bonus but I have gone months without meeting simply because it just hasn't happened, sometimes I have spoken to people on and off for weeks/months and never met that's just how it goes

I just like to chat, plus it passes the time between calls at work when I'm bored

Anything else I'd a bonus

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Or do you simply use the site out of habit/familiarity?

Anyone else feel the same way?"

I see it a bit like that too. I'm not really actively looking for meets anymore. If they happen then great but it's not the the be all and end all of me being here.

Really enjoying the chat and the forums. There's some great women on here and I just like being around them as they perv on my arse etc...

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over a year ago

"Or do you simply use the site out of habit/familiarity?

Anyone else feel the same way?

I see it a bit like that too. I'm not really actively looking for meets anymore. If they happen then great but it's not the the be all and end all of me being here.

Really enjoying the chat and the forums. There's some great women on here and I just like being around them as they perv on my arse etc...

And you perving them! Perve

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Or do you simply use the site out of habit/familiarity?

Anyone else feel the same way?

I see it a bit like that too. I'm not really actively looking for meets anymore. If they happen then great but it's not the the be all and end all of me being here.

Really enjoying the chat and the forums. There's some great women on here and I just like being around them as they perv on my arse etc...

And you perving them! Perve

That coming from a fellow perve means a lot

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over a year ago

"Or do you simply use the site out of habit/familiarity?

Anyone else feel the same way?

I see it a bit like that too. I'm not really actively looking for meets anymore. If they happen then great but it's not the the be all and end all of me being here.

Really enjoying the chat and the forums. There's some great women on here and I just like being around them as they perv on my arse etc...

And you perving them! Perve

That coming from a fellow perve means a lot

I'm a massive perverse pervette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or do you simply use the site out of habit/familiarity?

Anyone else feel the same way?"

More for chatting as its very difficult for a single guy to meet couples or ladies. I have alot more luck being out and about tbh

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over a year ago

"Really enjoying the chat and the forums. There's some great women on here and I just like being around them as they perv on my arse etc...

And you perving them! Perve

That coming from a fellow perve means a lot

I'm a massive perverse pervette

There's perves on here?

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By *uyfromchiMan
over a year ago

CHICHESTER

its lots of fun

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Both.... Right now it's habit and talking to friends, but it's been a lot more over the years, and in lots of ways.

I'll use it to play again at some point, just not right now.

But soon I hope

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"I no longer enjoy it here. It doesnt hold the same buzz anymore . Perhaps i have just got old and past it . I make it difficult for myself by mot meeting .

Silly me

Aww I still loves ya

Thanks Doll that was really unexpected.. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more contentious ones are my favourites, they are probably what keep me coming back. Along with the silly one.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Yes, otherwise I'd leave.

I'm not meeting at the moment because I'm addressing a crisis of confidence but I still enjoy being here.

I can't understand those that keep coming back day after day, doing the same thing over and over, not getting what they want (and usually think they deserve) and getting ever more bitter and angry.

If you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always got. There's no point blaming everyone else for wanting the wrong thing, or the system for failing, or, in fact, anything but yourself.

If the place makes you unhappy, angry or bitter, where's the fun?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

For those not getting what they want, it's usually blatantly obvious to everyone else why that is.

Some people ask for advice and some of those listen. The rest carry on in the belief that they're fabulous, they've no need to change anything, and it's the rest of the world that has it wrong.

Some know, deep down, what the problem is but can't face it.

It takes all sorts.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

When I enjoy it you will find me here. When I'm not enjoying it, you can seek me here or seek me there, but you will not find me anywhere.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"When I enjoy it you will find me here. When I'm not enjoying it, you can seek me here or seek me there, but you will not find me anywhere. "

I'd check all the pubs and McDonald's in Ryanshire. It wouldn't take me long to find you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Familiarity, I like going on the forums and having fun and talking and if a meet happens it happens lol

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

Regarding meets I've chatted with some nice people on here, had some interest too unfortunately from rather far away.

The forums are a good company for coffees, I like the general openness of the community, nothing is too taboo to dicuss.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"When I enjoy it you will find me here. When I'm not enjoying it, you can seek me here or seek me there, but you will not find me anywhere.

I'd check all the pubs and McDonald's in Ryanshire. It wouldn't take me long to find you!"

Ah that's true. My pumpkin outfit is a bit of a giveaway as well.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"When I enjoy it you will find me here. When I'm not enjoying it, you can seek me here or seek me there, but you will not find me anywhere.

I'd check all the pubs and McDonald's in Ryanshire. It wouldn't take me long to find you!

Ah that's true. My pumpkin outfit is a bit of a giveaway as well. "

I thought that was the local costume of Ryanshire?

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"When I enjoy it you will find me here. When I'm not enjoying it, you can seek me here or seek me there, but you will not find me anywhere.

I'd check all the pubs and McDonald's in Ryanshire. It wouldn't take me long to find you!

Ah that's true. My pumpkin outfit is a bit of a giveaway as well.

I thought that was the local costume of Ryanshire?"

No it's mainly turnips

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"When I enjoy it you will find me here. When I'm not enjoying it, you can seek me here or seek me there, but you will not find me anywhere.

I'd check all the pubs and McDonald's in Ryanshire. It wouldn't take me long to find you!

Ah that's true. My pumpkin outfit is a bit of a giveaway as well.

I thought that was the local costume of Ryanshire?

No it's mainly turnips

Well that's a turnip for the books.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"When I enjoy it you will find me here. When I'm not enjoying it, you can seek me here or seek me there, but you will not find me anywhere.

I'd check all the pubs and McDonald's in Ryanshire. It wouldn't take me long to find you!

Ah that's true. My pumpkin outfit is a bit of a giveaway as well.

I thought that was the local costume of Ryanshire?

No it's mainly turnips

Well that's a turnip for the books.

You've entered Chipahoy territory with a pun like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site is a comfy cardigan I put in when I feel like being silly, if I want to pick up women I hang around the laundrette in my underware.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"This site is a comfy cardigan I put in when I feel like being silly, if I want to pick up women I hang around the laundrette in my underware. "

You told me you don't wear any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I'm newish, but I love it on here, love the chat rooms, always find someone to chat to. We can keep up with lots on and where.

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over a year ago

"If I didn't enjoy it I wouldn't be here. I'm here to meet guys. I love meeting the guys I meet. I wouldn't stay here for any other reason."

This and I do like the forums.

When it becomes boring or a chore or not enjoyable I will leave.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We tend to go through phases, soon at it starts to feel like a chore then we disappear for a bit.

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over a year ago

"This site is a comfy cardigan I put in when I feel like being silly, if I want to pick up women I hang around the laundrette in my underware.

You told me you don't wear any.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it passes some idle time....

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I had a message from the Advisor of Trips site. I'm really popular there. Apparently my four re_iews have been read by 3,214 people. That's more than the Fab _iews I've had.

It's the way forward, I tell you.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Or do you simply use the site out of habit/familiarity?

Anyone else feel the same way?"

I am a masochist - that s why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only really chat to one of my friends on here. I do have something else in mind for here, but if it doesnt happen, it doesnt, and I may well leave. Im not meeting, which is my choice but the site for me seemed to have changed before I made that decision not to meet others. Quiet and not much happening "

Well, not much changed really. Still think leaving is one option but im undecided

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the forums,reading my messages,passes the time of day....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a student of the university of Sydney, I couldn't think of a more pleasant or informative environment.

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