FabSwingers.com forum: Fake or real?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Was talking to a guy that disappeared off here but has text over the weekend to say why - he's in the Navy and it's all confidential but sometimes he has to disappear and can't communicate, security being monitored he says.

We have seen pics - thought it was him, but since asking for new ones he doesn't have any and won't take any, am now wondering if he is actually really who he says he is.

Has anyone chatted to a Navy person and had this happen or are we being mugs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds bogus

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

At the moment he's chatting to me on his ipad as can't use his phone on the boat, but he can't send pics on it cos of security - I'm starting to think bogus too.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

LOL His next explanation will be that he is Batman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"LOL His next explanation will be that he is Batman."

I really hope he is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet fake and married. You can get some real story s here ok lies. If your feeling he maybe we'll your better off just moving on some nice men out there to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Prob is married - think will end our chat as he isn't willing to show he's real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it sounds like he has another half

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"LOL His next explanation will be that he is Batman."

Lol how cool would that be - oh wait, he's not real either

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I bet fake and married. You can get some real story s here ok lies. If your feeling he maybe we'll your better off just moving on some nice men out there to meet. "

Very true - the search now continues

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

"At the moment he's chatting to me on his ipad as can't use his phone on the boat, but he can't send pics on it cos of security - I'm starting to think bogus too."

Yeah makes absolutely no logical sense. If he is sending you any form of data from the ship I.e. text then he would be compromising security, a photo makes no difference..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"LOL His next explanation will be that he is Batman.

I really hope he is. "

Ahem....... I'm Batman...... but it's a secret so shhhhhhh.... don't tell anyone....

Anyway, I'm working undercover atm..... dressed as a sailor.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband was in the navy.

Your texts are private just the same as any other job. I don't know what they would want to monitor them for

he's probably married or just making up a story to sound interesting x

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

Yep hes 100% hiding something else, neither the army, navy or raf etc are that tight on security that they impose on your private lives, hence why there are other soldiers on here that dont hide that they are soldiers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"At the moment he's chatting to me on his ipad as can't use his phone on the boat, but he can't send pics on it cos of security - I'm starting to think bogus too.

Yeah makes absolutely no logical sense. If he is sending you any form of data from the ship I.e. text then he would be compromising security, a photo makes no difference.. "

I know I can be a bit dim, but I thought that too, oh well his loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't ring right we would move on op life is to short for timewasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, he's allowed to communicate with an ipad but not a phone? I'd tell James Bond to do one if I was you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't ring right we would move on op life is to short for timewasters"

We've had soooo many of those lately!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"LOL His next explanation will be that he is Batman.

I really hope he is.

Ahem....... I'm Batman...... but it's a secret so shhhhhhh.... don't tell anyone....

Anyway, I'm working undercover atm..... dressed as a sailor.....

Ooh , hello sailor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No offence but mugs seem to be right phrase to be honest it may shock folk but I hear there are folk on here that lie it was a shock ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"LOL His next explanation will be that he is Batman.

I really hope he is.

Ahem....... I'm Batman...... but it's a secret so shhhhhhh.... don't tell anyone....

Anyway, I'm working undercover atm..... dressed as a sailor.....

Ooh , hello sailor. "

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

Call his bluff - and how he can communicate on his iPad but not his phone, for security reasons is a bit contradictory really.

If he can use his iPad, say you will face time him, nothing sordid, just a normal chat, so whoever is 'monitoring' won't mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Call his bluff - and how he can communicate on his iPad but not his phone, for security reasons is a bit contradictory really.

If he can use his iPad, say you will face time him, nothing sordid, just a normal chat, so whoever is 'monitoring' won't mind

Good idea thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Spoke to him on phone a months go before he vanished so thought he was genuine.

Maybe as we're genuine we assume wrongly other people are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we lived closer op I'd meet but maybe I'm just a dirty old man lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

iPad and phone is different on a ship...!

If there is no phone signal he won't be able to use his phone. End of.

Also, if he is using ships internet access, this quite often has limitations to data allowance, and won't allow him to send or receive pics/videos etc.

I know this for a fact as my ex husband worked in the maritime industry, and this was always the case on every ship he worked on. Sometimes he would get phone signal of passing near land, more often than not, he wouldn't.

The internet thing drove me insane.

I'd believe it if he's on a ship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He probably won't be able to FaceTime if he's using ships Internet. It gets monitored, and each person will have a log in specific to them. And again, he will have a data allowance or he will get a bollocking.

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By *ricerMan
over a year ago

Stockton-on-Tees

If he's in a submarine, particularly one of the tridents it could explain things.....

I always believe in giving people the benefit of doubt until you can prove your suspicions one way or another....

Maybe that's why I get shit on so often, but I still stand by that and have some fantastic friends for sticking in there!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be the guy from true lies that chatted up Jamie Lee Curtis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was talking to a guy that disappeared off here but has text over the weekend to say why - he's in the Navy and it's all confidential but sometimes he has to disappear and can't communicate, security being monitored he says.

We have seen pics - thought it was him, but since asking for new ones he doesn't have any and won't take any, am now wondering if he is actually really who he says he is.

Has anyone chatted to a Navy person and had this happen or are we being mugs?

Thank you

I can't speak for your situation but I'm frequently out of contact as I'm not permitted to take my phone onto my clients premises.

If we have a lock down I could be on site until the lock down is over and we are allowed to leave site. This could be a couple of hours or several days. The longest we've been down so far was 4 days.

If he Genuinly does what he's told you he does, it's possible that communications could be "disjointed".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At the moment he's chatting to me on his ipad as can't use his phone on the boat, but he can't send pics on it cos of security - I'm starting to think bogus too.

Yeah makes absolutely no logical sense. If he is sending you any form of data from the ship I.e. text then he would be compromising security, a photo makes no difference.. "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything you've said seems plausible and you'd be justified to give him the 2benefit of the doubt".

However, this is not plausible:

We have seen pics - thought it was him, but since asking for new ones he doesn't have any and won't take any, "

^ That would ring alarm bells for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, go with your gut feeling. Plenty more sailors in the sea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"iPad and phone is different on a ship...!

If there is no phone signal he won't be able to use his phone. End of.

Also, if he is using ships internet access, this quite often has limitations to data allowance, and won't allow him to send or receive pics/videos etc.

The internet thing drove me insane.

I'd believe it if he's on a ship.

This.

And this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this got interesting, i thought he sounded married and was making up excuses. Liars mess up your head until you become suspicious of everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, go with your gut feeling. Plenty more sailors in the sea."
yes go with gut feelings.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It sounds as though he's found some pictures, used them all and now has no others.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Sounds like a lot of hassle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple - get him to send a bluey from the ship ( letter) can be done electronically - doesn't break security.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was interested I'd ask him to message me when he's back on land with a view to facetime / skype.

Until that happens park him and move on...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"iPad and phone is different on a ship...!

If there is no phone signal he won't be able to use his phone. End of.

Also, if he is using ships internet access, this quite often has limitations to data allowance, and won't allow him to send or receive pics/videos etc.

The internet thing drove me insane.

I'd believe it if he's on a ship.

This is what I was wondering also if anyone else had experienced it - he's a hot guy and I'm so hoping he's not fake

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have seen pics - thought it was him, but since asking for new ones he doesn't have any and won't take any, am now wondering if he is actually really who he says he is.

Has anyone chatted to a Navy person and had this happen or are we being mugs?

Thank you

I can't speak for your situation but I'm frequently out of contact as I'm not permitted to take my phone onto my clients premises.

If we have a lock down I could be on site until the lock down is over and we are allowed to leave site. This could be a couple of hours or several days. The longest we've been down so far was 4 days.

If he Genuinly does what he's told you he does, it's possible that communications could be "disjointed"."

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he,s playing you unfortunatly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Everything you've said seems plausible and you'd be justified to give him the 2benefit of the doubt".

However, this is not plausible:

We have seen pics - thought it was him, but since asking for new ones he doesn't have any and won't take any,

^ That would ring alarm bells for me."

Apparently he can face time! So we will see if he is free. But yes that bit rang alarm bells for me.

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