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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you go to someone place for a meet.

For what ever reason.

What are the excuses you use?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excuses to whom?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you go to someone place for a meet.

For what ever reason.

What are the excuses you use?"

I don't need one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excuses to whom?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you go to someone place for a meet.

For what ever reason.

What are the excuses you use?"

Why would I need an excuse to meet someone?

"Terribly sorry but my car just broke down outside your house may I come in"?

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

WTF???? I suppose some of us are adult and some are not.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive got no one to answer too so just go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think many of us are struggling to understand the OP....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you go to someone place for a meet.

For what ever reason.

What are the excuses you use?

Why would I need an excuse to meet someone?

"Terribly sorry but my car just broke down outside your house may I come in"?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pardon?...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I meant when you go for a meet and change your mind because say, you don't fancy them face to face.

What would your excuse be?

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"When you go to someone place for a meet.

For what ever reason.

What are the excuses you use?

Why would I need an excuse to meet someone?

"Terribly sorry but my car just broke down outside your house may I come in"?"

"I was just trying on some new lingerie and needed a second opinion"

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

Deleted cos I didn't understand after all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think many of us are struggling to understand the OP...."

Ha! Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meant when you go for a meet and change your mind because say, you don't fancy them face to face.

What would your excuse be?"

You left a whole sentence out there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If ever I need to explain why I'm doing anything, the term "It's for science", pretty much covers everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meant when you go for a meet and change your mind because say, you don't fancy them face to face.

What would your excuse be?"

Something along the lines of..... I need to get my phone from my car. Then just drive off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd always have a social meet in a bar etc first so I could decide then if they were fuckable or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I be honest but if I value that person I tell them that n let them make up their own mind if they want to be friends x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I meant when you go for a meet and change your mind because say, you don't fancy them face to face.

What would your excuse be?

You left a whole sentence out there!

"

I know

Apologies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meant when you go for a meet and change your mind because say, you don't fancy them face to face.

What would your excuse be?"

That's only ever happened once and to be honest I made a right fucking mess of it because I didn't want to be rude or obnoxious.

I just said "To be honest I don't think this is going to go any further I'm not attracted to you in that way".

But it took me a long time to say it.

I fucked it right up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say trilby soz but I've suddenly got a meeeeegrain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im staying over at Rob's gaff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meant when you go for a meet and change your mind because say, you don't fancy them face to face.

What would your excuse be?"

It would be "sorry, I don't want to play"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or i will buy the drinks save your money for a face lift

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I think key is not to have an excuse but to be honest with the other person. We are after all dealing with other human beings with feelings etc...well it may hurt their feelings for a few moments it will in the long run stop you looking like a right cunt if they were to find out that you was being dishonest with them...

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

Dont call us, we'll call you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or i will buy the drinks save your money for a face lift "

Harsh.

Bet you wouldn't say that.

I bet you'd go through with it.

Gwan. Admit it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the few times it's happened I just tell them they're lovely, but I don't think I'm what they're looking for.

It always gives me a little time to escape while they try and work it out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly love. It's not me, it's you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or i will buy the drinks save your money for a face lift

Harsh.

Bet you wouldn't say that.

I bet you'd go through with it.

Gwan. Admit it. "

No i wouldnt say it lol. Im just in a cheeky mood tonight

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

*stealthy text to my daughter to ring me*

"Oh, the house is on fire you say? Cats are still inside you say? I'll be right there"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally set fire to the toilet roll holder and run like fuck shouting FIRE!!!!

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I forgot my kit...

Just like when at school for PE

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Excuses lead people to feel that there is something wrong with them epesically when you say yeah I want to see you again and that person never hears from you again. I just think it's rude and says more about the person making up the excuses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would never agree to meet someone with the intention of fucking without seeing them in the flesh first, that's what coffee socials are for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Excuses lead people to feel that there is something wrong with them epesically when you say yeah I want to see you again and that person never hears from you again. I just think it's rude and says more about the person making up the excuses "

Joking aside ...point taken

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Iv never been in the situation, just wondered what people do say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv never been in the situation, just wondered what people do say. "

It happened once.

We had a drink and it was very civilised until the next day when he sent me an odd message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say listen. Even if I wanted to my cock just wouldn't !! I

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