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By *oasted cheese sandwich OP   Man
over a year ago

Nearby

arrange to meet twice , speak on the phone, let u drive for half hour to meet her , then turn her phone off so can't contact her, twice !! I mean what is there to gain from doing this??

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By *er himWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"arrange to meet twice , speak on the phone, let u drive for half hour to meet her , then turn her phone off so can't contact her, twice !! I mean what is there to gain from doing this??"

TWICE !!!! Wouldn't happen one time waste strike without contact would be block

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Why would anyone give her the chance to do it a second time?

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"arrange to meet twice , speak on the phone, let u drive for half hour to meet her , then turn her phone off so can't contact her, twice !! I mean what is there to gain from doing this??"

You fell for it twice? Didn't you ask after the first time? You might get lucky with the triple, she might answer.

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By *oasted cheese sandwich OP   Man
over a year ago

Nearby

Like to give everyone benefit of the doubt, after first time she apologised , won't be a third, but can't work out why someone would do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"arrange to meet twice , speak on the phone, let u drive for half hour to meet her , then turn her phone off so can't contact her, twice !! I mean what is there to gain from doing this??"

Twice ?

Her fault first time. Yours the second.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Like to give everyone benefit of the doubt, after first time she apologised , won't be a third, but can't work out why someone would do it"

Because the guy with the weird voice is reading this and laughing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"arrange to meet twice , speak on the phone, let u drive for half hour to meet her , then turn her phone off so can't contact her, twice !! I mean what is there to gain from doing this??

Twice ?

Her fault first time. Yours the second. "

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Why would anyone give her the chance to do it a second time? "

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't give the OP a hard time it's called accepting an excuse the first time and being generous enough to give her a second chance

Nothing wrong with that we all make mistakes

OP just block and move on there is nowt stranger than folk as they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would anyone give her the chance to do it a second time? "

This!

When are you meeting her again OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like to give everyone benefit of the doubt, after first time she apologised , won't be a third, but can't work out why someone would do it"

I think everyone deserves the benefit of doubt, sometimes life happens and we have to pull out, many genuine people have to cancel sometimes it can't be helped, if they did it twice I'd be doubtful and wouldn't arrange again

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Boredom probably

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By *oasted cheese sandwich OP   Man
over a year ago

Nearby


"Like to give everyone benefit of the doubt, after first time she apologised , won't be a third, but can't work out why someone would do it

Because the guy with the weird voice is reading this and laughing. "

Lol, pretty sure it was female, but u never know

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Don't give the OP a hard time it's called accepting an excuse the first time and being generous enough to give her a second chance

Nothing wrong with that we all make mistakes

OP just block and move on there is nowt stranger than folk as they say "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wtf did she offer you? payment!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like to give everyone benefit of the doubt, after first time she apologised , won't be a third, but can't work out why someone would do it"

Who knows. You must be a nice guy. Good luck next time.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I always go by the Goldfiner aphorism:

"one is happenstance, twice is coincidence, 3 times is enemy action"

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By *oasted cheese sandwich OP   Man
over a year ago

Nearby

She's just messaged me on whattsapp 3 hours later,with excuse , said not interested now

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

What was her excuse?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"She's just messaged me on whattsapp 3 hours later,with excuse , said not interested now "

Keep your head held high and tell her to jog the fuck on....

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Don't give the OP a hard time it's called accepting an excuse the first time and being generous enough to give her a second chance

Nothing wrong with that we all make mistakes

OP just block and move on there is nowt stranger than folk as they say "

Sometimes it's fair to give people a second chance. However, if I drove to meet someone and found they'd switched their 'phone off, without any attempt to text me or message me to say there was a problem first, I wouldn't give them a second chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either a man in disguise or scared to carry it out

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By *oasted cheese sandwich OP   Man
over a year ago

Nearby


"What was her excuse? "

Just wrote 'it was a mess'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds dubious even if there were an emergency why turn your phone off, surely that's the last thing you'd in an emergency, or maybe it's just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like to give everyone benefit of the doubt, after first time she apologised , won't be a third, but can't work out why someone would do it"

Delete and block! It's a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What was her excuse?

Just wrote 'it was a mess'"
she could be crap with a razor?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Sounds dubious even if there were an emergency why turn your phone off, surely that's the last thing you'd in an emergency, or maybe it's just me "

It's not just you.

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on george w bush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What was her excuse?

Just wrote 'it was a mess'she could be crap with a razor? "
i hav nicked my flange on both sides, it's a mess!

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By *oasted cheese sandwich OP   Man
over a year ago

Nearby


"Sounds dubious even if there were an emergency why turn your phone off, surely that's the last thing you'd in an emergency, or maybe it's just me "

Very dubious , u know when u have doubts in ur mind , u know ur right but do the opposite , think I was thinking if she does it again I'll lay it to rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"arrange to meet twice , speak on the phone, let u drive for half hour to meet her , then turn her phone off so can't contact her, twice !! I mean what is there to gain from doing this??

Twice ?

Her fault first time. Yours the second. "

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I have given people a second chance, most deserve it, but not a third, not long back I drove all the way to Derby to meet someone and had just messaged with them to confirm it, when I got there I had a message that just said he had got cold feet, we all live and learn, it's no reflection on you OP and take no notice of the snide comments

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

Send me her username, she can't be tardy three times

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By *oasted cheese sandwich OP   Man
over a year ago

Nearby


"I have given people a second chance, most deserve it, but not a third, not long back I drove all the way to Derby to meet someone and had just messaged with them to confirm it, when I got there I had a message that just said he had got cold feet, we all live and learn, it's no reflection on you OP and take no notice of the snide comments "

I think the comments are fair, I know I'm the ass for going a second time, just wondered if it's something people get off on, knowing someone willing to go there to fuck them, more turned on by the chase, kinda thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have given people a second chance, most deserve it, but not a third, not long back I drove all the way to Derby to meet someone and had just messaged with them to confirm it, when I got there I had a message that just said he had got cold feet, we all live and learn, it's no reflection on you OP and take no notice of the snide comments

I think the comments are fair, I know I'm the ass for going a second time, just wondered if it's something people get off on, knowing someone willing to go there to fuck them, more turned on by the chase, kinda thing "

You may well be a dope for being fooled twice but all of us have been dopes at some point. Think of it as a friendly punch in the arm ya muppet.

Chin up. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like to give everyone benefit of the doubt, after first time she apologised , won't be a third, but can't work out why someone would do it"

I'm curious what possible excuse she gave you to convince you to meet her again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have given people a second chance, most deserve it, but not a third, not long back I drove all the way to Derby to meet someone and had just messaged with them to confirm it, when I got there I had a message that just said he had got cold feet, we all live and learn, it's no reflection on you OP and take no notice of the snide comments

I think the comments are fair, I know I'm the ass for going a second time, just wondered if it's something people get off on, knowing someone willing to go there to fuck them, more turned on by the chase, kinda thing "

I met a guy once who told me about a couple he'd arranged to meet, they spoke on the phone etc gave him their address he put it in his sat nav the address came up and off he went, when he for there it was an empty house, they were probably sat in a car at the end of the street laughing at him, some just get off on messing people about

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By *oasted cheese sandwich OP   Man
over a year ago

Nearby


"I have given people a second chance, most deserve it, but not a third, not long back I drove all the way to Derby to meet someone and had just messaged with them to confirm it, when I got there I had a message that just said he had got cold feet, we all live and learn, it's no reflection on you OP and take no notice of the snide comments

That's what I'm thinking

I think the comments are fair, I know I'm the ass for going a second time, just wondered if it's something people get off on, knowing someone willing to go there to fuck them, more turned on by the chase, kinda thing

I met a guy once who told me about a couple he'd arranged to meet, they spoke on the phone etc gave him their address he put it in his sat nav the address came up and off he went, when he for there it was an empty house, they were probably sat in a car at the end of the street laughing at him, some just get off on messing people about "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't give the OP a hard time it's called accepting an excuse the first time and being generous enough to give her a second chance

Nothing wrong with that we all make mistakes

OP just block and move on there is nowt stranger than folk as they say "

exactly - I think we're in the minority but I'm with you on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should of agreed to a 3rd meet only if 'she' drives to you then turn your phone off

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By *oasted cheese sandwich OP   Man
over a year ago

Nearby


"Like to give everyone benefit of the doubt, after first time she apologised , won't be a third, but can't work out why someone would do it

I'm curious what possible excuse she gave you to convince you to meet her again?

She lives with flat mate who was sposed to be going out apparently

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Like to give everyone benefit of the doubt, after first time she apologised , won't be a third, but can't work out why someone would do it

I'm curious what possible excuse she gave you to convince you to meet her again?

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Possibility of shag with woman = excuse not needed.

OP, I have given a guy a second chance only to be fooled again. The only difference was I was sat in my warm house.

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By *oasted cheese sandwich OP   Man
over a year ago

Nearby


"You should of agreed to a 3rd meet only if 'she' drives to you then turn your phone off "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like to give everyone benefit of the doubt, after first time she apologised , won't be a third, but can't work out why someone would do it

I'm curious what possible excuse she gave you to convince you to meet her again?

Possibility of shag with woman = excuse not needed.

OP, I have given a guy a second chance only to be fooled again. The only difference was I was sat in my warm house. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's just messaged me on whattsapp 3 hours later,with excuse , said not interested now "

Good for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you offer to help her clean the mess up?!

She's a sad b***h OP, good luck for your future meets

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Why would anyone give her the chance to do it a second time? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done op for being a decent nice polite young man its totally her loss

Block her and find a woman who deserves your attention xx

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By *oasted cheese sandwich OP   Man
over a year ago

Nearby


"Did you offer to help her clean the mess up?!

She's a sad b***h OP, good luck for your future meets "

Thanku x

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By *oasted cheese sandwich OP   Man
over a year ago

Nearby


"Well done op for being a decent nice polite young man its totally her loss

Block her and find a woman who deserves your attention xx"

Thanku x

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Report instead of bringing it onto the forum please

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By *oe bloggs69Man
over a year ago

fife

Defo fool me once syndrome

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