FabSwingers.com forum: You're leaving the site...

By *hyllyphylly OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Do you...

A) Post a message in the forums

B) Post a status

C) Just stop coming on

D) Delete profile without warning

E) Something else, add in comments below.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hide profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't realise I was!

Do you know something I don't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is my 5th or 6th profile I think... Each time I just deleted without warning and vanished. No need to cry about it or beg for sympathy. If you decide to leave just bloody well leave.

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By *eovilcouple76Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

A and B are for the attention seekers I think. I'd just stop coming on.

Why make a fuss about leaving?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Throw a great big leaving party with a big cake that Toshn can jump out of and provide lots of Haribos for Shag

Oh....wasn't that one of the options??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is my 5th or 6th profile I think... Each time I just deleted without warning and vanished. No need to cry about it or beg for sympathy. If you decide to leave just bloody well leave.

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this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message friends to let them know then bugger off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say goodbye on my status and on the forums - because I have made a lot of really good friends on here - and I'd want to say goodbye to all and swap numbers with some of them before I left! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

D... I've done it twice,just go no fanfare,no goodbye

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By *hyllyphylly OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"Throw a great big leaving party with a big cake that Toshn can jump out of and provide lots of Haribos for Shag

Oh....wasn't that one of the options??

That was E

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

Just stop coming on like a normal human being

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

"Do you...

A) Post a message in the forums

B) Post a status

C) Just stop coming on

D) Delete profile without warning

E) Something else, add in comments below. "

I'd send out messages saying "I know who you are and I'm telling everyone" and see how many people I can get with it before I get banned

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

Well I haven't left yet and after 2 years I've no plans to.

I think the only thing to make me leave now would be if I met somebody, it became a serious relationship and she wasn't interested in swinging. Then I would just post a status message and maybe send a goodbye message to my closer friends on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D. Anyone I know, that I want to, has my number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just stop coming on like a normal human being

Yeh!, What the man with the lovely willy said.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I had a break a bit ago, hid my profile..

no fanfare on my return..

. There was when I'd gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I did it it was D for me. I didn't even tell those on my friends list. only a handful of people that I chat to on watsapp noticed I'd gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes think if someone is moving on or just had enough a nice message saying goodbye in the forums is quite lovely.

However if it's just a blatant attempt to garner some please don't go sympathy then that is rather shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like knowing when some other'shave left the site.

I do get tempted to leave personally so far I just hide everytime I've had enough.

When I go I think I'll just be gone.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think I'd have to do something nice for the people I know and like on here. It would be poor form to just vanish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never understand why people don't just leave instead of........

"IM LEAVING THE SITE"

"HONESTLY, I MEANT IT. I'M GOING"

"I WILL BE LEAVING THE SITE NEXT WEEK AND WON'T BE COMING BACK. "

" I'M NOT JOKING. I WILL BE GONE"

Who's about for a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I took about a 3 month break from the site over the Winter, just hid my profile so it was there again for when I was ready to come back. No dramas or owt like that!

But to be honest if and when I ever decide to permanently leave and even if I did start up a new thread about it, I have no doubt it'll leave hardly any ripples on here and soon it'll plunge into obscurity so there would be no point making a big fanfare about it!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I took about a 3 month break from the site over the Winter, just hid my profile so it was there again for when I was ready to come back. No dramas or owt like that!

Are you a hedgehog?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We wouldn't make a big deal of it, just message/text a handful of friends and poof, we would be gone.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

When I ditched the solo profile I just hit delete.

Whether anyone noticed or not wasn't a concern.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not much really.....just a few things I'd like when I finally close the lid on fab.

Sketchy on where this will take place though....somewhere in Bristol I imagine.

Marquee

Barrels of Veuve clicquot

Barrels of beer

Barrels of vodka

A d.j.

Vol au vents

beef burgers

Fried chicken

Bukkake party

Bouncy castles

Dodgems

Football Pitch

Water sports

Michael Fassbender (all to myself)

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

F) You post SEVERAL message in the forums.

Incidentally I am currently in the process of leaving, here are a few threads on the subject:

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/67929

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/69213

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I sometimes think if someone is moving on or just had enough a nice message saying goodbye in the forums is quite lovely.

However if it's just a blatant attempt to garner some please don't go sympathy then that is rather shit. "

I probably would post on the forum then delete as soon as I'd posted it. I talk enough crap on here as it is I feel like a little sayonara would be normal for me!

If I was leaving in a huff I'd just piss off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I took about a 3 month break from the site over the Winter, just hid my profile so it was there again for when I was ready to come back. No dramas or owt like that!

Are you a hedgehog?

Slowly awakening from hibernation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As somebody said higher up. Hide your profile and take a break. If you then think nah feck it Ive had enough i would then message anybody that i was in regular contact with and then do one. Posting on the forum would just cause a shitstorm against you. I might consider doing it for giggles however lol. Seriously it serves not purpose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh c'mon folks......

It's gotta be a full-on forums flounce-out .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need to leave, I don't exist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"B" and then hide my profile (this place is the Hotel California after all!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be D.

Those that give a fuck would notice regardless.

Hiding my profile wouldn't work for me because I'd log back in at some point.

I've disappeared from the site (as in not logged in) many times on here in the past when I've needed time out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It woulnt make such a diference for a man but yes for women to leave a status as they get inundated with msgs lol

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Just hide my profile and buggar off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went for A. Cause I was only going away for a while and I wanted to say good bye to the forum folk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dragged out in a strait jacket kicking and screaming

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Dragged out in a strait jacket kicking and screaming"

To the sounds of women wailing and beating their breasts

I would say goodbye to friends via pm then go, I'm a small fish in the big forum pond so I wouldn't post about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Explain to a couple of friends. Hide profile and go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a Wank n splash it all over the Monitor then type take THAT you utter utter Bastards

Gimpoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have a Wank n splash it all over the Monitor then type take THAT you utter utter Bastards

Gimpoid

Dead classy that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm no longer here and not one of you bastards even noticed!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was in a happy place and didn't want to do this anymore than I might do an A.

If I left because I was pissed off then it would be a D.

And every so often I do a C!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"D... I've done it twice,just go no fanfare,no goodbye"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd just delete my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I was in a happy place and didn't want to do this anymore than I might do an A.

If I left because I was pissed off then it would be a D.

And every so often I do a C!"

I did a 3 month C after contemplating a D. It was very cathartic!

Came back refreshed and renewed and glad I didn't do a D and have to start again from scratch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm no longer here and not one of you bastards even noticed!!!

You weren't here for us to tell you

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dragged out in a strait jacket kicking and screaming

To the sounds of women wailing and beating their breasts

I would say goodbye to friends via pm then go, I'm a small fish in the big forum pond so I wouldn't post about it "

Just picking up on that last paragraph. No one is a big fish in the forum pond. Just some people have bigger personalities. Read into that however you wish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dragged out in a strait jacket kicking and screaming

To the sounds of women wailing and beating their breasts

I would say goodbye to friends via pm then go, I'm a small fish in the big forum pond so I wouldn't post about it

Just picking up on that last paragraph. No one is a big fish in the forum pond. Just some people have bigger personalities. Read into that however you wish.

What, not even the Forum Clique?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no clique!

So they would have you believe

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Dragged out in a strait jacket kicking and screaming

To the sounds of women wailing and beating their breasts

I would say goodbye to friends via pm then go, I'm a small fish in the big forum pond so I wouldn't post about it

Just picking up on that last paragraph. No one is a big fish in the forum pond. Just some people have bigger personalities. Read into that however you wish.

I simply meant I doubt I would be missed so why make a show of leaving, I have no idea what you mean

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"There is no clique!

So they would have you believe"

It's all smoke and mirrors guv

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was leaving I'd just go, I don't think anyone's that bothered on here that a thread needs to be opened, I just see that as attention seeking

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

"Message friends to let them know then bugger off."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message friends privately depending on the circumstances. Not sure we have enough friends on the forum to warrant a post lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few profiles since 2011 and each time I've just deleted it but I never used the forums until this time round.

The only thing that would make me leave this place is if I got a boyfriend, but even then I don't think I would delete it cos I don't use this place for meeting I only use the forums. If and when I get dating someone again the combined knowledge on this forum is going to occupy me and hopefully stop me being crazy so a relationship can develop.

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