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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Due to the "Lack of Common Decency and Curtsey" I have decided that it is not worth being on Fab any more.

Considering how easy it is to communicate with people these days it is usual for just not to bother to let me know they are no longer interested even if they have arranged to meet etc

There is a lazy culture of "no message" means "NO"

Whilst it my be clear to the non-sender what they mean there are other reasons why a message is not received - It conveys that you not care about the person you are messaging to .

In other words you cannot be "Arsed" so why bother to be on a "Meeting Site" like Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be brutally honest this site is now a cockfest,you will struggle on here.sorry ti be upfront but true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Due to the "Lack of Common Decency and Curtsey" I have decided that it is not worth being on Fab any more.

Considering how easy it is to communicate with people these days it is usual for just not to bother to let me know they are no longer interested even if they have arranged to meet etc

There is a lazy culture of "no message" means "NO"

Whilst it my be clear to the non-sender what they mean there are other reasons why a message is not received - It conveys that you not care about the person you are messaging to .

In other words you cannot be "Arsed" so why bother to be on a "Meeting Site" like Fab

"

Lol nothing like a good rant to ensure everyone who chose not to meet you, made the righ decision!

Don't let the door trap your balls on the way out! Cheerio!

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Wow!

Good luck, Colin, you live in a great part of the country, plenty to do there.

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sense of entitlement is strong in this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See you dude. Hope you spend some time out in your sweet ride and have a lovely summer in the lakes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow!

Good luck, Colin, you live in a great part of the country, plenty to do there.

Him"

Good luck Colin ...My mum will miss viewing your pics .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You going for the pity me rant? To be honest it does not work! Dont judge other people for not responding, as im sure you have read enough of the "no one messages me back" threads to realise that a no response is just a no. And if you dont like the site, thats fine you can always delete your account instead of posting another in a long line of "Im taking my ball home because no one will play with me threads" harsh some might say but no! Just the truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be honest........ I stopped reading after the first two lines.....

But nevertheless I wish you all the very best in whatever direction life takes....

fair-well OP....

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I only curtsey to the queen.

Sorry, and good luck.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such love on this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only curtsey to the queen.

Sorry, and good luck.

A"

Lol.... That made me laugh

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"The sense of entitlement is strong in this one "

Trying hard not to give in to rapturous sounds of guffawing but the tears rolling down the cheeks are a sure fire giveaway if anyone could see me. Will probably get pelters for this post but you win hands down, won't be any argument from me.

Soz, Col.

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only curtsey to the queen.

Sorry, and good luck.

A"

Now that I would like to see

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

K bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you try offering Mint Cake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got nothin'

Take care.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Whoooo hooooo, that's one less male on the site. My chances of getting a shag have increased by 0.000001%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The sense of entitlement is strong in this one "

funny fabber.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon you should run for prime minister, hang in there fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time-check...... 24 minutes since the original post.......

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Time-check...... 24 minutes since the original post.......

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On the 3rd stroke....

Oh he came

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Cheerio Colin. All the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good bye n good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bye bye collin too luck on the other side

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I don't know if anyone has heard but I'm leaving too! Sorry guys, it's just time.

If you want to find out more about this cataclysmic event please read these threads.

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/67929

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/69213

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

In other news on fab,

_unky monkey also has announced he's leaving as well,

So it's goodbye from him and goodbye from... Oh..

Good luck op.... You can only change your behaviours not other people's..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

51 minutes later and you're still here, you're not really leaving are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know if anyone has heard but I'm leaving too! Sorry guys, it's just time.

If you want to find out more about this cataclysmic event please read these threads.

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/67929

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/69213"

When I click on those nothing happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bye close the door after you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"51 minutes later and you're still here, you're not really leaving are you? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a even sadder note. I'm staying

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"I don't know if anyone has heard but I'm leaving too! Sorry guys, it's just time.

If you want to find out more about this cataclysmic event please read these threads.

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/67929

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/69213

When I click on those nothing happens. "

They aren't links you have to copy and paste.

Don't read them if you are easily upset, they are so sad. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a even sadder note. I'm staying "

Phew....was worried for a minute

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

You can blame your fellow males for the lack of response as many don't read profiles and send out blanket messages to couples who clearly don't want to meet guys. Once you've had hundreds of messages from unwanted, rude guys it just pisses you off and yes, a delete often ensues. Nature of the beast.

Still here then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can blame your fellow males for the lack of response as many don't read profiles and send out blanket messages to couples who clearly don't want to meet guys. Once you've had hundreds of messages from unwanted, rude guys it just pisses you off and yes, a delete often ensues. Nature of the beast.

Still here then?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a even sadder note. I'm staying "

Couldn't bear not seeing your tush tosh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know if anyone has heard but I'm leaving too! Sorry guys, it's just time.

If you want to find out more about this cataclysmic event please read these threads.

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/67929

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/69213

When I click on those nothing happens.

They aren't links you have to copy and paste.

Don't read them if you are easily upset, they are so sad. x"

Well I'm a delicate flower.

Might leave it til I've had a cup of tay so.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

This place isn't for everyone. However, I'd question your expectations, rather than the behaviour of others, OP. When you get loads of messages, saying no thanks is a fair amount of work, especially as 4/5 times you either get a fuck you reply or a reply stating why you should meet them.

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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago

London

No more short bread,

Shite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know if anyone has heard but I'm leaving too! Sorry guys, it's just time.

If you want to find out more about this cataclysmic event please read these threads.

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/67929

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/69213"

Now that DOES make me sad! Leave me a pic of your cute li'l buns for posterity please monkey! Xxx

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Who said there was no such thing as bad publicity....

Clearly op there is..

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"I don't know if anyone has heard but I'm leaving too! Sorry guys, it's just time.

If you want to find out more about this cataclysmic event please read these threads.

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/67929

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/69213

Now that DOES make me sad! Leave me a pic of your cute li'l buns for posterity please monkey! Xxx"

Sad times indeed. I have put you in my Fab will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is turning into one of the most sedate flounce-outs I can ever recall.....

I say, bring back those days of the drama infused 3-2-1 now I'm gone, door-slam.....

Sheesh ........

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"This is turning into one of the most sedate flounce-outs I can ever recall.....

I say, bring back those days of the drama infused 3-2-1 now I'm gone, door-slam.....

Sheesh ........ "

These things can't be rushed Sox old friend. The fact I've been leaving for over three years just shows how important it is to get it right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is turning into one of the most sedate flounce-outs I can ever recall.....

I say, bring back those days of the drama infused 3-2-1 now I'm gone, door-slam.....

Sheesh ........

These things can't be rushed Sox old friend. The fact I've been leaving for over three years just shows how important it is to get it right."

Yes Funkster my o'l chum, but not everyone has access to a time-machine that can be used to fuel the tension of such a protracted and elaborate exit strategy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the bus was late. ...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know how fab will survive without another male leaving ........ It's ok another twenty single guys have joined phew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 times this year you have threatened to leave colin! get a doll mate they dnt answer back (unless you get one from japan!)!

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By *oconut2Woman
over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond

He's still here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame he's going I'll miss those socks

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

I would say it's best you left, you clearly have no idea of how the site works and if it upsets you so much then you must have issues that need sorting out.

Having looked at your forum posts and your profile it doesn't surprise me you are not getting anywhere, so all in all you have made a wise decision

Bye

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

6 threads in 7 weeks moaning about no replies etc, jeez dude, put that much into organising a social event and you could be well away!

But, of course, having a regular rant is more fun, innit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, please stop! (In best willy wonka impersonation)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be brutally honest this site is now a cockfest,you will struggle on here.sorry ti be upfront but true."

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Oh.... Still here then

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Not again. Sigh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuinly, a real shame if the OP didn't find what he was looking for.

Maybe unrealistic expectations, maybe this, maybe that.

Perhaps instead of a rant exit the Dragons Den goodbye would have been more amusing;

I'm not getting any meets and for that reason, I'm out.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't help but think if only I'd advised you of the merits of googly eyes on your penis that you might have reconsidered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is he still here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not again. Sigh."
i sighed when i saw your bum! nice

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"Is he still here? "

Yep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are we nearly there yet......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soxy!

Back to your I spy game

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Not again. Sigh. i sighed when i saw your bum! nice "

Oh thanks - here it is again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spy with my little eye, something beginning with P____

Are we nearly there yet......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soxy! You will be going across someone's knee if you carry on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Though I understand where you're coming from OP, the subject of a 'no reply' meaning 'No' is actually covered in the site FAQ's.

Perhaps if you had familiarised yourself with them you would not feel the way you do.

To be fair though, you're not the first to bring this up and i'm pretty sure you won't be the last, but everyone who does bring it up is usually reminded of the answer that the site admin have already provided.

http://www.fabswingers.com/articles/FAQ#noreply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"6 threads in 7 weeks moaning about no replies etc, jeez dude, put that much into organising a social event and you could be well away!

But, of course, having a regular rant is more fun, innit?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this part 3 of the Rules of engagement Rant or a completely new Rant about exactly same thing..Blink once for yes and twice for no

Grotty Gimp

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire


"The sense of entitlement is strong in this one "

Made me chuckle. So right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, I'm sad that you feel this way and that your experiences on Fab have not lived up to your expectations.

But as others have said, you've had this heartbreak on here for a while now (the green arrow shows multiple posts saying pretty much exactly the same thing for weeks) - I don't want anybody to leave but maybe a break might actually be a good idea? Is it worth letting this site get you so het up and frustrated?

I can understand disappointment at being let down when people agree to meet then mess you about. But I wouldn't let non-replies to emails get you down!

Once you accept that people often ignore messages, your enjoyment of the site increases significantly (at least that's what I found! The first few weeks I also felt the same as you, how dare people ignore me when I've spent ages on my message! Now I don't expect a reply so when they do come it's a bonus!)

Good luck OP, I hope you find enjoyment on here or elsewhere in your search!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Toodahloo...*waves hanky*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Toodahloo...*waves hanky* "

ewwww its got bits on it

Germoline Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not again. Sigh. i sighed when i saw your bum! nice

Oh thanks - here it is again. "
got it as screen saver!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's clearly not the site for you so if it's making you unhappy there's no point being on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Toodahloo...*waves hanky*

ewwww its got bits on it

Germoline Gimp "

Sorry, I'm snotty with emotion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Toodahloo...*waves hanky*

ewwww its got bits on it

Germoline Gimp

Sorry, I'm snotty with emotion! "

Yer fanks that image will stay with me for Days

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is he gone?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

As said many times before by Admin, if you accept that some people don't reply your time on the site might be more enjoyable.

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