FabSwingers.com forum: Face Pics.... rant, so be warned!

By *he_original_polo OP Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

What the feck is it with people just lately and not having face pics online?

They can send one via text........ I don't want to give my mobile number out to a munter by accident!

And some don't even offer to text one.... yet they have had several meets.... and then think you are being fussy wanting to see their face first.

Is it too much to expect to be able to actually see a face pic these days?

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By *he_original_polo OP Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I took an awful lot of 'f' words out of that post.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

I'm currently having a problem getting face pics from a 'couple' reluctantly gave them our number - they haven't sent anything - asked 'her' to ring me - guess what - no call!! What the heck - they're just dead sad people! Z

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol

Nope, it's not too much to ask at all. It says a lot about them if they're not willing to send one - discretion is one that comes up a lot. Discretion my ass, I mean, they're willing to meet aren't they? What they intending to do during the meet? Cover their face with a bag?

*Her*

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Could it be that some people are so into new tech that they only have piccies on phones etc?

I dont get many meets 'cos nobody returns my bloody pigeons.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

face pics are essential for us.its no problems putting them on you'r private gallery.we are always very suspicious,of people who are reluctant to show face pics.they can be sent many ways.not only through fab.totally understand you'r aprehension.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no face pics = no meet, simples .... ..

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow

surely, no face pic means, not genuine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could it be that some people are so into new tech that they only have piccies on phones etc?

I dont get many meets 'cos nobody returns my bloody pigeons."

Thats cuz they eat um

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

We bought a camera especially for swinging..

Saying that our public photos are actually camera phone with mrs news taken on self timer

We have had a struggle with some couples asking for face pics.. They send them with sort. Of hidden face shit or blurred

Then we reply saying thanks.. But have you got anything with an actual clear face shot..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rant away i know how you feel. Im always willing to send a pic and always do when asked. But had it a few times where i dont get one( my camera not working, no credit etc) so now i have stopped sending them. If they cant see im genuine online then tough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we always send face pix when asked...that's when the tumble starts rolling

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By *uton_coupleCouple
over a year ago

luton

we would never send a face pic BUT we are happy to show face on cam

if a possible meet wants to send a pic we accept it , but they must at some point go on cam so we can see them as they are now

not a photo that might be 10 years old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

face pics should be on peoples listings,make them mandetory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"face pics should be on peoples listings,make them mandetory."

Make them mandatory ? Tell me you're joking ? That is tongue in cheek ..

Isn't it ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the usual,can download endless cock pics but can't seem to download a face pic. Mmm, could it be that the face doesn't match the body x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"face pics should be on peoples listings,make them mandetory.

Make them mandatory ? Tell me you're joking ? That is tongue in cheek ..

Isn't it ??

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................i totally understand why some don't put up a face pic on their profile , me included,i had it copied once and put on another site,which i had no clue about ,until a freind spotted it and told me.Apparently ,the bloke in question posted it because i declined his offer of meeting.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"face pics should be on peoples listings,make them mandetory.

Make them mandatory ? Tell me you're joking ? That is tongue in cheek ..

Isn't it ??

................i totally understand why some don't put up a face pic on their profile , me included,i had it copied once and put on another site,which i had no clue about ,until a freind spotted it and told me.Apparently ,the bloke in question posted it because i declined his offer of meeting.

face pics,can be sent in many ways.which are totally unrelated to fab.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

no face pic no meet for us. If we approach someone we always attach a face pic of the two of us, unfortunately when they see a pic of me they usually run a mile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we asked a couple for face pics only to be told we only send them after we have met pmsl

simple no pics = no meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres no excuse for not having them in your private gallery and sending one with a private message.

No face pic no meet as far as we're concerned.

Its as bad as only womens pics on couples profiles!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does the verification photo need to be a face pic?

Once uploaded it just sits there...If that could be kept private but you had the ability to send it in a message no one would have an excuse as every photo verified member would have a face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say it's a problem for me as most men attach a face pic when they send their initial message.

I don't send a face pic until I'm sure I intend to meet. I have face pics from forum members - and they mine - who I'll never meet, but it's nice to put a face to names, so I don't understand the reluctance in sending one to people you contact!

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"Theres no excuse for not having them in your private gallery and sending one with a private message.

No face pic no meet as far as we're concerned.

Its as bad as only womens pics on couples profiles!

XXXX"

I choose not to have me face photo on here, instead I send it at a later date via e mail, that's my preference and if others think this is wrong then that's tough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We put ours on public display so that folks can see who they are writing to, and if we scare them, it's their own fault for looking

It's hard to understand how people will show you their cock or fanny, but are too shy to show you their faces

Anyone advertizing on an internet site cannot truely believe they are being discrete.

I would wager that any decent investigative journalist could dig out any of our details without too much trouble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.Is it too much to expect to be able to actually see a face pic these days?

well looks that way or you wouldn't have a rant over it

*sits in crypt *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We put ours on public display so that folks can see who they are writing to, and if we scare them, it's their own fault for looking

It's hard to understand how people will show you their cock or fanny, but are too shy to show you their faces

Anyone advertizing on an internet site cannot truely believe they are being discrete.

I would wager that any decent investigative journalist could dig out any of our details without too much trouble

FFS don't say that Jack, you'll halve the site membership!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We put ours on public display so that folks can see who they are writing to, and if we scare them, it's their own fault for looking

It's hard to understand how people will show you their cock or fanny, but are too shy to show you their faces

Anyone advertizing on an internet site cannot truely believe they are being discrete.

I would wager that any decent investigative journalist could dig out any of our details without too much trouble

FFS don't say that Jack, you'll halve the site membership!

What will? showing my mug shot? Fuck, am I that ugly?

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

The thing is some peoples jobs/careers may well be adversely affected by posting their face publically on a website like this, also some may have more to lose than others.

I would suggest that if you are willing to send a face photo before a meet or via Cam then you are as genuine as anyone else on here, posting them so anyone can see them doesn't make a member any more worthy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will always send face pics if we are interested and we would ask for face pics back. Obviously we use discretion but I cant see the point of not sending face pics if you intend to meet someone

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

I choose not to have me face photo on here, instead I send it at a later date via e mail, that's my preference and if others think this is wrong then that's tough!"

We totally agree..

Personally we think its reckless having a face pic for public view..there are cranks and weirdos everywhere and this site is no exception.and you could be setting yourself up for serious trouble..equally, the self same cranks and weirdos can view and save them from your private ones too..Im sure some people have jobs on here that are sensitive and have a right to anonymity

Some people want to keep their private life private...some people obviously want the whole world to know that they are swingers and are obviously not bothered who knows..which is fine, but everyone is different..

But if a meet is on the cards then both parties should be entitled to see what they are getting..especially those who feel looks/size etc are more important than personality

The 'no face pic no meet' stance is perfectly reasonable in our opinion..but peoples individual limits as far as privacy is concerned should also be respected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No face pic, no meet, tough I'd say!

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By *ouch PotatoMan
over a year ago

nationwide.

I have found it difficult without a face picture but have bitten the bullet and going to upload one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a face pic in my private gallery and usually send one to those who have one in their public profile, I'd send a face pic to anyone asking for one once I had spoken to them a little. As a single guy I guess this puts off most people but it's how I feel comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too old for blind dates, face pics are a must for us and we also send ours first if we are mailing a couple.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"The thing is some peoples jobs/careers may well be adversely affected by posting their face publically on a website like this, also some may have more to lose than others.

face pics could be sent via,e mail.the pics can be,you on holiday,you at a wedding.you in the park.how could anyone use that against you.

love casper xx

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By *ertnbeckyCouple
over a year ago

oldham

moronic asian freaky dickheaded shrek lookalike here gonna meet you on yer dinner break at work after i,ve finished shagging a sperm bucket

gonna have a one off qickie then get married now shut up and do as your told

oh and 6969696969696969699696969

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never send a face pic and won't and there is no one here worth breaking my resolve for.

I will face cam if they want.

If they won't meet because i won't send a pic that's fine.

I don't get remotely stressed over it.

On on and on to the next one.

I don't dislike them for sticking by their convictions either.

There's enough pic people and enough no pic people to let the world go round.

The sanctimonious YOU WILL have a pic people are a tad annoying. ~We non piccie people don't insist they remove their pics...... Come to think of it some would get more meets without pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too old for blind dates, face pics are a must for us and we also send ours first if we are mailing a couple."

I dont have face pics or any pics on the site (apart from my verification pic) But i would send a pic via email if i was going to meet and i would expect to see one in return, Tajandjay know me VERY well but they dont know it

(coz i have just rejoined recently) lol hi honeys xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, it's not too much to ask at all. It says a lot about them if they're not willing to send one - discretion is one that comes up a lot. Discretion my ass, I mean, they're willing to meet aren't they? What they intending to do during the meet? Cover their face with a bag?

*Her*"

oh thanks, I fell on the floor!!!!!

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"moronic asian freaky dickheaded shrek lookalike here gonna meet you on yer dinner break at work after i,ve finished shagging a sperm bucket

gonna have a one off qickie then get married now shut up and do as your told

oh and 6969696969696969699696969

what was that number.

you'r just what we're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they cant send them on HERE.....I dont waste my time

There is NO excuse for not having them available on request via the site!

Sick of hearing the excuses...we all adults and here for same thing, so whats the big deal????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Theres no excuse for not having them in your private gallery and sending one with a private message.

No face pic no meet as far as we're concerned.

Its as bad as only womens pics on couples profiles!

XXXX"

applauds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say i'm surprised at the amount of people on here who will not send face pic but will happily give out personal details (phone numbers, email addys) to someone they know nothing about!!!!!!

I am an adult on a sex site *shock horror* who will happily show face to anyone who interests her....but will NEVER give out number/email until a meet HAS been arranged!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have to say i'm surprised at the amount of people on here who will not send face pic but will happily give out personal details (phone numbers, email addys) to someone they know nothing about!!!!!!

I am an adult on a sex site *shock horror* who will happily show face to anyone who interests her....but will NEVER give out number/email until a meet HAS been arranged!

if you are worried about giving your number you just get a cheapo swing phone. We always exchange phone numbers before a meet for fem to fem chat to check we are all on the same page.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have to say i'm surprised at the amount of people on here who will not send face pic but will happily give out personal details (phone numbers, email addys) to someone they know nothing about!!!!!!

I am an adult on a sex site *shock horror* who will happily show face to anyone who interests her....but will NEVER give out number/email until a meet HAS been arranged!

I would never give my number out unless i had arranged to meet, and i have a swinging email address, would be silly to use my official one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have to say i'm surprised at the amount of people on here who will not send face pic but will happily give out personal details (phone numbers, email addys) to someone they know nothing about!!!!!!

I am an adult on a sex site *shock horror* who will happily show face to anyone who interests her....but will NEVER give out number/email until a meet HAS been arranged!

I would never give my number out unless i had arranged to meet, and i have a swinging email address, would be silly to use my official one lol

4 us no fem to fem call no meet, so it's a bit chicken n egg really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have to say i'm surprised at the amount of people on here who will not send face pic but will happily give out personal details (phone numbers, email addys) to someone they know nothing about!!!!!!

I am an adult on a sex site *shock horror* who will happily show face to anyone who interests her....but will NEVER give out number/email until a meet HAS been arranged!

I would never give my number out unless i had arranged to meet, and i have a swinging email address, would be silly to use my official one lol

4 us no fem to fem call no meet, so it's a bit chicken n egg really."

In my pervious life as one half of a swinging cpl, I had no problem with a fem to fem chat happy to do it, you have to make sure there is an actual fem there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont ask for fem/fem phone call...

If they ask for it, I get their number and call, never show my own number...

Only had to do that call once...

BUT I would not call if I hadnt seen face pic first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

totally agree bout face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one couple mail us months ago on a diff site.....

REFUSED to show face pics, saying we would see what they looked like when we met them!!!! ERM...No we bloody wont!!!! TYVM

Since then I have insisted on seeing face pics straight away, no point in keeping up the chit chat if there no attraction at all....once we have all seen face pics of each other, and we ALL like, arrange suitable time for quick social drink......simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about cock pics? I have turned peeps down because their cocks do not tickle my fancy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about cock pics? I have turned peeps down because their cocks do not tickle my fancy!

yes and because I dont want to be tickled by their fancy either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore anyone who feels the need to send me his cock pic

Dont care what it looks like...

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"The thing is some peoples jobs/careers may well be adversely affected by posting their face publically on a website like this, also some may have more to lose than others.

face pics could be sent via,e mail.the pics can be,you on holiday,you at a wedding.you in the park.how could anyone use that against you.

love casper xx

As I said, I send a photo via e mail before I meet, I choose not to put a face pic on my profile because it's my prerogative not to......what other people do is up to them, I don't question their decisions in life.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"we would never send a face pic BUT we are happy to show face on cam

if a possible meet wants to send a pic we accept it , but they must at some point go on cam so we can see them as they are now

not a photo that might be 10 years old

Exactly what we do. We don't ask for face pics, but we do like to all show face on cam to verify who everyone is.

Pics can be outdated.

If someone doesn't want to even speak to others who don't have a pic on their profile, thats their choice, just like this is ours.

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By *uton_coupleCouple
over a year ago

luton

"we would never send a face pic BUT we are happy to show face on cam

if a possible meet wants to send a pic we accept it , but they must at some point go on cam so we can see them as they are now

not a photo that might be 10 years old

Exactly what we do. We don't ask for face pics, but we do like to all show face on cam to verify who everyone is.

Pics can be outdated.

If someone doesn't want to even speak to others who don't have a pic on their profile, thats their choice, just like this is ours.

without sounding like some kind of snob , looking at a person on cam gives you some idea of what there like by whats in the background

some backgrounds are like those on the "filth files" or "how clean is your house"

beer cans stacked layer on layer , piles of dirty washing , 3 week old slices of pitza etc

eeeeeeuuuuuuuwwwwwwwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gosh .........

All I ever see is solid gold taps and crystal sculptures.....

Im obviously attracting the wrong type of fucker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were messaging a local couple a while back with a view to meeting no problems,

We asked for a face pic, the reply was everybody around town knows us so they know what we look like and we dont want to show our face, now bearing in mind most people use pseudo names on here and we didn't know the people I pointed this out, still no go with the face pics and he was more offended by the fact we didn't know them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we would never send a face pic BUT we are happy to show face on cam

if a possible meet wants to send a pic we accept it , but they must at some point go on cam so we can see them as they are now

not a photo that might be 10 years old

Exactly what we do. We don't ask for face pics, but we do like to all show face on cam to verify who everyone is.

Pics can be outdated.

If someone doesn't want to even speak to others who don't have a pic on their profile, thats their choice, just like this is ours.

without sounding like some kind of snob , looking at a person on cam gives you some idea of what there like by whats in the background

some backgrounds are like those on the "filth files" or "how clean is your house"

beer cans stacked layer on layer , piles of dirty washing , 3 week old slices of pitza etc

eeeeeeuuuuuuuwwwwwwwww

I didn't think any of my backgrounds were at all bad as since buying it I've decorated the house with more than a modicum of taste. BUT I've suddenly noticed that on one shot (thankfully in my private gallery) behind my upstanding member is a God-awful fitted wardrobe that the previous owner of the house had bestowed upon me, and which I've prioritised behind doing the rest of the house. I do hope no one has judging my personality, overall panache and possible bedroom performance on the style left behind by a woman of almost ninety....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we would never send a face pic BUT we are happy to show face on cam

if a possible meet wants to send a pic we accept it , but they must at some point go on cam so we can see them as they are now

not a photo that might be 10 years old

Exactly what we do. We don't ask for face pics, but we do like to all show face on cam to verify who everyone is.

Pics can be outdated.

If someone doesn't want to even speak to others who don't have a pic on their profile, thats their choice, just like this is ours.

without sounding like some kind of snob , looking at a person on cam gives you some idea of what there like by whats in the background

some backgrounds are like those on the "filth files" or "how clean is your house"

beer cans stacked layer on layer , piles of dirty washing , 3 week old slices of pitza etc

eeeeeeuuuuuuuwwwwwwwww

Oh poor you - pop over and I'll take one of you next to my wardrobe.

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By *umgetus69Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

as we always say

u might be hung like a donkey but if i feel u look like sherk forget

know might sound a bit over the top

but you get were i am comein from

so not face pics no meet as a few peeps have already said

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

"What the feck is it with people just lately and not having face pics online?

They can send one via text........ I don't want to give my mobile number out to a munter by accident!

And some don't even offer to text one.... yet they have had several meets.... and then think you are being fussy wanting to see their face first.

Is it too much to expect to be able to actually see a face pic these days?"

Its a real bugger getting a face pic up i have to say. I have plenty cock pics though, what colour do you want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate sending face pics

but i will if i have to

much prefer being on cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh poor you - pop over and I'll take one of you next to my wardrobe. "

I'd be more than happy to Madam! However, I do hope you realise that I wouldn't consider meeting you without seeing a pic first(of your wardrobe). I went on a meet once where the owner swore blind they had an antique Edwardian dresser, and turning up I was greeted by a clapped out plywood item that looked like it had been assembled by a six year old with no thumbs. Needless to say I made my excuses and left...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We were messaging a local couple a while back with a view to meeting no problems,

Thats the trouble setting up a meet with the Mayor and Mayoress!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh poor you - pop over and I'll take one of you next to my wardrobe.

There's only one antique in my bedroom ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh poor you - pop over and I'll take one of you next to my wardrobe.

There's only one antique in my bedroom .... "

Surely it's not a phallic sex toy carved from anglo-saxon era oak by Harold the Great himself? I thought it was a myth!

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

I think i saw harold's profile

I think he lied about his age as those photos looked a lot like tapestries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think i saw harold's profile

I think he lied about his age as those photos looked a lot like tapestries "

I'd be suspicious of any photo of our good mate Harry that didn't have an arrow protruding from one eye, apparently he's had that for the best part of a millenium, so any without and I think he's guilty of gilding the lily...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be suspicious of any photo with or without the arrow .......

Cam er a ?

I was right about your thinking parts being in your pants ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Touche Madam!

However as Mrs New has pointed out, it could be a photo of a photo, or in this case, a tapestry.

Not that you were entirely wrong, when the occasion demands it my brain is quite capable of relocating south...

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