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"Has anyone on here (probably more a question for the women this one) ever found themselves the object of someone's most passionate desires, either sexually or romantically? If so, then how did it make you feel? Were you flattered, frightened, or not particularly affected by someone having such an intense attraction to you?" Yes. Sexually harrassed. On here. Daily. And I lurrve it Seriously though, there was one guy that was sweet at first but became cloyingly annoying. He laid it on so thickly, I felt smothered. Not a good feeling. It just becomes weird when someone you hardly know has "strong" feelings for you. Doubly so when you're part of a couple. We had to block him. He's the only person on our block list as we've never felt the need to block anyone until him. S x | |||
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"Seriously though, there was one guy that was sweet at first but became cloyingly annoying. He laid it on so thickly, I felt smothered. Not a good feeling. It just becomes weird when someone you hardly know has "strong" feelings for you. Doubly so when you're part of a couple. We had to block him. He's the only person on our block list as we've never felt the need to block anyone until him. S x " Did he ever attempt to explain how and why he felt that way toward you, or did he simply just pour out his emotions and expect you to understand? | |||
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"Seriously though, there was one guy that was sweet at first but became cloyingly annoying. He laid it on so thickly, I felt smothered. Not a good feeling. It just becomes weird when someone you hardly know has "strong" feelings for you. Doubly so when you're part of a couple. We had to block him. He's the only person on our block list as we've never felt the need to block anyone until him. S x Did he ever attempt to explain how and why he felt that way toward you, or did he simply just pour out his emotions and expect you to understand?" He couldn't explain. I think it was less about me to be honest, more a need about him? I'm a good listener and get pretty animated/show a lot of interest in a lot of things, he probably felt special. I'm like that with most people though. I think he took it as something it really wasn't. | |||
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"Has anyone on here (probably more a question for the women this one) ever found themselves the object of someone's most passionate desires, either sexually or romantically? If so, then how did it make you feel? Were you flattered, frightened, or not particularly affected by someone having such an intense attraction to you?" I'm well into intensity, I seem to attract it and I love it, it's flattering, yes, and exhilarating if you feel the same. I've once or twice had it from guys I felt nothing for, and that can get creepy or even scary pretty quick. | |||
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"Has anyone on here (probably more a question for the women this one) ever found themselves the object of someone's most passionate desires, either sexually or romantically? If so, then how did it make you feel? Were you flattered, frightened, or not particularly affected by someone having such an intense attraction to you? I'm well into intensity, I seem to attract it and I love it, it's flattering, yes, and exhilarating if you feel the same. I've once or twice had it from guys I felt nothing for, and that can get creepy or even scary pretty quick. " If you felt nothing for them, how do you suppose these feelings came about in them? Were they people you knew, friends maybe, what kind of people did they come across as? | |||
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"Has anyone on here (probably more a question for the women this one) ever found themselves the object of someone's most passionate desires, either sexually or romantically? If so, then how did it make you feel? Were you flattered, frightened, or not particularly affected by someone having such an intense attraction to you? I'm well into intensity, I seem to attract it and I love it, it's flattering, yes, and exhilarating if you feel the same. I've once or twice had it from guys I felt nothing for, and that can get creepy or even scary pretty quick. If you felt nothing for them, how do you suppose these feelings came about in them? Were they people you knew, friends maybe, what kind of people did they come across as?" Are you the recipient or the infatuated? | |||
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"Has anyone on here (probably more a question for the women this one) ever found themselves the object of someone's most passionate desires, either sexually or romantically? If so, then how did it make you feel? Were you flattered, frightened, or not particularly affected by someone having such an intense attraction to you? I'm well into intensity, I seem to attract it and I love it, it's flattering, yes, and exhilarating if you feel the same. I've once or twice had it from guys I felt nothing for, and that can get creepy or even scary pretty quick. If you felt nothing for them, how do you suppose these feelings came about in them? Were they people you knew, friends maybe, what kind of people did they come across as?" One really bad one was a guy I worked with who seemed perfectly normal - he was assigned as my copywriter, and he was even married. It just came totally out of the blue, I was never even the slightest bit flirty and he was SO not my type, but he just fawned all over me like a love-sick puppy and would not quit when I protested, it was awful. I had to go to the management in the end and ask to be reassigned, it was intolerable. More recently was a young guy from a dating site who ended up getting stalkery and sending long texts about fantasies he had about me, but he was definitely a bit OCD I think. I only ever had lunch with him and chatted in a very general way so I have no idea why really. | |||
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"Has anyone on here (probably more a question for the women this one) ever found themselves the object of someone's most passionate desires, either sexually or romantically? If so, then how did it make you feel? Were you flattered, frightened, or not particularly affected by someone having such an intense attraction to you? I'm well into intensity, I seem to attract it and I love it, it's flattering, yes, and exhilarating if you feel the same. I've once or twice had it from guys I felt nothing for, and that can get creepy or even scary pretty quick. If you felt nothing for them, how do you suppose these feelings came about in them? Were they people you knew, friends maybe, what kind of people did they come across as? One really bad one was a guy I worked with who seemed perfectly normal - he was assigned as my copywriter, and he was even married. It just came totally out of the blue, I was never even the slightest bit flirty and he was SO not my type, but he just fawned all over me like a love-sick puppy and would not quit when I protested, it was awful. I had to go to the management in the end and ask to be reassigned, it was intolerable." So how did he break it to you, was it done in a jokey friendly sort of way, or a more serious approach like you do with either a marriage proposal or confiding in someone a serious problem? "More recently was a young guy from a dating site who ended up getting stalkery and sending long texts about fantasies he had about me, but he was definitely a bit OCD I think. I only ever had lunch with him and chatted in a very general way so I have no idea why really." Was there anything in particular that made you think he was OCD? | |||
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"Has anyone on here (probably more a question for the women this one) ever found themselves the object of someone's most passionate desires, either sexually or romantically? If so, then how did it make you feel? Were you flattered, frightened, or not particularly affected by someone having such an intense attraction to you? I'm well into intensity, I seem to attract it and I love it, it's flattering, yes, and exhilarating if you feel the same. I've once or twice had it from guys I felt nothing for, and that can get creepy or even scary pretty quick. If you felt nothing for them, how do you suppose these feelings came about in them? Were they people you knew, friends maybe, what kind of people did they come across as? One really bad one was a guy I worked with who seemed perfectly normal - he was assigned as my copywriter, and he was even married. It just came totally out of the blue, I was never even the slightest bit flirty and he was SO not my type, but he just fawned all over me like a love-sick puppy and would not quit when I protested, it was awful. I had to go to the management in the end and ask to be reassigned, it was intolerable. So how did he break it to you, was it done in a jokey friendly sort of way, or a more serious approach like you do with either a marriage proposal or confiding in someone a serious problem? More recently was a young guy from a dating site who ended up getting stalkery and sending long texts about fantasies he had about me, but he was definitely a bit OCD I think. I only ever had lunch with him and chatted in a very general way so I have no idea why really. Was there anything in particular that made you think he was OCD?" In hindsight I could see some of his responses to casual remarks were OTT, offering to go to extraordinary lengths to help me, and over lunch there were 'problems' with cutlery not being perfect etc. The writer was not jokey at all, but sickly sweet all the time, effusive with compliments, terms of endearments etc. and of course I could not get away from it all day. | |||
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"Has anyone on here (probably more a question for the women this one) ever found themselves the object of someone's most passionate desires, either sexually or romantically? If so, then how did it make you feel? Were you flattered, frightened, or not particularly affected by someone having such an intense attraction to you? I'm well into intensity, I seem to attract it and I love it, it's flattering, yes, and exhilarating if you feel the same. I've once or twice had it from guys I felt nothing for, and that can get creepy or even scary pretty quick. If you felt nothing for them, how do you suppose these feelings came about in them? Were they people you knew, friends maybe, what kind of people did they come across as? One really bad one was a guy I worked with who seemed perfectly normal - he was assigned as my copywriter, and he was even married. It just came totally out of the blue, I was never even the slightest bit flirty and he was SO not my type, but he just fawned all over me like a love-sick puppy and would not quit when I protested, it was awful. I had to go to the management in the end and ask to be reassigned, it was intolerable. So how did he break it to you, was it done in a jokey friendly sort of way, or a more serious approach like you do with either a marriage proposal or confiding in someone a serious problem? More recently was a young guy from a dating site who ended up getting stalkery and sending long texts about fantasies he had about me, but he was definitely a bit OCD I think. I only ever had lunch with him and chatted in a very general way so I have no idea why really. Was there anything in particular that made you think he was OCD? In hindsight I could see some of his responses to casual remarks were OTT, offering to go to extraordinary lengths to help me, and over lunch there were 'problems' with cutlery not being perfect etc. The writer was not jokey at all, but sickly sweet all the time, effusive with compliments, terms of endearments etc. and of course I could not get away from it all day. " Did you find it all rather repulsive? | |||
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"Has anyone on here (probably more a question for the women this one) ever found themselves the object of someone's most passionate desires, either sexually or romantically? If so, then how did it make you feel? Were you flattered, frightened, or not particularly affected by someone having such an intense attraction to you? I'm well into intensity, I seem to attract it and I love it, it's flattering, yes, and exhilarating if you feel the same. I've once or twice had it from guys I felt nothing for, and that can get creepy or even scary pretty quick. If you felt nothing for them, how do you suppose these feelings came about in them? Were they people you knew, friends maybe, what kind of people did they come across as? One really bad one was a guy I worked with who seemed perfectly normal - he was assigned as my copywriter, and he was even married. It just came totally out of the blue, I was never even the slightest bit flirty and he was SO not my type, but he just fawned all over me like a love-sick puppy and would not quit when I protested, it was awful. I had to go to the management in the end and ask to be reassigned, it was intolerable. So how did he break it to you, was it done in a jokey friendly sort of way, or a more serious approach like you do with either a marriage proposal or confiding in someone a serious problem? More recently was a young guy from a dating site who ended up getting stalkery and sending long texts about fantasies he had about me, but he was definitely a bit OCD I think. I only ever had lunch with him and chatted in a very general way so I have no idea why really. Was there anything in particular that made you think he was OCD? In hindsight I could see some of his responses to casual remarks were OTT, offering to go to extraordinary lengths to help me, and over lunch there were 'problems' with cutlery not being perfect etc. The writer was not jokey at all, but sickly sweet all the time, effusive with compliments, terms of endearments etc. and of course I could not get away from it all day. Did you find it all rather repulsive?" Yes, the writer very much so, it turned my stomach. The other was more scary- if someone won't stop texting you it's a real violation. | |||
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"Has anyone on here (probably more a question for the women this one) ever found themselves the object of someone's most passionate desires, either sexually or romantically? If so, then how did it make you feel? Were you flattered, frightened, or not particularly affected by someone having such an intense attraction to you? I'm well into intensity, I seem to attract it and I love it, it's flattering, yes, and exhilarating if you feel the same. I've once or twice had it from guys I felt nothing for, and that can get creepy or even scary pretty quick. If you felt nothing for them, how do you suppose these feelings came about in them? Were they people you knew, friends maybe, what kind of people did they come across as? One really bad one was a guy I worked with who seemed perfectly normal - he was assigned as my copywriter, and he was even married. It just came totally out of the blue, I was never even the slightest bit flirty and he was SO not my type, but he just fawned all over me like a love-sick puppy and would not quit when I protested, it was awful. I had to go to the management in the end and ask to be reassigned, it was intolerable. So how did he break it to you, was it done in a jokey friendly sort of way, or a more serious approach like you do with either a marriage proposal or confiding in someone a serious problem? More recently was a young guy from a dating site who ended up getting stalkery and sending long texts about fantasies he had about me, but he was definitely a bit OCD I think. I only ever had lunch with him and chatted in a very general way so I have no idea why really. Was there anything in particular that made you think he was OCD? In hindsight I could see some of his responses to casual remarks were OTT, offering to go to extraordinary lengths to help me, and over lunch there were 'problems' with cutlery not being perfect etc. The writer was not jokey at all, but sickly sweet all the time, effusive with compliments, terms of endearments etc. and of course I could not get away from it all day. Did you find it all rather repulsive? Yes, the writer very much so, it turned my stomach. The other was more scary- if someone won't stop texting you it's a real violation. " I once read a tip I thought sounded pretty good, never tried it though - they say if you're getting hounded by texts, make one up yourself, all in capital letters and looking like something official, a message to the effect of 'THIS IS AN AUTOMATED TEXT FROM (network provider), SORRY, BUT THIS NUMBER IS NO LONGER IN USE.' Reply with it immediately every time they text you. | |||
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"Has anyone on here (probably more a question for the women this one) ever found themselves the object of someone's most passionate desires, either sexually or romantically? If so, then how did it make you feel? Were you flattered, frightened, or not particularly affected by someone having such an intense attraction to you? I'm well into intensity, I seem to attract it and I love it, it's flattering, yes, and exhilarating if you feel the same. I've once or twice had it from guys I felt nothing for, and that can get creepy or even scary pretty quick. If you felt nothing for them, how do you suppose these feelings came about in them? Were they people you knew, friends maybe, what kind of people did they come across as? One really bad one was a guy I worked with who seemed perfectly normal - he was assigned as my copywriter, and he was even married. It just came totally out of the blue, I was never even the slightest bit flirty and he was SO not my type, but he just fawned all over me like a love-sick puppy and would not quit when I protested, it was awful. I had to go to the management in the end and ask to be reassigned, it was intolerable. So how did he break it to you, was it done in a jokey friendly sort of way, or a more serious approach like you do with either a marriage proposal or confiding in someone a serious problem? More recently was a young guy from a dating site who ended up getting stalkery and sending long texts about fantasies he had about me, but he was definitely a bit OCD I think. I only ever had lunch with him and chatted in a very general way so I have no idea why really. Was there anything in particular that made you think he was OCD? In hindsight I could see some of his responses to casual remarks were OTT, offering to go to extraordinary lengths to help me, and over lunch there were 'problems' with cutlery not being perfect etc. The writer was not jokey at all, but sickly sweet all the time, effusive with compliments, terms of endearments etc. and of course I could not get away from it all day. Did you find it all rather repulsive? Yes, the writer very much so, it turned my stomach. The other was more scary- if someone won't stop texting you it's a real violation. I once read a tip I thought sounded pretty good, never tried it though - they say if you're getting hounded by texts, make one up yourself, all in capital letters and looking like something official, a message to the effect of 'THIS IS AN AUTOMATED TEXT FROM (network provider), SORRY, BUT THIS NUMBER IS NO LONGER IN USE.' Reply with it immediately every time they text you." Good idea. My large, black, ex-boxer friend with the huge deep voice was going to have words if he did not stop, but I ignored them and he did before long. | |||
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