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It's an age thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it me, or do women age better than men ?

You look on a profile, age is good,profile reads okay,check the pics and . . . really ?? Add a few more years mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't agree in real life. Hell i get called out for being younger which is nice. As to fab or online sites there seem to be a few fibbers (only a few though )

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

I dunno.. I got ID'd for a 15 rated movie last week.. but I'm not sure that counts as I've not really 'aged' by 21..

In my opinion, my dad has aged better than my mum.. but then again my mum drinks too much alcohol so I suppose that doesn't help the ageing process

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Nope.

I don't think one gender has any advantage here.

I know examples where men look younger than women of the same age and vice versa.

Guess it just depends if they've been on the sunbeds since 13, smoked 80 a day, don't own a cooker and their wardrobe consists of items with elasticated waists.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me, or do women age better than men ?

You look on a profile, age is good,profile reads okay,check the pics and . . . really ?? Add a few more years mate "

I think it's you , or maybe guys have more appeal as they get older . There are loads of guys in their 40s and early 50s who are so hot , yet very few women in the same age bracket we find attractive .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dunno.. I got ID'd for a 15 rated movie last week.. but I'm not sure that counts as I've not really 'aged' by 21..

In my opinion, my dad has aged better than my mum.. but then again my mum drinks too much alcohol so I suppose that doesn't help the ageing process"

I got Id last week also,but only because I asked them too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I know men I wouldn't have looked twice at when they were 20 who are hot now they're lightly greying, getting laughter lines next to their eyes and wearing more suits

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wouldn't agree in real life. Hell i get called out for being younger which is nice. As to fab or online sites there seem to be a few fibbers (only a few though ) "

I'm thinking more than a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

apparently look young for my age (most end up thinking i'm still in my teens) now if it means better looking is a different question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You cant really tell who ages better as women wear makeup to disguise the wrinkles the older they get the more makeup they wear

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it me, or do women age better than men ?

You look on a profile, age is good,profile reads okay,check the pics and . . . really ?? Add a few more years mate

I think it's you , or maybe guys have more appeal as they get older . There are loads of guys in their 40s and early 50s who are so hot , yet very few women in the same age bracket we find attractive ."

I know that, what I'm saying is, there seems to be guys on here who are their late 50's ,trying to get away with being early 40s..I keep checking my mirror to see if I look like that . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me, or do women age better than men ?

You look on a profile, age is good,profile reads okay,check the pics and . . . really ?? Add a few more years mate "

It depends on the person really, I've mentioned many a time how when you look at the top hundred sexiest men and women on websites and what not, the guys are typically a good 10-20 or so years older than those who make up the female lists.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to take into account the Fab inflation effect on body size and the Fab deflation effect on age.

My wife is the most attractive she's ever been (in her late 30s)

..banking on her reading this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me, or do women age better than men ?

You look on a profile, age is good,profile reads okay,check the pics and . . . really ?? Add a few more years mate

I think it's you , or maybe guys have more appeal as they get older . There are loads of guys in their 40s and early 50s who are so hot , yet very few women in the same age bracket we find attractive .

I know that, what I'm saying is, there seems to be guys on here who are their late 50's ,trying to get away with being early 40s..I keep checking my mirror to see if I look like that . . "

Sounds like there's just more men lying about their age, which makes sense given the larger number of men vs women. Either that or all the sex is wearing them out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im told I look well for my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's a gender thing per se as eveyone ages differently.

What I do know is as a woman in my late 40's I look better now than when I was say in my 30's but I also have to work a lot harder to maintain it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys have oilier skin than women and the oils stop the skin from ageing as quickly so it is a fact that women's skin ages quicker than mens in general

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I have met men younger and older than myself in my time on Fab. I've not really noticed any discrepancy between the age they say they are on here and the age the actually are, although I do know of a few guys (never girls) who shall we say round down their ages. I've never felt the need to but did feel a bit weird the first time I went on a meet with a guy in his early thirties since we popped for a coffee after the meet and I thought everyone might look at us together and wonder what someone like him was doing with an old heifer like me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My told I don't look my age at all, but at times I feel older

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

Depends on the person I think but often at some clubs the women have made more effort and the men just come as they are. I think you have to take your personal preference into account, for example I am attracted to women my age but younger men, in general.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't hide my age due to heavily greying hair. But I like it. Ladies seem to trust an older man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I look better than I did ten years ago....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im told I look well for my age "

That'll be the t-cut

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I have met men younger and older than myself in my time on Fab. I've not really noticed any discrepancy between the age they say they are on here and the age the actually are, although I do know of a few guys (never girls) who shall we say round down their ages. I've never felt the need to but did feel a bit weird the first time I went on a meet with a guy in his early thirties since we popped for a coffee after the meet and I thought everyone might look at us together and wonder what someone like him was doing with an old heifer like me."

According to your profile you're 38. Why would you think people might be looking at you for being with a man in his early thirties?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that aging well depends on genes, health, diet and not just on make up (for the ladies!) If someone looks after themselves, then age can be hard to determine. Works the other way round too, seen some people who have partied waaay too hard and paying the price. I have met up with a couple of guys from on here who have lied about their age, big time. One admitted to being late 40s, sent a pic that was 10 years younger and when he turned up, he had a bus pass! In fact, this has happened twice to me. I also see profiles of guys who joined in 2006 and when I asked for a more recent pic, got told that he 'hadn't changed much!'

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I have met men younger and older than myself in my time on Fab. I've not really noticed any discrepancy between the age they say they are on here and the age the actually are, although I do know of a few guys (never girls) who shall we say round down their ages. I've never felt the need to but did feel a bit weird the first time I went on a meet with a guy in his early thirties since we popped for a coffee after the meet and I thought everyone might look at us together and wonder what someone like him was doing with an old heifer like me.

According to your profile you're 38. Why would you think people might be looking at you for being with a man in his early thirties?"

Pre-fab all my sexually experiences with guys were with those older than me. So going out with a thirty year old felt a bit strange at first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me, or do women age better than men ?

You look on a profile, age is good,profile reads okay,check the pics and . . . really ?? Add a few more years mate "

This was me when I was nearly famous in 1999

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I have met men younger and older than myself in my time on Fab. I've not really noticed any discrepancy between the age they say they are on here and the age the actually are, although I do know of a few guys (never girls) who shall we say round down their ages. I've never felt the need to but did feel a bit weird the first time I went on a meet with a guy in his early thirties since we popped for a coffee after the meet and I thought everyone might look at us together and wonder what someone like him was doing with an old heifer like me.

According to your profile you're 38. Why would you think people might be looking at you for being with a man in his early thirties?

Pre-fab all my sexually experiences with guys were with those older than me. So going out with a thirty year old felt a bit strange at first."

Ahhhh, gotcha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me, or do women age better than men ?

You look on a profile, age is good,profile reads okay,check the pics and . . . really ?? Add a few more years mate

This was me when I was nearly famous in 1999"

But ive changed it back now just to save confusion....did you see it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it me, or do women age better than men ?

You look on a profile, age is good,profile reads okay,check the pics and . . . really ?? Add a few more years mate

This was me when I was nearly famous in 1999

But ive changed it back now just to save confusion....did you see it "

I did . But your point is ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me, or do women age better than men ?

You look on a profile, age is good,profile reads okay,check the pics and . . . really ?? Add a few more years mate

This was me when I was nearly famous in 1999

But ive changed it back now just to save confusion....did you see it

I did . But your point is ?"

Just to show how people age with T cut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think men generally age better than women.

They dont seem to worry about things like us women so have less stress.

My husband is better looking now than when we got married, while I just look knackered!!

Mind you, I must have looked old even when I was younger. As I have NEVER been ID'd! Even when I was really underage!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me, or do women age better than men ?

You look on a profile, age is good,profile reads okay,check the pics and . . . really ?? Add a few more years mate

I think it's you , or maybe guys have more appeal as they get older . There are loads of guys in their 40s and early 50s who are so hot , yet very few women in the same age bracket we find attractive .

I know that, what I'm saying is, there seems to be guys on here who are their late 50's ,trying to get away with being early 40s..I keep checking my mirror to see if I look like that . . "

I think there are a lot of people who take a substantial amount (10 years plus) of their age and genuinely think they can get away with it! I once men a '35 year old' who was really 49 - I wasn't impressed - and he was upset that I wouldn't verify him!

That said I think age is just a number to a large extent! There are women in their fifties on here who look far better than many women in their twenties! How well you take care of your body (drinking, smoking, food quality, fluid intake, exercise, sun exposure, skincare) can result in one person looking far younger/older than another by the time they hit their forties and fifties!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me, or do women age better than men ?

You look on a profile, age is good,profile reads okay,check the pics and . . . really ?? Add a few more years mate "

I don't think it's gender specific, and I look young enough to tell you for a fact that some men do age well

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Is it me, or do women age better than men ?

You look on a profile, age is good,profile reads okay,check the pics and . . . really ?? Add a few more years mate

I think it's you , or maybe guys have more appeal as they get older . There are loads of guys in their 40s and early 50s who are so hot , yet very few women in the same age bracket we find attractive .

I know that, what I'm saying is, there seems to be guys on here who are their late 50's ,trying to get away with being early 40s..I keep checking my mirror to see if I look like that . . "

I have noticed this but then I look at more male profiles than female.

Plus women can fake to a certain extent with makeup in photos. There are often signs in person.

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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago

Clacton-On-Sea, Essex

Hubby might only be 21, but he genuinely looks younger now than he did when he was 15 and we started dating haha even all his friends agree they don't understand how he looked so much older then than he does now!

Men as they mature seem to worry less and just get on with life - I think that little bit of confidence teemed with dressing smarter does wonders for them lol

I on the other hand am 24 and had to start the anti-wrinkle creams already lmao

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think it depends on how much care has been taken by someone and think older guys have generally not done so, as much as many women or younger guys today.

There are guys here who look 60s, proclaiming 41 etc, concerning me either about lies or what a harsh life they've had, maybe gene roulette harsh luck.

I'm shocked if some get away with deception or its acceptance. I know it's tough for single guys but deception isn't going to help.

Far better to do something about your physical fitness, health and appearance, whilst being honest. And target those who want your real age group.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me, or do women age better than men ?

You look on a profile, age is good,profile reads okay,check the pics and . . . really ?? Add a few more years mate "

Women seem to age a hell of a lot better I think

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

Genes, energy and activity...

And people see whathe want to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think most people age well at all, looks wise.

You see the occasional person who really does look younger than their age but most people look older than they are, i've seen 21 year olds with crows feet, not sure how that's even possible?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do think the older someone looks the more attractive they tend to become though, just most people don't look young for their age.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I look younger with a foot of make up on

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