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"Ear plugs? " Doesn't stop my bed vibrating from their music right underneath me | |||
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"Ear plugs? Doesn't stop my bed vibrating from their music right underneath me " Has it's advantages then!! | |||
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"Ear plugs? Doesn't stop my bed vibrating from their music right underneath me " Personally I'd pull the fuse out the board till the morning | |||
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"Ear plugs? Doesn't stop my bed vibrating from their music right underneath me Has it's advantages then!! " Not when I share a room it doesn't lol! | |||
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"Ear plugs? Doesn't stop my bed vibrating from their music right underneath me Personally I'd pull the fuse out the board till the morning " If I knew how, I would. I also wanted to duct tape their mouths shut! I can hear EVERYTHING from my room.. Normal inside voices are fine, I can ignore them.. But d*unken shouting I just can't ignore | |||
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"Ear plugs? Doesn't stop my bed vibrating from their music right underneath me Personally I'd pull the fuse out the board till the morning If I knew how, I would. I also wanted to duct tape their mouths shut! I can hear EVERYTHING from my room.. Normal inside voices are fine, I can ignore them.. But d*unken shouting I just can't ignore Just go to the fuse box,and pull the main fuse out usually below the fuse box " I don't even know where the fuse box is | |||
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"Ear plugs? Doesn't stop my bed vibrating from their music right underneath me Has it's advantages then!! Not when I share a room it doesn't lol! " I've got it; - ear plugs plus a waterbed, - they don't vibrate! | |||
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"Ear plugs? Doesn't stop my bed vibrating from their music right underneath me Personally I'd pull the fuse out the board till the morning If I knew how, I would. I also wanted to duct tape their mouths shut! I can hear EVERYTHING from my room.. Normal inside voices are fine, I can ignore them.. But d*unken shouting I just can't ignore Just go to the fuse box,and pull the main fuse out usually below the fuse box I don't even know where the fuse box is " Do you live in a mansion lol | |||
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"Ear plugs? Doesn't stop my bed vibrating from their music right underneath me Personally I'd pull the fuse out the board till the morning If I knew how, I would. I also wanted to duct tape their mouths shut! I can hear EVERYTHING from my room.. Normal inside voices are fine, I can ignore them.. But d*unken shouting I just can't ignore Just go to the fuse box,and pull the main fuse out usually below the fuse box I don't even know where the fuse box is " Quite often near front doors or stair cupboard | |||
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"Ear plugs? Doesn't stop my bed vibrating from their music right underneath me Personally I'd pull the fuse out the board till the morning If I knew how, I would. I also wanted to duct tape their mouths shut! I can hear EVERYTHING from my room.. Normal inside voices are fine, I can ignore them.. But d*unken shouting I just can't ignore Just go to the fuse box,and pull the main fuse out usually below the fuse box I don't even know where the fuse box is " Geez, if you're not sure, be careful because there's enough voltage there to ensure you'll never hear a party again! | |||
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"Ear plugs? Doesn't stop my bed vibrating from their music right underneath me Personally I'd pull the fuse out the board till the morning If I knew how, I would. I also wanted to duct tape their mouths shut! I can hear EVERYTHING from my room.. Normal inside voices are fine, I can ignore them.. But d*unken shouting I just can't ignore Just go to the fuse box,and pull the main fuse out usually below the fuse box I don't even know where the fuse box is Quite often near front doors or stair cupboard " Aren't most fuse boxes flip switches now? Not ones you can pull out? Frustrating I know OP, but as long as it's not every weekend (or every day ) then you're just going to have to grit your teeth and bear it. She's at the age where she should be staying out till all hours then bringing friends back and making too much noise. A calm word tomorrow might help ensure it doesn't happen again, or at least not too loudly or too late. I know you want to rant and get annoyed but that will just take the edge off and she'll find it amusing. Hope you manage to catch it up sometime today. | |||
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"Ear plugs? Doesn't stop my bed vibrating from their music right underneath me Personally I'd pull the fuse out the board till the morning If I knew how, I would. I also wanted to duct tape their mouths shut! I can hear EVERYTHING from my room.. Normal inside voices are fine, I can ignore them.. But d*unken shouting I just can't ignore Just go to the fuse box,and pull the main fuse out usually below the fuse box I don't even know where the fuse box is Quite often near front doors or stair cupboard Aren't most fuse boxes flip switches now? Not ones you can pull out? Frustrating I know OP, but as long as it's not every weekend (or every day ) then you're just going to have to grit your teeth and bear it. She's at the age where she should be staying out till all hours then bringing friends back and making too much noise. A calm word tomorrow might help ensure it doesn't happen again, or at least not too loudly or too late. I know you want to rant and get annoyed but that will just take the edge off and she'll find it amusing. Hope you manage to catch it up sometime today." It was a calm word last night.. 3 texts, a quiet word, a shout down the stairs, and then going downstairs and telling everyone to get out tonight.. it's not every weekend, but two nights in a row when I'm barely sleeping enough as it is just really pisses me off! | |||
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"Ear plugs? Doesn't stop my bed vibrating from their music right underneath me Personally I'd pull the fuse out the board till the morning If I knew how, I would. I also wanted to duct tape their mouths shut! I can hear EVERYTHING from my room.. Normal inside voices are fine, I can ignore them.. But d*unken shouting I just can't ignore Just go to the fuse box,and pull the main fuse out usually below the fuse box I don't even know where the fuse box is Quite often near front doors or stair cupboard " It's probably in the cupboard under the stairs then.. I daren't venture in there even to top up the electric.. Spiders yuck! | |||
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"fab gets more and more like the book of faces every day.... " Uh huh... | |||
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"Get your own place " My thoughts too! | |||
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"Get your own place My thoughts too!" You guys wanna pay my deposit? It's not quite as simple as that. I didn't flip the first night because my little sister wasn't here.. I flipped tonight cos they woke her up. I also got a text from the neighbour who have a new born baby asking me to turn the music down. You gonna suggest they move too? | |||
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"no, I would have asked them nicely to play their music a little quieter and explained a text has come through from the neighbours. and if they didn't, I would have asked your sister to ask them to leave. I take it, it is her home as well. " I did that... 3 texts, a quiet word with my sister.. then shouted.. then went down to tell them to leave... | |||
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"and does the neighbour's baby cry at nights and you hear that... did they party before the baby came. it is about give and take and if this weekend is a one off... then I really don't see the issue. if it is a regular thing, that may be different. just because you are having difficulty sleeping, doesn't mean the world tip toes around." | |||
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"and does the neighbour's baby cry at nights and you hear that... did they party before the baby came. it is about give and take and if this weekend is a one off... then I really don't see the issue. if it is a regular thing, that may be different. just because you are having difficulty sleeping, doesn't mean the world tip toes around." I've only heard the baby cry at night once.. and I was wide awake at the time, no way I would have been able to hear it if I was asleep. My point is, it was 3.30 in the morning, they woke up my little sister and the neighbours... that's inconsiderate... hence the thread title. It's the second time this weekend... again, inconsiderate. And I'm not saying they need to tiptoe around me, just not blast music at 3.30 in the morning, 2 nights in a row. I asked what people would do... reasonable answers... I'm not asking for people to make me out to be the bad guy for caring about new parents, and a 13 year old who needs her sleep...I was simply asking for advice, not abuse. It's a valid question... | |||
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".I was simply asking for advice, not abuse. It's a valid question... " and I answered in a non abusing fashion. Now it may not be the answer you were seeking, but nonetheless it is my answer. | |||
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".I was simply asking for advice, not abuse. It's a valid question... and I answered in a non abusing fashion. Now it may not be the answer you were seeking, but nonetheless it is my answer. " I did the same thing that you said... Ask them nicely, say about the text. Then you changed your mind and said its not an issue and implied that I'm in the wrong by wanting them to be quiet because I'm not sleeping properly... So yeah, two different answers doesn't really make sense... | |||
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"I think my answer has been consistent, it is about give and take and as long as it is not a regular thing then you can ask them to quieten down but it is upto your sister, it is her home as well as the one you moved back into. It is the weekend and yes your sister should have more concern for her younger sister as well but that is a conversation that your mother/father should be having with her. In your OP you mention your younger sister and the need for your beauty sleep, then the neighbour later so your concern for the baby came a 3rd after yourself. I hope it resolves itself" Absent mother and father. Didn't want to mention a baby on a swingers site.. Odd sorts around. I give a fuck load more than I take. I'm tired and stroppy so I apologise for being short with you. | |||
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" I'm tired and stroppy so I apologise for being short with you. " I never considered you to be, but I hope it works out for all concerned | |||
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"Well she's now vomiting, so I guess that's karma. So tempted to ignore her but water seems like the most logical option " Give her some vegetable soup. Cold. A | |||
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"Well she's now vomiting, so I guess that's karma. So tempted to ignore her but water seems like the most logical option Give her some vegetable soup. Cold. A" What, like Heinz Big Soup? The one with diced carrots and lumps in? How will she know which way it's going? | |||
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"Well she's now vomiting, so I guess that's karma. So tempted to ignore her but water seems like the most logical option Give her some vegetable soup. Cold. A What, like Heinz Big Soup? The one with diced carrots and lumps in? How will she know which way it's going? " Exactly. I did this with a housemate once. Then when he went out clubbing I'd leave a bowl of it in the kitchen next to the fridge so it was the first thing he saw when he came back. Stopped him hitting the beer when he got home. A | |||
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"Well she's now vomiting, so I guess that's karma. So tempted to ignore her but water seems like the most logical option Give her some vegetable soup. Cold. A What, like Heinz Big Soup? The one with diced carrots and lumps in? How will she know which way it's going? Exactly. I did this with a housemate once. Then when he went out clubbing I'd leave a bowl of it in the kitchen next to the fridge so it was the first thing he saw when he came back. Stopped him hitting the beer when he got home. A" | |||
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"Well she's now vomiting, so I guess that's karma. So tempted to ignore her but water seems like the most logical option Give her some vegetable soup. Cold. A What, like Heinz Big Soup? The one with diced carrots and lumps in? How will she know which way it's going? Exactly. I did this with a housemate once. Then when he went out clubbing I'd leave a bowl of it in the kitchen next to the fridge so it was the first thing he saw when he came back. Stopped him hitting the beer when he got home. A" | |||
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"What age are her friends, 13teen year olds drinking ? Your are 21 seen as the cool sister ? Not many here would allow their 13teen year old to party with friends at 3am, especially when these friends just rocked up looking for a place to go. Double lock the front door on the weekends and take the key with you May not stop them knocking but at least you can deal with it with them on the outside. They will soon find another place and door." It wasn't the 13 year old who was drinking.. she was asleep. It was my other sister. Just thought I'd throw that out there so I don't get abuse for allowing underage drinking :S | |||
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"What age are her friends, 13teen year olds drinking ? Your are 21 seen as the cool sister ? Not many here would allow their 13teen year old to party with friends at 3am, especially when these friends just rocked up looking for a place to go. Double lock the front door on the weekends and take the key with you May not stop them knocking but at least you can deal with it with them on the outside. They will soon find another place and door." she has 2 sisters, the 13 year old was in bed which is why she is pissed about the other coming in at 3:30am | |||
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"What age are her friends, 13teen year olds drinking ? Your are 21 seen as the cool sister ? Not many here would allow their 13teen year old to party with friends at 3am, especially when these friends just rocked up looking for a place to go. Double lock the front door on the weekends and take the key with you May not stop them knocking but at least you can deal with it with them on the outside. They will soon find another place and door. It wasn't the 13 year old who was drinking.. she was asleep. It was my other sister. Just thought I'd throw that out there so I don't get abuse for allowing underage drinking :S " Oops lol Do you have a flickknife ??? | |||
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"Any conciliation I'd be pissed off too. I'm all for parties but sometimes neighbours need to be considered. It's lucky noise abatement wasn't called in as they could have seized the equipment then you and family would have been even more pissed! " | |||
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"Go down, cut the plug off the stereo, go back to bed." And I'd also do this | |||
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"and does the neighbour's baby cry at nights and you hear that... did they party before the baby came. it is about give and take and if this weekend is a one off... then I really don't see the issue. if it is a regular thing, that may be different. just because you are having difficulty sleeping, doesn't mean the world tip toes around." So you're an inconsiderate **** too then | |||
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"and does the neighbour's baby cry at nights and you hear that... did they party before the baby came. it is about give and take and if this weekend is a one off... then I really don't see the issue. if it is a regular thing, that may be different. just because you are having difficulty sleeping, doesn't mean the world tip toes around. So you're an inconsiderate **** too then " You're allowed to type 'cunt'. | |||
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"and does the neighbour's baby cry at nights and you hear that... did they party before the baby came. it is about give and take and if this weekend is a one off... then I really don't see the issue. if it is a regular thing, that may be different. just because you are having difficulty sleeping, doesn't mean the world tip toes around. So you're an inconsiderate **** too then You're allowed to type 'cunt'." I read it as FUCK... | |||
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"and does the neighbour's baby cry at nights and you hear that... did they party before the baby came. it is about give and take and if this weekend is a one off... then I really don't see the issue. if it is a regular thing, that may be different. just because you are having difficulty sleeping, doesn't mean the world tip toes around. So you're an inconsiderate **** too then my sexual pleasure is at the forefront of any meet of mine... I am not one of the good guys who declare their interest on the forums is in making the woman come first... maybe together, we can stimulate each other to mutual satisfaction, but i don't own someone else pleasure. " I'm really lost now! | |||
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"and does the neighbour's baby cry at nights and you hear that... did they party before the baby came. it is about give and take and if this weekend is a one off... then I really don't see the issue. if it is a regular thing, that may be different. just because you are having difficulty sleeping, doesn't mean the world tip toes around. So you're an inconsiderate **** too then my sexual pleasure is at the forefront of any meet of mine... I am not one of the good guys who declare their interest on the forums is in making the woman come first... maybe together, we can stimulate each other to mutual satisfaction, but i don't own someone else pleasure. I'm really lost now! " I just deleted as I misread what the person meant | |||
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"and does the neighbour's baby cry at nights and you hear that... did they party before the baby came. it is about give and take and if this weekend is a one off... then I really don't see the issue. if it is a regular thing, that may be different. just because you are having difficulty sleeping, doesn't mean the world tip toes around. So you're an inconsiderate **** too then You're allowed to type 'cunt'. I read it as FUCK... " Says a lot about my spoken vocabulary as opposed to my written one | |||
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"Go down, cut the plug off the stereo, go back to bed." *turn the power off at the wall first before cutting the plug off* | |||
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"Go down, cut the plug off the stereo, go back to bed. *turn the power off at the wall first before cutting the plug off* " I dunno, it might solve my sleeping problems if I don't unplug it first! | |||
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"and does the neighbour's baby cry at nights and you hear that... did they party before the baby came. it is about give and take and if this weekend is a one off... then I really don't see the issue. if it is a regular thing, that may be different. just because you are having difficulty sleeping, doesn't mean the world tip toes around. So you're an inconsiderate **** too then You're allowed to type 'cunt'." Good girls don't swear...even pretend ones lol | |||
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"Go down, cut the plug off the stereo, go back to bed. *turn the power off at the wall first before cutting the plug off* " Isn't that a little drastic? | |||
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"and does the neighbour's baby cry at nights and you hear that... did they party before the baby came. it is about give and take and if this weekend is a one off... then I really don't see the issue. if it is a regular thing, that may be different. just because you are having difficulty sleeping, doesn't mean the world tip toes around. So you're an inconsiderate **** too then You're allowed to type 'cunt'. Good girls don't swear...even pretend ones lol " | |||
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"Go down, cut the plug off the stereo, go back to bed. *turn the power off at the wall first before cutting the plug off* " I was thinking more like pull the plug out of the wall before cutting it off. Do people really need to be told this?! | |||
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"Go down, cut the plug off the stereo, go back to bed. *turn the power off at the wall first before cutting the plug off* Isn't that a little drastic?" If you've tried asking nicely and they've not listened and the neighbours are complaining I don't think so. It's easy enough to repair and it would solve the loud music problem and probably would get across that you really aren't joking. I'll ask nicely once but I don't take any crap. | |||
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"Go down, cut the plug off the stereo, go back to bed. *turn the power off at the wall first before cutting the plug off* I was thinking more like pull the plug out of the wall before cutting it off. Do people really need to be told this?!" Surprising isn't it but I'm guessing yes | |||
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