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winks? what's the correct responce?

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By *in man 84 OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield

what you do after receiving a wink? Personally think they are half arssed and never send them but just received one from a very sexy couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't even look at them.

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

I usually just send a quick message saying "Thanks for the wink hun" if they're not my kinda type/person I just let them go by and say nothing... they are a bit of a waste of time, if you like someone just message them in the first place!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

[Removed by poster at 18/04/15 20:57:46]

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

What do I do when I get a wink? Wonder why they hadn't messaged me, then move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely look ...if they are interested they would message me

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

I think a wink is better than a cut and paste message (which is 90% of messages)

You look at someone's profile...you wink back......no bullshit !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes look who's winked and if I like their profile I'll wink back

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I am not entirely sure what winking is for....

I once ran an experiment and winked almost every profile I clicked on...nothing happened...

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By *onConformistLikeUMan
over a year ago

Chorley

I see it as meaning, 'I like what I see but I can't think of anything to say to impress you cos I don't know anything about you, maybe you could read my profile and wink back if it doesn't scare the shit out of you.'

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I sometimes wink as I can be a bit shy at sending messages, but want to express an interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had lots of meets from a wink,wink back , message etc.

I dont think its lazy...its a site tool...and an easy opening hello

dont want the interest?...easy to ignore

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

If you like the look of them then wink back

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"had lots of meets from a wink,wink back , message etc.

I dont think its lazy...its a site tool...and an easy opening hello

dont want the interest?...easy to ignore"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you like the look of them then wink back

"

stop wanking at me

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"If you like the look of them then wink back

stop wanking at me "

No

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Can't see the point maself, as others have said, a message grabs my attention and is much more likely to get a response

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"what you do after receiving a wink? Personally think they are half arssed and never send them but just received one from a very sexy couple. "

I check the profile then wink back if I like what I see then a message normally follows shortly after,

I also use winks the same way and if I get a return wink I then send a message it's just another part of the site why not use them I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you like the look of them then wink back

stop wanking at me

No "

you'll soak yer chair with that gushing fandan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes wink as I can be a bit shy at sending messages, but want to express an interest "

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"If you like the look of them then wink back

stop wanking at me

No

you'll soak yer chair with that gushing fandan"

You wish!

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!


"I sometimes look who's winked and if I like their profile I'll wink back "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you like the look of them then wink back

stop wanking at me

No

you'll soak yer chair with that gushing fandan

You wish!"

you pish

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I don't get many...now and again. Would always reply to say thanks, but then I don't have t do it 63 times a day like some...Don't wink people myself would rather type a message unless profile expressly said to wink...

Open minded about it really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes look who's winked and if I like their profile I'll wink back

This "

this as I get alot of fellas unsure what to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink ha all time as I cba messaging as I never get a reply lol. So I wink and if they wink back which is rare ill message then ha!

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I'll look at the profile and if I think there could be something there I wink back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread has prompted me to look at my winks and found Sexysoldier371 looks fit! Have never looked at winks before!

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

Bulk delete them two or three times a year.

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London


"I'll look at the profile and if I think there could be something there I wink back."

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By *er himWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"I sometimes look who's winked and if I like their profile I'll wink back "

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By *in man 84 OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield

So if your a guy then sending out winks is point less as women get 300 a day right! But if a women or.couple send a guy a wink it's game on? This site is sending me gay! Arrrr

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By *luezuluMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

I believe the correct responce is response

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By *in man 84 OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield


"I believe the correct responce is response "

This could be where ive been going wrong.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I wink back, if the senders hold my interest. Every leap year I may send a message instead.

I understand how frustrating it may be for single guys to send tons of messages and hear nothing, so am prepared to give them some guidance via the wink system, first off.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

If someone winks at me and I like their profile, I'll either wink back or message saying thank you for the wink.

It is more difficult to grab my attention with a wink though. They need to have a good profile and photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think winks are good for single guys as it shows someone may be interested so it's worth messaging them rather than messaging without a clue. It's worked for me a couple of times

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By *riendlyGirlWoman
over a year ago

lancashire


"I see it as meaning, 'I like what I see but I can't think of anything to say to impress you cos I don't know anything about you, maybe you could read my profile and wink back if it doesn't scare the shit out of you.'"

This for me also. If I like the profile I wink back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In response to the op heading, there is no 'correct' response, just do what you wanna do, dude - & don't be a sheep.................. but if you're hanging around my paddock be a nervous one!! Ö~ Ö~ Ö~

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton


"I see it as meaning, 'I like what I see but I can't think of anything to say to impress you cos I don't know anything about you, maybe you could read my profile and wink back if it doesn't scare the shit out of you.'"

Perfect description!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We see winks as a sign somebody is interested in us. We will have a look at them and if we fancy the look of the profile we would normally wink back and drop them a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it means they want to fight you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a 'winking' user guide on here, it's on the front page of the site but I think it might only be available for us Platinum members??

According to the guide, wink etiquette varies depending on the sex of the winker.

If a single male sends the wink then the accepted protocol is to instantly block that member, write in shouty capital letters on your profile that winkers are wankers who will be ignored, and come on to the forum incandescent with rage and start a thread berating those lazy single male winking pricks.

If the winker is female or a couple (particularly with a bi-fem) then the protocol is to ignore the shouty capitals on your own homepage, take a perv at their profile, fab a few pictures and get back to them telling them how hot they look and do they fancy a meet?

As a lone male on here I always abide by the Platinum user guides so personally don't bother with winks unless bantering with pre-existing friends or replying in kind to that rarest of things - an inward wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes wink as I can be a bit shy at sending messages, but want to express an interest "

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"what you do after receiving a wink? Personally think they are half arssed and never send them but just received one from a very sexy couple. "

wink back , if there interested they will mail you .

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