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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you find yourself posting/reading the forums more then actually arranging socials/meets, I love the banter/flirting on here but I cant remember the last time I asked or was asked to meet,

Finding the right Woman/couple and distance plays a big part for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do. But I don't get many opportunities to meet so it would be pointless spending my time planning it....whereas I can while away time browsing the forums at the same time as doing something else

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I do. But I don't get many opportunities to meet so it would be pointless spending my time planning it....whereas I can while away time browsing the forums at the same time as doing something else "

Yup same here.. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you find yourself posting/reading the forums more then actually arranging socials/meets, I love the banter/flirting on here but I cant remember the last time I asked or was asked to meet,

Finding the right Woman/couple and distance plays a big part for me"

I made very subtle hints! Possibly even asked you scrum!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'm in a really weird place at the moment with fab and I have been for a while...so just come on the forums but at the moment even they have lost their appeal for me at the moment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I also browse and chat in pm's but finding the time to visit people is hard at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im too fat for your tastes, (and too far away!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in a really weird place at the moment with fab and I have been for a while...so just come on the forums but at the moment even they have lost their appeal for me at the moment

"

God bless ya x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in a really weird place at the moment with fab and I have been for a while...so just come on the forums but at the moment even they have lost their appeal for me at the moment

"

This

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Do you find yourself posting/reading the forums more then actually arranging socials/meets, I love the banter/flirting on here but I cant remember the last time I asked or was asked to meet,

Finding the right Woman/couple and distance plays a big part for me"

Like many on the site I'm sure, on first joining I was forever looking for people to meet so was constantly arranging to meet new women and couples, but now I've built up a circle of friends, I don't feel the need to be looking, so spend more time on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in a really weird place at the moment with fab and I have been for a while...so just come on the forums but at the moment even they have lost their appeal for me at the moment

"

I must admit I'm the same both the site and forums are getting a tad boring and predictable

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I'm in a really weird place at the moment with fab and I have been for a while...so just come on the forums but at the moment even they have lost their appeal for me at the moment

This "

Plus 1, though not exactly through lack of trying tbh, think some areas of the country are dire compared to others

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I don't meet off this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm too busy to arrange and meet as well ....love reading the forums ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was tempted or speaking to someone I would

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I'm in a really weird place at the moment with fab and I have been for a while...so just come on the forums but at the moment even they have lost their appeal for me at the moment

God bless ya x "

I don't need to be blessed by God lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

spend a higher proportion of my fab time on the forums - but chat when it happens and when we can meet go and sort it - forums always on the sidelines =

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I spend most of the time I'm on Fab on the forum.

I can't actually remember the last time I met someone new through mailing on here.

Everyone new I've met over the last year or so I've initially met at a club or party or social, then gone on to keep meeting them.

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Much as I enjoy the forums meets are much more important to me.I've got two arranged for next week and I can't wait!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in a really weird place at the moment with fab and I have been for a while...so just come on the forums but at the moment even they have lost their appeal for me at the moment

"

I'm kind of in the same place. But for probably a shorter time. I've earmarked a time very soon to back off for the foreseeable. Not delete, but focusing elsewhere. It's no bad thing at all, just exploring the 'real world' again

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

I prefer to just do spontaneous meets anyway

So don't plan anything often

But sometimes I'm busy answering messages

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I'm in a really weird place at the moment with fab and I have been for a while...so just come on the forums but at the moment even they have lost their appeal for me at the moment

I'm kind of in the same place. But for probably a shorter time. I've earmarked a time very soon to back off for the foreseeable. Not delete, but focusing elsewhere. It's no bad thing at all, just exploring the 'real world' again "

I agree maybe I need to take a step back...I guess my life at the moment is just work and sometimes need a distraction from work but I think I need to do something in the real world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in a really weird place at the moment with fab and I have been for a while...so just come on the forums but at the moment even they have lost their appeal for me at the moment

I'm kind of in the same place. But for probably a shorter time. I've earmarked a time very soon to back off for the foreseeable. Not delete, but focusing elsewhere. It's no bad thing at all, just exploring the 'real world' again

I agree maybe I need to take a step back...I guess my life at the moment is just work and sometimes need a distraction from work but I think I need to do something in the real world "

Think it's the first time I've made my intention clear publicly.

Make no mistake, I could well be tempted into changing my mind between now and then (or be tempted into re-activation within days) but I'm actually quite looking forward to it

I'd say give it a go as well but I'd get a virtual arse-kicking by the others if you did

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spend much more time reading the forums than chatting. Chatting and arranging meets doesn't take long at all. Got enough going on to keep my busy, no need to sort more. Forums are more interesting than news sites or Facebook anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I have a PA who arranges my meets so I can use the forums freely and not have to waste time arranging sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I have a browse dump a post and run

I tend to be one those weird ones off partying atleast twice a month, not much arranging needed I just book at a party and go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a PA who arranges my meets so I can use the forums freely and not have to waste time arranging sex "

Or sunbathing

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I'm in a really weird place at the moment with fab and I have been for a while...so just come on the forums but at the moment even they have lost their appeal for me at the moment

I'm kind of in the same place. But for probably a shorter time. I've earmarked a time very soon to back off for the foreseeable. Not delete, but focusing elsewhere. It's no bad thing at all, just exploring the 'real world' again

I agree maybe I need to take a step back...I guess my life at the moment is just work and sometimes need a distraction from work but I think I need to do something in the real world

Think it's the first time I've made my intention clear publicly.

Make no mistake, I could well be tempted into changing my mind between now and then (or be tempted into re-activation within days) but I'm actually quite looking forward to it

I'd say give it a go as well but I'd get a virtual arse-kicking by the others if you did

Haha"

Haha I doubt you would

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"I have a PA who arranges my meets so I can use the forums freely and not have to waste time arranging sex

Or sunbathing"

That too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met one or two people face to face who wanted to chat about the forums, but I didn't really engage, I'm not the gossipy type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you find yourself posting/reading the forums more then actually arranging socials/meets, I love the banter/flirting on here but I cant remember the last time I asked or was asked to meet,

Finding the right Woman/couple and distance plays a big part for me

Like many on the site I'm sure, on first joining I was forever looking for people to meet so was constantly arranging to meet new women and couples, but now I've built up a circle of friends, I don't feel the need to be looking, so spend more time on the forums"

^^ This, for me too. Use the forums a lot when working nights and chat to a few people as well but only really meet when someone intesting pops onto the radar or amongst pepole I've already met.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I don't post much in the forums anymore, but I meet even less since my cock was confiscated.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"I don't post much in the forums anymore, but I meet even less since my cock was confiscated. "

I miss you on here!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I don't post much in the forums anymore, but I meet even less since my cock was confiscated. "

Is it under new ownership?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't post much in the forums anymore, but I meet even less since my cock was confiscated.

I miss you on here!"

Me too! X

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I don't post much in the forums anymore, but I meet even less since my cock was confiscated.

Is it under new ownership? "

I can't extract it out of really tight pants

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I don't post much in the forums anymore, but I meet even less since my cock was confiscated.

I miss you on here!"

Thank you

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I don't post much in the forums anymore, but I meet even less since my cock was confiscated.

Is it under new ownership?

I can't extract it out of really tight pants "

You been eating too many burgers?

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I don't post much in the forums anymore, but I meet even less since my cock was confiscated.

I miss you on here!

Me too! X"

Thank you too batter buddy

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I don't post much in the forums anymore, but I meet even less since my cock was confiscated.

Is it under new ownership?

I can't extract it out of really tight pants

You been eating too many burgers? "

Actually I'm a reformed character. I only had 3 last week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I took a break from the end of November to early March, I only joined last Summer and had 3 meets (2 verified, 1 not) and started to get weary of it, so I know where you're coming from.

Since I 'came back' a few weeks ago it's been all Forums for me, not a sniff of a meet yet but I did feel 'refreshed' after the break - sometimes a break does you good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't post much in the forums anymore, but I meet even less since my cock was confiscated.

Is it under new ownership?

I can't extract it out of really tight pants "

Is it a leopard print thong? That's what I'm imagining. With a post-it on the front.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I am much happier with my FB and clubs nights and socials than I ever was meeting guy for one off meets from here. Apart from the recent political proselytising the forums are my evening entertainment (when I am not with my FB or at clubs and socials ).

There's time in my life for all sorts of elements. This site is just one of them.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I don't post much in the forums anymore, but I meet even less since my cock was confiscated.

Is it under new ownership?

I can't extract it out of really tight pants

Is it a leopard print thong? That's what I'm imagining. With a post-it on the front. "

Sod that. I'd look like Mr Muscle from the oven cleaner TV advert

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By *entkevMan
over a year ago

Dover

I'm confused....

Am I currently planning a meet or in a forum ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't post much in the forums anymore, but I meet even less since my cock was confiscated.

Is it under new ownership?

I can't extract it out of really tight pants

Is it a leopard print thong? That's what I'm imagining. With a post-it on the front.

Sod that. I'd look like Mr Muscle from the oven cleaner TV advert "

Ohhhhh yeahhhhh with oven grease on your thighs mmmm nom nom

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

I pretty much gave up trying to meet on Fab when I realised it was no longer a swinging site and more of a free for all random shag site. Most people are here for casual sex and instant gratification- I prefer to chat, flirt, tease and build up (most of the time anyway), which is a bit of a rarity now I think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apart from one or two meets planned for the future with people I've wanted to meet for a long time, I'm not actively looking.....I've a g.f and f.b so I don't particularly need to be running about meeting everyone I can...I like to let the odd new meet happen slowly...I'm in a real 'no hurry' place right now...so I'm probably 98% here for the forums and chatting with folk I know....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i find the balance fine, whether its forums,chatroom,or messages..

but...for me its about meeting in person...something that wont usually come from the forum

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Apart from one or two meets planned for the future with people I've wanted to meet for a long time, I'm not actively looking.....I've a g.f and f.b so I don't particularly need to be running about meeting everyone I can...I like to let the odd new meet happen slowly...I'm in a real 'no hurry' place right now...so I'm probably 98% here for the forums and chatting with folk I know...."

Bloody hell a G/F and an FB you greedy bugger

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"i find the balance fine, whether its forums,chatroom,or messages..

but...for me its about meeting in person...something that wont usually come from the forum"

Are you saying we are all time wasters?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apart from one or two meets planned for the future with people I've wanted to meet for a long time, I'm not actively looking.....I've a g.f and f.b so I don't particularly need to be running about meeting everyone I can...I like to let the odd new meet happen slowly...I'm in a real 'no hurry' place right now...so I'm probably 98% here for the forums and chatting with folk I know....

Bloody hell a G/F and an FB you greedy bugger "

A man has needs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had about a month now where i haven't felt like being in my inbox or meeting that much either. This is gonna change though, i feel like chatting now and am doing. Gonna be meeting asap too.

When i am meeting i probably still spend more time in the forums than meeting anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only come on for the forum now and that no longer holds the same attraction as it did. I doubt I'll meet again off here except in some exceptional circumstance, which I don't think is particularly likely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same trying to get back into meeting but its not the same as it was a few years ago on here

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