FabSwingers.com forum: knowing when to keep ya gob shut

By *ebzStar OP Woman
over a year ago

Notting

ohh dear.

Had a private email thru face book asking about a previous job and asking about the employers and the work.

I was VERY subtle at first as didnt say much either way but said she should be careful as they had shat on me.

She agree's and makes a comment - that i suddently agree with and blabbed a bit more info than i should.

She said she would not take the job.

I then hear from a delivery guy today - that she HAS taken the job - with all the info that i told her,

Oh fuck.

Wish i could say i didnt care but i do!!!

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jobs are hard to come by. Probably thought you had an axe to grind so took what you said with a pinch of salt.

Knowing how you feel about the place she'd hardly tell you about getting it!

By *ebzStar OP Woman
over a year ago

Notting

"Jobs are hard to come by. Probably thought you had an axe to grind so took what you said with a pinch of salt.

Knowing how you feel about the place she'd hardly tell you about getting it!

Worse thing was she already had a good steady job - and i didnt want her to be used and out on her ear after her "3 month probation" so i was actually really being kind to her.

Am gobsmacked she took it- and she didnt even tell anyone at all - so obvisouoly wasnt happy taking it- i just hope it turns out ok, cos i got baddddd feelings