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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just read on another post here about being stood up. One person said they insisted on meeting in person for a drink,ok you meet this person who just does nothing for you but they seem excited as ever to get their groove on , how do u get out of it? What was the best excuse u ever used

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did a Reggie Perrin

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Honesty is always the best policy

Just say that there is no attraction.

It is difficult, but really is the kindest thing

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I would make Rob deal with it and run away

We mainly go to clubs and in that sort of situation im comfortable with saying no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i tell them in a message that i dont want to meet them again or i just dont reply to messages, most get the message

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

'Honesty huh'? I can't see myself telling a lady sorry my darling but I can't see me in you, goodnight. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would tell them. Not because i am honest but because i can't run very fast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did a Reggie Perrin "

Is that a Cockney Rhyming Slang for something else? If so - please explain.. seriously I dont know that one and would like to know ?

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Take one for the team!

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"'Honesty huh'? I can't see myself telling a lady sorry my darling but I can't see me in you, goodnight. lol "

Perhaps I'm just a hard faced bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did a Reggie Perrin

Is that a Cockney Rhyming Slang for something else? If so - please explain.. seriously I dont know that one and would like to know ? "

It was a tv comedy sitcom about a guy who faked his own death to escape a mundane life. Leonard Rossiter, who played rigsby in Rising Damp, played Reggie Perrin

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"I did a Reggie Perrin

Is that a Cockney Rhyming Slang for something else? If so - please explain.. seriously I dont know that one and would like to know ? "

TV series, guy decided he's had enough of life, work and marriage, folded his clothes up on the beach and did a 'Dissapering' trick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did a Reggie Perrin

Is that a Cockney Rhyming Slang for something else? If so - please explain.. seriously I dont know that one and would like to know ?

It was a tv comedy sitcom about a guy who faked his own death to escape a mundane life. Leonard Rossiter, who played rigsby in Rising Damp, played Reggie Perrin "

Ah ... thanks -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did a Reggie Perrin

Is that a Cockney Rhyming Slang for something else? If so - please explain.. seriously I dont know that one and would like to know ?

TV series, guy decided he's had enough of life, work and marriage, folded his clothes up on the beach and did a 'Dissapering' trick"

Kind of a nice version of Lord Lucan without the murders then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wanted to askabout the Reggie Perrin thing as well.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"I did a Reggie Perrin

Is that a Cockney Rhyming Slang for something else? If so - please explain.. seriously I dont know that one and would like to know ?

TV series, guy decided he's had enough of life, work and marriage, folded his clothes up on the beach and did a 'Dissapering' trick

Kind of a nice version of Lord Lucan without the murders then "

Just don;t ask about the Hippo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell the truth, that he is not ringing any bells for me, and I don't want to play with him.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Tell them you want them there and then. Ask them to go into the loos and get hard ready for you. You'll have plenty of time to leave and drive off before they start to wonder where you have gone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now I like the toilet trick the coward's way out. Those who trick and runaway live to fuck another day. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would tell them. Not because i am honest but because i can't run very fast "

hehehe

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

Honestly WOUld be the best policy - but i find that people will shag em anyway - slag em off about how they were and then still pretend to be mates after.

Its hilarious really.

Dont fancy.

Dont shag.

Always room to change ya mind after if you dont wanna shag again.

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Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always make the first meet a short social for ONE drink. Then when they meet and you think WOW you can fuck them. The most important bit is .......when you go .....oooops nooooooo there is no embarrasment cos you only arranged to meet for a drink anyhow.

In that situation I always say ' I have to go now - twas great to meet you - bye xx

No hurt no nothing cos it was only a drink.

Put yourself in their place. If they went to the toilet and never came back what are you going to feel like.

Don't set up a meeting that is doomed to fail xx Gran xx

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"Always make the first meet a short social for ONE drink. Then when they meet and you think WOW you can fuck them. The most important bit is .......when you go .....oooops nooooooo there is no embarrasment cos you only arranged to meet for a drink anyhow.

In that situation I always say ' I have to go now - twas great to meet you - bye xx

No hurt no nothing cos it was only a drink.

Put yourself in their place. If they went to the toilet and never came back what are you going to feel like.

Don't set up a meeting that is doomed to fail xx Gran xx"

love you Granny!!!!

Once i met in a pub - and he was the most boring meet ever - really!!!

That i drank a half pint (usually have a LARGE)

came ot the pub and said - "i am going this way and i think you will find that the train station is THAT way!!!!"

Felt guilty for a whole 1 second!!!!

Felt better knowing i wouldnt have that morning after feeling, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did a Reggie Perrin

Is that a Cockney Rhyming Slang for something else? If so - please explain.. seriously I dont know that one and would like to know ?

It was a tv comedy sitcom about a guy who faked his own death to escape a mundane life. Leonard Rossiter, who played rigsby in Rising Damp, played Reggie Perrin "

loved that series - magic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just read on another post here about being stood up. One person said they insisted on meeting in person for a drink,ok you meet this person who just does nothing for you but they seem excited as ever to get their groove on , how do u get out of it? What was the best excuse u ever used "

The best policy is to be as honest as possible without being insulting. To say you don't fuck uglies is probably true but can be taken as offensive. Far better to state your not attracted and things will not be going any further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always make the first meet a short social for ONE drink. Then when they meet and you think WOW you can fuck them. The most important bit is .......when you go .....oooops nooooooo there is no embarrasment cos you only arranged to meet for a drink anyhow.

In that situation I always say ' I have to go now - twas great to meet you - bye xx

No hurt no nothing cos it was only a drink.

Put yourself in their place. If they went to the toilet and never came back what are you going to feel like.

Don't set up a meeting that is doomed to fail xx Gran xx"

That's the way I do it: I meet at lunch time near my office. If there's no attraction no harm done as there was no expectation to play. At the end say it was nice meeting them and will be in touch.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"'Honesty huh'? I can't see myself telling a lady sorry my darling but I can't see me in you, goodnight. lol "

The way I see it, every lady has a right to say no and expect an honourable man to accept it ... likewise should everyman and as long as done in a sensible manner so should every lady understand.

I tend to find "I think we're looking for different things" works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id be honest, though would feel absolutely dreadful about it, but theres no way I can be intimate or let someone insert their body part into my body, if I have absolutely no attraction for them. Its easier in a club setting I feel than face to face in a pub. It has happened to us in a swinging club. I liked the couple but not enough to play with and basically we just sat and chatted and then told them we were going to have a look around the club and that was that. In fact we saw them recently in the club again and went over and chatted etc, they are friends on here and so no offence was taken so all good

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