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By *rp861 OP   Man
over a year ago

Notts

Im always a gentleman and read profiles diligintly before sending a message....but is this a similar scenario to alot of people on here?.

Notices person of possible interest

Reads likes, dislikes, description, statistics etc

Looks at pics potentially fab a few

Construct an articulate, and well thought out message noting interests of all parties to show mutual compatibility.

attach face pic and possibly body/other pic dependent on recipients profile tone.

Send

User offline 5 mins

Winds me up! Because i know my nice messageand handsome face are gonna get lost amongst a sea of cock pics and "fancy a fucks?!"

Whats a guy to do?!?

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Simple - don't worry about it and move on to the next profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simple - don't worry about it and move on to the next profile "

This

Ignore your sent box, it's the biggest cause of angst on this site. People get so wound

Up about their messages being left unread or deleted. Get over it.......shit happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed, just ignore otherwise you'll drive yourself nuts lol

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

dont spend too long on your first message

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By *rp861 OP   Man
over a year ago

Notts


"Simple - don't worry about it and move on to the next profile

This

Ignore your sent box, it's the biggest cause of angst on this site. People get so wound

Up about their messages being left unread or deleted. Get over it.......shit happens. "

Sent box is the worst! Thanks for the advice people. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha I hear ya what I decided to do is just answer the messages I get the woman have the pick on here as its like 100 to 1 ratio so if they want me then all's good . my face quote ... Be the flame not the moth !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our sent box gets deleted every time we send messages. If we don't know, there's nothing to care about.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Women will respond to the messages they want to regardless of all the cocks that may be in the way

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Women will respond to the messages they want to regardless of all the cocks that may be in the way "

This is me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Send

User offline 5 mins

Winds me up! Because i know my nice messageand handsome face are gonna get lost amongst a sea of cock pics and "fancy a fucks?!"

Whats a guy to do?!? "

Wait.

That DOESN'T mean they WON'T respond.

I met someone once who didn't respond for 2 days from my first message.

I met her a couple of weeks later.

Single women on here get a ridiculous amount of mail.

She may well respond, blowing your lid over someone who has been offiline for 5 minutes is a bit odd....

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By *rp861 OP   Man
over a year ago

Notts

Thanks for the advice guys. Much appreciated. Love how everyone assumes im talking about single women too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It applies to whoever you're messaging. The point is still valid regardless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It applies to whoever you're messaging. The point is still valid regardless"

Took the words outta my mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love how everyone assumes im talking about single women too "

My comment still stands and is still valid.

It applies to men, women and couples.

Patience is key on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our sent box gets deleted every time we send messages. If we don't know, there's nothing to care about."

I do this too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are on here for their own agenda.

Sometimes i've had loads of decent messages at once from what seem like good looking guys on here but i can't talk to everyone at once.

I've even got it on my profile that i appreciate the nice messages just so guys know their well though out messages haven't gone unnoticed even if i don't reply to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good idea that didn't think cheers ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People are on here for their own agenda.

Sometimes i've had loads of decent messages at once from what seem like good looking guys on here but i can't talk to everyone at once.

I've even got it on my profile that i appreciate the nice messages just so guys know their well though out messages haven't gone unnoticed even if i don't reply to them.

"

I best be in the good looking category

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our sent box gets deleted every time we send messages. If we don't know, there's nothing to care about.

I do this too "

How dare you delete our carefully crafted, individually tailored message. Consider yourself blocked, named and shamed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our sent box gets deleted every time we send messages. If we don't know, there's nothing to care about.

I do this too

How dare you delete our carefully crafted, individually tailored message. Consider yourself blocked, named and shamed "

Bwahahaha

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Delete sent messages. It makes life far easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our sent box gets deleted every time we send messages. If we don't know, there's nothing to care about.

I do this too

How dare you delete our carefully crafted, individually tailored message. Consider yourself blocked, named and shamed

Bwahahaha "

Took us all night to write 'wanna fuck?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our sent box gets deleted every time we send messages. If we don't know, there's nothing to care about.

I do this too

How dare you delete our carefully crafted, individually tailored message. Consider yourself blocked, named and shamed

Bwahahaha

Took us all night to write 'wanna fuck?' "

Lmfao !

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Don't look at the sent box. I havent for months. It doesn't matter if people don't reply. It's easier for all concerned if they don't cos it saves time, effort and angst.

Enjoy your fab experience, don't let it be a miserable experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have just got a reply from a message i sent 2wks ago! well yesterday i did, numbers exchanged today patience grasshopper!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People are on here for their own agenda.

Sometimes i've had loads of decent messages at once from what seem like good looking guys on here but i can't talk to everyone at once.

I've even got it on my profile that i appreciate the nice messages just so guys know their well though out messages haven't gone unnoticed even if i don't reply to them.

I best be in the good looking category "

Talk to you don't i.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People are on here for their own agenda.

Sometimes i've had loads of decent messages at once from what seem like good looking guys on here but i can't talk to everyone at once.

I've even got it on my profile that i appreciate the nice messages just so guys know their well though out messages haven't gone unnoticed even if i don't reply to them.

I best be in the good looking category

Talk to you don't i. "

Haha true ! But only because I'm amazing ha

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