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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does just kissing someone constitute cheating or does it have to involve penetrative sex?

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

its cheating in my book

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if your loved one doesn't now......

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

If you knew it would cause distress if your partner found out then yes

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By *urvybrunette91Woman
over a year ago

tidworth

Anything that would suggest that your partner would rather be with that person I think is cheating... A day out holding hands, kissing, sex, constant texting / calling etc. obviously all are not relationship ending, but would all be a cause for concern.

But then my husband had an affair, so maybe I am just overly suspicious.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Does just kissing someone constitute cheating or does it have to involve penetrative sex?"

Will it hurt someone who loves you? Do you have a relationship in which kissing other people is acceptable? These are questions I would ask myself before puckering up.

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By *awtymarkyMan
over a year ago

chester


"Does just kissing someone constitute cheating or does it have to involve penetrative sex?"

Depends does the other person know and have given permission. If not then some will argue it is cheating. My take on it if your swinging you should be allowed to kiss and not be classed as a cheat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does just kissing someone constitute cheating or does it have to involve penetrative sex?"

Depends where you kiss them .....if its in Asda then its cheating

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Suck my cock and I'll make an informed decision based on your performance as to whether it's cheating or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does just kissing someone constitute cheating or does it have to involve penetrative sex?

Depends where you kiss them .....if its in Asda then its cheating "

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

In my book cheating doesn't even have to be a physical thing.

If you are doing something without your partners knowledge and consent, be it sending flirty texts and deleting them so you can't be found out, I would still class that as cheating.

Doing something you know would make them feel hurt and betrayed is cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it doesn't have to be physical, if you're having to hide things like texts and your behaviour then you're already there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suck my cock and I'll make an informed decision based on your performance as to whether it's cheating or not "

Dirty old man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my book cheating doesn't even have to be a physical thing.

If you are doing something without your partners knowledge and consent, be it sending flirty texts and deleting them so you can't be found out, I would still class that as cheating.

Doing something you know would make them feel hurt and betrayed is cheating."

Exactly this, put far more eloquently than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my eyes it's worse.

A shag can be just a shag

A kiss is generally quite passionate and meaningful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any thing done behind someone's back is cheating. Even meeting for a drink if it's not for a reason. Like work...

Ask yourself this.....what would you be happy your partner do g that you don't know about ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they kissed a friend who they'd got too close too, or kissed someone they'd become emotionally attached to, or someone they work with; that would be more of a betrayal to me than having sex with someone they didn't have feelings for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheating is anything you'd have to hide from your partner. If you wouldn't do it with them standing right next to you, then it's cheating.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"In my book cheating doesn't even have to be a physical thing.

If you are doing something without your partners knowledge and consent, be it sending flirty texts and deleting them so you can't be found out, I would still class that as cheating.

Doing something you know would make them feel hurt and betrayed is cheating."

It's much easier to cheat than many realise.

The most hurtful things were the lies to me and shared confidences between them. The sex didn't bother me.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Suck my cock and I'll make an informed decision based on your performance as to whether it's cheating or not

Dirty old man "

Oi, less of the old young lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you knew it would cause distress if your partner found out then yes

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This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my book cheating doesn't even have to be a physical thing.

If you are doing something without your partners knowledge and consent, be it sending flirty texts and deleting them so you can't be found out, I would still class that as cheating.

Doing something you know would make them feel hurt and betrayed is cheating."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does just kissing someone constitute cheating or does it have to involve penetrative sex?"
cheating is cheating just because you only " sucked his cock but didn't swallow, honest" wears thin after the 3rd time! and "i was only kissing his bollocks" is out of order too?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I've never been cheated on in my life not that I know off so guess I can't answer the question

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

If you're single and he's kissing you

He's the one cheating

You are not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have to hide it or delete it then you shouldn't be doing it

(J)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheating is anything you'd have to hide from your partner. If you wouldn't do it with them standing right next to you, then it's cheating."

Completely agree with this comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything illicit is cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're single and he's kissing you

He's the one cheating

You are not

"

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Cheating is anything you'd have to hide from your partner. If you wouldn't do it with them standing right next to you, then it's cheating."

Yup, any betrayal of trust.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"In my book cheating doesn't even have to be a physical thing.

If you are doing something without your partners knowledge and consent, be it sending flirty texts and deleting them so you can't be found out, I would still class that as cheating.

Doing something you know would make them feel hurt and betrayed is cheating.

It's much easier to cheat than many realise.

The most hurtful things were the lies to me and shared confidences between them. The sex didn't bother me.

"

Yup, it's actually a spiritual 'event' in my book, the 'principle' of the betrayal is sometimes the biggest transgression.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Cheating if behind a partners back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does just kissing someone constitute cheating or does it have to involve penetrative sex?"

Who are you? Bill Clinton?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its ok if he or she don't get enough at home, go ahead and have sex or kiss

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If you haven't reached an agreement that you'll be involved with another person in any way other than platonic interaction, then you could reasonably assume it's cheating if you do.

If you're fuck buddies only, not in a fuller relationship, then you're free to live as you wish.

Many of us have been cheated on, so it's wise to get yourself straight and maintain clear boundaries that wont hurt others. If you need the freedom to explore outside of a relationship then it's fair to agree it. Warning someone you may do something, whether directly or indirectly, isn't the same as agreeing it.

Reflect on the importance of the relationship and your partner, before you potentially cause harm to them as well as yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does just kissing someone constitute cheating or does it have to involve penetrative sex?"

No way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does just kissing someone constitute cheating or does it have to involve penetrative sex?"

You should ask your partner and establish your boundaries. It would have been cheating to me when I was monogamous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you told your partner? If not why not? There's your answer. Surprised a grown woman would ask a question as obvious as this.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Being sneaky with someone is cheating.....full on tongue kissing with a stranger on a meet is perfectly acceptable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does just kissing someone constitute cheating or does it have to involve penetrative sex?"
Anything behind a partners back that has romantic or sexual motivation is cheating in our book.

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