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By *ilmiss75 OP Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Arrrggghhhh...

Is it just me or does anyone else find being called 'Babes' in a first contact mail off putting..?

Last time i looked in the mirror i didnt have a snout and curly tail!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't like pet names at all.

It depends who it's from and how well they know me. ..but generally I really don't like them.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Or babe or baby - don't imfantilise me I'm an intelligent adult!!!

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By *ilmiss75 OP Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I really makes me cringe!! Lol

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

The worst is 'bbe' form a small man child with an inflated sense of entitlement.

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

Cringeworthy on a fist message

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

I just find it weird! To me, being called babe is the same as being called 'munch'... They were both names that I was called as a child..! If somebody messaged me saying "hey munch" I'd probably be scarred for life! And 'hungry Horace'... That would be beyond weird...

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Arrrggghhhh...

Is it just me or does anyone else find being called 'Babes' in a first contact mail off putting..?

Last time i looked in the mirror i didnt have a snout and curly tail!!!!

are you shure ,

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By *ilmiss75 OP Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Ive also had mail saying 'Hello Daughter' this week...

WTF is that all about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

It's marginally better than oi cunt!

It's not as bad as being called dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really don't like pet names at all.

It depends who it's from and how well they know me. ..but generally I really don't like them.

yeap,,I agree with you sweetcheeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive also had mail saying 'Hello Daughter' this week...

WTF is that all about

now that's creepy!

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By *ilmiss75 OP Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"Arrrggghhhh...

Is it just me or does anyone else find being called 'Babes' in a first contact mail off putting..?

Last time i looked in the mirror i didnt have a snout and curly tail!!!!

are you shure ,

Well some may disagree that i dont look like a pig but hey ho haha

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I have it on my profile that I have a little gripe about being called babe,especially from someone who's 20 years younger!

I still get called it though...

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I suppose people do it as they don't actually know our real names, let's face it no one is going to send you a message starting with the words " To whome it may concern"

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By *ilmiss75 OP Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"Ive also had mail saying 'Hello Daughter' this week...

WTF is that all about

now that's creepy!"

Instant block

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Ive also had mail saying 'Hello Daughter' this week...

WTF is that all about

mail them back and ask them ....

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Or babe or baby - don't imfantilise me I'm an intelligent adult!!!

Yes I don't like being referred to as a girl for the same reason. All grown up woman here.

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By *ilmiss75 OP Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"I suppose people do it as they don't actually know our real names, let's face it no one is going to send you a message starting with the words " To whome it may concern"

Thing is... Im not rude and chatted a little...but then it got to calling me babes many times over 6 mails...

I logged out lol

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Cringeworthy on a fist message

A fist message sounds painful

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

"I suppose people do it as they don't actually know our real names, let's face it no one is going to send you a message starting with the words " To whome it may concern"

That made me giggle

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"I suppose people do it as they don't actually know our real names, let's face it no one is going to send you a message starting with the words " To whome it may concern"

Thing is... Im not rude and chatted a little...but then it got to calling me babes many times over 6 mails...

I logged out lol"

Why didn't you just say "hey you can call me.,.," so they didn't refer to you as babe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not into it on here at all but when Mr Nutella calls me baby I often melt

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By *ilmiss75 OP Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"I suppose people do it as they don't actually know our real names, let's face it no one is going to send you a message starting with the words " To whome it may concern"

That made me giggle

Would be better than Hello Daughter lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have that stupid song in my head now!...

Thankyou very muchly for that.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I have it on my profile - babe is a pig in a kids film!

I hate it on here, over familiarisation is not attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will only respond if people use my correct and full title....'Lord Big Cock'. Anything else is just disrespectful.

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By *ilmiss75 OP Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"I have that stupid song in my head now!...

Thankyou very muchly for that.

Awww soz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I add 'Darl' to the mix please?

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

"Can I add 'Darl' to the mix please?

And Hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arrrggghhhh...

Is it just me or does anyone else find being called 'Babes' in a first contact mail off putting..?

Last time i looked in the mirror i didnt have a snout and curly tail!!!!

Babe... hun... both make me want to kill the other person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arrrggghhhh...

Is it just me or does anyone else find being called 'Babes' in a first contact mail off putting..?

Last time i looked in the mirror i didnt have a snout and curly tail!!!!

Hate being called names like that on here. I've even wrote it on my profile. So I just block the idiots who do it, some even do it thinking they're being so funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arrrggghhhh...

Is it just me or does anyone else find being called 'Babes' in a first contact mail off putting..?

Last time i looked in the mirror i didnt have a snout and curly tail!!!!

Babe... hun... both make me want to kill the other person."

how bout cupcake

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Arrrggghhhh...

Is it just me or does anyone else find being called 'Babes' in a first contact mail off putting..?

Last time i looked in the mirror i didnt have a snout and curly tail!!!!

Babe... hun... both make me want to kill the other person.

how bout cupcake

Oooo yes, call me cupcake Mikki, puhlease!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

"Cringeworthy on a fist message

Yes...you would think if they are asking to fist you they could at least use your name

....and Hun....that's really irritating.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Babe is bad enough but babes is even worse. Something about that 's' on the end that really winds me up!

Having said that if a woman ever calls me that I never say anything. I'm just glad of the attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate being called Hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been called daddy and uncle....both which do nothing for me and an instant block.

Sweetie is a particular pet hate!

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

oh Dave darling

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"It's marginally better than oi cunt!

It's not as bad as being called dear

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oh my! 'Dear' should be banned for anyone under 90!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"I hate being called Hun

Me too ,especially by people who dont know me or use it excessively.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use hun. Think its a yorkshire thing. Hate petal and baby girl though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't really irk me if I'm honest, I've been called a lot worse!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't hate any pet names, it's just a name given because folk don't know what to call you....seems such a petty thing to hate.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

Hate 'hun' (it's honey isn't it?! Therefore hon if you MUST fricking shorten it!) and babe/baby/babes from a stranger. My profile says i'm called 'T' so call me 'T'! Ffs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No wonder so many people send generic cut and paste messages....

It's an absolute minefield trying to say anything to folk on here it seems....

You must say this and you mustn't call me that and I don't like such and such...

You go to start a message and think 'what if she doesn't like this, or wants that or what if this pisses her off'

You's have all created an environment where it feels like walking on eggshells just to say hello to someone then moan like fuck when they take the safe middle ground.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No wonder so many people send generic cut and paste messages....

It's an absolute minefield trying to say anything to folk on here it seems....

You must say this and you mustn't call me that and I don't like such and such...

You go to start a message and think 'what if she doesn't like this, or wants that or what if this pisses her off'

You's have all created an environment where it feels like walking on eggshells just to say hello to someone then moan like fuck when they take the safe middle ground....."

You alright baby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be a first for me to receive any opening message. Call me what you bloody well like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No wonder so many people send generic cut and paste messages....

It's an absolute minefield trying to say anything to folk on here it seems....

You must say this and you mustn't call me that and I don't like such and such...

You go to start a message and think 'what if she doesn't like this, or wants that or what if this pisses her off'

You's have all created an environment where it feels like walking on eggshells just to say hello to someone then moan like fuck when they take the safe middle ground.....

You alright baby

I'm grand ta hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No wonder so many people send generic cut and paste messages....

It's an absolute minefield trying to say anything to folk on here it seems....

You must say this and you mustn't call me that and I don't like such and such...

You go to start a message and think 'what if she doesn't like this, or wants that or what if this pisses her off'

You's have all created an environment where it feels like walking on eggshells just to say hello to someone then moan like fuck when they take the safe middle ground.....

You alright baby

I'm grand ta hun

Are you trying to get us sent to Coventry? ... sweet pea

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I think people should lighten up ffs!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or babe or baby - don't imfantilise me I'm an intelligent adult!!!

Imfantilise lol.

Intelligent adult- yeah right- learn to spell muppet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i get called,granny,old girl,old tit,but thinking about it,i suppose there right...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or babe or baby - don't imfantilise me I'm an intelligent adult!!!

Imfantilise lol.

Intelligent adult- yeah right- learn to spell muppet! "

She didn't actually spell muppet. Oh, you forgot to insert a comma before the word.

Now who's the muppet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arrrggghhhh...

Is it just me or does anyone else find being called 'Babes' in a first contact mail off putting..?

Last time i looked in the mirror i didnt have a snout and curly tail!!!!

Babe... hun... both make me want to kill the other person."

Seems perfectly reasonable .

I got a guy comes into the shop; calls me treacle, I'm guessing 'cause I'm a ging .. One that calls me ducky. ..actually I like it. Obviously I have to call everybody Sir but then some times they'll say " please call me bob" or jim or Dave.

..... "Beautiful ".. Is reserved for the girl that makes my coffee in the coffee shop or "handsome" if it's a fella. They are very important people, and if you butter them up they double stamp your loyalty card

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"Ive also had mail saying 'Hello Daughter' this week...

WTF is that all about

I had that one too...from a guy 20 years younger than me

. Thats just wrong!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No wonder so many people send generic cut and paste messages....

It's an absolute minefield trying to say anything to folk on here it seems....

You must say this and you mustn't call me that and I don't like such and such...

You go to start a message and think 'what if she doesn't like this, or wants that or what if this pisses her off'

You's have all created an environment where it feels like walking on eggshells just to say hello to someone then moan like fuck when they take the safe middle ground.....

You alright baby

I'm grand ta hun

Are you trying to get us sent to Coventry? ... sweet pea

I dunno....are people less fussy and pretentious in Coventry luv? Could be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or babe or baby - don't imfantilise me I'm an intelligent adult!!!

Imfantilise lol.

Intelligent adult- yeah right- learn to spell muppet!

She didn't actually spell muppet. Oh, you forgot to insert a comma before the word.

Now who's the muppet?

Hilarious- well done! I'm sure you get laid a lot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think people should lighten up ffs!!

Totally agree! Looks like some of the people moaning should be grateful they are getting messages! But then beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some pet names I like better than others, but I can't say any of them really irk me either. They are just an ice breaker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never came across the term until i came on here. Equally "Hun" which I thought was a 1WW insult to Germans!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Or babe or baby - don't imfantilise me I'm an intelligent adult!!!

Imfantilise lol.

Intelligent adult- yeah right- learn to spell muppet!

She didn't actually spell muppet. Oh, you forgot to insert a comma before the word.

Now who's the muppet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yer a set of miserable bastuds on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yer a set of miserable bastuds on here.

I am technically a bastard.....what of it sir!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cringeworthy on a fist message

Yes...you would think if they are asking to fist you they could at least use your name

....and Hun....that's really irritating."
that's fine with your name. But. " hi there iwantyoutoshootupmysnatch does not sound right so I would say hi hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't call me baby

When she is waiting in the car

It took so long to get this far

Don't call me baby

You said forever

And then you went and changed your plans

You said that someday I would understand

But I still wonder

I wonder why we are not walking

And fighting and asking for favours

Meeting at midnight

While avoiding all the neighbours

Time is a distance that you can't retract by miles

If I saw you again I'd smile

But I'd say

Don't call me baby

When she is waiting in the car

It took so long to get this far

Don't call me baby

I think she's pretty

And I think that you have done quite well

I still say you can never tell

I wouldn't be surprised

You'll never know

We could be walking

And fighting and asking for favours

Meeting at midnight

While avoiding all the neighbours

Time is a distance that you can't retract by miles

If I saw you again I'd smile

But I'd say

Don't call me baby

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over a year ago

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Not keen on the pet names myself, but some of the old northern ones have a certain charm. Ages since I heard anyone in Newcastle say 'pet lamb'. Something quaint about it...more used in humour these days I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No wonder so many people send generic cut and paste messages....

It's an absolute minefield trying to say anything to folk on here it seems....

You must say this and you mustn't call me that and I don't like such and such...

You go to start a message and think 'what if she doesn't like this, or wants that or what if this pisses her off'

You's have all created an environment where it feels like walking on eggshells just to say hello to someone then moan like fuck when they take the safe middle ground....."

Some ain't happy unless they're moaning babe....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive also had mail saying 'Hello Daughter' this week...

WTF is that all about

Me too...

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