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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Often see a profile that cannot be viewed with the comment.."can't do this anymore" do fabbers think this is a harsh place..no shows..people being shitty...people be vain..superficial...rejection..umm because sometimes I think it is.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can be but we all volunteer for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you make a choice to be here, get involved or get nowt.

Rejection happens in every aspect of life, deal with it and just move on. I guess your glass is half empty or half full, mine is always 3/4 full

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's funny as fuck on here if you can't handle it elite singles is open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many join fab on the premise that free sex will be available to them on tap and have little or no idea of how swinging works. When their poor advances are shunned they whine and moan but still make no effort to understand nor realise that they are the problem, not the site. If they rely on a website solely for their sexual pleasure, then its no wonder they are dissapointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This lifeatyle requires effort and simple truth is you only get out what you put in.

...and by that I dont mean being a sex pest.

Do clubs, do socials, read profiles and tailor messages to the person(s) you are messaging.. if you dont want to put the effort in, well there is always wanking.

Its easy to spot the guys who put the effort in, they are the ones too busy screwing to be writing statuses about how shit the site is.

Personal opinion only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This lifeatyle requires effort and simple truth is you only get out what you put in.

...and by that I dont mean being a sex pest.

Do clubs, do socials, read profiles and tailor messages to the person(s) you are messaging.. if you dont want to put the effort in, well there is always wanking.

Its easy to spot the guys who put the effort in, they are the ones too busy screwing to be writing statuses about how shit the site is.

Personal opinion only."

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I need to be able to read posts in context...

A tough place (for me) is somewhere like Lozells or Tower Hamlets!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

A man's gotta know his limitations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many join fab on the premise that free sex will be available to them on tap and have little or no idea of how swinging works. When their poor advances are shunned they whine and moan but still make no effort to understand nor realise that they are the problem, not the site. If they rely on a website solely for their sexual pleasure, then its no wonder they are dissapointed."
Well its true for women, they can get sex on fab whenever they want as they are sought after lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I do think this is a tough place if you're in certain groups and if you haven't got a very strong sense of self but as has already been pointed out there are much tougher places.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see it as rejection tho. I see it as they cant handle me

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

I treat this place like life..

Get stuck in..

Appreciate there will be assholes, and good people.

Mix with a spiced rum and to either enhance or get over the good people/assholes (delete as appropriate)

Rinse, repeat - but most of all, like a great pub you love and have good friends in - use this place as an enhancement to your enjoyment, not a necessity!!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Too right _hortie, I have always treated this place like a pub. It's about your round innit

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton


"Too right _hortie, I have always treated this place like a pub. It's about your round innit "

Who you calling round, bollockchops?? *slap*

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Too right _hortie, I have always treated this place like a pub. It's about your round innit

Who you calling round, bollockchops?? *slap*"

Don't you start, I had a slap off the woman downstairs last night for no good reason

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton


"Too right _hortie, I have always treated this place like a pub. It's about your round innit

Who you calling round, bollockchops?? *slap*

Don't you start, I had a slap off the woman downstairs last night for no good reason "

You prolly deserved it. Somehow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many join fab on the premise that free sex will be available to them on tap and have little or no idea of how swinging works. When their poor advances are shunned they whine and moan but still make no effort to understand nor realise that they are the problem, not the site. If they rely on a website solely for their sexual pleasure, then its no wonder they are dissapointed.Well its true for women, they can get sex on fab whenever they want as they are sought after lol "

I disagree Shag, having had experience of being a single fem on here over the past three years, its not always moonlight and roses...it still requires effort and effective communication for all groups, including women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too right _hortie, I have always treated this place like a pub. It's about your round innit

Who you calling round, bollockchops?? *slap*

Don't you start, I had a slap off the woman downstairs last night for no good reason

You prolly deserved it. Somehow "
sshh you go do some gardening

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton


"Too right _hortie, I have always treated this place like a pub. It's about your round innit

Who you calling round, bollockchops?? *slap*

Don't you start, I had a slap off the woman downstairs last night for no good reason

You prolly deserved it. Somehow sshh you go do some gardening "

Smeg off, ballbag

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