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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone so I just wanted ur idea on what a 'real' date should be??

Mine is to meet in a public place (don't know if they are going to be weidos) and have a drink and a chat maybe a nice meal with lots of laughs and getting to know one another. Then ending it with a nice kiss if there is a spark.

What is your perception of a 'real' date?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone so I just wanted ur idea on what a 'real' date should be??

Mine is to meet in a public place (don't know if they are going to be weidos) and have a drink and a chat maybe a nice meal with lots of laughs and getting to know one another. Then ending it with a nice kiss if there is a spark.

What is your perception of a 'real' date? "

Playing pool or bowling

Too much emphasis is put on eating together , all that proves is your hungry .

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Well all that sounds acceptable but what is a date that isn't real?

I've not dated for about 100 years so have no idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do something fun where the date isn't totally reliant on conversation and might end in awkward silences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone so I just wanted ur idea on what a 'real' date should be??

Mine is to meet in a public place (don't know if they are going to be weidos) and have a drink and a chat maybe a nice meal with lots of laughs and getting to know one another. Then ending it with a nice kiss if there is a spark.

What is your perception of a 'real' date?

Playing pool or bowling

Too much emphasis is put on eating together , all that proves is your hungry ."

As opposed to having a need to roll balls about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's getting to know the person see if you click so a meal and a drink together is good. Save the movies until you know each other and sex ..I think that should be special not just a shag.

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"It's getting to know the person see if you click so a meal and a drink together is good. Save the movies until you know each other and sex ..I think that should be special not just a shag."

Shags are good too though..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I wouldn't want to go for food on a first date.

I'd say a nice public place like the botanic gardens or something. A walk a chat. Lots of giggles and no awkward silences. Then if all good maybe a drink and at the end if there's a spark a kiss.

It's a bit of a double standard but if I was going back to dating properly I'd stick to the 3 date rule as a minimum before any sex stuff. However it seems even in the vanilla world of dating romance is dead and folk just want a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To meet up at my or her place for a quick shag, that's my perfect date,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

See I've always gone for a drink had a f giggle and a game of pool but a lot of guys seem to think a drink and a shag counts as a first date. Is it just me or is that just the beginning of someone's booty call and not an actual relationship in the making? Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See I've always gone for a drink had a f giggle and a game of pool but a lot of guys seem to think a drink and a shag counts as a first date. Is it just me or is that just the beginning of someone's booty call and not an actual relationship in the making? Xxx"

Definitely that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a social first i like to go shopping with women you can find a lot out about them where they like to shop. laugh at all there jokes whilst guiding them to my bed for a good "find out" sex session! only 3 rules i got

turn up

be clean

open wide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ice Creams in the park, a trip to the Zoo or SeaWorld, an afternoon in a museum or art gallery, bowling, lunch in a lovely café, cocktails, wine-tasting, a walk in a beautiful part of this wonderful country we live in...crikey the list is endless of things to do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ice Creams in the park, a trip to the Zoo or SeaWorld, an afternoon in a museum or art gallery, bowling, lunch in a lovely café, cocktails, wine-tasting, a walk in a beautiful part of this wonderful country we live in...crikey the list is endless of things to do "

See I love all these.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ice Creams in the park, a trip to the Zoo or SeaWorld, an afternoon in a museum or art gallery, bowling, lunch in a lovely café, cocktails, wine-tasting, a walk in a beautiful part of this wonderful country we live in...crikey the list is endless of things to do

See I love all these. "
who wouldn't?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"See I've always gone for a drink had a f giggle and a game of pool but a lot of guys seem to think a drink and a shag counts as a first date. Is it just me or is that just the beginning of someone's booty call and not an actual relationship in the making? Xxx"

Are you talking about men from here or those you've met in the real world?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Meet in pub, have a few pints then back to mine to fuck the arse off each other

Sorry, forgot to offer a packet of dry roast, my bad

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"See I've always gone for a drink had a f giggle and a game of pool but a lot of guys seem to think a drink and a shag counts as a first date. Is it just me or is that just the beginning of someone's booty call and not an actual relationship in the making? Xxx

Are you talking about men from here or those you've met in the real world?"

Real world xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

The only thing I wouldn't do on a first date is go to the cinema as you can't chat and get to know each other.

This weather I'd be happy with a nice walk in the park

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only thing I wouldn't do on a first date is go to the cinema as you can't chat and get to know each other.

This weather I'd be happy with a nice walk in the park

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was dating I used to...

Ahh fuck it, I never got asked out on dates. I would go pull in a nightclub, drink, dance and then drag 'em back to mine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The only thing I wouldn't do on a first date is go to the cinema as you can't chat and get to know each other.

This weather I'd be happy with a nice walk in the park

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I agree xx

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By *eembabyWoman
over a year ago

Brum

Midnight picnic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Midnight picnic "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Midnight picnic "
set off now i'll set the scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was dating I used to...

Ahh fuck it, I never got asked out on dates. I would go pull in a nightclub, drink, dance and then drag 'em back to mine.

"

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By *eembabyWoman
over a year ago

Brum


"Midnight picnic set off now i'll set the scene "

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