FabSwingers.com forum: Is bad sex better than no sex

By *layfullsam OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

Wondering if the guys will say yes and the ladies no ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Wondering if the guys will say yes and the ladies no ?

No. Try lying on your arm first Sam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't just have sex to get my rocks off

I can do that myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good god no!

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By *layfullsam OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"Wondering if the guys will say yes and the ladies no ?

No. Try lying on your arm first Sam. "

Tried that and using my left hand so it feels like a stranger and I find talking to myself in a foreign accent so it gives the impression I am with a exotic bird is good

(not a parrot) !!

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By *ombshellWoman
over a year ago

islington

i'd rather go without

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No rather have a wank

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Bad sex is just bad!

If you're having sex then some bad sex is bound to come along at some point. Even with all the "right" things in place sometimes it isn't good sex.

Don't go seeking what you know you won't like - no sex is much better than ensuring every time is a bad time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because with no sex that's it with bad sex you have " that was awful" " why did I do that"

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NO!!!

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By *layfullsam OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

Guess you would have to have the bad sex first as you wouldn't know if it was going to be bad or not without trying in the first place.

If you bad sex then went back for more another time then at least you wouldn't have the excuse of not knowing lol

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"Wondering if the guys will say yes and the ladies no ?

pmsl - this is a topic where notes will be added guys, so be cautious about what you say!!!!!!!!!

All my meets have been FAB - just to say

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

No rather go without.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Bad sex makes you feel pretty lousy about yourself so how is it better than none?

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By *layfullsam OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"Wondering if the guys will say yes and the ladies no ?

pmsl - this is a topic where notes will be added guys, so be cautious about what you say!!!!!!!!!

All my meets have been FAB - just to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather go without

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad sex is worse than no sex. Although no sex is also bad, but not as bad as bad sex.

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Is this one of them trick question threads???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never found myself in the position to find out. Lucky or just good at filtering out who I presume would not click with me? Or do I just have a very low benchmark?

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By *layfullsam OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"Is this one of them trick question threads???

Not at all its asking peoples opinion

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By *layfullsam OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"Bad sex is worse than no sex. Although no sex is also bad, but not as bad as bad sex."

lmao great answer, although I await someone now trying to tell you that you are wrong even though its your opinion

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

"Bad sex is worse than no sex. Although no sex is also bad, but not as bad as bad sex."

My opinion too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt mind it

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Bad sex makes you feel pretty lousy about yourself so how is it better than none?"

It's not better than none but it rather assumes the sex will be bad.

If I KNOW the sex will be bad I will abstain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would rather no sex than bad sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I end up even more frustrated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wondering if the guys will say yes and the ladies no ?

I'd rather do it myself than have shot sex

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"i'd rather go without

me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No ..from us both ..we will go without a meet but then we always have amazing sex ourselves so never lose out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not worth it! I'd rather have good sex twice a week (well, every day but let's be reasonable!) than shit sex every day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never had bad sex.

Mrs P might have a different opinion though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll let you know if I have sex again.....and it's bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad sex is worse than no sex at all I reckon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You cannot be serious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You cannot be serious?

Eeeeek sex with John McEnroe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You cannot be serious?

Eeeeek sex with John McEnroe

New balls please

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

No id rather be celibate than settle for bad/selfish sex

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Depends on whether there's any travelling involved.

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By *lan43sumMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Bad sex can be accidental but could turn into much better sex the next time?

I read that some guys get too excited and others fail to get it up because of nerves etc. Long time since I had those problems myself fortunately.

As others have said if you don't do it you won't know and you wouldn't do it if you didn't fancy the other person.

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By *leur de lisWoman
over a year ago

Buxton

"Wondering if the guys will say yes and the ladies no ?

Bad sex or unfulfilling sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wondering if the guys will say yes and the ladies no ?

pmsl - this is a topic where notes will be added guys, so be cautious about what you say!!!!!!!!!

All my meets have been FAB - just to say

Fuck 'em if they don't like what you say.....or don't fuck 'em....as the case may be.

I'm not here to try and please everyone.

In answer to the o.p though, I've gotten to the point in life now I've had enough sex of all descriptions, so I'm much more choosy now and would rather have what I expect to be good sex rather than anything that happens along...

If you asked me the same question 15 years ago, I'd have said I'd have fucked a polo mint 'cos the thing has a hole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wondering if the guys will say yes and the ladies no ?

pmsl - this is a topic where notes will be added guys, so be cautious about what you say!!!!!!!!!

All my meets have been FAB - just to say

Fuck 'em if they don't like what you say.....or don't fuck 'em....as the case may be.

I'm not here to try and please everyone.

If you asked me the same question 15 years ago, I'd have said I'd have fucked a polo mint 'cos the thing has a hole. "

Always remember, a rough rub is better than a good wank

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

"Depends on whether there's any travelling involved."

Sometimes you just gotta shoot your load but won't make any effort for bad sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad sex just ends up with me wanking so I may as well save my lippy stay at home and have a wank in the first place

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By *ythenshawefredMan
over a year ago

stockport

In my younger years any sex was good but as I've matured I'd rather go without and wait for sex/person that's amazing the physical release is easy to achieve on my own when needed

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By *ythenshawefredMan
over a year ago

stockport

" If you asked me the same question 15 years ago, I'd have said I'd have fucked a polo mint 'cos the thing has a hole. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wondering if the guys will say yes and the ladies no ?

No. Try lying on your arm first Sam.

Tried that and using my left hand so it feels like a stranger and I find talking to myself in a foreign accent so it gives the impression I am with a exotic bird is good

(not a parrot) !!"

Love this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kinda guess when its just for random relief the risk of having a meet where the sex turns out crap outweighs the frustration of holding out for a option which might not materialise....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No bad sex is never better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But sometimes I just want to spunk without effort....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never. I've faked it when having bad sex to get away (yes men can fake it too). For me good sex starts in the head, and is both mental as well as physical, without both its normally bad.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

Yes

I'm single lol

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Rather have no sex than bad sex .Bad sex is a waste of lingerie , make up ,preparation and time lol .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm to good to have bad sex

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

How do you know it's going to be bad?

Some people make your toes curl and your head pops off, others just make your toes curl and little else, trouble is you don't know until you meet them

Personally I wouldn't meet anyone if I thought it was going to be crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made the mistake of breaking my own rule on Friday at a club! I was very horny - so instead of holding out for someone I'm really attracted to and chatting to them for a while to develop chemistry, I took an average (in my opinion- someone else might have found him gorgeous!) guy that I hadnt chatted to for long into a room. Never again! Realised half way through the act that it was a big mistake but carried on till he came. Not my finest hour and one I won't repeat!! Normally if I don't have a mutual attraction ith someone I just stick to socialising! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats sex????

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Whats sex????

It's what birds and bees do

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

"Made the mistake of breaking my own rule on Friday at a club! I was very horny - so instead of holding out for someone I'm really attracted to and chatting to them for a while to develop chemistry, I took an average (in my opinion- someone else might have found him gorgeous!) guy that I hadnt chatted to for long into a room. Never again! Realised half way through the act that it was a big mistake but carried on till he came. Not my finest hour and one I won't repeat!! Normally if I don't have a mutual attraction ith someone I just stick to socialising! Xx"

well I tried my best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats sex????

It's what birds and bees do

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that's a silly saying. I have never once seen a bird shagging a bee

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Whats sex????

It's what birds and bees do

that's a silly saying. I have never once seen a bird shagging a bee

Have you never heard of cross polination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats sex????

It's what birds and bees do

that's a silly saying. I have never once seen a bird shagging a bee

Have you never heard of cross polination

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Oh yeah. Every day is a school day on fab. I suppose if a bee fell pregnant to a bird. They would call it a Beed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive've seen a saying about sex being like pizza...bad pizza is better than no pizza!..dont agree at at all...very very fussy about my pizza...and the older i get, the better i am at choosing good pizza..and if its not available, ill cook myself something i really want to eat instead...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wondering if the guys will say yes and the ladies no ?

No bad sex I prefer to go without and use my toy

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

"Bad sex just ends up with me wanking so I may as well save my lippy stay at home and have a wank in the first place

exactly. At least with a wank I won't get bored half way through as I can do it pretty quick then off to sleep.

Had a terrible meet once as I felt I needed to get it out of my system before a busy no-meet period. And all the way home I was muttering to myself pissed off at the petrol, time and effort wasted to feel even more frustrated!

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