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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been looking for a fem to join us. !!!! But get loads of dirty chat and offers but not 1 actual meet

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston


"Been looking for a fem to join us. !!!! But get loads of dirty chat and offers but not 1 actual meet"

Keep searching...plenty of them out there...some couples meet separately if you'd not thought about couples! Good luck!

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Most couples who post about looking for a single girl are advised to put up a few pics of the guy to show what she is getting but in your case you are already doing that so maybe show some pics of the female too.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've only been on seven weeks....that's not very long in the grand scheme of things.....

As Licka says, maybe a bit of variation in your pics...patience, you'll make friends etc in due time

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

You need to put a bit more effort into your profile.

You are basically in the same position as a single male on here. Hundreds of couples looking for the same thing.

Your profile tells us nothing about you, what you are looking for, or what you can offer.

And you want someone to play with both of you, but only have pictures of the male?

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Been looking for a fem to join us. !!!! But get loads of dirty chat and offers but not 1 actual meet"

The ones who indulge in dirty chat from the off are either fake (an eighteen stone trucker called Bernard with a bit too much free time) or they are the other type of fantasists who talk about meeting but never do.

Most single fems who want to meet don't want to get drawn into lots of chat with random about what's going to happen, they want to establish the basics and then arrange a meet.

If you're not sure of someone suggest a coffee meet in a public place so you can meet and decide if you want to play - remember that a woman may not want to just come straight to yours and may prefer that for safety (I doubt you're mad axe murderers but you never know). The fantasists will either dissappear or avoid the suggestion.

Verifications are useful too. Remember that people don't have to show all of them. If someone only has one and it's from a while ago ask if they have any others that are more recent. You can also click on the name of the other party and check out what was said about them by the female you're interested in.

Good luck.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Also go into video chat early on, to help ascertain who each other is.

As others say, couples ideally have attractive pics of both on a profile, even if you hide faces in private.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Also go into video chat early on, to help ascertain who each other is.

As others say, couples ideally have attractive pics of both on a profile, even if you hide faces in private."

I don't video chat, too many want to draw me in then start asking me to do things on cam. I'm not into that so I just say no.

I also won't do a phone call, too often it ends in attempts to get me to do phone sex. And i won't give my number out after being stalked.

All of this (despite being very well verified) means that some decide that I'm too much hard work. The fact that whilst they're asking for my number or to go in chat I'm trying to arrange an actual meet in the flesh doesn't seem to change their minds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most couples who post about looking for a single girl are advised to put up a few pics of the guy to show what she is getting but in your case you are already doing that so maybe show some pics of the female too..... "

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Four pics of a single male.

A 16 word profile - shorter than your post above.

If you were a single female would you get in touch based on your efforts? Or would you head for a profile with pics of both and plenty of info to make a decision on?

Be honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also go into video chat early on, to help ascertain who each other is.

As others say, couples ideally have attractive pics of both on a profile, even if you hide faces in private.

I don't video chat, too many want to draw me in then start asking me to do things on cam. I'm not into that so I just say no.

I also won't do a phone call, too often it ends in attempts to get me to do phone sex. And i won't give my number out after being stalked.

All of this (despite being very well verified) means that some decide that I'm too much hard work. The fact that whilst they're asking for my number or to go in chat I'm trying to arrange an actual meet in the flesh doesn't seem to change their minds. "
I wont cam/skype talk/text on phone etc i only talk on here.....worked so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet fems ..all without fail have said how safe they felt with us ..we spend a while chatting ..us girls have a phone chat as this really seems to break the ice and move things along .. and we make them feel special when we play ..its never the girls performing for him ..its always the 3 of us ..when chatting ask about their fantasies and how they would like play to go ..so now as well as our own bucket lists we have a couple of lists with these lovely ladies ..

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

No! We don't exist.

Please see the Conspiracy Theory thread for further information.

The truth is out there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also go into video chat early on, to help ascertain who each other is.

As others say, couples ideally have attractive pics of both on a profile, even if you hide faces in private.

I don't video chat, too many want to draw me in then start asking me to do things on cam. I'm not into that so I just say no.

I also won't do a phone call, too often it ends in attempts to get me to do phone sex. And i won't give my number out after being stalked.

All of this (despite being very well verified) means that some decide that I'm too much hard work. The fact that whilst they're asking for my number or to go in chat I'm trying to arrange an actual meet in the flesh doesn't seem to change their minds. "

Most people don't seem to be able to interact on a personal level for more than 5 mins without it becoming sex orientated.

Any OP, as said above don't do the dirty chat, block those people coz that's all they're here for.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Hmmm.

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