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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

...... errr stupid question but does that mean we have to get jiggy in the garden, bus shelter or maybe the back of a van???

Why do people think this is conducive to getting meets... or am I missing something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wondered the same myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a filter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you care?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I dont care in any shape way or for, just thought I would ask the question but now I'm wondering why you care if I care.... hmmm strange..

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

local hotel ?

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Not done me any harm....

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"Not done me any harm.... "

You must be loitering in bus stops..bushes ...car parks 24\7 are you ?

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton


"Not done me any harm....

You must be loitering in bus stops..bushes ...car parks 24\7 are you ?"

ssshhhhh

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Local clubs

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands


"Local clubs "
Damn! I was just about to invite you to jiggy in the garden in central London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think what they're really saying is, 'won't be meeting'!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think what they're really saying is, 'won't be meeting'!"

Exactly what mine means atm.

Can't accommodate and don't drive. So not meeting for the foreseeable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think for the most part it means they don't want strangers of 'tinterweb round their house....and they don't wanna travel miles....I would guess they'd be happy to meet locally...not that hard to see really.

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By *hoe_nixCouple
over a year ago

leeds

better to put cant accommodate than to put can, but only when the wife goes to bingo

Yes!!! I realy did have that one once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always surprised that people struggle so much with this one. Can't accommodate is obvious, ie not at my house. Can't travel doesn't mean I won't actually leave my front door, it means I would like to stay local. So usually for me that means going halves on a hotel or going to their place but it needs to be somewhere I can get to on public transport or a taxi.

If it puts anyone off that can't work that out it's a useful filter in itself.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If I'm meeting at a hotel I put can accommodate.

I think some profiles are poorly put together and rarely changed. I've been asked to pick guys up, to bring them to mine etc. I don't offer a taxi service, so jog on.

If user can walk, use bus, cab etc then they can travel. No effort equals no results.

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By *cotbbtopMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"local hotel ?"

That would involve the person travelling there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think for the most part it means they don't want strangers of 'tinterweb round their house....and they don't wanna travel miles....I would guess they'd be happy to meet locally...not that hard to see really. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm always surprised that people struggle so much with this one. Can't accommodate is obvious, ie not at my house. Can't travel doesn't mean I won't actually leave my front door, it means I would like to stay local. So usually for me that means going halves on a hotel or going to their place but it needs to be somewhere I can get to on public transport or a taxi.

If it puts anyone off that can't work that out it's a useful filter in itself."

I love 'idiot filters'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant and wont accom as I have kids

I cant travel .....unless very local (but if you put travel people from all over think that means you get to them)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It with a female on here with that on her profile.

Can't accomodate=teenage at home

Can't travel=don't have a car

I picked her up and we went back to mine. Oh my god am I glad I did. She was amazing....miss you Lily

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"...... errr stupid question but does that mean we have to get jiggy in the garden, bus shelter or maybe the back of a van???

Why do people think this is conducive to getting meets... or am I missing something?"

A local club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think what they're really saying is, 'won't be meeting'!"

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"I'm always surprised that people struggle so much with this one. Can't accommodate is obvious, ie not at my house. Can't travel doesn't mean I won't actually leave my front door, it means I would like to stay local. So usually for me that means going halves on a hotel or going to their place but it needs to be somewhere I can get to on public transport or a taxi.

If it puts anyone off that can't work that out it's a useful filter in itself."

Exactly this.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I'm always surprised that people struggle so much with this one. Can't accommodate is obvious, ie not at my house. Can't travel doesn't mean I won't actually leave my front door, it means I would like to stay local. So usually for me that means going halves on a hotel or going to their place but it needs to be somewhere I can get to on public transport or a taxi.

If it puts anyone off that can't work that out it's a useful filter in itself."

Hehe! Exactly right, a useful tool!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"local hotel ?

That would involve the person travelling there "

theres not an option to say travel local so its easier to tick dont travel and add in profile only travel local

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...... errr stupid question but does that mean we have to get jiggy in the garden, bus shelter or maybe the back of a van???

Why do people think this is conducive to getting meets... or am I missing something?"
......maybe their in jail?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm always surprised that people struggle so much with this one. Can't accommodate is obvious, ie not at my house. Can't travel doesn't mean I won't actually leave my front door, it means I would like to stay local. So usually for me that means going halves on a hotel or going to their place but it needs to be somewhere I can get to on public transport or a taxi.

If it puts anyone off that can't work that out it's a useful filter in itself."

We wonder why people find this so hard to get their heads around . Still chat to people with profiles that state this and some say we can accom but stops people assuming they can use their place if we say we cant

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you go to a local club, hotel ect.. you by definition are travelling and if your booking a hotel you can accommodate.

I only asked to find out why people do it rather than just state either local meets only or not meeting at the moment.

Also I see lots of comments on here moaning about guys using it and people then assuming they are married. I just wondered if that was always the case but apparently not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would of thought you might nave mentioned the jokers that put looking to meet couples but have blocked all couples from messaging then and even funnier the fact they are winking at you but you have no way of reply. Now that's fucked up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you go to a local club, hotel ect.. you by definition are travelling and if your booking a hotel you can accommodate.

I only asked to find out why people do it rather than just state either local meets only or not meeting at the moment.

Also I see lots of comments on here moaning about guys using it and people then assuming they are married. I just wondered if that was always the case but apparently not.

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if you put accom people think at home if you put travel people think all over ....its easier to put neither and explain in profile ,,,,,thankfully some people read my profile and i still get meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you go to a local club, hotel ect.. you by definition are travelling and if your booking a hotel you can accommodate.

I only asked to find out why people do it rather than just state either local meets only or not meeting at the moment.

Also I see lots of comments on here moaning about guys using it and people then assuming they are married. I just wondered if that was always the case but apparently not.

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That's not my definition of travel, otherwise the option to have cannot travel wouldn't exist, because everyone leaves their front door sometime. And I've seen men slated for saying they'd accommodate at a hotel - again, that's not my definition of accommodate. It works for me though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you go to a local club, hotel ect.. you by definition are travelling and if your booking a hotel you can accommodate.

I only asked to find out why people do it rather than just state either local meets only or not meeting at the moment.

Also I see lots of comments on here moaning about guys using it and people then assuming they are married. I just wondered if that was always the case but apparently not.

That's not my definition of travel, otherwise the option to have cannot travel wouldn't exist, because everyone leaves their front door sometime. And I've seen men slated for saying they'd accommodate at a hotel - again, that's not my definition of accommodate. It works for me though. "

Can accommodate to me means at their place ..otherwise in theory everyone can accom ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people take things far too literally on here. Local hotel for me. ..If I said I could travel guys expect me to be able to just pop to Birmingham (for example. ..Other cities are available)

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I am one with can't accom can't travel on my profile, I also have ONLY meet in clubs written several time in the text. Yet I was still constantly asked to go round theirs, they were at a hotel in my area (when I asked what area was that they got a bit vague) and they were able to 'pop round'.

It took me writting what clubs in the town box before they started to get the point

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

see a fair few wanting to be picked up and dropped back home after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't accom or travel.

Why is it so hard to understand? It means a hotel meet locally. Or maybe in the woods *cough*.

I don't want to drive an hour or more away as it's very impractical/impossible for me for a range of reasons. And I don't do meets at my home ever.

If I put can accom and can travel I'd get guys asking me to drive to meet them halfway to Scotland. And I'd have guys expecting to meet at my house.

I love how people define "travel" on here. Lol When a mate tells you they love to travel as a hobby, do you assume they mean to the local shops and the pub? Or that they like to explore the country and the world. Think about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile is cannot accomodate, cannot travel. I choose not to accomodate and by not travelling i mean im not interested in driving to meet somebody 30 miles away :D i get lots of sarcastic messages about it too lol x

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"Local clubs Damn! I was just about to invite you to jiggy in the garden in central London "

Covent Garden?

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I recently put it forward to admin to have the options Hotel and Club put as choices with the Travel and Accom...

Its not happened yet and not really sure it will but it would be great to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I recently put it forward to admin to have the options Hotel and Club put as choices with the Travel and Accom...

Its not happened yet and not really sure it will but it would be great to see. "

That would be fab! (Excuse the pun)

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"I recently put it forward to admin to have the options Hotel and Club put as choices with the Travel and Accom...

Its not happened yet and not really sure it will but it would be great to see. "

Lets hope admin take note

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Look back through the numerous other threads on the subject .. It may give you a clue.As someone said it is a filter as are the others . If I chose to invite people round I could . I can also drive but choose to say I cannot travel..

Not rocket science really is it.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

I don't accomadate

I don't travel

I do very well

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells


"I recently put it forward to admin to have the options Hotel and Club put as choices with the Travel and Accom...

Its not happened yet and not really sure it will but it would be great to see. "

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By *offee and Cream 2Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Loughborough

If a lady would like to meet me and cannot travel and cannot accommodate....

Then it means that I am happy to meet her, drive to my home, or a hotel, and see her safely home again afterwards. Happy to meet on this basis any time, and have had some wonderful playtimes!

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

I have to say this

Once I'm in a place on my own, people will be invited to mine, albeit with security cameras in place

Just to be on the safe side

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I was under the impression it meant cannot accommodate and can only travel locally, maybe using public transport. Which are you know doesn't always take you right to someone's door.

I might be wrong, and anticipate I'll be put right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Accomodate to me means in my house.

I can accommodate. But don't very often unless they like big dogs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look back through the numerous other threads on the subject .. It may give you a clue.As someone said it is a filter as are the others . If I chose to invite people round I could . I can also drive but choose to say I cannot travel..

Not rocket science really is it. "

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"If a lady would like to meet me and cannot travel and cannot accommodate....

Then it means that I am happy to meet her, drive to my home, or a hotel, and see her safely home again afterwards. Happy to meet on this basis any time, and have had some wonderful playtimes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I view those that neither able to travel or accommodate simply as not meeting.

I am flexible enough to be able to do both.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells


"I view those that neither able to travel or accommodate simply as not meeting.

I am flexible enough to be able to do both. "

I don't do either

I do very well on Fab actually

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